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Hi. I have been seeing an SP fairly regularly for a few months and was having a great time with her. She shares her place with another lady. Few weeks ago, I called to book and the lady said she is busy but her flatmate is free if I want to book her. As I had nowhere else to go, I decided to go for it. So I went to see her flatmate and had a great time. After another few weeks, I rang and this time she is away but her flatmate was there. i went to see her again and had a fun time...again. Now I want to go back there but I want to see her flatmate. I feel a bit awkward since I might see her there. Also, I dont want to ruin my time with either of them since I might want to see them alternately. Any opinion on what I should do? Thanks.

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Book an appointment with the lady who takes your fancy and proceed as before...no need to change your practice as far as i can see...

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Also, I dont want to ruin my time with either of them since I might want to see them alternately. Any opinion on what I should do? Thanks.

Book a duo once in a while. Apart from that, simply see whoever is available on the day and at the time that suits you for a punt. I'm sure the ladies are realistic enough to not be offended. Anyhoo, congratulations - what a delicious problem to have   :P

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Hi. I have been seeing an SP fairly regularly for a few months and was having a great time with her. She shares her place with another lady. Few weeks ago, I called to book and the lady said she is busy but her flatmate is free if I want to book her. As I had nowhere else to go, I decided to go for it. So I went to see her flatmate and had a great time. After another few weeks, I rang and this time she is away but her flatmate was there. i went to see her again and had a fun time...again. Now I want to go back there but I want to see her flatmate. I feel a bit awkward since I might see her there. Also, I dont want to ruin my time with either of them since I might want to see them alternately. Any opinion on what I should do? Thanks.

 

Lots of girls do share or recommend the clients to eachother.  The worst case scenario is when the guy only sees the second girl and the one that recommended her friend might become jealous, sometimes leading to trouble, especially if she will not be busy herself.  Once they will understand you still want to see both of them, you will be in calmer waters.  Good luck.

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Book a duo once in a while. Apart from that, simply see whoever is available on the day and at the time that suits you for a punt. I'm sure the ladies are realistic enough to not be offended. Anyhoo, congratulations - what a delicious problem to have   :P

This one gets my vote, best solution all round :)

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But the duo is going to hit you in the pocket so think about your finances as well.  Look you are only going for a service its not as if the first girl was your girlfriend so go see the second girl.  Lets face it guilt shouldn't come into it when seeing an escort its just a financial transaction.  My first girl I felt guilty about seeing others and only told her recently what a plonka I was. Just go for it and don't worry it is what it is! :)  

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See whichever one YOU want. You are paying!

Girls have other clients. They wouldn't give a stuff about you if they had another booking!

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this is silly - move on to the SP you prefer and dont give a second thought - as I am sure the first girl wont about you

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I don't think there is anything silly about it.  After all, something similar could happen in some other area of life.  Say you have been going to the same barber for years but one day you need a haircut, don't have much time and your usual barber has a long queue, so you pop round the corner to another barber, end up liking what he does with your hair and next time you need a haircut you decide to go to the new barber, that next time you might well take a circuitous route there so your old, regular barber doesn't notice you going elsewhere for your haircut.  It is just human nature, we feel there is an element of betrayal in going elsewhere for some service even when the previous relationship was wholly a professional one.  There isn't much that can be done about that; just don't dwell on the thought too much.

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I understand where you're coming from, though I really wouldn't worry if I were you. The first lady you saw must be easygoing if she recommended her flatmate in the first place. I used to share a flat with another escort and we would often recommend each other and then clients would end up seeing us alternatively. I'm sure she won't get jealous, she'll be happy that her recommendation went down well and that a good client of hers and her flatmate are having a nice time together.

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It may take a bit of getting used to but its perfectly normal for ladies sharing premises to simply take the client that calls on the day even if that client may have seen another lady. They don't know who had visited each lady and would only communicate about problem clients not normal ones. Don't worry about seeing them on a rota basis as they won't. There's no need to do a 3sum it might be a bad idea even.

