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Regulars...genuinely Valued Or

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just an unadventurous individual caught in an imaginary 'friendship?'.

 

Just curious as I wonder just how much an escort values the guy who comes along on a regular basis to fill his boots. Is it the improving sex and interaction with someone regular that an escort enjoys or is it purely down to cash?

 

Also, what constitutes a regular? Once every couple of weeks? Once a month or just a few times a year? I seem to have settled on two girls for now, each with different attributes to keep a mix going but I'm beginning to feel I'm missing the point of 'punting'.

 

Any views on the subject?

 

Cue Worldpunter...... ;)

 

 

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I defintely value my regulars, and enjoy bookings with them more than new clients I guess.

I usually run over with regulars & new clients actually, far from a clock watcher!

I like meeting people and enjoy conversation with people who are the total opposite to me I find it interesting and refreshing. All of my regulars are over 40 and I enjoy hearing about their lives and stuff so of course so genuinely enjoy the sex but also the conversation aswell.

I would say a regular is someone who comes to see you frequently like once a week, once a month and has been doing so for say over 6 months.

I wouldn't class someone who sees me every three months sporadically a regular. Someone who regularly comes to see me with the same time span in between is a regular in my eyes!

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I defintely value my regulars, and enjoy bookings with them more than new clients I guess.

I usually run over with regulars & new clients actually, far from a clock watcher!

I like meeting people and enjoy conversation with people who are the total opposite to me I find it interesting and refreshing. All of my regulars are over 40 and I enjoy hearing about their lives and stuff so of course so genuinely enjoy the sex but also the conversation aswell.

I would say a regular is someone who comes to see you frequently like once a week, once a month and has been doing so for say over 6 months.

I wouldn't class someone who sees me every three months sporadically a regular. Someone who regularly comes to see me with the same time span in between is a regular in my eyes!

 

 

That's nice to know TYE. I've noticed a big change in how the meetings go now they know more about me and what makes me tick.... and vice versa of course. :)

 

Always valuable to see things from both sides.

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That's nice to know TYE. I've noticed a big change in how the meetings go now they know more about me and what makes me tick.... and vice versa of course. :)

Always valuable to see things from both sides.

You're right, I think at first any WG will be a little weary!

I've had two very very bad experiences so I filter out my new clients like crazy! Lol.

But once I have seen them two or three times I become a lot more comfortable, my service is never affected by me being comfortable my personality comes out more the more I meet someone.

I'm sure your regulars not only appreciate your company but the sex and cash also!

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It's lovely to have regulars, though I don't necessarily expect to see them every week. Sometimes you do, then there might be a couple of months gap.

 

But it's just nice to get to know someone a bit, feel relaxed with them, find out what they enjoy sexually - it all enhances the GFE. Moreover, it's always slightly stressful seeing a new client as you have little idea of who's going to walk through your door, so with a regular that's not an issue. It's actually that factor that I value more than the monetary one, as there are never any guarantees with the latter.

 

Then again, there can be a downside with regulars in that if they turn out to be not what you thought, it stings a little.

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Regular clients = bread and butter

 

Sorry if that sounds cold... but the fact is most of us full timers could not keep going without regular clients.  

 

If we were only to see guys once then something would be wrong with our welcomes and services.  Any decent wg will have her regs.

 

Having said that ... from time to time l decide to end a regular's visits.... not prepared to go into this one but new clients continue to become regular clients too so it works out nicely.

 

It is smileworthy to think that I can know a client for a month or two and he tells me a lot about himself.... on the other hand there are clients who have been seeing me for years and I still know little....... and it is not my place to enquire..... (now and then I sneak a question in though............ natural curiosity rears it's head you know).

 

The op's question has been done before on here but new contributions to the subject should be welcomed by people who have not been here long.

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Regulars are definatley valued

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Yes, regulars are valued and I've regulars I've become very fond of - though that's where I draw the line, I enjoy their company but it isn't an emotional relationship or even a conventional friendship.

 

And I agree with Lynn, regulars are the 'bread and butter'! There have been weeks when I've been perfectly busy and every client has seen me at least once previously. I'd be stretching the pennies if no one ever came back!

 

It is a good feeling when gentlemen return, It reassures that there's a market for my particular style of encounter and it's nice to build a rapport with someone. I'd say a regular is someone who visits anything from weekly to every three months. Longer than that between visits they probably can't be classed as regulars unless they've been visiting for years on end, then they'll count as regulars! 

