Behem17

What Gets In The Way Of Your Punting?

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When you feel like going to see an escort but can't - is it money, a commitment (family, work), waiting at home for a delivery, an 'occasion', doing jobs at home, a sporting event you want to watch, the weather, traffic - how do you feel? Do you feel unsettled, discomfited, angry or do you go quiet and don't speak much? I just wondered how other people felt. Sometimes, I feel some of these and sometimes none. I don't plan my visits too far in advance because it takes away the fun a bit, for me, but I usually have a vague idea of when I'm going and it's become very 2 weeks - it's gone up from once every 4.

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Family commitments usually - my wife and kids are my 1st, 1st and 1st priorities.  Otherwise it's having to work late on days I want to book a cheeky post-work hour.  

 

I feel a little bit disgruntled - understandably - when this happens, but like you Behem I've got a fairly well-established routine of a booking every 10 days to 2 weeks.  This is enough to keep me happy, off the porn and with a healthy wallet.

 

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Family commitments usually - my wife and kids are my 1st, 1st and 1st priorities.  Otherwise it's having to work late on days I want to book a cheeky post-work hour.  

I feel a little bit disgruntled - understandably - when this happens, but like you Behem I've got a fairly well-established routine of a booking every 10 days to 2 weeks.  This is enough to keep me happy, off the porn and with a healthy wallet.

You've got your priorities right, sticko. I do sometimes think about how much more I would have in the wallet if I didn't practise our hobby and then I think well, how much do other guys spend on their cars, football and other pastimes - we men do seem to have hobbies, unlike most ladies. What's the reason for that? I don't know.

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When you feel like going to see an escort but can't - is it money, a commitment (family, work), waiting at home for a delivery, an 'occasion', doing jobs at home, a sporting event you want to watch, the weather, traffic - how do you feel? Do you feel unsettled, discomfited, angry or do you go quiet and don't speak much? I just wondered how other people felt. Sometimes, I feel some of these and sometimes none. I don't plan my visits too far in advance because it takes away the fun a bit, for me, but I usually have a vague idea of when I'm going and it's become very 2 weeks - it's gone up from once every 4.

Opportunity for me.

I do plan my punts in advance, I have 3 lined up and enjoy the anticipation in the run up to the date of the punt. It's nice to have a couple booked in as when one's over I've got the next to look forward to :)

Sometimes I really feel like a punt on a particular day but have no opportunity, other times I might feel like a punt and have the opportunity but the wg I want to see isn't available which I find frustrating. Once I make my mind up to see a particular wg and I can't see her I don't bother with a plan B.

Because I only see regulars at least I know when I book in advance I won't be let down and 99.9% of the time I'm raring to go. Works for me anyway.

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Simple truth

 

1st. the ££££

 

2nd. Not finding any escorts that i would want to spend/waste my hard earned cash on. I'll only punt from now on if i deem that the escort is worth the punt. No longer will i punt for puntings sake like i did when i first started. 

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Time!!!

Fortunate to have a very good circle of friends and the majority of spare time is taken up with good food and drink at the ready!!!

Tbh, its lifes simple pleasures that i enjoy most...whats not to like about good company, good food and great sex!!!!

And when time permits, i'm a sucker for a long lingering lunch/dinner.

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Yep... just keeping it all under control. :)

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Spare cash and mood.

 

If I were a millionaire, I'd have a harem! That'd probably mean i wouldn't stay a millionaire for long...hmmm

 

I wanna be a zillionaire instead then!

 

:)

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Yep... just keeping it all under control. :)

 

Spare cash and mood.

 

If I were a millionaire, I'd have a harem! That'd probably mean i wouldn't stay a millionaire for long...hmmm

 

I wanna be a zillionaire instead then!

 

:)

That's my problem too - trying to keep it under control. If I were a millionaire it might be too easy and i'd get bored.

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Since Auntie retired (I had been retired for several years before her) my opportunities have been severely restricted. Money is less of an issue as I'm only a once a month punter.

I've local evening opportunities a couple of evenings a week and further afield during the day if Auntie herself goes further afield for shopping or relly visiting or so forth.

I generally manage to slake my lust without any great problems.

