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Is This Rude Or Am I Over Sensitive?

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So i was browsing aw last night and came across this ladies profile

 

 

 

On her faq she states this:

 

. CAN I HAVE A DISCOUNT? A. SIMPLE ANSWER IS NO! You are paying for quality. I am not a tacky escort- if that's what you are looking for then I am not the girl for you.

Now this lady is 180 ph where as i am less does that make me tacky?

I personally think its so badly worded

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So i was browsing aw last night and came across this ladies profile

On her faq she states this:

. CAN I HAVE A DISCOUNT? A. SIMPLE ANSWER IS NO! You are paying for quality. I am not a tacky escort- if that's what you are looking for then I am not the girl for you.

Now this lady is 180 ph where as i am less does that make me tacky?

I personally think its so badly worded

The part about being a tacky escort is rude and badly worded, it's like she's saying all us under £180 PH must be tacky. But I doubt she probably meant it like that!

It needs re wording lol x

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I feel that you may be being a little too sensitive here. What she charges is a way for her to filter her clients; yes it is badly worded and I, for one, would not choose to visit one so rude.

 

However, I am not sure it is too helpful to read other profiles and form  "better or worse" judgments in relation to what you offer by way of escorting services.

 

Be happy with your self and your own profile. I bet you get as many clients as you are comfortable with and that they are the type of guy you are happy to meet. She may well struggle.

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i am by now means making any judgements of her and what i offer just found that very awful wording!

I actually think her profile sounds quite stern and rude overall

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Maybe just trying to separate herself from the 'mainstream' to promote herself. Certainly rude for other escorts but it may just catch out a guy who thinks she will be a bit special.

 

Not for me that's for sure but "a fool and his money" and all that. :)

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What a WG charges is up to her and doesn't act as a reference to her class or lack of it. It is the act of client haggling that I find tasteless, tacky and cringeworthy. I am not a chicken being sold at a Moroccan market and I wouldn't dream of asking for a discount in Prada, so for the luxury experience of spending time with the woman the client desirers, he needs to adjust his preferences according to his available finances, not create an offensive cheap-skate atmosphere in which the girl is made to feel she has been demoted to the bargain-bin at Tesco! 

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So i was browsing aw last night and came across this ladies profile

 

 

 

On her faq she states this:

 

. CAN I HAVE A DISCOUNT? A. SIMPLE ANSWER IS NO! You are paying for quality. I am not a tacky escort- if that's what you are looking for then I am not the girl for you.

Now this lady is 180 ph where as i am less does that make me tacky?

I personally think its so badly worded

Its not the first time a girl has tried to big herself up by putting other escorts down. Its shortsighted and if someone is really that good they wont ever have to put other ladies down on their advertising or behind their backs. No you are not tacky, if anyone is tacky its the girls who put others down and try to imply that they are somehow better than the rest. 

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I think i know the Wg you are talking about. If its the same one, while she may be "hot" the wording on her profile is so rude i'd not consider seeing her because of it.

 

Talk about a freaking big chip on her shoulder

 

p.s are you planning further London tours in 2015 ;)

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i am by now means making any judgements of her and what i offer just found that very awful wording!

I actually think her profile sounds quite stern and rude overall

Any profiles reading like that are immediately ignored, to me it's indicative of an attitude problem. Although I have to say I know a wg who has a profile worded in such a way I'm sure some other wg's could take offence to, and knowing her as I do it's probably the last thing she intended...more just the way she's worded it.

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Its not the first time a girl has tried to big herself up by putting other escorts down. Its shortsighted and if someone is really that good they wont ever have to put other ladies down on their advertising or behind their backs. No you are not tacky, if anyone is tacky its the girls who put others down and try to imply that they are somehow better than the rest.

Couldn't agree more.

It surely must be off putting to clients when escorts sound bitter on their profiles or forums. All this "I'm better than you because I don't use photoshop/have breast implants/wear fake tan etc etc" comes across as rude and unnecessary. A booking with ladies of this sort would probably result in most of the time being taken up by them telling you how lucky you are to be in their presence.

The example Rebecca pointed out is very rude. Who was calling her tacky in the first place for her to need to claim that she's not?! It's an issue with the client if they feel the need to haggle, not an issue with what other escorts choose to charge.

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I don't believe that her wording indicates that it is a level of fee that she finds tacky. I think it is guys bargaining with her she deplores, if otherwise, she is judging people and surely knows it is difficult enough at times, for us all not to be judged being involved in this industry and there is no place for it, least of all in regard to co-workers we should feel empathy with. 

 

Jasmine I hope you do not feel that all those with professional photos, a little physical 'enhancement' here, with less than sub-zero foundation are all idiots! I assure you some are as lovely as their fake jubilees and those attributes not an indication that they might consider a client lucky to see them.

