The Happy Punter

Round Two

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I hope I won't or don't open myself up to to much of a piss take - but I am a big boy so I can take it - anyway here goes:-

 

 I just wanted to share that I have only once achieved a second round on a two hour booking - the lady seem more determined to get me there than I was and who was I to resist - it felt great if a little knackering.

 

Although I have to say weirdly it was so excruciatingly pleasurable it was almost painful - she did cowgirl and rode me - I was like OMG this is the ride of my life :)  I held on tight.

 

That was some time ago and I haven't been able to get there by a long shot - when I read reviews of fellas who have I just think 'lucky chap' how does he manage that. 

 

I am in my 50's so no young stallion I grant you and truth be told I enjoy lots and lots of foreplay - kissing , FK and DFK if available, spanking (giving, receiving - I am kinky like that), RO (which I love) and OWO which is a must never CIM - I just don't think I'd enjoy it.

 

But once I cum I feel great but a second round can seem like quite a hill to climb - I am normally lie there in a bit of a post coital blissful state - but part of me would love to 'rise again' to the occasion just for the sheer pleasure of it but never quite seem to make it.

 

The ladies I see are all lovely and I never feel judged or even feel especially bad about it - but I have often wondered if there was an opportunity to discuss it in a non piss take kind of way I'd take it.

 

I don't cum for a few days before I punt and am ready for action as it were - but that I seem unable to get to a Round 2  I have put down to getting older (although to be brutally honest I have never been a Round Two kind of guy even when younger).

 

I am in pretty good shape - I run and work out blah de blah and have no problem getting it up for Round One - Round Two for me though is a bit of a Holy Grail, an illusive pleasure and I just wondered what either you fellas thought or indeed the lovely ladies here thought and whether you could give me some advice. 

 

Like is there a technique, a way of thinking, an attitude of mind - can the lady help, or should I simply forget about it, maybe I am over thinking it and just go with the flow (no pun intended).  

 

 

 

 

 

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I think you could be overthinking it!

Thing is it just comes naturally and if you force it it's never gonna happen when it comes to orgasms!

Most the men I see are around your age and most of my bookings are two hours I have to say majority of them can only go once but some do get to round two and indeed are drained after legs trembling and all!

Maybe you need to concentrate on foreplay once you've cum the first time, lots of foreplay and kissing RO etc as you said you liked it, no harm in trying!

I would say just "go with the flow" as you said and if it happens it happens if it doesn't atleast you came once! Lol x

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I only usually get to round one so join the club.  I am slim, 40's, jog more than run but once is good enough.  I may be able to go to two rounds if longer than an hour but if its a 2 hour I usually take my time and build up, may be some role play, massage and plenty of foreplay.  I think we are lucky if we can get to round one as there are guys that can't get in the ring as well!  I think you are analysing it too much just enjoy it.  Thinking about these things can put pressure on you!  At the moment my problem is I can't  cum during normal sex unless I knock one out at the end and its down to me needing more things to stimulate me!!  A break is what is required so that's what I am doing.  I am going to be a monk for a while! 

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I think you could be overthinking it!

Thing is it just comes naturally and if you force it it's never gonna happen when it comes to orgasms!

Most the men I see are around your age and most of my bookings are two hours I have to say majority of them can only go once but some do get to round two and indeed are drained after legs trembling and all!

Maybe you need to concentrate on foreplay once you've cum the first time, lots of foreplay and kissing RO etc as you said you liked it, no harm in trying!

I would say just "go with the flow" as you said and if it happens it happens if it doesn't atleast you came once! Lol x

Thanks TBE - to be honest I think I am less angst ridden by it - I really do enjoy my punts and have a cracking time - but I swear I sometimes lie there and think there is no way I could get to a Round Two but maybe if I thought less about that I probably could!  You know what me men are like and are achieving goals ha ha ha.  Thanks for the advice.

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I'm pissed if i can't manage round 4  :blink:

 

 

Tried 5 once in a 3 hour session. Thought it was going to fall off  :eek:

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I only usually get to round one so join the club.  I am slim, 40's, jog more than run but once is good enough.  I may be able to go to two rounds if longer than an hour but if its a 2 hour I usually take my time and build up, may be some role play, massage and plenty of foreplay.  I think we are lucky if we can get to round one as there are guys that can't get in the ring as well!  I think you are analysing it too much just enjoy it.  Thinking about these things can put pressure on you!  At the moment my problem is I can't  cum during normal sex unless I knock one out at the end and its down to me needing more things to stimulate me!!  A break is what is required so that's what I am doing.  I am going to be a monk for a while! 

Thanks mate I found that reassuring - I am definitely in that club I am like you I do take my time - I often joke with the ladies saying its like having a lovely meal and not rushing it - you know enjoying every mouthful that kind of thing.

 

You are right though I am grateful that I have a cracking Round One - tbh sometimes I think sexually being a bloke I always think of performing - hard to shift that mind set - but will work on it.

 

I have got one of those brains that does analyse thought - like I love spanking and often - giving and receiving and often think WTF what is that all about - why do I enjoy that so much - I am learning to let go though and enjoy.