It's very much what someone else said many years ago: "Careful planning yields perfect punting"

Uncle Pokey

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^ +1

On the spur punts are not worth it IMO

Same as plan b,c etc

Have 1 plan and if that fails have a shandy instead

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I like that quote very much "Careful planning yields perfect punting" - I punt once, sometimes twice a month but always plan ahead - never spur of the moment - and anyway I enjoy the planning ahead, setting it up and then the delicious anticipation of the day....I never have a plan B, for me its all or nothing (weird I know) and as with all my hobbies punt out of my disposable income...not sure what would prevent me from punting - a national grid failure, tsunami or getting stuck in traffic but I often ride my motorbike to a punt so that puts paid to getting snarled up in traffic.

 

 

 

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I like that quote very much "Careful planning yields perfect punting" - I punt once, sometimes twice a month but always plan ahead - never spur of the moment - and anyway I enjoy the planning ahead, setting it up and then the delicious anticipation of the day....I never have a plan B, for me its all or nothing (weird I know) and as with all my hobbies punt out of my disposable income...not sure what would prevent me from punting - a national grid failure, tsunami or getting stuck in traffic but I often ride my motorbike to a punt so that puts paid to getting snarled up in traffic.

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The perfect mixture of optimism and determination. Commendable, kind sir! ;-)

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Optimistic is the only way to be (and not just in this world) in my book...

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I live a lonely existence staring out of the window, hoping the guy on the other side will talk back. But I know if I book a punt in an empty diary by the end of the day three important meeting will appear for that slot. So, I like to book two weeks in advance and this seems to solve the problem.

Hopefully

Probably

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It's 5 weeks since my last punt.  There are a few issues getting in the way of me punting soon - although I'm feeling in the mood today!.  Firstly, my libido is lower because of my prostate cancer treatment.  Secondly, I've still not got myself back on track after stopping seeing my regular last July because I was developing feelings for her.  Thirdly, it was her telling me about her new toyboy that made me see the reality of punting and, out of pride I suppose, I would rather have sex with a woman who is attracted to me and not my money.  The obvious candidate is my wife and I'm trying to address this with the help of the MMSL book and forum that another member told me about.  The advice here and which I agree with is first of all to stop paying for sex so that I channel all my sexual feelings towards my wife.  I may find it easier said than done!    

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I live a lonely existence staring out of the window, hoping the guy on the other side will talk back. But I know if I book a punt in an empty diary by the end of the day three important meeting will appear for that slot. So, I like to book two weeks in advance and this seems to solve the problem.

Hopefully

Probably

 

 

Such an honest post Lessingham and worthy of a 'manhug' if I knew where you were. Accept a virtual one instead eh? :)

 

I think many of us have been there in our lives, including myself when overseas. Fortunately right now I'm surrounded by mates and family but I know one day this will be my ultimate scenario. It doesn't mean we are not worth knowing as people... just a place where some of us will wash up.

 

All the more reason to appreciate the girls/ladies that see us and who instill some of that self belief we lose for all manner of reasons! They know it's often about far more than just getting their kit off and having sex and what is at the root of the GFE they offer.

 

Ok... a bit too thoughtful for a 'punter' forum but there ya go. ;)

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Money. That's it, really. 

Edited by bill carson

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Finding the time, the opportunity, the right lady in that order.

Fortunately, for me, finding the cash is never a problem!

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Simple truth

 

1st. the ££££

 

2nd. Not finding any escorts that i would want to spend/waste my hard earned cash on. I'll only punt from now on if i deem that the escort is worth the punt. No longer will i punt for puntings sake like i did when i first started. 

 

+1.

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I've never had the urge to just go looking purely for a 'punt' and this helps me keep everything under control. I enjoy sex rather than need it. It makes finding the right companion much more difficult of course but that's half the fun for me. Not much different to my previous civvy sex life really. :)

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Work!! Nothing else

The best girls only seem to be available during the week and i work late and late evening apps never go well. Will try to fit in half days off with one.

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Work!! Nothing else

The best girls only seem to be available during the week and i work late and late evening apps never go well. Will try to fit in half days off with one.

 

I doubt that is accurate.  'The best girls' that suit you maybe and are not 'the best' to another punter, for example.

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I doubt that is accurate. 'The best girls' that suit you maybe and are not 'the best' to another punter, for example.

Yep of course i can only speak of myself not the whole punting community!!

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