Jaybee

Advice Wanted For First Time

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Hi all,

Grand old age of 46 and never been with a WG before, hope to do it in the next couple of days, and looking for any advice. 

 

I'd like the first time to work out nicely, I've read up on being a gentleman, treating it a bit like a date, so I'll look/smell my best and turn the charm on a tad.  You get out what you put into life, I suppose this is no different.

 

But also heard about some punts turning sour, girls hurrying you up at 20 mins when you paid for 30, I know this is not an emo business but I'd like the MEMORY of the first time to be a good one, not one that puts me off for years.  Not looking for any exotic stuff, just a straight shag as nature intended.

 

To be honest, at my age (and size, think prop forward) you'd think I'd have no qualms but quite honestly I'm in two very different minds, on one hand I feel a bit apprehensive about a condom going split on me, or crushing some girl less than half my weight beneath me, on the other the though I wanna threesome as it'd feel more gangster - and to be honest, I'm twitching just thinking of it all :)

 

Location - I'm in Dusseldorf on long-term business, there's a street with girls in windows, kinda like Amsterdam, I thought hedge my bets a bit first before blowing cash at an expensive clubs - because if THAT goes bad first time, it'd really leave a sore taste.

 

Anyway, I hope you good people might have a few pointers for a new recruit!!

 

Cheers,

 

JB

 

 

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Hi all,

Grand old age of 46 and never been with a WG before, hope to do it in the next couple of days, and looking for any advice. 

 

I'd like the first time to work out nicely, I've read up on being a gentleman, treating it a bit like a date, so I'll look/smell my best and turn the charm on a tad.  You get out what you put into life, I suppose this is no different.

 

But also heard about some punts turning sour, girls hurrying you up at 20 mins when you paid for 30, I know this is not an emo business but I'd like the MEMORY of the first time to be a good one, not one that puts me off for years.  Not looking for any exotic stuff, just a straight shag as nature intended.

 

To be honest, at my age (and size, think prop forward) you'd think I'd have no qualms but quite honestly I'm in two very different minds, on one hand I feel a bit apprehensive about a condom going split on me, or crushing some girl less than half my weight beneath me, on the other the though I wanna threesome as it'd feel more gangster - and to be honest, I'm twitching just thinking of it all :)

 

Location - I'm in Dusseldorf on long-term business, there's a street with girls in windows, kinda like Amsterdam, I thought hedge my bets a bit first before blowing cash at an expensive clubs - because if THAT goes bad first time, it'd really leave a sore taste.

 

Anyway, I hope you good people might have a few pointers for a new recruit!!

 

Cheers,

 

JB

 

1. dont let it matter if it goes wrong.  think hey ho there is a next time.  If it is vital it goes right it will spoil it.

2. do your research.  find out who are the best ones. look at reviews etc.

3. i would see a quality indy first go.  I think shop window parlours are a nerve wracking place to start.  Tell her its your first go and she will understand.  all punters have had a first punt.

4. its not a date.  you are seeing someone for paid sex.  OK you can make her happy by being considerate while you are with her, and remembering to make your time with her sexy for her too.  That approach always gives dividends IMHO

5 turn up on time (if you book), clean and with the right money.

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My main advice is just to be spotlessly clean everywhere - but particularly in the action area (that includes ensuring that you don't leave skid marks as well as the obvious giving Little Jaybee a thorough wash).

 

There is no guarantee that the condom won't split, but remember the girl will be just as bothered as you about preventing that happening, so she should have different sizes, and might use lube if needed too. Plus, the risk is very low so long as they're decent condoms, stored properly, and applied correctly.

 

If there was any danger of the girl feeling crushed, she would go on top or suggest doggy etc.

 

Don't worry about being 'charming', just be polite and respectful, and be clear about what you're looking for.

 

Good luck!

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So if it is your first time, certainly hedge your bet as you said, and start cheaper.

 

Even though I never punted in Germany (what a shame), this is one of the most professional/organized/clean country for that. Just pick a girl in one of the windows, buy 30 minutes, and treat her like your new girlfriend. Consider the first time a test, and there is nothing to lose.

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Don't over think the occasion and remember that the girl has no expectations of you other than to be clean and polite.

 

See her as a person and relax. :)

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Pick one who takes your fancy, treat her like a friend and don't worry if it all goes off before you were expecting it to. There is always round 2!

