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I could be wrong, of course but during my latest forays into the parlours of Birmingham, it does seem that the 'Reverse Massage' is off the menu. I used to love returning the compliment, and really exploring the body of a lovely massuese, particularly on a table with either oil or powder. Perhaps I'm too coy to ask, and maybe they think it prolongs the proceedings over the allotted time, but It certainly set the scene for me. These days, it's all a bit wham, bam thankyou M'am..any thoughts or experiences on the 'Reverse?'

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Yes love it and you get a full hours worth of action and more!!  I don't see many ladies doing massage on a table. Its the best in my opinion.

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Many years ago a reverse massage used to be my usual way of starting a session.

 

The girls thought it was money for old rope and often suggested it themselves.

 

I realised some weeks ago that I had slipped out of that routine a few years back without even realising it.

 

So perhaps you are right and it has fallen out of favour with the SPs, which would be understandable if people took advantage of it too often to pry.

 

I would be surprised if it is a city-specific trend though.

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If a girl turned down a massage she must be off her rocker, there ends the sermon!

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But nowadays lots of people have seen porn massage videos and in those the male massage is expected to explore sub-cutaneously elbow or balls deep...

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But nowadays lots of people have seen porn massage videos and in those the male massage is expected to explore sub-cutaneously elbow or balls deep...

balls deep is a fuck not a massage lol. All a girl has to say is a gentle one would be lovely thank you 

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balls deep is a fuck not a massage lol. All a girl has to say is a gentle one would be lovely thank you 

Well I know this, Chloe...

 

But since when has the niceties of terminology stopped rampant men showing disrespect to women and going too far?

 

When you have as much experience of the world of sexual encounters as i have ...

 

:D

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Well I know this, Chloe...

 

But since when has the niceties of terminology stopped rampant men showing disrespect to women and going too far?

 

When you have as much experience of the world of sexual encounters as i have ...

 

:D

So turning your back on a guy gives him the chance to go too far? In that case there will be no rubbing of cocks with bum cheeks and we should all be walking out the door to stash the cash backwards. I dont think that can be the reason surely? Its probably because so many guys give shite massages and assume they are meant to be aiming for the bone. 

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Well obviously it gives him the chance but not the permission but not sure I was saying anything to do with that.

 

Your post didn't really seem to chime with what I had written.

 

Men can watch so many massage videos where the male massager's hands wander and explore and I bet there are very few where the lady being massaged doesn't end up being fingered or fucked and looking as pleased as anything.

 

It seems almost inevitable some men will look to enact this scenario out in real life.

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On top of her hourly fee for massage, there is one WG charging an extra tenner for the client to massage HER!

How mad is that!?

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On top of her hourly fee for massage, there is one WG charging an extra tenner for the client to massage HER!

How mad is that!?

P

That would be me then :) I hope I can clear this up a little.

 

I charge extra for a couple of things because I offer a very simple massage and hand relief service at £65 per hour, which I think is a very reasonable price for a service that puts me at risk of outing to my friends/family, stalkers (which I have encountered so badly I had to move house and make a whole new working persona) and even physical threats like robbery and rape from less discerning punters than yourself.

 

I wouldn't be comfortable doing anything more intimate than a massage and hand relief for that price, especially not reverse massage. It is a very intimate thing to have a stranger's hands all over me (anywhere except my pussy is allowed) and whilst 6 times out of 10 it is indeed a very pleasurable experience, it sometimes isn't as some customers aren't always gentle, respectful or hygienic! It also makes me feel very vulnerable as I am quite small and not very strong so lying down on my front on a table and allowing a stranger free reign over my body and trusting them to respect my (very clear) boundaries is quite a risk, they could quite easily overpower me!

 

As somebody above also said, a lot of the time guys take it to mean "you can finger me", "you can kiss my body" etc which I am certainly not comfortable with. Like I said, about 6 times out of 10 it works out and it's a lovely experience, but the other 4 times it ends up with guys trying to finger me, and a guy just the other day thought "massage me" meant "lick my ass crack" even though I had clearly stated my limits. For the 6 out of 10 good times, i'd be happy including it for free, and I don't tend to charge my regulars for extras as I know they'll behave, but on those 4 times out of 10 that it results in my boundaries being violated, i'd rather have a little extra to show for it. But I am just a masseuse who does a couple of extras, not a full service escort, so my limits are much more strict. Why a full service escort wouldn't want a massage I have no idea! I think it makes more sense to look at my service as a massage with a few optional extras like hand relief, reverse massage, prostate massage etc where you can pick and choose which extras you want and add them all together rather than an escort who charges for time and whatever you do in the time is included.

 

I can totally understand why some people think it's ridiculous for me to charge extra for a service that should bring me lots of pleasure, but while a lot of the time it is pleasurable, it very often can be a scary, uncomfortable and painful experience which results in me feeling violated when some idiot takes 'massage' to mean whatever else. I hope i've cleared it up a little?

 

Thanks,

Luna.

 

P.s. This isn't particularly relevant but I am currently in the process of setting up a new location to work at where I will be able to charge less for all my services (because my out of pocket expenses will be much lower) and i'll also be able to do half hour bookings which will be half the price. So my current pricing structure will soon be replaced by cheaper one :)

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