Jonnybgood

Nothing Lasts Forever.

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Well it looks like 5 years of fun and games with my regular girl is coming to an end.

I've always enjoyed time with her but not our last 3 meetings, the last being the worst.

I always book well in advance, 1 or 2 weeks ahead of our meetings, normally for 11am. This last time, I suspect, she had just arrived back from an overnight meeting, she was wearing street clothes, her hair needed a wash and she wasn't exactly fresh. She does travel a lot, so she may have just got back from the airport. She had changed our meeting from a Thursday to a Wednesday at short notice.

The meeting consisted of, kissing, cuddling and a blow job, not much return for £200.

Don't know if she's getting fed up with me, the job or just getting complacent.

I'm a very easy going guy as far as the ladies go, I don't get upset when advertised services are no longer an option for instance, life is too short but I think its time, even for me, to call it a day and start playing the field again, just not very happy about it.

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Why don't you talk to her about it?

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'They shoot horses don't they?'.........................

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Did you see her for five years because she was that good? She was conveniently located? Or it simply saved the hassle of finding new ladies?

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Tell her what you want and if she wants your money she will have to up her game! You are paying for a service so first thing to expect is someone that's

clean and if a lady wasn't clean I would expect a refund same as if I wasn't clean then a lady wouldn't want to sleep with me!! You have known her 5 years so you should be able to communicate with her. If she gets funny she isn't worth it. I have found out to my cost some of these ladies are not worth it! Some are off course but I am like you easy going but its time to start protecting your money and if you and I are going to do this we need to get service we deserve. If I am not happy now I am going to say. Have once and got blocked but as long as I am not rude and what I say is genuine and true then I will go with it.

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She is sounding a bit overwhelmed, depressed or stressed, if she is not longer paying attention to hygiene and appearance. I'd tackle the problem tactfully, along the lines of "I'm getting the impression you're no longer particularly pleased to see me - anything I've done to upset you?" This should warn her that you're about to walk. If she doesn't try harder next time, I'm afraid I'd move on.

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I don't give second chances.

Let's hope you'll receive more kindness and tolerance when YOU need it.

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I think some girls do get a bit complacent once they see you as a regular and in the case of the OP a 5 year stint is good going.

A change is as good as a rest so they say and having a break from regular meetings with her for a few months could well work wonders.

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yeah just give it a rest for a bit... maybe its the 1 week / 2 week advance thing... she cant be expected to organise her whole life around a £200 meeting... of course she's in business etc etc... but even so... 2 weeks advance... thats a long time...

 

just move on... like you say nothing lasts forever... you can look her up again in a while and see how things are.

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If she is interested she will call you at some point. If she doesn't, then she has had enough of you.

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Sorry to hear that, but really does feel like some sort of emotional and physical bond you've attached onto this lady?

 

I don't know the history, but 5 years sounds like a long time to be seeing the same woman who's not your girlfriend/wife - reads more like a casual sexual relationship that's getting dry?

 

Perhaps now's the best time to move on and spend money with someone who cares.  Nothing like a breath of fresh air!

 

Of course everyone has their down days. These ladies so work hard and can get stressed, down, depressed. They're not always on their top game and only they can hide it for so long. Like others have suggested, if you do like her but feel she isn't up to it - best to be open and find some sort of resolution, at least know where you stand.

 

Good luck.

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In the nicest way possible I think it could be because she is getting fed up and doesn't want to make much effort.

Or she is just getting lazy, either way I think you should move on aswell. 5 years is a very long time and can come with emotional attachment.

Best to find yourself another nice WG who will actually make an effort and ensure you enjoy your time!

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If the first line of post #12 is true it is certainly time to move on. There has been much chat about ESA here recently. If I were you I would read that thread before you make any irreversible decisions.

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I have been having the same dilemma, been seeing a lady regularly on a weekly basis for most of this year, but the last few meetings have not been exciting sexually. Get the feeling she has progressively been making less effort knowing it was regular a regular booking. Time to move on, not going to have a debate with her on performance etc sounds like a drag to me. Will just find someone new to spend my cash on.

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The meetings after 2 years 3 years 5 years are perhaps never going to be as exciting as when you first met anyway.  Its a two way process and us punters will get bored as well not just the wg.  If you have seen someone for a few years and you still like them I have for example done a lunch date and that can  rekindle the fire.  Doing something different is the answer either something different with the same lady,  new lady or take a break or better still find a girl friend.  

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I've not seen anyone over that long a period, even though I've had many meetings with some wg's.