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I know you said you want a straight shag but if it were me and my first I would probably go for a professional massage or a nuru massage first to relax and unwind you before a shag.  I'm perhaps not the best to advise as I wouldn't go for window girls and would perhaps review the web for experienced with great reviews perhaps not the best looking or youngest but one that is highly experienced with a great personality!  A shag with some young thing that is as cold as ice and wants it over is a couple of mins will be a waste of time and money!

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I am also a former prop forward, albeit 20 years older than you are and therefore only about 200 pounds, since players were far smaller in those days.

 

I treat every encounter as if I am paying for time and companionship and have to earn my rewards. The girls seem to have universally responded well to that approach.

 

C

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I know you said you want a straight shag but if it were me and my first I would probably go for a professional massage or a nuru massage first to relax and unwind you before a shag.  I'm perhaps not the best to advise as I wouldn't go for window girls and would perhaps review the web for experienced with great reviews perhaps not the best looking or youngest but one that is highly experienced with a great personality!  A shag with some young thing that is as cold as ice and wants it over is a couple of mins will be a waste of time and money!

I hear ya - but if I pay for30 minutes, I don't wanna have to write down the start time on some piece of paper and have to wave it in her face when she tells me to roll off 22 minutes later, all that is crap, I just want to do it

 

Good advice about the massage - and I know this is a sex site, but I could use a roper deep tissue massage - but what does 'NURU' mean?

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I hear ya - but if I pay for30 minutes, I don't wanna have to write down the start time on some piece of paper and have to wave it in her face when she tells me to roll off 22 minutes later, all that is crap, I just want to do it

Good advice about the massage - and I know this is a sex site, but I could use a roper deep tissue massage - but what does 'NURU' mean?

Nuru is a very expensive seaweed gel that some ladies use for a full body slippery massage. It will generally be a little more expensive than a standard punt because of the cost of the product and the cleanup time for the lady afterwards.

Personally, I'd recommend booking a lady who offers a good GFE, start with some French kissing and go with the flow.

If you're concerned about your time just have a casual glance at your watch or her clock at the start. I wear a chunky watch so always take it off at the start to avoid scratching the lady and lay it by the clock if she has one at the bedside - that's enough to be aware of the time.

Also, if you intend to shower at her place it's worth checking whether the shower is before fun time or deducted from fun time.

Above all enjoy your first time and come back to tell us!! :D

DG

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I hear ya - but if I pay for30 minutes, I don't wanna have to write down the start time on some piece of paper and have to wave it in her face when she tells me to roll off 22 minutes later, all that is crap, I just want to do it

 

Good advice about the massage - and I know this is a sex site, but I could use a roper deep tissue massage - but what does 'NURU' mean?

If you can get to London Bridge I would recommend that you checkout Dolly Mixture who can be found on a number of search engines.

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If you can get to London Bridge I would recommend that you checkout Dolly Mixture who can be found on a number of search engines.

Would that be Miss Mopps sister? :D :D or have I genuinely missed another lady?

DG

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Would that be Miss Mopps sister? :D :D or have I genuinely missed another lady?

DG

Yes it would. She comes very highly recommended by all who have met her.

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Its a complication that you are in Germany - are you English by the way, your syntax is a bit odd.

 

Your options are to find an independent escort on a site like ladies.de, or to find a club such as an FKK. If you contemplated a threesome then you would probably feel happy in an FKK even if its your first time. There are always plenty of well-built german business types in these places so don't worry too much about being bulky.

 

For the action, you can always ask the girl to go on top - you are the customer so you usually get to choose. Standing doggie is another easy to do non load bearing position.

 

AS a third option, there is a quality place in Ratingen quite near the airport called Termin Girls  www.termingirls24.de that I know to be good from personal experience but I am an experienced punter and sometimes we see everything a bit differently.

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I had my first punt not too long ago and definitely over thought the whole thing and tried to find the perfect girl and meeting at the perfect time and this just meant Putting it off for many yrs and wasting time

As mentioned above, the best advice is to remember it is a punt and she won't care what you are really like and you are one of many per day. Be clear what you want and don't get caught up in the moment and let her dictate, some girls when learning I am new/inexperienced have wasted time and ended appointments early (even at the established Milton Keynes parlours eg HOD) but reading feedback does help, minimising ending up with someone poor.

Also have a backup I have been messed around on a few occasions, but never at annabellas or mk escorts who are more professional as it's not the girls scheduling apps

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