 

I used to be a regular visitor to a cottage where 4 girls worked a rota but I only enjoyed seeing 2 of them, and you couldn't rely on one being available on a specific day. So I had the problem that if the 'wrong' girl picked up I had to put the phone down. But I expect they were used to that. Life innit

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It's just the natural 'loyalty' thing we're all conditioned to feel. :)

 

I have a pretty lovely regular who has certain things I would prefer a little larger, so now have another regular who fits the bill there on different occasions. I know they couldn't care less but I'm not going to divulge to my favourite that I'm seeing another escort.

 

No-one is getting hurt and it's more about my sensitivities than anything else. Just go for it.

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Okay to be the bringer of doom, she may get jealous. She SHOULDNT get jealous but SHOULDNT rarely stopped anything. It happens and knowing a regular is seeing your mate as a one off is different to seeing him then coming to see your mate as much as you. It shouldnt be like that but it can be, been there and been at the shitty end of the stick.

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Okay to be the bringer of doom, she may get jealous. She SHOULDNT get jealous but SHOULDNT rarely stopped anything. It happens and knowing a regular is seeing your mate as a one off is different to seeing him then coming to see your mate as much as you. It shouldnt be like that but it can be, been there and been at the shitty end of the stick.

 

Confirming my thinking that escorts are just ordinary women who can experience ordinary emotions like the rest of us. :)

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Confirming my thinking that escorts are just ordinary women who can experience ordinary emotions like the rest of us. :)

This is very true. Ive regretted recommending girls in the past when they have turned around and done something nasty or in the case of the lordy one, bragging that my client came to see her even though I recommended her because I was booked at the time and she hadn't had any clients the whole day. Women are strange and unpredictable..Im one and I dont understand them

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This is very true. Ive regretted recommending girls in the past when they have turned around and done something nasty or in the case of the lordy one, bragging that my client came to see her even though I recommended her because I was booked at the time and she hadn't had any clients the whole day. Women are strange and unpredictable..Im one and I dont understand them

Women are incredibly strange you're right!

I had one email me trying to get info on punters and because I refused she tried to ruin my hood reputation with lies which in turn failed.

There are nasty women in all aspects, it's appalling. X

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Confirming my thinking that escorts are just ordinary women who can experience ordinary emotions like the rest of us. :)

I was sitting in the reception of a parlour where I only ever see the same girl  (the one I have written about who I had grown too fond of).  While waiting for her to arrive I was chatting to the very friendly receptionist.  We got chatting about a pub that we both liked and, half jokingingly, I suggested I take her to lunch there some time.  I thought she was joking when she said that ******* would tear her throat out if she took up my invitation.  Oh no! She assured me that the ladies, or at least mine, don't like sharing their regulars.  The receptionist sometimes works in the room.   

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I am with the choose the one you want to see brigade but I wouldn't go down the duo route - costly and much more likely to cause hints of any latent jealousy in one of them if they exist. Also you may not enjoy it under the pressure of not favouring one of them.

 

They are probably (but not necessarily) cool with the situation (and neither may actually fancy you!) but I suspect I would see the other one occasionally as well because I am a softie and don't see through surface enthusiasm for the mere tolerance it is.

 

At parlours where I knew everyone and we chatted they would always say they didn't mind whether they were chosen or not and accepted everyone had their own personal tastes even though it was usually a choice made while all the ladies stood in the room but clearly that would depend on them ending up with enough money at the end of the day.

 

I only see hardly concealed relief when i choose someone else.

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I am with the choose the one you want to see brigade 

So am I. A guy should book who he wants to book and not be influenced by other escorts on his choices as often there is an ulterior motive that the guy is unaware of and that ulterior motive is never a good one, if it was then it wouldnt be hidden. 

 

I just wasnt going to go along with everyone saying that of course his reg wont have a problem. She may  not have a problem at all if she is a decent woman but he needed to be aware that sometimes things get a little "not pretty" regarding the sharing of regular punters. Forwarned is forarmed as they say. Saying that, he should see who he wants too.

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Have you thought that the first one doesn't like you that much and was only too happy to pass you on to someone else!?

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Have you thought that the first one doesn't like you that much and was only too happy to pass you on to someone else!?

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Now there's a thought!!

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Were pretty understanding when it comes to fixing that feeling... Can't always wait around and so I think there is nothing wrong with seizing the moment. And then maybe book a duo!

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I only allow my wife to be jealous.

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