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Sit Back And Enjoy The Show Or

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just get down to sex?

 

Just wondering how many other punters like to book a 90 minute or 2 hour meeting to soak up the lady first or do you just want to get down and dirty straight away?

 

For me I love to see an escort showing her body before I get to touch and find the quick 'kit off and blow job' idea a bit mechanical. Do the girls enjoy titillating their client to get themselves warmed up?

 

Just wondering. :)

 

 

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I rarely book less than 2 hours especially with regulars, and love having a semi naked fool around before the serious stuff starts. :)

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I much prefer a longer booking 2-3 hours, often an overnight and just find the get down and dirty element happens over a longer period which is how I prefer it.  I am no wam bam thank you mam kind of guy - a definite slow burner but I love this about this kind of length of booking.

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All of mine have been a minimum of 90 mins so far apart from a 30 minute meet just to see who she was. I will be seeing her again tomorrow!

 

I just love the build up and the smell of expensive perfume and being welcomed back by the escort is much more settling for me. Ok so she might not fancy me but at least by seeing her again I can't have done too much wrong first time round. :)

 

Is there really any better way to spend our leisure time? :)

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My favourite ever punt was with the wg I'm seeing again now which was an overnight just before she went away 18 months ago. We're in the process of organising something a little longer than an overnight before she goes for good ;)

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Make sure you wear your socks in bed!!! Lol

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All nice, yet the majority of guys prefer to get down to business straight away.  No wonder most of the bookings nowadays are for 30min, 45min or 1h, so girls who do that must be very busy.  I doubt in the 30min booking they talk for 15min to introduce themselves.  

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It varies. Some men like to get on with it quickly and book a 30 minute session, others like to draw it out and book longer. I have had 2 hour bookings where 90 mins has been chatting and then the last 30 in the bedroom. Also some days a client may want one thing but another day something else depending on their mood or time restraints. 

 

How surprising. People vary. 

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Afraid I'm a one hit wonder, so 2 hours is a bit lost on me. Tried it once and we did a lot of talking.

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All nice, yet the majority of guys prefer to get down to business straight away.  No wonder most of the bookings nowadays are for 30min, 45min or 1h, so girls who do that must be very busy.  I doubt in the 30min booking they talk for 15min to introduce themselves.  

 

So important to me to understand who I am with and get a feel of the vibe (unintentional double entendre there  :) ) Never had anything negative come back at me to date but would walk if it ever did...after paying up of course!

 

Two hours is perfect... three hours sadly beyond my pocket but would be great. Sex is a time consuming thing and 30 minutes clock watching would do my head in.

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I'd usually start with a 30min session. If things are clicking and I like her, if she's available I'd extend there and then or book a longer session next time around. Never more than 90 minutes.

 

If I wanted a 3hr+ or overnight, i'd get a girlfriend. :lol:

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I'd usually start with a 30min session. If things are clicking and I like her, if she's available I'd extend there and then or book a longer session next time around. Never more than 90 minutes. If I wanted a 3hr+ or overnight, i'd get a girlfriend. :lol:

Just goes to show how one size doesn't fit all even in punting.. i'd rather stay home and have a wank than bother with a 30 minute punt!

Each to their own

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Just goes to show how one size doesn't fit all even in punting.. i'd rather stay home and have a wank than bother with a 30 minute punt!

Each to their own

:D

Indeedy! ;) I guess, because I'm not married or in a long term, I like my freedom. For me punting, when I do it, which these days is rare, I prefer not to stay too long for 3 main reasons. The cost, time and the fact I don't know her well enough to want to stay longer. I begrudge paying for talk as any man can get that for free with any lady friend. Sex always costs, regardless. Gamble: Dinner dates, mind games, 50/50 chance or don't gamble and pay for an hour? I like to keep things simple and to the point. No faffing around, no emotions, just a great time, sexual release and go. ...lol We are paying for a service not a relationship, afterall. Don't get me wrong, i do like the chase with 'regular' girls, but usually I've found I'm a commitment phobe or haven't found a wifey willing to put up with my selfish ways. hehe ^_^

 

For those that like long dinner dates, overnights and alone time with a regular SP, I guess it feels more like having a girlfriend/mistress (if married) with a similar financial outlay, good conversation & quality time spent. Actually thinking about it, there's also potentially less emotional comeback/stress, seeing a WG. i.e not ringing you because the 'bit on the side' has fallen in love with you. :D

 

Different folks, different strokes (pardon pun)

 

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I can do either. Its the variety that makes the whole thing such fun. A lady friend I saw last week met me in her undies, unusual as shes usually in house clothes and changes after a cuppa, after ogling her walking round the kitchen for about 10 mins I simply picked her up and carried her to the bedroom. Nice work if you can get it

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yes. variety.  why do the same every time.

