Cumonce

Was I Ripped Off!

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A couple of weeks ago I saw a lady and for half the time she just wanted to chat sit have a drink then I had to shower and when the action started with twenty mins of action time and when  there were 5 minutes to go she said we would have to hurray up!!  That really put me off my stroke.  Although she was an attractive lady I just thought that I certainly didn't get my monies worth!  Although I liked her I don't think I will go back again!  The trouble when you have been doing this for a while you expect more.  She sat over the other side of the room and I asked if she would sit next to me and she said no she was comfortable here!  The main reason I am seeing an escort is for sex not too socialise and yes I am happy to have a chat for 5 to 10 mins to get to know the lady I think I didn't get fair meeting!!  Any views on this many thanks  

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If she spent half the time talking then she didn't give you a good service at all.

Not necessarily ripped off because you actually had sex but she definitely wasted alot of time by talking for so long then having the cheek to say you'd have to hurry up.

That should be a negative review written in my opinion.

If it was in her time and you spent 30 mins chatting I bet she wouldn't be too pleased about it.

So yeah I wouldn't say you were ripped off but definitely had your time wasted and was given a poor service which is just as bad.

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Mmm. I suppose I should have spoken up and said can we take drinks to the bedroom but didn't want to get on the wrong footing.  I guess I am more demanding as well now.  Lets face it pay £150 I am there for sex and not to be too social!  Lesson leant so be warned any ladies on hear who try to abuse me for time LOL ha ha :)

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Mmm. I suppose I should have spoken up and said can we take drinks to the bedroom but didn't want to get on the wrong footing. I guess I am more demanding as well now. Lets face it pay £150 I am there for sex and not to be too social! Lesson leant so be warned any ladies on hear who try to abuse me for time LOL ha ha :)

I dont see how asking nicely to take the drinks up to the room would get on wrong footing.

Even so she shouldn't have wasted that much time, if she was going to sit and chat for half the booking she shouldve stayed longer to make up for it.

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Mmm. I suppose I should have spoken up and said can we take drinks to the bedroom but didn't want to get on the wrong footing. I guess I am more demanding as well now. Lets face it pay £150 I am there for sex and not to be too social! Lesson leant so be warned any ladies on hear who try to abuse me for time LOL ha ha :)

I dont see how asking nicely to take the drinks up to the room would get on wrong footing.

Even so she shouldn't have wasted that much time, if she was going to sit and chat for half the booking she shouldve stayed longer to make up for it.

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In a 1 hr booking I'd expect the action to start fairly quickly. I don't book too many hour punts but when I do I'm looking at getting down to business within 5 or 10 minutes tops. Anything more, particularly if you asked the wg to come and sit by you and she refused - seems like a well rehearsed time wasting move to me. The good, regular wg's I see are pretty much ready to go from the very beginning, any chat time is usually down time between rounds.

If as it seems that it is a deliberate attempt at time wasting then yes I'd call it a rip off. Then again it doesn't sound as if you specified you wanted to get started clearly enough - not that it should really be necessary.

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I think as a client you needed to communicate your wishes to her. We are not mind readers, plenty of men DO pay for the company as well as sex and need a bit of chit chat to relax first. I have seen men on here complaining that  escorts want to rush them into the bedroom part too quickly. Sometimes we can't win! 

 

If you were mid shag and there were only five minutes left then it would have been time up to give time to get dressed or even shower before you left. Clearly she could have been more tactful about it and the bit about wanting to sit next to you wasn't handled very well, but you have not been ripped off. You had your hour, yes her manner could have been better so of course I can see why you wouldn't want to meet her again.

 

I suggest in future if you don't want to talk to an escort for 20 minutes you move things on yourself and say you'd like to go to the bedroom or make a move on her to indicate you'd like to get frisky! 

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As the ladies have said Cumonce, you are the client, you pay for the ladie's time but you should express your wishes and communicate a bit more with the SP. I personally like taking my time before action, however it doesn't mean it has to be very long, I know why the gents are here for :) But asking a client to "hurry" is definitely rude and a poor service IMO.

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As the ladies have said Cumonce, you are the client, you pay for the ladie's time but you should express your wishes and communicate a bit more with the SP. I personally like taking my time before action, however it doesn't mean it has to be very long, I know why the gents are here for :) But asking a client to "hurry" is definitely rude and a poor service IMO.

He did say that he asked to sit next to her and she said no, she wanted to sit apart. That sounds to me like he did communicate his wishes and it was she who kept the distance.

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Yes you were definitely ripped off!

 

To a small extent I was on my first booking- but with proper research that shouldn't happen. I think personally anytime you spend with an sp should basically be 'sex time'. If you want to chat as part of that that's fine, I personally would prefer to have all 'sex time' then chat after. Looking at a number of reviews, this seems to happen with quite a lot of sps- although it takes time it's worth writing a negative review so you learn from the experience and it doesn't happen to other men.

