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Phone Blocked But Not For Doing Anything Bad!

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Would you say this is a bit over the top?  I am not too concerned as there are plenty of nice ladies but a few months a go I saw a lady and she chatted for 20 mins but didn't want to sit next to me!  Then she insisted I showered although I was spotless and then she called time with only 15 mins of fun time.  I thought these were tactics but I sent a nice email saying thanks and that she was a nice person however to come again I would want more fun time and less chat time seen as this is the reason we guys come and see you!!  I thought Id try her but I think she has taken offence and blocked the number.  Are you wg offended by any negative comment although what I said wasn't negative just stating a fact, or are you happy to take it on board?  Its not as if I was aggressive I was very polite. In all industries if its a fair comment then we all take on board ways to improve don't you think?  I have had some nice times with some nice ladies but as times has rolled on I can now spot when a lady is playing for time and she was that's for sure! 

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Ah yes I remember the thread about her.What I don't understand is why you would want to rebook her after a crappy service.Would I be offended by your email probably not but it was evident that neither of you were into the booking so why would she want to see you again?Strikes me that you should just move on and stop worrying about whether she has blocked you or whatever.

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You are quite right Bibi although she is fairly local and I thought I would give her the benefit of the doubt but at least I know what she is like so yep you are right move on and she has done me a favour and saved me some money.  My regulars are perfect so great thanks for the advice.  The emergency cock service is not required I am back to being Dr Jackel again or should that be the other way round! :)    

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Thats a bit of an overreaction, perhaps she was having a sensitive moment lol. 

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Would you say this is a bit over the top?  I am not too concerned as there are plenty of nice ladies but a few months a go I saw a lady and she chatted for 20 mins but didn't want to sit next to me!  Then she insisted I showered although I was spotless and then she called time with only 15 mins of fun time.  I thought these were tactics but I sent a nice email saying thanks and that she was a nice person however to come again I would want more fun time and less chat time seen as this is the reason we guys come and see you!!  I thought Id try her but I think she has taken offence and blocked the number.  Are you wg offended by any negative comment although what I said wasn't negative just stating a fact, or are you happy to take it on board?  Its not as if I was aggressive I was very polite. In all industries if its a fair comment then we all take on board ways to improve don't you think?  I have had some nice times with some nice ladies but as times has rolled on I can now spot when a lady is playing for time and she was that's for sure! 

If I had any negative issues with an escort I would certainly not consider a re-booking!

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 however to come again I would want more fun time and less chat time seen as this is the reason we guys come and see you!!

 

Whilst blocking you would seem to be an overreaction, this bit ^^^^^^ reads as slightly passive-aggressive so I can understand how someone might interpret your email as a bit 'snarky'. It is worth remembering that the written word can lack the nuances of spoken conversation and the sentiment behind the words can be open to misinterpretation.

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She probably thought "oh shit, that bloke I saw the other week that I couldn't stand is trying to book me again. Surely he got the message that I wasn't into him? I'm going to block him". 

If she spent that much time avoiding touching you in a booking, she wasn't into you for whatever reason. It could be that she just didn't like you, or she just hates the job.

Whichever it is, forget about her and move on. 

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Oops double post!

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She probably thought "oh shit, that bloke I saw the other week that I couldn't stand is trying to book me again. Surely he got the message that I wasn't into him? I'm going to block him". 

If she spent that much time avoiding touching you in a booking, she wasn't into you for whatever reason. It could be that she just didn't like you, or she just hates the job.

Whichever it is, forget about her and move on. 

 

Unlikely as not a controversial type of person laid back easy going.  She used to be a model of some kind so perhaps she thinks she is too high for people requesting what's on offer!  Yes I get the impression she doesn't overly like the job.  Forgot about her already. Only seen her twice so no issue. Good luck to her!!!  The thing is not too take what we do too seriously. There has got to be a laugh and a bit of fun with the sex and when you start thinking about how much play time are we going to get, will she say times up it sort of takes the fun out it.   

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Whilst blocking you would seem to be an overreaction, this bit ^^^^^^ reads as slightly passive-aggressive so I can understand how someone might interpret your email as a bit 'snarky'. It is worth remembering that the written word can lack the nuances of spoken conversation and the sentiment behind the words can be open to misinterpretation.

 

Point taken but if that's aggressive then yes she is in the wrong job as she will get far worse!!!  I don't think us guys need to be shy as to  what we want as long as we are polite and respectful!    

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From the initial statement, she comes across as having some issues....... or you might not have told the whole story.  Which begs the question: why do you want to see her again?