 

must do some more 15 minute ones, cos they can be fun too.

 

having a cuddle and a chat before or after is awesome.

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yes. variety.  why do the same every time.

 

must do some more 15 minute ones, cos they can be fun too.

 

having a cuddle and a chat before or after is awesome.

 

 

I have to admit a 'quickie' was always favourite with a girlfriend... kitchen especially :) . Can't see the joy with an escort after all of the hassle to get there and money wise 30 minutes isn't usually too far away from an hour.

 

We all have different needs of course so not knocking anybody. Doesn't give the girls much of a chance to enjoy though does it?

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The best 2 hours is where I have had a professional massage and massaged the lady.  Massage is the best as it relaxes both parties and it can be fun and sensual.  A great ice breaker. 

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and having experience quite a bit now massage seems to be my favourite and I think I may just go for that and HR as just don't seem to care too much for getting up close and personal in an hour with someone I don't know.     

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All nice, yet the majority of guys prefer to get down to business straight away.  No wonder most of the bookings nowadays are for 30min, 45min or 1h, so girls who do that must be very busy.  I doubt in the 30min booking they talk for 15min to introduce themselves.  

 

Why would I as a punter need 15 mins to introduce myself?  I'm paying for a sexual service from a sex worker. Why would I for 30, 45 or 60 mins need 15 mins to introduce myself? Other than for the sex worker to get 15 mins free time with no service that I had booked and paid for! Or would a 15 mins intro from me make it a half price booking if it were a 30 min appointment? Seems a time wasting exercise to me!

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Punters pay what they can afford.. Each do what is good for them.. Me I have done the whole gamit over the years and for me anything more than an hour and that is rare these days for me is enough time. 30 mins are best for me and for the budget I can justify for my punting.

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Everyone's different of course.

Most of my bookings are usually two hours, I rarely have that many 30 minute bookings.

I do prefer the longer bookings so I can have a little chat before hand which puts me and the guy at ease then we can do the deed haha.

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Why would I as a punter need 15 mins to introduce myself?  I'm paying for a sexual service from a sex worker. Why would I for 30, 45 or 60 mins need 15 mins to introduce myself? Other than for the sex worker to get 15 mins free time with no service that I had booked and paid for! Or would a 15 mins intro from me make it a half price booking if it were a 30 min appointment? Seems a time wasting exercise to me!

You dont NEED to introduce yourself as such its just nice and polite to have a little chat before we are gobbling c*ck LOL.

Nothing timewasting about a client wanting a little chat to ease himself first.

I find the men who come to me for bookings and just want to get straight down to it with no "Hi" "Would you like me to get changed into something comfortable" quite cold and stand offish, often makes me feel uneasy.

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You dont NEED to introduce yourself as such its just nice and polite to have a little chat before we are gobbling c*ck LOL.

Nothing timewasting about a client wanting a little chat to ease himself first.

I find the men who come to me for bookings and just want to get straight down to it with no "Hi" "Would you like me to get changed into something comfortable" quite cold and stand offish, often makes me feel uneasy.

 

Why would it take 15 mins? Intros can be done in a few mins! I pay for a sexual service of a time of say 30 mins... 15 mins chatting to me is not what I am paying for! I am paying for 30 mins of whatever has been agreed beforehand and is acceptable to me!

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Everyone's different of course.

Most of my bookings are usually two hours, I rarely have that many 30 minute bookings.

I do prefer the longer bookings so I can have a little chat before hand which puts me and the guy at ease then we can do the deed haha.

 

Which in truth is getting money for little to no effort, in the talking stakes. You as a sex worker will be paid for talking in the longer bookings you have.. Seems right you prefer as would other sex workers longer bookings as this means punters paying to talk to you as opposed to the sexual service they have booked and paid for! Not saying they don't get them, but a lot of time is wasted talking in my opinion!

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Which in truth is getting money for little to no effort, in the talking stakes. You as a sex worker will be paid for talking in the longer bookings you have.. Seems right you prefer as would other sex workers longer bookings as this means punters paying to talk to you as opposed to the sexual service they have booked and paid for! Not saying they don't get them, but a lot of time is wasted talking in my opinion!

 

What about the woman who takes time to look beautiful for you? Not interested in who they are at all?

 

What's the difference between having a wank and being with a real woman for you then?

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