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So Ive been single for years now, for reasons I won't go into I'm not in a position to have a girlfriend. So my only option is to visit an escort. I've got my heart set on seeing a particular girl at Bond girls in Manchester, but there's no reviews of her, what's worse this agency has a few bad reveiws here, but they appear to be different girls unless they changed their names. I've done a Tineye check on her photo to make sure it's really her which came back negative, which is good. They also claim to have a moneyback gurantee if you get a different girl. She's an absolute beauty and my total fantasy. £150 for an hour doesn't seem a lot given her pics. Should I just go ahead and book her?

 

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She's had no reviews, you say the agency has some bad reviews? Tineye isn't 100% guaranteed, as for the money back thing surely if they do that they should have no bad reviews? How exactly does it work, have you any proof that it actually works. Photos wise the ladies look good, however the information given is fairly basic and pretty standard agency blurb. In the Greater Manchester area there are so many WGs, both indie and agency, my thing as always been indie, I prefer a well written profile, (hopefully by the lady herself), some decent photos but definitely some feedback that gives me a real idea of how things will go.

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mmm, I'm mean some of the other girls have reviews, but she doesn't. I've also seen her on Britgirls under a different name, but I've read that Brtgirls is actually run by bondgirls. Dunno, I'm not adverse to other girls in the future but I want her to be my first. Especially if after I may decide it's not for me and don't do it again, even on the back of a good experience.

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Go for someone with lots of good feedback for a first time, why take the chance of fucking up?

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My hang up is, not only has it been years but when I did have a regular sex life when I get really turned on I 'can't control myself'. I'm not good at edging. I like cuddles and a laugh and a giggle. I don't want to be out the door after 15 minutes when I've payed for an hour. From what I've read about Bond girls, some of the girls seemed to have a 'once you cum your done' policy. But all the reviews are old, and the girls have changed. There's virtally no recent reviews either here or on LBB.

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My hang up is, not only has it been years but when I did have a regular sex life when I get really turned on I 'can't control myself'. I'm not good at edging. I like cuddles and a laugh and a giggle. I don't want to be out the door after 15 minutes when I've payed for an hour. From what I've read about Bond girls, some of the girls seemed to have a 'once you cum your done' policy. But all the reviews are old, and the girls have changed. There's virtally no recent reviews either here or on LBB.

With all the indies I've seen I've never had the feeling that someone wanted me out of the door. There are plenty of reviews, here, LBB and AW iflots of ladies of all shapes, sizes, ages and types, I can't see why you would take the risk of seeing someone with no feedback? 

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Mike is quite right. The vast majority of indies will give you the full time that you have booked, with the option of a second (or even third ) pop if you are happy to stay. They are also used to newbie/nervous punters popping fats first time so do not worry on that score.

 

Good luck

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Ok guys nice one thanks, I'll take it all into consideration.

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Ok guys nice one thanks, I'll take it all into consideration.

Good. Let us know how you get on please.

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OK I've picked another one with great reviews at Manchester elite. A little younger than I wanted originally, I'm planning it for about 3 to 4 weeks for a bit of cooling off period (to make sure it's what I really want to do) Pretty certain for now. Drooling over her pics I can't see me changing my mind! And also I want to quit smoking and clean my self up - work out and so I'll feel more confident. But I'll deffo report back. I'm a fairly good looking guy for my age (38) and I've a good physique. It's really important to me that she enjoys my company otherwise it'll put me right off.

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don't worry about it too much or over think it -

 

she really wont care one jot what shape you are in, as long as you're clean, respectful and have the correct change - those three things alone will make her day!

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don't worry about it too much or over think it -

 

she really wont care one jot what shape you are in, as long as you're clean, respectful and have the correct change - those three things alone will make her day!

 

All of this is true. Having lived with a WG and known several others well I'll give you some other advice to help make sure the meeting goes well. As it's going to be a few weeks before you see her don't keep sending her texts / emails about the booking, especially ones with questions that are already answered on her profile. Doing this along with asking stupid questions is a good way of getting yourself classed as a time waster and blocked, (one WG showed me a mail from a guy who'd booked her that asked 'will I enjoy my time with you?' She then blocked him, these ladies get that many time wasters they get very put off very easily. Also every girl I've known says they hate it when punters send photos in advance of the booking, the surprise of meeting the punter and seeing if he's how she thought he would look is half of the fun of the job.