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Absolute truth Annabelle - It was Friday night, dark and damp outside I was on my own, no contact from my regulars so I was after a cock emergency so had to settle for you porn instead Ha ha LOL!! So she was a last resort before you porn so she would certainly block me after realising she was a last resort!  At least I am honest!! :) I am about 70 miles from London so I couldn't contact you Annabelle.

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Just forget her and move on

More and better lady's out there

If she was not able to make you feel comfortable then she's a bad WG IMO.

Creating a warm, safe and relaxing atmosphere is more important (to me anyway) then the actual sex.

God I am a fluffy. And I love it :)

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Absolute truth Annabelle - It was Friday night, dark and damp outside I was on my own, no contact from my regulars so I was after a cock emergency so had to settle for you porn instead Ha ha LOL!! So she was a last resort before you porn so she would certainly block me after realising she was a last resort!  At least I am honest!! :) I am about 70 miles from London so I couldn't contact you Annabelle.

 

Honesty is best!!!!  As everyone said, you moved on and can now look into places that have a higher competition and where girls are keen on delivering and not messing around.

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Lets take things out of the punting context.Say you went to a resteraunt and told them you thought their service wasn't up to scratch and the food was a bit crappy,would you try to book a table again?

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Lets take things out of the punting context.Say you went to a resteraunt and told them you thought their service wasn't up to scratch and the food was a bit crappy,would you try to book a table again?

That's a very good analogy. I would not return to a who had poor food and crappy service. However I would tell anybody who asks how poor it was.

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Lets take things out of the punting context.Say you went to a resteraunt and told them you thought their service wasn't up to scratch and the food was a bit crappy,would you try to book a table again?

 

This reminds me of a place I used to go until one day, prior to meeting some friends nearby, I had my drink spiked in this place.  As I am a slow drinker, it took me 2h to finish my liqueur and all of a sudden I passed out.  I quickly told the guy near me to call the security guys though and grabbed my bag and the bar in order not to fall.  I went back to the place though 3,4 more times as the company closed it: not sure because of me or other people who had similar experiences.....

 

Aren't I resilient? ha ha

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Point taken but if that's aggressive then yes she is in the wrong job as she will get far worse!!!  I don't think us guys need to be shy as to  what we want as long as we are polite and respectful!    

 

See I don't think you were particularly aggressive and I actually haven't blocked a single person thus far but if someone offered me "constructive criticism" about our meeting (especially in a message after the fact) I would probably ask them not to contact me again. Partly because I find it in bad taste to say something like that, partly because that's the kind of communication that is a game changer in client-escort relationships for me - the whole atmosphere takes a nosedive and I can't imagine either party would be enthusiastic to meet the other. I'm not saying you did anything bad, just my personal sentiments. And it's a subjecttive industry.

 

If she's blocked you, she's done you a favour from following your dick into a dog's dinner again (for too short a period of time :))...

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See I don't think you were particularly aggressive and I actually haven't blocked a single person thus far but if someone offered me "constructive criticism" about our meeting (especially in a message after the fact) I would probably ask them not to contact me again. Partly because I find it in bad taste to say something like that, partly because that's the kind of communication that is a game changer in client-escort relationships for me - the whole atmosphere takes a nosedive and I can't imagine either party would be enthusiastic to meet the other. I'm not saying you did anything bad, just my personal sentiments. And it's a subjecttive industry.

 

If she's blocked you, she's done you a favour from following your dick into a dog's dinner again (for too short a period of time :))...

 

What a colourful metaphor, but not one to explore too deeply perhaps!

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As in the immortal words of the stormtrooper to Luke Skywalker and Obi Wan Kenobi...

"Move along, move along"

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What a colourful metaphor, but not one to explore too deeply perhaps!

Could be the British version of American Pie :)

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 if someone offered me "constructive criticism" about our meeting (especially in a message after the fact) I would probably ask them not to contact me again. Partly because I find it in bad taste to say something like that, partly because that's the kind of communication that is a game changer in client-escort relationships for me

That's really interesting, CC. I've never told a girl that I'd be back if only she would....and, honestly, it's usually something fairly innocuous, like not have such a killer grip or insist on giving me services which I'm not that into. I've been to see some otherwise great escorts whom this applies to, but do you think I'd offend them if I said it?

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That's really interesting, CC. I've never told a girl that I'd be back if only she would....and, honestly, it's usually something fairly innocuous, like not have such a killer grip or insist on giving me services which I'm not that into. I've been to see some otherwise great escorts whom this applies to, but do you think I'd offend them if I said it?

The examples you gave particularly the killer grip are things you should deal with on the actual booking not after.I.E 'Ooh ease your grip a little softer please love'.

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The examples you gave particularly the killer grip are things you should deal with on the actual booking not after.I.E 'Ooh ease your grip a little softer please love'.

Did that - took no notice whatsoever

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