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strong erections on a punt

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Getting a strong erection, holding on to it,etc --- is something that preoccupies many punters.Leaving aside the obvious points about health, stress, age etc, why is it that even independent of these factors, sometimes a strong erection is easy and trouble free whilst other times it can be a bit of a struggle ?Has it got something to do with the quality of the particular punt experience, something that is not necessarily obvious ?

I say this because yesterday evening I had a ' body to body ' massage and from very early on I was 'up and running'. whilst the girl was good looking and had a great figure,she was no better than many other ladies with whom I have spent very enjoyable full service sessions. I have asked myself why was this experience so ridiculously good and powerful ? the answer I think is a combination of the beauty of the girl, the ambience of the room but most importantly her lovely warm personality .By her demeanour, she made it very clear that she was there to please,happy to do so and knew how she was going to achieve success. I was there to relax and be sensually pampered.

Now before any ladies here say " ffs I do that !! " [ and I'm sure many do ]--- that level of relaxation combined with heightened sexual pleasure is not ,certainly in my particular experience, something which I have come to expect . it is a bonus and magical when it happens.

I am interested to hear from others whether they achieve this easy and heightened sexual arousal in circumstances perhaps not directly related to a particular favoured sexual act ? what causes it for them ? from the ladies' perspective, do you have trusted ' tricks of the trade ' that you can rely on to produce the strongest erection possible for a client ?--- is there any common thread ?

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Getting a strong erection, holding on to it,etc --- is something that preoccupies many punters.Leaving aside the obvious points about health, stress, age etc, why is it that even independent of these factors, sometimes a strong erection is easy and trouble free whilst other times it can be a bit of a struggle ?Has it got something to do with the quality of the particular punt experience, something that is not necessarily obvious ?

I say this because yesterday evening I had a ' body to body ' massage and from very early on I was 'up and running'. whilst the girl was good looking and had a great figure,she was no better than many other ladies with whom I have spent very enjoyable full service sessions. I have asked myself why was this experience so ridiculously good and powerful ? the answer I think is a combination of the beauty of the girl, the ambience of the room but most importantly her lovely warm personality .By her demeanour, she made it very clear that she was there to please,happy to do so and knew how she was going to achieve success. I was there to relax and be sensually pampered.

Now before any ladies here say " ffs I do that !! " [ and I'm sure many do ]--- that level of relaxation combined with heightened sexual pleasure is not ,certainly in my particular experience, something which I have come to expect . it is a bonus and magical when it happens.

I am interested to hear from others whether they achieve this easy and heightened sexual arousal in circumstances perhaps not directly related to a particular favoured sexual act ? what causes it for them ? from the ladies' perspective, do you have trusted ' tricks of the trade ' that you can rely on to produce the strongest erection possible for a client ?--- is there any common thread ?

The attitude of the lady makes or breaks the punt for me, and if she is friendly, smiley and seemingly up for it, this gets me going. If she is then able to push the correct buttons with or without my input, its full steam ahead into esctasy. So for me i achieve my arousal through how i am treated, being rushed or told i dont do such and such although it had been agreed she did when i arranged the punt is an instant passion killer as is a miserable lady.

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For me, it's all to do with preparation. If she ends up being as/more attractive as her photos, and I haven't masturbated for a few days, I've got a hard-on that won't quit. A bit of viagra ensures that my recovery time is short enough to fit two shags in one hour.

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For me its personality. if the girl is desperate not to be there or preoccupied, it is very hard to hide this for a whole hour, the slightest look in the eyes and its hard to keep going. thats whwy the best punts i had were with girls who were genuinely excited to be there, or at least fantastic actresses :confused:

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Perhaps it has a lot to do with the old idea of "chemistry"; some people just react well to each other, and some don't, for reasons which might or might not be apparent. I always regard my cock as being a bit like a boisterous dog; it does what it wants to do, and if that happens to be the same as I want it to do, that's just a big bonus (or should that be a 'big boner'?).

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I agree with Smiths on this one l have had some good punts and bad ones.The good ones my penis will go hard after a bit of foreplay or a bit of touching like playing with the ladie's breasts with her permission of course that tends to get me going and vice a versa.The bad punts where the girl has a bad attitude and puts on the condom when the penis is soft.Sasha and Sam in Soho have been some of my good punts they are warm and friendly and quite humourous and very good at what they do.

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Perhaps it has a lot to do with the old idea of "chemistry"; some people just react well to each other, and some don't, for reasons which might or might not be apparent. I always regard my cock as being a bit like a boisterous dog; it does what it wants to do, and if that happens to be the same as I want it to do, that's just a big bonus (or should that be a 'big boner'?).

Precisely! you don't get an erection your cock does. It decides. It makes no difference how badly you might want one. Some women realise this and have a way of communicating directly or even indirectly with your cock which makes him very happy to see her.

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i hadsome regular sex as oppossed to pay as u go the other week.the workmate i shagged boasted to a female freind of mine,''omg! his cock was amazing!it was sooooo hard''!

gotta love that cialis lol!

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Since i sorted out my foreskin and used the tlc tugger it has helped a lot getting erections l wasnt circumsised but has a bit of a short foreskin this increases blood flow to the penis.

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i hadsome regular sex as oppossed to pay as u go the other week.the workmate i shagged boasted to a female freind of mine,''omg! his cock was amazing!it was sooooo hard''!

gotta love that cialis lol!

It is actually quite painful if it is too hard so don't overdo the Cialis!

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I agree with Smiths on this one l have had some good punts and bad ones.The good ones my penis will go hard after a bit of foreplay or a bit of touching like playing with the ladie's breasts with her permission of course that tends to get me going and vice a versa.The bad punts where the girl has a bad attitude and puts on the condom when the penis is soft.Sasha and Sam in Soho have been some of my good punts they are warm and friendly and quite humourous and very good at what they do.

Also agree with Smiths & Matty. Sometimes rock hard with foreplay - nice tits and sexy smile with girls who are up for it. Like Nattalie of Lille st 06-07/Surbiton/Thornton Heath 08 and recently with Roxy of SohoCottage/Uxbridge who seem to get me off in 3-4 minutes sometimes.:confused: Maybe its just the chemistry or press the right buttons for both of us but then if I'm stressed out it can take a normal amount of time - dimmed lights help you concentrate and not talk to much. If I wake up with a hard on then I know its going to be a good "Whoopy day". :D

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Never had a problem. Once we are undressed, or kissing, or whatever, off it goes on its own and usually far harder than at home. I think it must be the newness, naughtiness(as in one shouldn't actually be there) and excitement doing it as it is the same every time.

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I find that if i really fancy the girl then my dick is on autopilot, anything less then a hand on the controls might be called for.

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thanks,i never got that.First couple times i got a bit of a migraine but am suseptable to them.However glad to dsay that has not happened lately.I really like ''the weekender''.

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A cock has a life of its own in a sense and can be unpredictable. I'm sure the time of day, weather, what I've eaten recently are all factors.

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