 

Peace and love ;) x

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Subzero foundation was not a reference to your complexion by the way J, just that I would be pasty without a smudge of tinted moisturiser (tan!) here and there and I just looked at your pictures and they are beautiful x

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I'm not sure what a tacky escort is! We are all different so what some regard as cheap other regard as fine.  I think she could say no discount I feel I am worth the price charged.  No need to say anymore. So badly worded but perhaps not rude because what is tacky???   I actually don't think it is a big thing asking for a discount.  If you don't ask you don't get. A reg lady I asked her for a discount as I was spending lots and she gave me a January sale special!  Ask for the discount and if the reply is no way then leave it at that.  Its the haggling that is annoying.  We all like a bargain whether it be buying a three piece suite or having some fun!!!

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On her faq she states this:

 

CAN I HAVE A DISCOUNT? A. SIMPLE ANSWER IS NO! You are paying for quality. I am not a tacky escort- if that's what you are looking for then I am not the girl for you.

 

Given the rather poor syntax, it isn't clear whether the statement is actually intended to undermine others, even though the second phrase appears to qualify it as such. To that end you are perhaps being a touch sensitive. It strikes me as a Q&A she has written because it features on so many other profiles in some form. For what it's worth, I find her unnecessary use of the upper-case where proper grammar would suffice more offensive than the conceit.

 

As Paul suggests, it simply isn't productive to draw comparisons between yourself and comments on other lady's profiles, however they may (?attempt to) distinguish themselves from everybody else: doing so is more likely to result in related insecurities looming larger, even though you may well be perfectly successful on your own merits.

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 Jasmine I hope you do not feel that all those with professional photos, a little physical 'enhancement' here, with less than sub-zero foundation are all idiots! I assure you some are as lovely as their fake jubilees and those attributes not an indication that they might consider a client lucky to see them.

 

Oh no I don't feel anyone is an idiot at all, hope it didn't read that way! My point was regarding escorts who claim they are better than others because they do or don't do certain things (ie. have or have not got professional pics, have or have not enhancements, do or do not wear fake tan etc), and that escorts who possess that self righteous attitude of 'what makes me better than other escorts' are the kind that would feel clients are lucky to be in their presence; not those of whom fall into any of the examples given (as I do myself).

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when I did a course on running a business, we were told not to slag off the opposition. It pisses customers off.  Concentrate on your own USP, and make sure your offering is as good as it can be because the easiest person to sell to is someone who you have sold to before and they went away happy.

 

I find WG ads that are a rant berating people who would give them a shedload of cash offputting and tend to look elsewhere.

 

just my 2p worth

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Oh no I don't feel anyone is an idiot at all, hope it didn't read that way! My point was regarding escorts who claim they are better than others because they do or don't do certain things (ie. have or have not got professional pics, have or have not enhancements, do or do not wear fake tan etc), and that escorts who possess that self righteous attitude of 'what makes me better than other escorts' are the kind that would feel clients are lucky to be in their presence; not those of whom fall into any of the examples given (as I do myself).

Amen sister! x

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Think its her way of saying "You've tried the rest now try the best" ;)

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So i was browsing aw last night and came across this ladies profile

 

 

 

On her faq she states this:

 

. CAN I HAVE A DISCOUNT? A. SIMPLE ANSWER IS NO! You are paying for quality. I am not a tacky escort- if that's what you are looking for then I am not the girl for you.

Now this lady is 180 ph where as i am less does that make me tacky?

I personally think its so badly worded

 

Badly worded.......... Yes!

 

However I get the impression from what you posted, that she is perhaps pissed off with punters asking for discounts!

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I think it is badly worded but then a lot of profiles are because SPs have as wide a range of education level as the rest of us and the style of your English and your judgement of contact will also vary greatly.

 

A number of profiles are 60% you mustn't do this and I don't do that without it being clear to the writer that it is only likely to turn punters off.

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I was thinking about this the other day when a regular asked for a discount. I said no but I couldn't get annoyed as I ask for discounts all the time. It doesn't mean I get them though :)

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It's not necessarily rude but it smacks of arrogance as though escorts who charge less are beneath her.

 

To be honest, I'm grateful that some working girls write that in their profiles as it's a good heads up for me to avoid contacting them.  :D

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If I was given a bit off I could see my regular (?) more often but would never ask or expect. She would get more cash out of me in the long run but that is for her to weigh up.

 

In my job I'm always being asked for a bit off by regular customers so I guess escorting shouldn't be a total no go really.

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Some girls, when they put their rates up, don't charge their regs the new higher rate. And I have found some reg girls I see become less inclined to finish a booking on time. So to get a discount, look after your regular girls.

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Some girls, when they put their rates up, don't charge their regs the new higher rate. And I have found some reg girls I see become less inclined to finish a booking on time. So to get a discount, look after your regular girls.

This has happened with a couple of wg's I've seen. One stopped doing incalls completely and only had her higher outcall rate on her profile but only ever charged me her old incall rate. Another increased her profile rates to equal the agency she works with but only charges me her indie rates which are significantly less.

As you say there are other benefits such as extra time etc.

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