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I wonder how common it is in A. Punting B. In short term or one night stands and C. In longer term partnerships/marriages and D. when having an affair.

 

In A. We all know that it happens and many of us have been offered it and many of accepted it.

 

In B, how many of us would rubber up when offered such a thing? Why does the morning after pill exist?

 

C. Most or my friends (at a more senior age) are either sterilised/had the chop, use condoms or don't have sex.

 

D. I can't say it would be the first thing that would cross my mind if I were to have an affair!

 

Thoughts?

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I can only comment on C. My late wife and I had a long and mutually enjoyable sex life lasting over 50 years and I well remember when we no longer had to use condoms - we were at it like newly-weds!  

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A. Never been offered it. Or asked for it.

B. Never been offered one.

C. Yes, when Mrs. L. could be bothered.

D . Never been offered one.

I am just off to sit in this corner and cry over the sad history of my life.

On the plus side never caught the clap either

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I wonder how common it is in A. Punting B. In short term or one night stands and C. In longer term partnerships/marriages and D. when having an affair.

In A. We all know that it happens and many of us have been offered it and many of accepted it.

In B, how many of us would rubber up when offered such a thing? Why does the morniung after pill exist?

C. Most or my friends (at a more senior age) are either sterilised/had the chop, use condoms or don't have sex.

D. I can't say it would be the first thing that would cross my mind if I were to have an affair!

Thoughts?

A I'm sure it does happen, but it's not something I've been offered nor has it ever been suggested. Even with wg's I've seen many times and regularly.

B I don't do one night stands well haven't for a very long time, and these days only have sex with wg's. I can't imagine any circumstances which would lead me to go BB. That's not to say I haven't done it in my youth when such things were't really worried about. I suppose the really honest answer would be who knows until the situation arises!

C Whenever I've been in a long term relationship I've had unprotected sex with my partner, just not for a very long time!

D Punting aside, I can honestly say I've never had an affair or had sex with anyone else when I've been in a long term relationship with someone so N/A for me...

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The only times I've ever worn a condom have been with working girls.

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Thinking about A - I have never been offered it nor would I want to but on one occasion it very nearly happened. I was with a favourite lady who was multi-orgasmic. Her nipples were so sensitive she would have an orgasm if you sucked them which I had just done and she was in the throes of another. So she grabbed my penis and was going to put it straight in uncovered when I realised and stopped her.

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A Would never see an escort that had BB on her profile and if offered it I would leave and wouldn't be asking for BB!

B Never had a one night stand apart from see escorts but if I was in that situation I would have condoms readily available.

C In my long time relationship I do use condoms because my partner doesn't like the pill!

D Would still use condoms if in an affair situation although never had an affair. Would be concerned about getting lady pregnant even if I was 100% sure she was free of STD's. However if she was sleeping with other then would definitely use condoms so its a trust thing and it would take a lot to trust especially in an affair situation!

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Pulls out big bowl of popcorn and awaits a certain someone to complain about THIS  ^_^

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In punting I have always used a condom, and in common with Comeonce I would walk if it was offered

 

Have not had a one night stand in more than 30 years. Even then condoms were "de rigeur"

 

In my first marriage Mrs P was on the pill; I had had a vasectomy before my second marriage so no protection was required.

 

Never had an affair. (Always able to find an escort when necessary!).

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A. Punting - no, never BB'd, would not even consider it.  

B. ONS - yes, have usually BB'd but when women have insisted, I've used condoms.  

C. My marriages and long term relationships - have always BB'd (and still do).  

D. Affairs - have either BB'd from the start or used a condom first few times then gone BB.  If I'm having sex with a woman regularly then I expect BB sex, it's part of the intimacy of a relationship.

 

I'm from the generation where I discovered sex at the same time girls were first using the pill, so BB was normal, and that has obviously affected my attitude.  Wouldn't go BB with working girls though.

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Oddly enough i have never gone bb under any circumstances.I come from a family that breed like rabbits.Considering myself nowhere near grown up or responsible enough for children it has never been an option for me.

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I wonder how common it is in A. Punting B. In short term or one night stands and C. In longer term partnerships/marriages and D. when having an affair.

 

In A. We all know that it happens and many of us have been offered it and many of accepted it.

 

In B, how many of us would rubber up when offered such a thing? Why does the morning after pill exist?

 

C. Most or my friends (at a more senior age) are either sterilised/had the chop, use condoms or don't have sex.

 

D. I can't say it would be the first thing that would cross my mind if I were to have an affair!

 

Thoughts?

In the punting life it is likely to happen at some point along the way. But punting folk should not worry too much about it, because wg are far better practitioners of their own general hygiene,  in comparison to a reckless promiscuous civvy woman.

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Condoms, from A to Z, whether it's with clients or partners. Simple.

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