 

I have to say though that I swear every lady I have enjoyed has been great with me - never any pressure or anything like that - just lovely so feel sure if I am going to get to a Round Two I will all in due course - no pressure! :)

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I'm pissed if i can't manage round 4  :blink:

 

 

Tried 5 once in a 3 hour session. Thought it was going to fall off  :eek:

You see Sir P - I am a trusting soul and I honestly think your not even joking and I am just sooooo envious :)

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I'd say only 10-20% of clients are able or want to come twice in an hour - and it's not necessarily linked to age. So long as the first go is enjoyable, surely that's the main thing?

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I rarely make round 2 in an hour but it has happened. Then again sometimes it's only been once in 2 hours. My current favourite got quite upset when that last happened - like she'd failed in some way! It ended up with me consoling her that it wasn't her fault at all! :rolleyes:

I'm of the mindset now that what happens, happens. I hardly ever have a problem rising to the occasion so to speak and I enjoy myself irrespective of whether I cum once or 3 times. I've long since given up worrying about it.

If you do overthink it or let it bother you, the less likely it is to happen, that much I know for sure.

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I have had gents who could manage 2 rounds in half an hour. Others like to take their time and do come once in 1 or 2 hours. Performance isn't the point, as long as you enjoy your time with the lady and feel happy :)

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I'd say only 10-20% of clients are able or want to come twice in an hour - and it's not necessarily linked to age. So long as the first go is enjoyable, surely that's the main thing?

....OMG oh I could never come (cum) more than once in 1 hour - that would kill me but rarely book for 1 hour - more 90 minutes, 2-3 hour kind of guy - when I come (cum) and hope I am not giving the wrong impression it is wonderful and the reason why I punt clearly -  

 

It's just that once I came twice in a two hour booking and have never been able to do that again and wondered I guess, typical man, if others were similar or what other experiences were.

 

I have thought maybe I just don't have the stamina etc and it was my age (but as I say even when younger I was often sated after one go)  but maybe its just about relaxing more and going with the flow....

 

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I'm in my later 50s and twice in 90 minutes would be the norm for me... the second always being the best as it's lasts longer and allows more variety getting there. It's not a conscious thing... it just happens when I study the lovely naked body laying next to me and the moment I get a response while caressing her that is enough for me. It has happened with an hour recently but in that time I don't plan for it.

 

It's all in the mind I'm sure and over thinking it is a sure fire way of preventing it happening at all. In truth though, does it really matter? I don't do it to get my money's worth, it just happens because the thought of her body does it for me. :)

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I'm in my later 50s and twice in 90 minutes would be the norm for me... the second always being the best as it's lasts longer and allows more variety getting there. It's not a conscious thing... it just happens when I study the lovely naked body laying next to me and the moment I get a response while caressing her that is enough for me. It has happened with an hour recently but in that time I don't plan for it.

 

It's all in the mind I'm sure and over thinking it is a sure fire way of preventing it happening at all. In truth though, does it really matter? I don't do it to get my money's worth, it just happens because the thought of her body does it for me. :)

...that's really helpful...wow twice in 90 mins is the norm - respect! :)  I love punting and have a great time and I am sure you are right - does it really matter?  That's going to be my motto - I am going to relax more and study the lovely naked body lying next to me more. :)

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...that's really helpful...wow twice in 90 mins is the norm - respect! :)  I love punting and have a great time and I am sure you are right - does it really matter?  That's going to be my motto - I am going to relax more and study the lovely naked body lying next to me more. :)

 

:)  I'm no stud HP. Honestly if you relax enough and admire the lady you're with it just happens. Get a little sign of pleasure as you explore her and you'll be away.

 

I think we've all become obsessed with an orgasm now thanks to porn and I think many women find this over expectation a bit of a turn off.

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:)  I'm no stud HP. Honestly if you relax enough and admire the lady you're with it just happens. Get a little sign of pleasure as you explore her and you'll be away.

 

I think we've all become obsessed with an orgasm now thanks to porn and I think many women find this over expectation a bit of a turn off.

Thanks again FS I appreciate that - the thing I do admire them immensely and they get me deliciously to Round One - what am I learning and I guess this is the benefit or the forum is you get to hear other input and I find that so helpful. I am getting the message though - enjoy Round One as I am (yeah) and relax into Round Two (but no pressure) - oh and one way to get to a Round Two is soak up the view more. Simples :)

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I am young and in my few encounters havent done twice in one hr but i have a big PE problem so take my time and never aim to. After first one feeling has completely gone and i just want to leave.

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I would say I'm naturally a 1 round guy, but I do find that a quick cold shower of the nether regions does wonders to refresh the old chap, and occasionally round 2 happens.

 

Personally I'm there to enjoy myself and would prefer to savour every minute, as a result I tend to relax and take it slow s, well relatively slow at any rate, so once is normally all I get time for.

