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Is It Acceptable To Pay A Part Of The Fee At The End?

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What I'm getting at here is when an escort has a list of services and some have been agreed before with her client. Would it be acceptable to say to the girl, "Can I pay you extra for such and such at the end if you actually do it?" So, let's say, for instance, that a particular service is included in a booking and 1 hour costs £150, if I say to the girl, "I'll give you £20 extra, at the end, on top of the 150, if the service you say you do is the service you actually do." I always pay the whole price up front and have most times found the escort hasn't done one of the things we've agreed on beforehand.

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Also, has anyone else found this to be the case? I'd like to hear what some of the WG's on here think, as well, obviously. Would it be rude? By the way, I'm talking about a very specific service, not something like, "If you do it well" or "if I like you."

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If I were you I'd be thinking about the impression you're making by asking.

Is it going to set the ambiance of the meeting off to a natural flow or is it going to trip the ladies w*nker detector and cause the proceedings not to proceed before they've even proceeded so to speak.

 

CG

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I only charge extra for anal and I ask for that up front. I do however put my fee away and leave the money for the anal on the table in the bedroom so that if it happens I can take it and if it doesnt happen he can take it back. I wouldn't trust someone to say "can I pay you for it at the end even if they showed me their wallet as having it and handing it over even if you gave them the service are two different things entirely. If you want her to trust you then you have to trust her. Pay her then after she has come back to the room say that you would like the extra service and put the money on the side table and ask her if what Ive described above is okay. If it isnt then thats between you two to sort out lol

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It's a complicated situation that demands a full answer:

 

 

 

No

 

 

 

(even if you said something like i will happily pay an extra £30 afterwards if when it comes to it you are OK doing anal, I still think the norm would be to have the money close by and give it before this activity starts)

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There's no way I would trust or go ahead with a booking with someone who wants to pay part of the fee after he booking.

He could walk out or do the "I've forgotten my wallet" trick it's just not safe, my clients I ask usually to leave the fee on the table or if they give it to me I leave it visible as well.

I think it also comes across as a bit rude to want to pay after the whole deed is done I would avoid anyone like that.

Most businesses and places you pay upfront and I think that's how it should be. I don't charge extra for any of my services and even if I did I would expect the client to pay upfront and we agree there what he wants in the booking.

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There's no way I would trust or go ahead with a booking with someone who wants to pay part of the fee after he booking.

He could walk out or do the "I've forgotten my wallet" trick it's just not safe, my clients I ask usually to leave the fee on the table or if they give it to me I leave it visible as well.

I think it also comes across as a bit rude to want to pay after the whole deed is done I would avoid anyone like that.

Most businesses and places you pay upfront and I think that's how it should be. I don't charge extra for any of my services and even if I did I would expect the client to pay upfront and we agree there what he wants in the booking.

I agree, however when it comes to extras then its not part of the main fee I think its fair to leave the extras cash on the side as they dont always happen

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I don't charge extra for any of my services and even if I did I would expect the client to pay upfront and we agree there what he wants in the booking.

 

Exactly. If the service is part of my "list", then no extra is needed. If the service isn't in the list, then it's NO. Do you remember that you pay for our time, not for our services ?

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I don't charge extra myself but I'm puzzled as to why you are not asking for the extra back if the service was not given?Or if you have done why it hasn't been given back?Maybe the easiest option is to see a lady where it is all inclusive if this is an issue.

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I agree, however when it comes to extras then its not part of the main fee I think its fair to leave the extras cash on the side as they dont always happen

I do agree with that if I charged extras I would do so.

Exactly. If the service is part of my "list", then no extra is needed. If the service isn't in the list, then it's NO. Do you remember that you pay for our time, not for our services ?

Agreed! Payment should always be upfront no matter what. X

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I don't charge for extras because I will only advertise what I will actually do and what I like doing. Anal for example or CIM is on my NO list and will not do it even if for extra money. Also, I couldn't be doing with the faffing. One price for X amount of time keeps it simple. 

 

However, I wouldn't be doing anything if I was asked if he could pay part the fee afterwards. I'm afraid in this game you have to treat all clients like that because of a few who do take advantage of escorts. It's nothing personal if a woman does ask for all up front. 

 

My advice to the OP is to select his escorts with more care. Good escorts do do what they say they will and if for some reason can't do something they have asked extra for they will happily return the money. 

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Uber no from me. If you don't get around to certain things within the time allotted because you're doing other things that's tough.