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Always a fine line and there's always a disclaimer that any money paid is for the escorts time and not necessarily sex. We ALL know that the time is for nothing else but sex and no punter in their right mind would pay for less....unless of course they want a platonic escort partner for company or a dinner date.

 

You were quite assertive, but not overly pushy (a good thing) in asking the SP to come sit and get close, but she refused you, so she was definitely a very cold SP and stalling for time. Hard to ask for your money back though in those situations without it getting rowdy, but she should definitely not have asked you to hurry.

 

Seems like a time wasting SP to me. Have you written a negative review yet? I'd be interested to read it. If you haven't she is definitely worthy of a negative review in my opinion.

 

This is why these days, I prefer to start with 30 min bookings, with an option to extend should I feel we 'click', that is if she's not already pre-booked. If there's no positive connection, there's no point in paying for a full hour or more. If you do get on, then you can always go back for a longer session next time if she's a great SP.

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Yes you were definitely ripped off!

 

To a small extent I was on my first booking- but with proper research that shouldn't happen. I think personally anytime you spend with an sp should basically be 'sex time'. If you want to chat as part of that that's fine, I personally would prefer to have all 'sex time' then chat after. Looking at a number of reviews, this seems to happen with quite a lot of sps- although it takes time it's worth writing a negative review so you learn from the experience and it doesn't happen to other men.

Why would you post a negative review, just because you failed to communicate your wishes effectively? Bit passive-agressive, isn't it? So much better to be assertive, and ask for a towel and directions to the shower, and make it clear that you want to get on with it.

 

On the other hand, if I paid somebody for sex, and they refused to even sit next to me, I'd ask for my money back and leave. Bit baffled how this could arise.....

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The expectations should have been made clearer before the meet but really... if a guy is paying £150 an hour to a girl who is a SP the girl knows what he wants. Looking at the evidence here the guy has been ripped off- at least he'll know next time to be clearer in his wishes.

 

Hammers home to me the importance of communication with the sp before the booking. And you can't really do that with parlours. I've been doing a bit of that so far in regards to my next booking but will do more if I'm definitely going to do it!

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The expectations should have been made clearer before the meet but really... if a guy is paying £150 an hour to a girl who is a SP the girl knows what he wants. Looking at the evidence here the guy has been ripped off- at least he'll know next time to be clearer in his wishes.

Hammers home to me the importance of communication with the sp before the booking. And you can't really do that with parlours. I've been doing a bit of that so far in regards to my next booking but will do more if I'm definitely going to do it!

He has not been ripped off.

For him to book one WG and get another who refuses to do half the things he wants would be ripping him off.

But wasting his time is not being ripped off, she provided what he requested only thing is she wasted his time which is unacceptable but certainly not ripping someone off.

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Always about expectations. Different people differ on opinions.

 

I met a lady the other day who only feels comfortable doing 1hr sessions because she hates rushing and doesn't do half hour sessions. From what I know of her, she's a great SP with good very positive reviews, so a punter shouldn't worry.

 

I always try to find reviews or find out from other punters if the SP's good in the first place, that way you can be more sure to have a good time.

 

If it's a wild card, only try to book 30mins as a standard time. Enough to get your oats, but not enough time to waste your money.

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This is a tricky one... it depends on who you booked wether it was an independent girl that lists everything she is offering or through an agency where nothing sexual is sold or listed on the website. If it was an independent that you booked and was made clear what you was getting then it would be up to you to say can we move on to more now rather then too much chatting. If it was a escort through an agency where you are not paying for pacific services then i would say no you were not ripped off.

 

My experience of using escorts and mainly through an agency but this depends on what type of agency you have booked through i always like to have a chat and a drink with the girl for part of the booking this is what i like and speaking to some of the girls i have used with a proper escort agency most of them have told me that most of the punters do like to have a chat and a drink for some of the time and sometimes i have been told that not all punters want extras some are lonely and just want some company and in a way a bit of a therapist.

 

From what i can tell a lot of the girls i have seen have said to me a punter that does not even offer the lady a drink when she arrives and tries to push her in to the bedroom as soon as there they find this rude so i do get the impression that most women escorting expect a chat first and to be offered a drink.

 

If i did book an escort and got nothing at the end i would feel a bit let down but i probably would not say much because of booking for the time but if i had booked an escort that had listed her services or spoken about it on the phone and got nothing i would feel more ripped off as she has listed sexual services that she was willing to take the booking on.

