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Preferred Venue?

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So what kind of venue do you prefer, ladies and gents? I have been using hotels since starting and I do find it stressful. Checking in, as I tend to use the same few hotels local to me, I feel they must be wondering why I am there so often. Then the housekeeping staff to dodge. Other than those stresses the hotel venue is quite good for other reasons, security being one, towels and bed linen being plentiful. But I had one gent last week who had never been to a hotel before. He had previously been in touch with me but when I had told him I was in a hotel he declined to see me but then had a change of heart and booked. He felt he didn't like the hotel experience though. I have been looking for a working flat and think taking all into consideration this should be the way to go. But I would like to know what you all feel comfortable with.

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My own house is by far my best venue for me and my "best girl" to get together, as I know she likes it and relaxes and enjoys herself here  :D.

Sadly, I'm moving on soon, as it's far too big for just a retired widower and his dog, but I very much hope that she and I will "christen" every room of my new house, in the fullness of time  :P.

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I much prefer a working flat over a hotel. I spent a large part of my working life staying in hotels of varying standards and prices allover the northern hemisphere. If I never visit a hotel again I shall be a very happy bunny! I have visited many flats from the seedy to the opulent.

 

Give me a private flat any day. No need to think of an excuse when passing through reception; no guilty feelings; no scuttling out after the event with a satisfied air all over my face.

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I like the wg coming to my hotel, which is a good thing seeing as I've been single handedly propping up the hotel trade of the North West this last couple of months! ;) I'm not as keen visiting a hotel a wg has booked as for some reason I feel more awkward than if I've booked the room myself...

Between an incall to a wg's apartment / house and a hotel room booked by the wg, I prefer the former.

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I would not be too concerned about working from a hotel CC - provided you cause no disturbance they are unlikely to care one way or another why you are using a room in their hotel frequently.

From a client point of view I really don't mind if we are talking a flat or hotel. A hotel has the advantage of feeling like a neutral ground but if a provider feels happier in her own familar flat and that works for her thats fine to, It's what you do with the time not where it is which makes the occasion good or not.

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Ive only had one guy call me then say he doesnt like coming to a private flat but several phone and say they dont like coming to a hotel. Saying that though, the vast majority really are quite happy with either flat or hotel so long as its all clean and discreet. I wouldnt worry too much really. 

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Always preferred a hotel or a guy's flat.  I can then 'make all those noises that surprise me thinking: was that me?' and let him deal with his neighbors, ha ha

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I prefer an incall at the escorts flat although I have been tempted to do the whole outcall to hotel experience.

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I prefer an incall at the escorts flat although I have been tempted to do the whole outcall to hotel experience.

Don't know about others but I find it a completely different type of punt, although the end result is hopefully the same :)

There's definitely something different about checking in, having a shower and chilling out before the wg arrives and either knocks at your door or contacts you to go and meet her.

Different again if you both arrive and check in (and out) together!

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Not fussed as long as its clean, comfy and fit for purpose (ie nice bathroom, bed linen.............)

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My favourite is an outcall to my own hotel room if I'm away and already booked in, though I have booked specifically for a punt now and again and checked out a few hours after checking in - seemed very furtive!

Otherwise visiting a girl's hotel or flat equally ok as a rule, probably hotel being slightly preferable as i can arrive nice and early and relax and have a large red wine and savour the thoughts of what's to come/cum

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I used a nearby hotel for my first meeting but prefer to use my own place if possible. Everything is here and it's clean and comfortable.

 

Not so sure about it with someone I don't know or if it was an agency girl using a driver (never done it to date), but as my 'punting' is very limited it makes for a relaxing environment and my companion feels safe and secure. I like that. :)

 

Away days? Not taken the plunge there yet but would prefer a half decent hotel so I can shower, have a small 'shandy' and chill beforehand. Nipping in and out of an anonymous flat isn't really my scene.

 

I think I am too spatially aware for this lark.  :unsure: 

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Ahh the thrill of trying to find he flat, not ring the wrong buzzer or look like a punter waiting outside her door.

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I enjoy both in-calls - to the lady's own flat/apartment or if she uses a hotel - outcalls to my hotel either central London or Manchester.

 

My favourite venue is a flat where I feel really at home and comfortable in or an working apartment which is safe and discrete.

 

I stay in nice hotels and book a spacious room and I enjoy a lady visiting me.

 

The quality of the venue plays a part in my decision to return - nice shower, comfortable, and just an ambience which I enjoy - simples.