I suppose it's possible she's become a little complacent and taking you for granted? Maybe without realising it, who knows.

If you've been seeing her for that long you obviously like seeing her, and presumably her you, so if it was me I'd have a word along the lines of what Uschi said. If things don't improve and quickly then it might be time to move on.

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The meeting consisted of, kissing, cuddling and a blow job, not much return for £200.

 

 

If you put it like that, maybe not worth £200. Still, it it could be, the most magnificent and mind blowing kissing, cuddling and BJ. Obviously it was not for you, otherwise you would not complain.

 

I can't think of many WG's no matter how good they are, will constantly and every time "perform" well with same client for number of years, in the same settings (I assume its her incall place) in the same time at 11am (as you said).

Those meetings sounds like a bit of a drag, and nothing to be inspired by. Cumonce was right, when he said maybe some change of scenery required as well as some communication with her about your expectations. 

For example: what else did you expected on the last meeting? Penetrative sex at least? Why it did not happened? I can't see myself she did not let  you to. Probably more of the case, that you did not want to, or could not for some reason.

 

You posted a thread about 6 months ago : where I am certain you mention the same girl. It could be you both lost your "mojo" now for each other. She getting to complacent: meeting you when she is tired and not her best (did not even washed her hair), and you also become to inert with her, but still expecting that some elusive magic should happen on every meeting. It does not always work like that every time, even if you pay.

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Personally I don't understand why guys see the same escort several times never mind 5 years. I think the OP may need a break from the paid scene for a while and prioritise what you want from an escort.

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Personally I don't understand why guys see the same escort several times never mind 5 years. I think the OP may need a break from the paid scene for a while and prioritise what you want from an escort.

There's nothing to understand - The answer's really quite simple.

Some guys prefer repeat visits with the same escort to meeting a different one every time! I can't think of a single occasion where the first meeting has been the best with a given wg. Subsequent visits have always been more enjoyable for me.

Others prefer a different wg every time, whatever floats your boat.

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You posted a thread about 6 months ago : where I am certain you mention the same girl. It could be you both lost your "mojo" now for each other. She getting to complacent: meeting you when she is tired and not her best (did not even washed her hair), and you also become to inert with her, but still expecting that some elusive magic should happen on every meeting. It does not always work like that every time, even if you pay.

 

I agree with Xenia, you might have "habits" and routine with this WG and don't feel the same than you used to at the beginning. Time for a change perhaps ?

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There's nothing to understand - The answer's really quite simple.

Some guys prefer repeat visits with the same escort to meeting a different one every time! I can't think of a single occasion where the first meeting has been the best with a given wg. Subsequent visits have always been more enjoyable for me.

Others prefer a different wg every time, whatever floats your boat.

However diminishing return kicks in at a certain point. I have seen some but like 3 or 4 times over a 2 year period.

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There's nothing to understand - The answer's really quite simple.

Some guys prefer repeat visits with the same escort to meeting a different one every time! I can't think of a single occasion where the first meeting has been the best with a given wg. Subsequent visits have always been more enjoyable for me.

Others prefer a different wg every time, whatever floats your boat.

I agree with this but you have to admit 5 years is a VERY long time to be seeing the same WG.

Being in her company that long EAS could easily develop.

Think it's time he moved on and found someone who gives a better service.

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I agree with this but you have to admit 5 years is a VERY long time to be seeing the same WG.

Being in her company that long EAS could easily develop.

Think it's time he moved on and found someone who gives a better service.

True but if someone's going to get emotionally involved I'd imagine it'd happen in a lot less than 5 years. As mentioned above I've not been punting that long anyway but if I had been and was still getting along ok with a wg I don't think time would be an issue - as long as things didn't become stale. I'd agree that seems the case here and Jonnybgood was clearly not too happy with what happened. I suppose it also depends whether this was a one off (we can all have a bad day), or has been deteriorating over a period of time.

I do think when you see a lot of a wg as I have recently you tend to see a different side in that she acted more naturally and was a lot more open, as I was with her. Obviously some don't like that which is fair enough, I quite liked getting to know more of the real person behind the wg so to speak.

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However diminishing return kicks in at a certain point. I have seen some but like 3 or 4 times over a 2 year period.

Can't say I've noticed, although I've not seen the same wg for anything like 5 years, I have had something like 20 meets with the same wg in 3 months...

Obviously as in the OP diminishing returns can happen and if it does, move on. I'd still have a word beforehand though.

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