Ocdmad2014

Anxiety/confidence Related Ed

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Hi i am 28 years old and suffer from Anxiety but not for sexual related reasons, however due to my past problems it means i have not got much experience sexually so i lack alot of confidence which does cause a amount of anxiety related performance problems to,

 

Are some Escorts appropriate for this sort of problem? Anyone in my position tried a Escort for this problem?

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Some escorts will be of course, but you will need to try and relax or else it wouldn't be an enjoyable experience. It might be best to book 30m to see how you get on, explain your situation, and then book a longer session if you like her and feel she could help you. And perhaps don't think about having full sex straight away?

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Hi there,

 

Here are hopefully a few helpful tips

 

1/ Practice makes perfect, if at first you don't succeed, try and try again.

2/ It's normal to be anxious, try and look on it as a positive though, you  know the butterfly feelings of anticipation before hand can be half the fun.

3/ depending on the type os ED there are things to help get you over the worst of it until you've learnt that nothing nasty is going to happen (unless you're into that ;-)  )

                If you're too quick, try one, and I do mean just one glass of wine/1/2 pint of beer

                If it just won't get up, then viagra etc will help and is easy to order online from any reputable pharmcay in the UK (Superdrug, littlewoods, boots) with pretty much zero embarrassment.

                If you uise viagra and you're too quick, bear in mind Viagra will slow youdown, then try the glass of alcohol above.

4/ As Kay says make sure the escort knows when you book, and there are some out there who specialise in lessons. Here I would suggest going for the more experienced ones, as they are more likely to not only have seen it beofer but sorted it out before, just watch out for thepatronising ones, as that really doesn't help. This girl does the type of thing you're looking for, I haven't seen her so can't vouch for her service, but she does have a couple of good reviews around. http://curiouslands.co.uk/tell-me-more/

 

Finally I would suggest you try to go in with the attitude that if nothing happens, it is nothing to worry about, we're all rubbish to begin with and anyone who says different has a nose like Pinocchio.

 

 

 

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Hi i am 28 years old and suffer from Anxiety but not for sexual related reasons, however due to my past problems it means i have not got much experience sexually so i lack alot of confidence which does cause a amount of anxiety related performance problems to,

Are some Escorts appropriate for this sort of problem? Anyone in my position tried a Escort for this problem?

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communication with the escort before the meeting is vital, tell her your issues & concerns

Be open and honest. Also check her feedback to see if others have posted the same

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I don't think you are alone. The topic has been mentioned here before. Have a search. I would do so but am short of time just now. If I have time later I will certainly take a look

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