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Probably prefer an in call to a flat/house whether that be the lady's main residence or is rented for purpose!  I don't mind hotels though and as a punter becomes a serial abuser her tends to get more confident so you just breeze through reception, shoulders back and appear confident.  Ok when you first go to a hotel and meet an escort you may be a nervous, a wobbly sweaty wreck but you are not going just for the sex anyway so why worry!! :)

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I can then 'make all those noises that surprise me thinking: was that me?' and let him deal with his neighbors, ha ha

 

Just the sort of reason I prefer to visited in my own, well sound proofed, home.  :D  :wub:  :ph34r:

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Until about 3 years ago, I would have said incall of any kind over anything else.

 

Now that's still what I have most experience of with the relatively new element of visiting serviced apartments adding to the mix but I have spread my wings to become pretty cool with visiting an SP's hotel.

 

I don't do hotels in my non-punting life (I'm too dull) so the visit is an experience in itself such as when early and sitting around in the cafe area and people watching.

 

I won't do outcalls to my home just because the town is too small and the extra cost unwelcome.

 

Outdoors tickles my fancy but when SPs say they know a good place and I later refer back to it they always seem to have forgotten where they are.

 

But from the SP point of view, first and foremost it will depend on what she simply prefers. If it were me, I would go the serviced apartment route rather than element of possible problems that could occur with a hotel.

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But from the SP point of view, first and foremost it will depend on what she simply prefers. If it were me, I would go the serviced apartment route rather than element of possible problems that could occur with a hotel.

 

As a second best to my own home, I like the serviced apartment thing  :) .

 

As I'm going to be "homeless" for a while between moving out of my present house and my anticipated new one being completed, "my best girl" and I are going to try a short let of a "holiday cottage" about half way between her home and my present one. I'll report back next year, I hope, on how this works out. 

 

She seems quite happy with the idea, and has even offered to cook for us !!!!!   :wub:  :D

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Just the sort of reason I prefer to visited in my own, well sound proofed, home.  :D  :wub:  :ph34r:

 

I guess you do not live in London then: small flats, desperate for sound proofing but with so many crazy neighbors, owners prefer to move further out of London and do the works you have described.

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I guess you do not live in London then: small flats, desperate for sound proofing but with so many crazy neighbors, owners prefer to move further out of London and do the works you have described.

 

I lived in a Victorian terraced house a few years back and my partner at the time was 'very vocal'. I always got a knowing smirk the day after from both male neighbours and glares from their wives. :D

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We once lived in a Victorian terrace and you could hear everything through the chimney breasts. Next door were very vocal, it kept us awake at night. I am sure they could hear us also as I t was like dogs barking in the neighbourhood, one started the other off we now live in a modern house with excellent sound proofing. Much less interesting.

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I lived in a Victorian terraced house a few years back and my partner at the time was 'very vocal'. I always got a knowing smirk the day after from both male neighbours and glares from their wives. :D

 

I used to live in such a building: the Irish neighbor upstairs was having it with his girlfriend and bringing other birds at the same time waking me up at 7am when returning from clubbing.  The young German bankers who just moved to London were having parties every weekend up to midnight, the Iranian drug addict at the back kept watching Big brother up to 3am.  It was a nightmare living there and I was the quietest, not even seeing anyone as I was too depressed after ending a long relationship.  Yet, they were all gossiping about me all kind of nonsense.  

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My apartment.  My bed, my bedroom, my sofa, my desk, my shower or up against the wall of any room but especially by the panorama window of the lounge :)

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I used to live in such a building: the Irish neighbor upstairs was having it with his girlfriend and bringing other birds at the same time waking me up at 7am when returning from clubbing.  The young German bankers who just moved to London were having parties every weekend up to midnight, the Iranian drug addict at the back kept watching Big brother up to 3am.  It was a nightmare living there and I was the quietest, not even seeing anyone as I was too depressed after ending a long relationship.  Yet, they were all gossiping about me all kind of nonsense.  

 

 

Neighbours are strange things and as I move home a lot I can't say I've ever had that relaxed 'chat over the fence' type experience. Because my job is in this line I am always being asked favours to repair this or that plus the usual 'do you want that bit of wood' type comment. I will of course do what I can for them.... but as soon as a new lady comes to visit or stay over the jungle drums start to rumble.

 

People are always quick to make up stories which bear no resemblance to fact, often based on envy. Not so good for a lady but flattering for me especially if she is a stunner half my age who simply comes round to work on my books. Sometimes I like to draw the bedroom curtains straight away just for the hell of it! :D

 

Double standards and innuendo are alive and well Annabelle! :)

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Almost always an incall. I have occasionally visited a lady in a hotel if she happened to be working from one. More rarely have I invited a lady to a hotel where I have been staying, but only if I have seen her at her place a few times before. Never at my home.

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