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Is The Best Sex You've Had, Paid Sex?

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Man: is the best with an Escort?

 

Ladies: is the best with a Punter?

 

I can categorically say, yes! Especially my latest regular...

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The best sex I have ever had is those occasions when we have managed to achieve a simultaneous mutual climax. I regularly, but not always, managed this with my late wife. I have also managed it with two escorts both of whom were regulars. In fact my current regular and I managed it on our first meeting!

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The best sex I have had has been in the real world...mind you I have had some memorable encounters in this world too...

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Equating good sex to uncomplicated sex, then definitely paid sex.

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There's a lot of ifs and buts, on the one hand and on the others possible here but to cut to the chase:

the best sex ever that I have enjoyed has been with prostitutes - and I'm neither proud nor glad to so report.

Uncle Pokey

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Best sex was with someone who was really special to me. The satisfaction transcended the usual mix of sensuality, lust and egoism that sex with other women provided. All those things applied but there was that something extra because it was HER.

However, the wonderful world of escorts has been a very rewarding experience for me in my later years. So many gorgeous women to have fun with and all at my own convenience. Also had hugely enjoyable and enlightening experiences at group sex parties in my mature years (google greedygirls parties if interested).

As Woody Allen once said "Sex without love is meaningless. But, as meaningless things go, it's one of the best".

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You can have great sex with an escort especially a regular escort.  But I know and a lot know that the best sex is perhaps with someone you love and who loves you back!!  Eye contact for example is important to me and actually helps having good sex!  With an escort it can be hot and miss.  Sometimes mechanical sometimes flows perfectly but as I said love conquers all I'm afraid! 

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Should have said hit and miss but hot and miss works well!

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Sex with a wg is different to sex with a partner (what I can remember of it anyway...).

I've had some great sex with wg's, the best of all being the last couple of months. The last evening spent with one wg in particular I'd have to say was probably the best few hours I've ever had - mainly because we became so immersed in what was going on it was like nothing I've experienced with a wg before. Truly amazing. At least that was my interpretation of events, and even completely ignoring the physical signs, I don't believe anyone's that good an actress! ;)

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For me they're almost two different things. Having sex when you're at the beginning of a new relationship with someone you really fancy is quite a unique experience ...... it's more like making love. I've never had feelings like that when I've paid for sex. On the other hand, I've never had the complete no holds barred sex, where I can unashamedly ask for different things and try different things out, in a relationship. Just in terms of the quality of sex, and nothing else, I'd have to say paid sex wins hands down ( especially when you can do it again and again with an endless procession of gorgeous and willing partners !).

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The best sex I have had have been with four men, three became long term partner/husbands and one is a regular and the first time was great and each time since. What makes great sex with partners that much better (for me any way) is the emotional connection. The great sex with the client is pure lust.

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The nest sex I have enjoyed has been some non vanilla activities with ladies whom I paid!

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There's a lot of ifs and buts, on the one hand and on the others possible here but to cut to the chase:

the best sex ever that I have enjoyed has been with prostitutes - and I'm neither proud nor glad to so report.

Uncle Pokey

that sums up how I feel.

 

but paid sex also has the frisson of doing something taboo which adds to it.

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There's a lot of ifs and buts, on the one hand and on the others possible here but to cut to the chase:

the best sex ever that I have enjoyed has been with prostitutes - and I'm neither proud nor glad to so report.

Uncle Pokey

 

 

Neither proud nor glad - but not ashamed either.

I think I'd agree with Uncle, but perhaps we need to define terms as well.

There are things that can be done to our bodies that can produce extreme pleasure. And some people know how to do this better than others. Someone who makes a profession out of doing this ought to acquire the rudiments (and more than the rudiments) of how to do this. And many of them do. And so they give us good sex - and perhaps the best sex we've ever had.

Having sex with someone you love is different - and we use a different term: we call it "making love". And the pleasure it gives is of a different kind and not limited to what the body registers on its "Cor!" scale. 

The two things are not to be compared.

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Sex is such a broad area of activity, it has so many aspects, nuances and variety, so how to compare one occasion against another?

 

I feel unable to isolate a single "best" time, but I can recall many memorable and highly enjoyable occasions, and for me they are a mix of paid and unpaid. I suspect that some of the best paid encounters would be extremely hard to reproduce in a non-paid context, particularly MFFs and MMFs.

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Non Paid for sure. The passion and excitement I have had from lovers I have had is so much better than paid directly sex. I have now come to a time  where girls I find attractive no longer will consider me as a lover (until I win the lottery of course ;0)  I am sure however that if one can find a regular that one can have some  chemistry with it would be similar in intensity. Just got to find the girl thats all.

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In my humble opinion escorts provide better sex and a better attitude. We punters pay for that. It drove me mad that the woman I loved and married would use any and every excuse not to make love. But these beautiful creatures arrive on time, throw all their effort and attention into sex and make us feel like gods, just for mere money.

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The best sex I have had have been with four men, three became long term partner/husbands and one is a regular and the first time was great and each time since. What makes great sex with partners that much better (for me any way) is the emotional connection. The great sex with the client is pure lust.

When I started reading this, I started to laugh, thinking you meant four men at the same time.

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If I could combine three ladies that I have seen I could perhaps say best sex.  Eg one lady has a great technique in licking nipples with her tongue.  Makes me so hard!  One has a the best oral technique up and down the shaft!  the other does great French and butterfly kissing.  I must admit these I never had so good from a partner so in that respect paid is better.   

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I think I must have been lucky with my lovers ( or trained them well ;)) Best bj, best anal, best vaginal best pervert sex  have all been with non direct paid lovers....just not the same girl at the same time. :P

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I can categorically say, yes! Especially my latest regular...

 

If you are being serious then I feel truly sorry for you.  I cannot imagine a world where the best of anything is something you've had to pay for.  That is little short of desperate.

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If you are being serious then I feel truly sorry for you.  I cannot imagine a world where the best of anything is something you've had to pay for.  That is little short of desperate.

 

Restaurants? Musical performances?

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If you are being serious then I feel truly sorry for you. I cannot imagine a world where the best of anything is something you've had to pay for. That is little short of desperate.

What's there to feel sorry for?

Why pay for sex if you don't want it to be the best?

And I don't see how having the best sex with an escort makes you desperate.

That must mean all men who pay for it are desperate right?

But they're not, men want a fantasy, maybe their wife doesn't perform anymore, maybe they just don't have the confidence to pull Civvy women or maybe just maybe they enjoy being able to pull women they couldnt pull the traditional way.

And these women are probably great in bed and just happen to give them great sex, there is NOTHING wrong with the best sex you've ever had being with an escort.

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Comparing sex with someone you are madly in love with and sex with someone who's paying you is like comparing a 5 course meal in a top restaurant with a Big Mac.

 

The former is sheer indulgence and even when you're presented with a dish you think you don't like you find it heavenly. As you eat you're savouring every delicious mouthful, not wanting it to end. You pause between courses, thinking maybe you can't eat any more but then another delightful dish is placed in front of you and you find you can eat again. When you've finished the meal you are sated, but when you wake up the next day you are longing to have that meal again.

 

The latter is really hit and miss. Eating one is usually preceded by lots of stress and  rushing around. Quite often it's a bit cold and soggy and you feel a bit queasy afterwards. Sometimes it's fine and you think it really tastes better than you expected and then once in a while it really hits the spot and you think "wow, I really enjoyed that" but you don't think about it again. 

 

In other words, it's a very different experience. 

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Restaurants? Musical performances?

 

Lax phrasing on my part.  I should have said something "personal" or "intimate".

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