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Regular is hard to define. From a punter's point of view, he might see a wg every 2 months without fail, so to him that wg is a regular. The wg may or may not see it that way though as she may have clients who see her far more regularly than every two months.

I much prefer seeing wg's regularly to seeing different ones all the time. As Lynn says but from the punters side obviously - some of the wg's I see regularly I know no more about than I did the first time we met, which is fine. Another, who I've actually seen fewer times (at the moment, but that'll change soon :) ) , I know her full name, where she lives, have her personal phone number and email address and keep in regular contact with, whether she's working or not. None of that was planned and I've never asked her for any personal information at all - it's just how things have progressed.

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Regular is hard to define. From a punter's point of view, he might see a wg every 2 months without fail, so to him that wg is a regular. The wg may or may not see it that way though as she may have clients who see her far more regularly than every two months.

I much prefer seeing wg's regularly to seeing different ones all the time. As Lynn says but from the punters side obviously - some of the wg's I see regularly I know no more about than I did the first time we met, which is fine. Another, who I've actually seen fewer times (at the moment, but that'll change soon :) ) , I know her full name, where she lives, have her personal phone number and email address and keep in regular contact with, whether she's working or not. None of that was planned and I've never asked her for any personal information at all - it's just how things have progressed.

I agree with the last part I have two clients who know my real name and what business I own outside of escorting, I also know the same with them and it wasn't planned either.

I guess it's down to who you feel comfortable with! And these two clients have seen me since I was a newbie at 18 in 2012 so they are dedicated regs! Haha x

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I agree with the last part I have two clients who know my real name and what business I own outside of escorting, I also know the same with them and it wasn't planned either.

I guess it's down to who you feel comfortable with! And these two clients have seen me since I was a newbie at 18 in 2012 so they are dedicated regs! Haha x

 

You're a little sweetie really aren't you TYE? :)

 

Both of the girls I see are very open, as am I. Nothing to hide or cover up on my part and certainly no shame in what I do which helps I guess. It seems to work for everyone right now and that's all that matters. My best pal was shocked when I told him what I was up to but I suspect there is more than an element of envy going on rather than disapproval.

 

Everyone is happy it seems. ;)

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You're a little sweetie really aren't you TYE? :)

Both of the girls I see are very open, as am I. Nothing to hide or cover up on my part and certainly no shame in what I do which helps I guess. It seems to work for everyone right now and that's all that matters. My best pal was shocked when I told him what I was up to but I suspect there is more than an element of envy going on rather than disapproval.

Everyone is happy it seems. ;)

Hahaha, I can be sweet sometimes! ;)

That's great that you have a good relationship with them, I think the whole sexual side is much better when your personalities can gel together aswell!

X

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I agree with the last part I have two clients who know my real name and what business I own outside of escorting, I also know the same with them and it wasn't planned either.

I guess it's down to who you feel comfortable with! And these two clients have seen me since I was a newbie at 18 in 2012 so they are dedicated regs! Haha x

It's all a bit one sided with me, she knows my real first name and has my mobile number but that's it...Again not deliberate, and it isn't that I wouldn't trust her, we just haven't got round it somehow...

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The great joy of visiting an escort on a regular basis (even if it may only be 2 or 3 times a year) is that you both have a pretty good idea how the meeting will progress. You both know each others erogenous zones and can make each other buzz far more quickly. In my experience the clock tends to be allowed to run over a little too.

 

I love having a regular lady to visit.

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To answer some of your questions from my point of view.

 

I see my regular girl between 10-12 times a year and have been seeing her for just over 5 years.

 

There is some mutual trust between us, I've done her a few small favours over the years and have learned some of her personal details. I haven't tried to take advantage of the favours or tried to get anything back in kind, but she hasn't raised her prices for me over those 5 years.

 

The advantage for me with a regular girl? I get a buzz from feedback, if I know the girl is enjoying herself, or seems to be, as much as me that gives a boost to my ego. My regular is a lot more relaxed with me than she was at the outset and I find it easier now to arouse her and to take her to a climax. As Paul says the clock can become a bit more flexible too, if I get there early, which I always try to do with any girl, I don't have to hang about outside killing time.

 

I have some affection for my girl, I'd be a cold heartless bastard if I didn't, but I know there are boundaries, they may loosen and stretch over time but the rule is don't try and break them down. In short if you are having a nice cruise, don't rock the boat and you wont find yourself overboard.

