Horny Clark

Partner/wife Wg Etiquette

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Hi all, new here. I have used escorts in the past albeit very occasionally, but not since I've been married (12 years ago). I am looking to visit one again - don't know if this will become a frequent thing or maybe just something I need to get out of my system, as I am happily married and nearly everything at home is perfect. Just that sometimes a man needs that certain something that only an expert can provide. Anyway, I think I I can manage my own feelings (nervousness, guilt, etc) but just wondering how WGs feel about clients mentioning that they have a wife at home. Does it bother them or change the way they treat their clients in any way?

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I though a huge percentage of guys have a wife or a partner, some even a mistress, ha ha.... besides misbehaving in this 'environment'.  :)

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I always take is as a given that clients are married. Makes no difference to me - I'm not husband hunting, and it's not a date.

If clients want to talk about their private lives I'm happy to listen, but most don't, and I wouldn't dream of asking about a customer's marital status - they sure don't owe me any explanations. There must be other subjects to chat about on an assignment with a sex worker?

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I always assume a guy is married too as they make up the majority of my clients I think. Plus of course there is the wedding ring or the white mark left when you take it off and hide it in your glove box. Bit of a give away. To be honest I dont meet many guys nowadays who are fussy about not mentioning the "we" word. WE just came back from OUR cruse. WE had the kids home last weekend. WE just moved house. Ive been MARRIED for 40 years and WE never shared a shower together. THE WIFE doesnt really do sex anymore etc etc

 

Just little things like that give it away you know  :D . It doesnt bother me in the slightest. Some of my regs chat happily about home life, I do too, its called being Human.

 

Where IS BeingHuman by the way, not seen him for ages on here, such a nice guy  :(

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I think one of the great joys and pleasures of visiting a WG is her sense of discretion, tact and understanding - at least that is true of the ladies I have visited.

 

To be honest I have never been asked about my private life in a direct and upfront kind of way - its not that they don't care either - and to be fair neither do I of them.

 

I have to say though that with my regulars we talk about all manner of things including asking after my kids and family - its all very natural and caring - so I wouldn't worry in the slightest on that front - to be honest I sometimes think that WG's understanding of discretion is just like any other profession where discretion and confidence are paramount - and even more - I think WG's could teach many a profession about the importance of discretion and confidence.

 

Also if I could just say - I never feel judged or condemned or anything like that - I just find the ladies very accepting of who I am - which is a lovely thing to experience. .

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I cannot recall any escort ever asking about my marital status. I think most just presume that we are all married and playing away from home.

 

As others have said, the really good escorts (and that includes most of those who post here) are far too discreet to ask and are not really bothered. To them our arrival is just the start of a commercial transaction.

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I am sure you working girls are not bothered by married or not!  But is the wg married??  Other things I used to think about should one keep their ring on!  I also think about how many punters are in an open relationship where their partners are happy for them to see wg?  Not many I guess!!! 

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I am sure you working girls are not bothered by married or not!  But is the wg married??  Other things I used to think about should one keep their ring on!  I also think about how many punters are in an open relationship where their partners are happy for them to see wg?  Not many I guess!!! 

Quite a few are, but I would not expect them to boast about it.I have seen a good many who wear a wedding ring.

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Thanks for all the replies guys and ladies. Never even thought about the ring!

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Thanks for all the replies guys and ladies. Never even thought about the ring!

It's how the telephones used to sound before these bloody mobile things came along!!

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I though a huge percentage of guys have a wife or a partner, some even a mistress, ha ha.... besides misbehaving in this 'environment'.  :)

 

Apart from we sad, lonely old widowers who only see you ladies for the purposes of "replacing the sexual side of things" that we once had ?  :wacko:  ;)

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In agreement with the other women, a large majority of clients are married or in a long term relationship.  I never ask, but many offer this information and it doesn't matter to me a jot. Although in some ways married men are often good clients because they are more likely to be well behaved and discreet and not pester for non paid dates/shags! !

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Apart from we sad, lonely old widowers who only see you ladies for the purposes of "replacing the sexual side of things" that we once had ?  :wacko:  ;)

 

You should not call yourself that: I am sure you have the brain that a 20 years old 'boy' would have to wait decades to acquire (If that), besides the manners, style and intellect I find so attractive.  And I am not the only one who thinks so!!!!  I always knew whose company I prefer. 

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I am sure you working girls are not bothered by married or not!  But is the wg married??  Other things I used to think about should one keep their ring on!  I also think about how many punters are in an open relationship where their partners are happy for them to see wg?  Not many I guess!!! 