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I'm pissed if i can't manage round 4  :blink:

 

 

Tried 5 once in a 3 hour session. Thought it was going to fall off  :eek:

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I some respects once can be great because if you can hold it as long as possible get to the brink hold and go again you can achieve a good orgasm so one good one is better than two little ones!!  I'm probably talking crap but hey ho.

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Thanks mate I found that reassuring - I am definitely in that club I am like you I do take my time - I often joke with the ladies saying its like having a lovely meal and not rushing it - you know enjoying every mouthful that kind of thing.

 

You are right though I am grateful that I have a cracking Round One - tbh sometimes I think sexually being a bloke I always think of performing - hard to shift that mind set - but will work on it.

 

I have got one of those brains that does analyse thought - like I love spanking and often - giving and receiving and often think WTF what is that all about - why do I enjoy that so much - I am learning to let go though and enjoy.

 

I have to say though that I swear every lady I have enjoyed has been great with me - never any pressure or anything like that - just lovely so feel sure if I am going to get to a Round Two I will all in due course - no pressure! :)

As long as you are enjoying yourself and leave with a smile on your face that's all that counts! 

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Also don't forget that sex with an escort is different to sex with a partner.

 

I come from a history of longish relationships involving familiarity, affection and no clock to watch. The switch to paid for sex is actually a massive thing and I'm still not convinced I can do it... so pleasing your escort partner is not the be all and end all. She just wants you to enjoy your time and come back in the future... so to cum once or twice is your pleasure alone.

 

Aren't they wonderful creatures? :)

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No chance at all of me popping more than once in an hour or 90 minute booking  :wacko: at my age.

I had thought that advancing years was the sole reason for this, so I am very grateful to the contributors to this thread who have honestly stated that they are similar in this respect for making me feel a bit better about this "deficiency".

Inverted commas used to indicate that it might not be a deficiency at all  :) .

As several others say here, as long as we enjoy the company of the girl we're with, and she doesn't get upset by the lack of a second coming, does it matter ?

As I tend only to see only favourite regulars these days anyway, they know what to expect, and seem to like the fact that I get great pleasure from getting them to have multiple orgasm by RO and other means before the finale of my one and only, which hopefully gets synchronised with her last one of the session  :wub:

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For those who are aware they can only come once/or would only like to come once it may be worth mentioning this to the escort near the beginning. That way she can tailor your enjoyment to last as long as possible, because often in meetings over 90 minutes it can be presumed that two rounds may be what the gent would like, and us nice ladies like you to leave as happy as can be and may feel a bit guilty if round one is over in 30 minutes and you don't feel able to go at it again and there's still 90 or so mins to go. The pillow talk and naked cuddles afterwards are fun too though :)

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I hope I won't or don't open myself up to to much of a piss take - but I am a big boy so I can take it - anyway here goes:-

 

 I just wanted to share that I have only once achieved a second round on a two hour booking - the lady seem more determined to get me there than I was and who was I to resist - it felt great if a little knackering.

 

Although I have to say weirdly it was so excruciatingly pleasurable it was almost painful - she did cowgirl and rode me - I was like OMG this is the ride of my life :)  I held on tight.

 

That was some time ago and I haven't been able to get there by a long shot - when I read reviews of fellas who have I just think 'lucky chap' how does he manage that. 

 

I am in my 50's so no young stallion I grant you and truth be told I enjoy lots and lots of foreplay - kissing , FK and DFK if available, spanking (giving, receiving - I am kinky like that), RO (which I love) and OWO which is a must never CIM - I just don't think I'd enjoy it.

 

But once I cum I feel great but a second round can seem like quite a hill to climb - I am normally lie there in a bit of a post coital blissful state - but part of me would love to 'rise again' to the occasion just for the sheer pleasure of it but never quite seem to make it.

 

The ladies I see are all lovely and I never feel judged or even feel especially bad about it - but I have often wondered if there was an opportunity to discuss it in a non piss take kind of way I'd take it.

 

I don't cum for a few days before I punt and am ready for action as it were - but that I seem unable to get to a Round 2  I have put down to getting older (although to be brutally honest I have never been a Round Two kind of guy even when younger).

 

I am in pretty good shape - I run and work out blah de blah and have no problem getting it up for Round One - Round Two for me though is a bit of a Holy Grail, an illusive pleasure and I just wondered what either you fellas thought or indeed the lovely ladies here thought and whether you could give me some advice. 

 

Like is there a technique, a way of thinking, an attitude of mind - can the lady help, or should I simply forget about it, maybe I am over thinking it and just go with the flow (no pun intended).  

 

I imagine you grunting and biting your lips, with all the body in a spasm trying to make it go for longer, ha ha, sorry, huge imagination......... or maybe I saw it somewhere before.   :D

 

Indeed maybe you are either over thinking it and maybe you are not as relaxed as others...... Try sports and a healthy diet.  I don't know, but it works for me and I was hoping to slow down by now but my body does not seem to get tired of it.... And there is the chance of a shag in sight, my lower part of the body just starts salivating with anticipation...........  I wish I was like other people but the brain does not seem able to control the body in this respect.  I should invent some machine with some kind of aspiration properties :D   

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