 

I could never go in with a list of 'wants'. If I did however I'd go back next time and start where I left off.

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If you have already paid her the £150 you may as well be done with it and pay the extra £20 if for example she said £20 for A level.  If she doesn't give you your A levels or you feel it wasn't satisfactory you just don't turn up again or you email the lady after the meeting and say thanks but I would like a better A but if you ask for what you really want you may get blocked!!! Trust me is happens!!!!! Some ladies think you are there for a chat and a cuppa tea!!!!    

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I agree, however when it comes to extras then its not part of the main fee I think its fair to leave the extras cash on the side as they dont always happen

 

Exactly. If the service is part of my "list", then no extra is needed. If the service isn't in the list, then it's NO. Do you remember that you pay for our time, not for our services ?

 

I do agree with that if I charged extras I would do so.

Agreed! Payment should always be upfront no matter what. X

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Thank you all for the suggestions, especially the ladies. That's very helpful. I think I've got a plan for next time. Here's the scenario - I've experienced similar many, many times, by the way. An escort or agency advertises herself as providing COF. I enquire - yes, is the answer. Cost all in £150 per hour. It turns out that it doesn't happen. I only 'find out' at the end (obviously), despite trying to confirm at the start of the booking and often during! She's in control, by the way. So, from what you are telling me, ladies, have I got it right? I pay the 150 up front, as per usual, but tell her that I'll give her an extra 20 at the end and just to make sure she believes me, I put the 20 on top of a table or somewhere and leave it there if she does or pick it up if she doesn't.

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My first time escort encounter, I offered the money at the start, she shook her head and carried on with the meeting.  I paid at the end.

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Some ladies think you are there for a chat and a cuppa tea!!!!    

 

Sorry, we're not that naive :)

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I only charge extra for anal and I ask for that up front...................

That's rather novel!......

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That's rather novel!......

 

Now that is funny.   :D

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Thank you all for the suggestions, especially the ladies. That's very helpful. I think I've got a plan for next time. Here's the scenario - I've experienced similar many, many times, by the way. An escort or agency advertises herself as providing COF. I enquire - yes, is the answer. Cost all in £150 per hour. It turns out that it doesn't happen. I only 'find out' at the end (obviously), despite trying to confirm at the start of the booking and often during! She's in control, by the way. So, from what you are telling me, ladies, have I got it right? I pay the 150 up front, as per usual, but tell her that I'll give her an extra 20 at the end and just to make sure she believes me, I put the 20 on top of a table or somewhere and leave it there if she does or pick it up if she doesn't.

I still wouldn't mention the 'giving it to her at the end' malarkey. What's best is that you enquire at the beginning of the appointment as to whether or not she'd do [whichever service costs extra], saying 'if I decide I want it then I'll sort out the extra cash just before we do', or words to that effect, and make sure you have the extra in a handy place so then it'll only take a few seconds to grab, and then you'll both be happy. I don't charge extras, but the only thing I can personally relate to is when a client shows up and asks to extend at the beginning. I say okay, but give me the extra when we go past our original time, because I'm aware that things can change and you may want to leave after the time you booked for anyway. That enables them to relax and not feel like they could be ripped off should they change their mind again, but allows the flexibility to extend should they so wish.

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Now that is funny.   :D

 

It made me laugh!

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There used to be lovely lady in Bracknell, she was from "Sweden" though I always suspected Poland.  Accent much more Slavic than Swedish, but I digress.

 

She became a bit of a regular because it was £40 for the first time, £60 for the second and however hard she tried, on the occasions that the second time wasn't happening (because she'd done me in during round 1) I got a refund.

Come back please Nina!

 

I wouldn't have dreamed of asking, if you want "keep your powder dry" suggest you offer the extra during the appointment for whatever service it is, but see above for my advice.

 

CG

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That's rather novel!......

 

Beat me to it !!

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If I were paying £150 for an hour of whatever sexual services I wanted.. Then no I wouldn't pay any extra.. as I would have discussed this before the session.. Having said that in just over 28 years of punting I have the majority of times paid after the event and rarely before!

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A large part of any punt is "trust". This works both ways, but doing as the OP suggested starts the whole meeting off on the wrong foot, so to speak. If you have selected your escort with what the corporate bods call "due diligence" you should find that you get what you want.

 

Choose very carefully and be prepared to risk the small proportion of the fee in order to keep relations on an even keel.

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