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Paperwork Before Or After A Punt!

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I do like it when I give a lady the  money after a punt or I try to give it to her and she says we will sort it out afterwards!!! Some do ask for the paperwork right at the start but it does feel more relaxed when a lady lets you buy the goods and then pay afterwards which is a very nice touch!   Are you guys in agreement with me here and ladies how do you play the money side of things!  I can remember one lady getting stroppy since I didn't put it in an envelope and I said why hide it I'm paying for sex and she seemed to get quite annoyed at me saying that?

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I do see your point, but personally, I like to get it out of the way. Especially with a new client, I'd probably be on tenterhooks during the meet if I thought there might be any sort of 'misunderstanding'. I prefer just to get it up front and then you can relax and get down to business.

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Personally before.  Then it is done and I can lose myself in the GFE I enjoy, if I had to start sorting money after it would be a spoiler for me.

 

Maybe the best is to place the money, in an envelope, somewhere observable and the lady picks it up after.

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I prefer to settle the business side of things first. All kinds of things go wrong for me when I don't settle matters early on. Regulars don't seem to care, one wg I see wouldn't accept the money until the end even the first time I met her. I forgot to pay her once, as my whole usual routine was disrupted...

I embarrassed myself with another wg I see regularly as I really did leave my wallet in the car! We were naked and in the middle of round 1 when I remembered, talk about passion killer, lol. :rolleyes:

I confessed between rounds and offered to go straight away but she said to leave it until the end which was very trusting. Well sort of trusting, as she said I'd have to leave my clothes as a deposit... :o

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This money in an envelope business... Some prefer that, some hate it, us blokes can't win. There should be a universally accepted way of handing the money over... :)

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I always take it before, never after as I remember a fellow escort telling me how she had a regular book her and because she was comfortable with him she didn't bother to ask for payment upfront, she ended up forgetting and he went without paying he ignored all her emails until she called off a new number and managed to arrange to get the money.

Not many places or things where you pay after getting your services or items etc so I believe it should be before, besides it gets it out the way!

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cash upfront, no envelope required. :)

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they just put it on the table in the hall I never count it till they have gone but its never short and a tip as well most times

because they know they will not get another booking with me if it was

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As a guy i prefer to get it out of the way. Otherwise i would feel that the lady is not totally relaxed.

 

If i was a wg i would definitely prefer upfront. Lets say you sell any kind of items on credit. If a client does not pay, you can take legal action to recover the amount owed. But a wg cannot do that if a client leaves without paying. Therefore i understand the need of a lady to be paid upfront no matter how much she might trust me.

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Before and, as said, it gets it out of the way.

 

Sometimes though I forgot and so did the girl - only happened with regulars though when i remembered just before leaving, Pixie several times in fact - no way I would walk without paying as it would mean that I could never return ;)

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I prefer cash upfront, don't mind whether it's in an envelope  or not, so long as the fee is paid.

 

Have had a couple of instances where I've completely forgotten and client has returned afterwards with the fee - another reason to get it sorted up front, also rules out clients bringing the wrong fee etc which I have discovered when checking at the start, and it's not necessarily been under. Checking in front of each other also rules out disputes and I have no problem with this either.

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It's like any other sort of non returnable service.If you get a tattoo done they don't wait till the works finished,you pay before they start.I personally don't mind when  i pay.I never have understood the envelope part bit,afterall,arent we supposed to be looking after the trees?

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I dont care if its handed over in a chocolate teapot so long as its the right amount. Usually before we start but with some guys I've seen a lot sometimes i forget or dont bother till then end, sometimes i then forget at the end and they have to remember for me but they always do. Not many in that category mind you, just one or two but even then sometimes they give it at the start. 

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I do it before even with people i have seen before bec a talk too mich and forget. There are currently two guys out there who after having brilliant service never came back and gave it to me.

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I do it before even with people i have seen before bec a talk too much and forget. There are currently two guys out there who after having brilliant service never came back and gave it to me.

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First you pay, then we play :) It's better for everybody's peace of mind ...

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Always pay at the start, according to the method the escort specified in her profile or comminications with me. One  escort's friendly jokingly reminder adage was  'The first kiss is free...the rest after the fee.'

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I arrived at a punt once and the girl was in tears - what happened I said - a client went off without paying she said. I told her she must always get money up front in future and she did.

 

I always pay as soon as I am inside and content that all is ship shape.

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Upfront is best. Saves all sorts of aggravation later and establishes trust. Although there have been occasions with a very favourite regular where we have both been so enthusiastic to continue where we last left off that it got left until the end.

Something I have not yet tried is to ask the wg to greet you in her best policewoman uniform, hide the cash about your person and ask to be frisked.

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I once had a guy who showed up, he looked a bit dodgy, but not wanting to judge I got him settled on the sofa and offered him a drink and we had a brief chat. After a few minutes I suggested we got 'business' out of the way. He said he would pay afterwards. I said that I preferred to be paid first. he went on about how he NEVER paid at the start and why should he until he knew I was any good. At this point I was starting to get a bit scared as he got more menacing.

 

I stood my ground and insisted he paid first, He then started to go through his coat pockets and (as I had expected at this point) announced he must have left his wallet in his car. I said And this is exactly why I ask for the money up front. I told him to fuck off at this point. Even though I was feeling really shaky I obviously convinced him I meant it and did leave, not before grabbing my tits and squeezing them and calling me all manner of horrible names. 

 

I know if I hadn't asked for the money up front he wouldn't have paid. It scared the fuck out of me. I guess I was lucky he was just after a freebie and not out to really hurt me. 

 

I know most chaps on here have agreed they prefer the money be sorted first, but I thought I'd tell you that little story to remind you all what risks we take and why money up front is the sensible thing to do!

 

That said, I have a couple of trusted clients who sometimes don't pay until half way through or at the end, but even they tend to pay first because they don't want to forget in the haze of happiness at the end! 

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Normally before, sometimes after...depends on the relationship you have but i do not like to hear about regular punters disappearing without paying once trust is gained, that is just wrong...

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It's like any other sort of non returnable service.If you get a tattoo done they don't wait till the works finished,you pay before they start.I personally don't mind when  i pay.I never have understood the envelope part bit,afterall,arent we supposed to be looking after the trees?

Envelopes can be recycled Mark.   :)

 

Taking cash to the bank.  Writing shopping lists.  Paper aeroplanes.  Handy if the toilet rolls have run out.  

 

spot the erroneous option above............. 

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before please  

 

no ifs or buts

 

I am a walking contradiction though..... one or two long term regular clients pay before they leave but I know where they work/live

 

 

 

 

evil larrrrrf

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Yep I have been known to be lax about taking the fee upfront never had anything really bad happen but a client once half jokingly asked what I would do if he didn't pay..this was the end of the booking...I stood in front of the door and smiled back and said 'Do you really want to find out?'....that was enough to make me be less lax about it.Really an escort should not have to ask you for it...you should have it ready and given to her after a few minutes in her company.

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