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Somebody's At The Door.

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What's it like to be on the other side of the door? I know how it feels for me, and more than likely I can speak for some other girls. Waiting behind the door for the knock wondering who is going to be on the other side. We will have had the phone chat and I will have created an image of who that person is, it's never how I imagined they would be. Working in hotels I like to get the door open ASAP but I always have a little peek through the spy hole, but that only gives a distorted view of my visitor and tells me nothing. I must say mostly I have been pleasantly surprised, once or twice a little disappointed and once or twice blown away. I know some ladies have full face pictures on profiles, I do not and nor do I send one. So I suppose those gents who visit me are taking a gamble that I am at least passable. How do you men feel visiting someone for the first time, are you nervous that the lady will fall short of your expectations in the looks department or is it the whole package that is more important?

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To be honest I worry more that they are going to fancy me not about if I will fancy them! I guess I worry more that they might be a nutter! 

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I can see them coming through my window, no surprises for me. If I see a group of two or someone staggering I wont be letting them in from the street let alone the flat

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Wow... I reckon there will be widely varying views on this one!

 

It's interesting to hear the feelings of an escort because I have always thought about his very aspect of her 'job' myself. What will they think? Am I their type? Will I feel welcome? Insecurities on both sides I guess but of course more so if either party is new to the situation.

 

For me I have not visited a girl without seeing a face first, but wouldn't let it bother me too much if I saw the word 'attractive' or similar in believable feedback. Of course we all have our own idea of what that attractiveness might be! Personally I often quite like 'quirky'.

 

I'm a bit unusual however and rely on a gut feeling about someone and beauty isn't necessarily what I seek. If the phone chat went well and she sounded nice I would go with an open mind knowing that I might not her first choice to have sex with either!

 

As Lydia adds... I'd worry more about his state of mind and what he has plans to do with you! :)

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It's a good few months since I saw a new wg for the first time, but I've always tended to research thoroughly by reading reports & feedback. As such I've yet to be disappointed, and on the last few occasions I've been gobsmacked, and not in a bad way!

A high proportion of my bookings have been outcalls to my hotel, so I am usually tempted to have a peek through the spyhole! ;)

I'm always a bit bothered when I go to a wg's place for the first time that I'm actually knocking on the right door - I have a dreadful sense of direction!

When seeing regulars I never make requests about what I want them to wear so there's always a sense of anticipation as to how she'll answer the door if it's an incall, or what she's wearing underneath her 'normal' clothing on an outcall.

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If I was punting blind.. Then I guess a certain apprehension might apply. However how many punters go totally blind into a punt these days? Well except me as I do tend to go for quick sessions so I am blind as to what is on the other side of the door. I walk if it is not what I like though!

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It's always a thrill to see her for the 1st time

How much does she look like her photoshopped photos

But more importantly is she smiling as soon as she sees you, check the eyes as more difficult to fake

Couple of times I should have walked as the face said it all but wasn't so savvy and was thinking it won't be that bad ;)

Always more concerned that as she opens the door scantily clad a neighbour will walk past

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but I always have a little peek through the spy hole

 

I put my finger over the spy hole when visiting hotels [which some on here will vouch for lol].

Sometimes I have my eye right close up to the spy hole and bling a few times. :blink:

 

That way, we are both seeing each other face to face for the first time without a spoiler alert :ph34r:

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I'm always apprehensive, but excited whenever I meet a lady for the first time regardless of in-call out-call. ;)

 

I have walked away on a number of occasions over the years, where either the WG was a bait n switch or they didn't offer services I'd requested and pre-agreed over the phone/email.

 

I would hope most WG's who have worked in the industry a while would be able to suss a punter out over the phone and even through email for signs of weirdness and or aggression. I have heard some weird stories, some of which were quite scary to hear!