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I have some affection for my girl, I'd be a cold heartless bastard if I didn't, but I know there are boundaries, they may loosen and stretch over time but the rule is don't try and break them down. In short if you are having a nice cruise, don't rock the boat and you wont find yourself overboard.

Totally agree about the boundaries. For example the wg I mentioned above - I know her full name, and I know she's on Facebook because she's told me. Now I've never had a FB account and I never will, but even if I did I'd never make any attempt to contact her on it, or even as much try and view her pages unless specifically invited to do so.

Although I do text her (and her me), between bookings I'm always mindful of not overdoing it, and I'll rarely if ever be the one to initiate an exchange of messages twice in a row. I may send her a message, and we'll exchange a few texts - but then I won't contact her again until she texts me first! Unless I want to make a booking to see her that is...

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I think it fair to say as a punter I am a bit of a tart. I have a place I go to regularly but no particular WG. I have one lady who I try to see on a more regular basis. She is very popular limits her meetings so that requires a lot of planning on my part and twice I have had to cancel because my circumstances changed at short notice. We do still get on very well together when we meet. I would like to have the choice of some regulars but for now it is does not work I am pleased for those who are able to achieve a regular working relationship. The risk of this is placing all your eggs in one basket. What happens when your regular stops? It is difficult starting again. I know because I did focus very much on one lady and it was tough when she was not there and I do not have the time or money to maintain a choice of regulars at this time.

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The risk of this is placing all your eggs in one basket. What happens when your regular stops? It is difficult starting again. I know because I did focus very much on one lady and it was tough when she was not there and I do not have the time or money to maintain a choice of regulars at this time.

This has happened a few times over the last couple of years, and I've tended to find a new girl fairly quickly. Until about 6 weeks ago I was basically just alternating between 2 wg's. Then a wg I really liked returned from travelling the world and I've only been seeing her since. I know this is short term as she's off again before Christmas so my plan is to see her as much as I can until she goes. I also know one of the other two wg's I was seeing is packing up at the end of this month...

I really don't feel inclined to start looking for any new regulars, so once my favourite goes I think that'll be it for me. I might see the one remaining regular wg occasionally but I'm not sure. For one thing I've spent next years punting budget on my short-term "fling" already! I know it's not the way to do things but I can't help myself, lol. :rolleyes:

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I love my regulars and wouldn't do without them. However, newbies always greeted with open arms (and legs) too since they are the regulars of tomorrow ;)

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I love my regulars and wouldn't do without them. However, newbies always greeted with open arms (and legs) too since they are the regulars of tomorrow ;)

I agree with your post and especially the last bit!  

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I value and appreciate immensely my regular lady as I know she does me - a perfect arrangement and by far my best experience of punting so far.

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I love my regulars and wouldn't do without them. However, newbies always greeted with open arms (and legs) too since they are the regulars of tomorrow ;)

 

Phwoar!!! ....You're not just saying that though are you ERP?  :)

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I like my reg lady a lot.  I have got two but one I see a lot.  I know her real name etc now and we may do some business together outside of this environment.  I did have a thing for her but not now. I think we have got a good relationship and she has hinted about going for dinner outside of these activities.  We are a bit like buddies with benefits now.  I like her as a person and she likes me but that's it.  When she finishes I would hope we will stay friends even if she has a partner.  To me that doesn't matter I value friendship just as much. I know you ladies have to be careful and guarded which you should always be the case!

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My regular has turned into regulars - I've had a purple patch recently and met some lovely women for the first time.  Problem is I'm losing track slightly - post-fuck small talk in the week had me mixing up 2 recent Polish women somewhat idiotically.

 

Me [thinking back to a recent chat]: So when are you off then?

Her: Not for a while

Me: But your mum's coming over for that trip to Paris, right?

Her [thinking I'm potty]: Er, no.  She's in Poland, and I'll see her at Christmas

Me [gradually light dawning, but not wanting her to think I mixed her up with another hooker]: Oh of course, I got you mixed up with someone at work.

Her [naked, flushed but disbelieving]: I remind you of someone at your work?

Me [slightly hysterically]: Where in Poland are your parents then?

 

She very kindly pretended I hadn't made a total prat of myself, and is still well on the way to becoming regular number 4.  I have high hopes of someone I'm meeting next week too.  Is 5 too many?

 

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Phwoar!!! ....You're not just saying that though are you ERP?  :)

 

Nope, cum see! ;)

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