To be honest it shouldnt bother either party wether the other one is married or not. I dont ask questions as to the marital status of my clients but plenty have asked me

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Looking to visit a WG on Friday night, although getting a response through the AW system is proving tricky. Been a long time since I did this and was feeling a little uneasy, but the comments here have really helped so thanks again. I'll let you know how I get on.

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Really none of my business....but some want to talk and that's fine.

 

Why is AW proving tricky for you?

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First time using it and the WG has read my email but not responded and hasn't accepted my booking. No calls either. She has amazing reviews so maybe I'm just unlucky in this case. Does anyone know if they generally ignore users with no feedback due to time wasters? If she can't see me that's fine, it's the not knowing that's the problem, especially as this a new experience for me (after so long anyway)

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First time using it and the WG has read my email but not responded and hasn't accepted my booking. No calls either. She has amazing reviews so maybe I'm just unlucky in this case. Does anyone know if they generally ignore users with no feedback due to time wasters? If she can't see me that's fine, it's the not knowing that's the problem, especially as this a new experience for me (after so long anyway)

It's probably the fact you have no feedback.

I tend not to reply to many emails from people with no feedback as a lot of the times it's time wasters like today I had a guy message me with no feedback wanting an outcall but he apparently only had £30 but promised to pay the full rate next time... Yawn.

So I'm guessing it's down to the 0 feedback usually that is the case, but if your email comes across as genuine and you don't seem like a timewaster in what you say I see no reason for someone to reply.

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First time using it and the WG has read my email but not responded and hasn't accepted my booking. No calls either. She has amazing reviews so maybe I'm just unlucky in this case. Does anyone know if they generally ignore users with no feedback due to time wasters? If she can't see me that's fine, it's the not knowing that's the problem, especially as this a new experience for me (after so long anyway)

It probably is the lack of feedback, but some wg's don't like to receive a booking request without checking availability first - so if you did that it could be another reason for a no response...

Although to be fair if that's the case she should give details of her preferred booking procedure on her profile.

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She got back to me and the booking is confirmed. No going back now lol

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She got back to me and the booking is confirmed. No going back now lol

Glad you got your booking and good luck hope it goes well for you.

 

On the feedback front - we all once had no FB and my advice is if the introductory email is sincere and genuine then most ladies will respond even if FB is ).

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You should not call yourself that: I am sure you have the brain that a 20 years old 'boy' would have to wait decades to acquire (If that), besides the manners, style and intellect I find so attractive.  And I am not the only one who thinks so!!!!  I always knew whose company I prefer. 

 

Maybe a much younger brain in my head that it's true age, Annabelle :) .

However, the main problem for me these days is that my "smaller brain" lower down, seems to have lost the ability to "keep up"  :( with the thoughts and aspirations of the head on my shoulders  :wacko:

Manners, yes  :D  -  Style and intellect, maybe not  :( . After all I am a born and raised YorkshireMan.  ;)

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I don't have any feedback and have never asked for it.

 

My recent regular told me that her friend's clients asked if she could get some extra feedback for them. Although she has never done the deed with them herself, on the genuine confirmed recommendation of her friend she did it to help them out. She too got feedback in return. The girls aren't daft and know the score. :)

 

A polite, well worded email saying and asking the right things will most likely get you a response as has been said on here at different times. Decent girls can work things out for themselves from initial contact and coded feedback can often go against you.

 

Just my 5 pennyworth.... ;)

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Maybe a much younger brain in my head that it's true age, Annabelle :) .

However, the main problem for me these days is that my "smaller brain" lower down, seems to have lost the ability to "keep up"  :( with the thoughts and aspirations of the head on my shoulders  :wacko:

Manners, yes  :D  -  Style and intellect, maybe not  :( . After all I am a born and raised YorkshireMan;)

 

I know some Yorkshire guys living in London for many years who are so proud that most of the guys in top positions in the City are head strong Yorkshire men  :D

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I don't have any feedback and have never asked for it.

 

My recent regular told me that her friend's clients asked if she could get some extra feedback for them. Although she has never done the deed with them herself, on the genuine confirmed recommendation of her friend she did it to help them out. She too got feedback in return. The girls aren't daft and know the score. :)

 

A polite, well worded email saying and asking the right things will most likely get you a response as has been said on here at different times. Decent girls can work things out for themselves from initial contact and coded feedback can often go against you.

 

Just my 5 pennyworth.... ;)

 

When I joined AW, I did not spent much time on it and did not really know how it worked but the first to ask me for a feedback was a guy I met, saying that he will write a feedback in return.  I then met lots of guys who asked for this.  Also what I noticed there is that certain guys never write reviews, then they write reviews for a girl for example who has reviews for every single meeting: you then realise she must be giving them discounts in order the guys to repeatedly do the same thing all the time.  Anything is possible.

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