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It can still make me nervous and if I do meet someone I am very attracted to I get very excited indeed!!  I guess we all have a picture in our heads what a lady looks like.  We see their bodies etc with a blurred face and we are trying to put a face to the picture.  Luckily most ladies I have seen have been fine well more than fine quite often.  I guess it surprised me on how so many attractive ladies are doing this but the money is good for the time it takes to sort us I mean me out!!     

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What's it like to be on the other side of the door? I know how it feels for me, and more than likely I can speak for some other girls. Waiting behind the door for the knock wondering who is going to be on the other side. We will have had the phone chat and I will have created an image of who that person is, it's never how I imagined they would be. Working in hotels I like to get the door open ASAP but I always have a little peek through the spy hole, but that only gives a distorted view of my visitor and tells me nothing. I must say mostly I have been pleasantly surprised, once or twice a little disappointed and once or twice blown away. I know some ladies have full face pictures on profiles, I do not and nor do I send one. So I suppose those gents who visit me are taking a gamble that I am at least passable. How do you men feel visiting someone for the first time, are you nervous that the lady will fall short of your expectations in the looks department or is it the whole package that is more important?

 

I dislike when things go wrong and I hate being put into the position where the lady does not substantially match the photos and I can be a bit anxious about that. I'm here to relax and have fun and if the lady has fooled me then I do get despondent as I don't want a scene. I will probably stay unless there is a major problem. Being fooled shows a lack of respect. When the lady exceeds her profile, its a great feeling. I do get nervous if there are other people in the incall  and I like to be re-assured on that.

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I would not make a booking without seeing a few photos. They do not need to include the face but I like to have an idea of body shape/size.

 

I love the surprise of seeing what the lady has chosen to wear in order to show herself off to best effect. Sometimes it happens to be very little!!

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I put my finger over the spy hole when visiting hotels [which some on here will vouch for lol].

Sometimes I have my eye right close up to the spy hole and bling a few times. :blink:

 

That way, we are both seeing each other face to face for the first time without a spoiler alert :ph34r:

 

I have punted over 20 times in hotels and that never happened to me but if it happens i won't open the door.

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I can imagine it being pretty nerve-wracking for indies but as a man who has done this for so many years I just take everything in my stride.

 

Yes, I realise there is a certain sadness in a certain loss of excitement but pretty inevitable eventually I would have said.

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I imagine that for the ladies what concerns them is getting a well behaved and clean client rather than the appearance or any physical characteristics.

 

That's a funny one Chloe - glad you live in a flat with security at bottom - you would get concerned though if you had some drunk at the bottom buzzing away and determined not to go away

 

do you use your home to operate?

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I imagine that for the ladies what concerns them is getting a well behaved and clean client rather than the appearance or any physical characteristics.

 

That's a funny one Chloe - glad you live in a flat with security at bottom - you would get concerned though if you had some drunk at the bottom buzzing away and determined not to go away

 

do you use your home to operate?

I would be amazed if any escort would answer that question on a public forum.

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I imagine that for the ladies what concerns them is getting a well behaved and clean client rather than the appearance or any physical characteristics.

 

That's a funny one Chloe - glad you live in a flat with security at bottom - you would get concerned though if you had some drunk at the bottom buzzing away and determined not to go away

 

do you use your home to operate?

Have you not read on here that I have children?? No of course I dont work from my home and I never shall for as long as my children live in my home. To be honest lancy, having a drunk buzzing furiously on my buzzer would be far preferable to a drunk knocking on all my neighbours doors by mistake or staggering around my apartment getting belligerent towards me because I wont fuck him. Thankfully so far not a single guy has ever arrived like that apart from one guy for duo who was so nervous he had a few measures of dutch courage before he arrived but he wasnt staggering so was let in. Only when sat on the bed naked and he was swaying a bit did we ask him "have you been drinking" which is when he explained that it was the only way to get the nerve up to actually arrive ...he was fine though. 

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I would be amazed if any escort would answer that question on a public forum.

there are plenty of ladies who work from home and have been happy to say  so on here during past discussions about it. 

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