SirP

Nerves Getting To Me :(

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Oh gawd.

I've still got till next Saturday for my first punt/sexual encounter in over 4 years but nerves seen to be getting to me in the worst possible way.

I can't seem to keep it up for long :(

Normally when looking at anything erotic etc I could maintain a good hard one for a good amount of time. Now it's limp at best :(

I know their is more to a meet than just penetration but this is just getting me more stressed :(

Watching some of her porn scenes probably hasn't helped either.

Fingers crossed I can find a way to relax and get back to normal :)

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Sir P,

We all go through nervous stages, I had a hiatus a good few years back and worried about getting back in the saddle so to speak.

Honestly, if the lady is perceptive she'll calm your nerves and you'll naturally rise to the occasion. I know this is a big thing (no pun intended) but I wouldn't suggest turning to a little blue pill, I'm certain you're just anxious. Sorry if this is getting personal but if you're getting morning glory that's a definite sign you don't have a physical problem (that's obviously not saying you should have morning glory).

I'd definitely recommend leaving off the porn this week and, with just a week to go, NO self indulgence ;) ;) ;)

DG

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I hope that you have got a decent length (?) booking so that a second round is on the cards.Then you can have a first pop and come again later. far more relaxing

 

Good luck.

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Try and relax, forget about the porn or any do it yourself before your punt.

On the day try and keep it as stress free as possible, try not to overthink what'll happen or worry about performance issues and have fun! Easier said than done I know, but if you can be as relaxed as possible, nature will take it's course when you get with your wg.

Good luck!

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How exciting - the countdown to your big day will be delicious I feel certain - I always think that nerves and anticipation are (weirdly I guess)  all part of it (well at least they are for me - and I punt every month - and have never lost this) -

 

Anyway, I just wanted to wish all the very best for next Saturday and hope you just have a fantastic, fabulous time - all I know is that the ladies I have seen are just the kindest and nicest women and just want me to have a fantastic time regardless of how I perform and feel sure your lovely lady will be just the same.  

 

All the best mate! :)

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Oh gawd.

I've still got till next Saturday for my first punt/sexual encounter in over 4 years but nerves seen to be getting to me in the worst possible way.

I can't seem to keep it up for long :(

Normally when looking at anything erotic etc I could maintain a good hard one for a good amount of time. Now it's limp at best :(

I know their is more to a meet than just penetration but this is just getting me more stressed :(

Watching some of her porn scenes probably hasn't helped either.

Fingers crossed I can find a way to relax and get back to normal :)

Abstinence makes the dick grow harder....

 

true story.

 

Good luck dude. Stay off the porn and self love, you'll be ok. :D

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If you're planning to go on a run of ladies from here on in there's no shame in taking half a Viagra to make sure. Once done you won't require it again and your confidence will be restored.

 

Good luck... but opening Pandora's Box again as I did will lead you into temptation for ever more. :D

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Hope you rise to the occasion and hope she is not a dud provider

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Im sure you will be fine trust me a girl will not be fussed if it doesnt rise to the occasion plenty of other activies one can do x

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2 hours

Then my advice is sound!

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Don't worry about it but have a think how you might handle the situation if you're struggling - part of the worry may be dealing with the situation.

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Just to relay something that happened a couple of punts in to my punting career... It was during a bit of a rubbish punt which led to a failure on my part...

Before my next punt I invested in some Levitra from Lloyd's online pharmacy as I really didn't want the same thing to happen, and it had started to play on my mind. I took the tablet about an hour before the punt which went fantastically well, so much so that I didn't use the tablets again, but kept them with me just in case! I still have 3 of the pack of 4 tablets stashed away...

Now I knew there was no underlying medical reason, as I'd not long had a full MOT at the docs, I took the tablet purely for my own peace of mind and found it took the worry of failure away.

I'm not saying you should go down this route, as generally I'm not a believer in taking medication unnecessarily, but you may want to bear it in mind. I wouldn't recommend taking anything without consulting your doc first though...

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I'm just going to go with the flow and try not to get too stressed this week :)  

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Just to relay something that happened a couple of punts in to my punting career... It was during a bit of a rubbish punt which led to a failure on my part...

Before my next punt I invested in some Levitra from Lloyd's online pharmacy as I really didn't want the same thing to happen, and it had started to play on my mind. I took the tablet about an hour before the punt which went fantastically well, so much so that I didn't use the tablets again, but kept them with me just in case! I still have 3 of the pack of 4 tablets stashed away...

Now I knew there was no underlying medical reason, as I'd not long had a full MOT at the docs, I took the tablet purely for my own peace of mind and found it took the worry of failure away.

I'm not saying you should go down this route, as generally I'm not a believer in taking medication unnecessarily, but you may want to bear it in mind. I wouldn't recommend taking anything without consulting your doc first though...

 

My first meeting failed too so next time half a Viagra and all went great. :)

 

I knew it was purely nerves and have never used them since. Same girl so proves the point.

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Like Burty and FS, I've got a supply of Levitra & Cialis for nerves related issues. I was just suggesting SirP go without this time as he may not need them at all.

I tried Viagra and had major hot flushes so wouldn't personally take them again. That's just me, millions of guys take it.

Personally, Cialis and Levitra both in 20mg form then quarter them with a sharp carving knife. Something with a bit of weight makes it much easier.

Levitra is faster acting and very impressive, Cialis is longer acting and would be perfect for an extended or overnight booking. I had minimal side effects with both Levitra and Cialis compared to Viagra.

Again, I recommend SirP that you have a natural punt this time to ease yourself back in. Relax and you'll be OK. These tabs do help if you need them though.

I remember having a debate with a lady of this board who rightly took me to task once for recommending ED meds. She believes most men only suffer nerves/anxiety which can be overcome.

Anyway SirP, don't dwell on what if's!!! You're going to have an amazing time on Saturday then come running back here to tell us it went perfectly! Think POSITIVE :D :D :D :D

DG

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Well after seeing the footage of Ariana Grande in that white dress at the MTV awards I can confirm everything is working normally ;)

Think I was just a bit under pressure over the weekend

Reading the lady's latest review has got me all in the mood :)

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Well after seeing the footage of Ariana Grande in that white dress at the MTV awards I can confirm everything is working normally ;)

Think I was just a bit under pressure over the weekend

Reading the lady's latest review has got me all in the mood :)

Excellent news!

Remember, NO self love, self indulgence, DIY or whatever other euphemism you can think of for wanking! ;)

We want you randy as fuck and raring to go on Saturday.

DG

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SirP,

Just to say I hope you have a great time today!! Pop in soon and tell us it went well :D

DG

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All confirmed for today.

Had a scare when it took all day for her to reply but all good. Address easy to find which is always good news :)

Just hope the fecker plays ball and doesn't coat her throat too soon ;)

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Good luck SirP.  :)

 

Hope all went well.

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OMG!!!

It went so well I think I may call it a day a go out on a happy note ;)

Time will tell

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OMG!!!

It went so well I think I may call it a day a go out on a happy note ;)

Time will tell

Glad you had fun!

So there may be 2 ex punters in the not too distant future then??

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OMG!!!

It went so well I think I may call it a day a go out on a happy note ;)

Time will tell

Glad it turned out well :D Why not book the same lady for a repeat?

DG

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I think a return visit early next year is 100% on the cards

Such a lovely girl. Booked 2 hours and was there for almost 3 . Great intelligent conversation, spent more time talking and DFK which was great. Quite scary as she's around 12 years my junior but would put me to shame with her knowledge :)

Old cliche I know but she's the kind of girl I'd like to meet outside of a commercial sex arrangement. (Pigs will fly)

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