 

The end picture would be i do not think you were ripped off but i think if the girl you booked told you what you were getting up front then if you wanted something to happen earlier then you should have said to her could we get started quicker if she says no then she says no but at least your asking for something you want to start quicker. The women you booked might have thought you wanted to have a chat especially if other punters she has seen likes it done like that until you ask her you wont know for sure. I have a had a couple of girls jump on me when through the door but i usually say to them hold your horses, everybody likes different things.

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Yes you were definitely ripped off!

 

To a small extent I was on my first booking- but with proper research that shouldn't happen. I think personally anytime you spend with an sp should basically be 'sex time'. If you want to chat as part of that that's fine, I personally would prefer to have all 'sex time' then chat after. Looking at a number of reviews, this seems to happen with quite a lot of sps- although it takes time it's worth writing a negative review so you learn from the experience and it doesn't happen to other men.

 

The ideal scenario I can guess is that you arrive, and the SP jumps on your dick right ? Why not, in dreamland ;)

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He did say that he asked to sit next to her and she said no, she wanted to sit apart. That sounds to me like he did communicate his wishes and it was she who kept the distance.

I agree with this, it seems a deliberate action on her part to keep away and slow proceedings down. In which case, if it's not a rip off (which I think it is), then it's unsatisfactory at best. A good wg would have gone and sat next to him when invited.

While I accept a wg isn't a mind reader, and the OP could have made his intentions clearer - asking her to sit by him is surely a hint that he wanted proceedings to start?

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The ideal scenario I can guess is that you arrive, and the SP jumps on your dick right ? Why not, in dreamland ;)

No but I'd say a welcome kiss is a good welcome.

 

Time and companionship is not a disclaimer, but most SPs sell their service in units of time if only so they can plan their time effectively. Using it as an excuse to not interact is not good practice.

 

"While I accept a wg isn't a mind reader, and the OP could have made his intentions clearer - asking her to sit by him is surely a hint that he wanted proceedings to start?"

 

If I'm not in physical contact/sat right next to a client by the end of the first few minutes then I'll ask if he wants to come closer, if not then it's his choice.

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The ideal scenario I can guess is that you arrive, and the SP jumps on your dick right ? Why not, in dreamland ;)

Not at all.

The ideal scenario is you turn up, say your hellos, get offered a drink or whatever. Have your shower if you're taking one, and then the wg comes and sits by you, not at opposite ends of the room...

Then have a chat for 20 minutes if thats what the punter wants, or if he wants to start he can initiate a kiss or whatever. Sitting deliberately away from someone when they've requested they come and sit by you seems a deliberate attempt to delay proceedings and if it happened to me I wouldn't be at all happy. Thankfully it never has!

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No but I'd say a welcome kiss is a good welcome.

 

Time and companionship is not a disclaimer, but most SPs sell their service in units of time if only so they can plan their time effectively. Using it as an excuse to not interact is not good practice.

 

A warm smile rather than a welcome kiss, as you don't know who's behind the door ? You can always kiss them later on !

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A warm smile rather than a welcome kiss, as you don't know who's behind the door ? You can always kiss them later

Yes I do know who is there because I look both before I open the door, as well as whilst they are entering, greet them by name, close the door and then give them a kiss. By that point I've had a right good look at them. I never let anyone in 'blindly'.

 

Outcall I still see who is opening the door, and can see them as I enter. I'd not enter without seeing who was there.

 

Only time I don't kiss is when someone asks me not to.

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She might have been delaying it a bit but hard to know unless we know what she is thinking... every punter has a different outlook on how they want things done and some girls also do. Some punters might think if the girl jumps on him straight away it could look like she want to hurry it up and get him out of there or another punter could think she does not want to do anything but chat.

 

Your never please everyone but probably an idea to be more upfront with what you want if it has not happened so far if the response is not what you was expecting then at least you know the escort is not someone you want to see again and maybe the escort feels the same. Not everybody clicks with everyone.

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I'm not putting a negative review. Strange she didn't want to sit next to me but I guess she wanted to limit the action to the bedroom!! What there was of it anyway!!  I have emailed her and said I would only come again if there was a significant increase in the fun time.  Which I expect will mean never!  I will have to be aware of such tactics in the future!!

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I think there's a general etiquette to punting/escorting, and most professional WG's and punters know the score.

 

Most normal punting scenarios I would guess go like this: Welcome handshake or kiss on cheek, drinks, small talk, kissing & foreplay, full sex or BJ, lots of action, shoot load, done. If time left, a relaxing massage with a get to know you chat to cool down, or gentle wake up tease towards 2 round.

 

It sends alarm bells ringing when a girl doesn't want to sit close to a punter, to my mind it would be a cold brush off.... and a brush off like that can mean one of two things, she's a teasing dominatrix posing as a normal WG, meaning you have to be very assertive - BUT this is normally pre-agreed in Dominance sessions. As a normal punt this is avoidance and time wasting. Simple.

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