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Yup, I've read something like the first 4 pages of google. I'm aware of all the discretion and potential legal issues. In terms of being respectful I'm looking for simulated romance even though I know it's not a 100% real I want it to feel real. I wont just go in there and command her to strip! Understand that just a few weeks ago I'd have balked at the idea, until I started reading peoples views on it, and viewing it in a different light. I guess I've been living a lie telling myself I don't need women, but it's been so long I've finally cracked. I'm hoping seeing an escort will break the vicious circle I've gotten myself into.

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When you say time waster, are you talking about guy's who bottle it? Once I've booked it I'll see it through, I hate letting people down, especially myself. If it doesn't go well at least I'll know it's not for me.

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When you say time waster, are you talking about guy's who bottle it? Once I've booked it I'll see it through, I hate letting people down, especially myself. If it doesn't go well at least I'll know it's not for me.

Not necessarily; guys who bombard escorts with messages before making a booking are thought to be less likely to turn up and are than classed as TW's. In addition, remember that the escort has her other clients to deal with, so she just wants the necessary info from you to make sure that she is happy with the booking. Just make a booking, confirm 24 hours ahead, call in the morning for final directions and then turn up clean and tidy with the right amount of cash.

 

If you do decide to cancel give as much notice as possible. It is very rude to cancel late and that will certainly get you put on a black list.

 

Don't over think this but get on down and have a ball!  Good luck

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I agree with the other posters on here,. Try not to over think and most definitely do not over complicate the booking. Only ask pertinent questions, and try to relax.

 

As a suggestion. Try an indie WG with lots of positive feedback for your booking instead of an agency lady, as sometimes agencies are a mixed bag - especially newer girls who haven't yet gained much feedback.

 

Also if you're not used to female interaction after a few celibate years, perhaps get a massage with a happy ending first. I find the massage helps you relax and get you in the mood, with no pressure of performance issues. Speaking from personal experience, the orgasms seem much more intense when you're completely relaxed and far more satisfying.

 

Hope that helps!

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Well, my last interaction was 18 months ago, with a girl I didn't really fancy we had a fumble and oral but we didn't go the whole way because we had no protection, and I didn't finish. But she wanted to go out with me afterwards which I then had to deal with. But I was rampant! That's all I've had in 7 years, believe it or not the first 4 years were by choice, but I never meant it to go on this long.

 

So I don't think I'll have performance issues, I'm not worried about the bedroom stuff at all. What I'm most terrified of is the initial chit chat and small talk. I'm not good at small talk but naturally worse with attractive women. But I'll tough it out coz I'm gagging for her hahaha. I just hope she agrees to see me.

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It's a booking, not a date! 

We see nervous clients all the time and putting them at ease is part of the job. If I were you I'd pick up the phone, make the booking and go and get it over with asap, otherwise you'll spend the next few weeks fretting. 

 

You really don't need to give up smoking and get fit etc first. You aren't looking for her to fall in love with you, you want her to give you a nice time which she will if you don't mess her about and turn up on time showered and fragrant with the correct fee in your hand. 

As for agreeing to see you, why on earth wouldn't she? We don't turn down blokes who are polite and decent sounding. 

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It's a booking, not a date! 

We see nervous clients all the time and putting them at ease is part of the job. If I were you I'd pick up the phone, make the booking and go and get it over with asap, otherwise you'll spend the next few weeks fretting. 

 

You really don't need to give up smoking and get fit etc first. You aren't looking for her to fall in love with you, you want her to give you a nice time which she will if you don't mess her about and turn up on time showered and fragrant with the correct fee in your hand. 

As for agreeing to see you, why on earth wouldn't she? We don't turn down blokes who are polite and decent sounding. 

Sound advice, Sarita. I hope the OP can see the sense and follow it.

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It's a booking, not a date! 

We see nervous clients all the time and putting them at ease is part of the job. If I were you I'd pick up the phone, make the booking and go and get it over with asap, otherwise you'll spend the next few weeks fretting. 

 

You really don't need to give up smoking and get fit etc first. You aren't looking for her to fall in love with you, you want her to give you a nice time which she will if you don't mess her about and turn up on time showered and fragrant with the correct fee in your hand. 

As for agreeing to see you, why on earth wouldn't she? We don't turn down blokes who are polite and decent sounding. 

Yes Sarita, usually the less time between making the booking and the time of the appointment the more likely it is that the booking will take place.

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Not necessarily the case Mike, but I get the feeling the OP might just find other reasons not to do it, even when he's got his six pack and renounced the evil weed!

Sometimes you just have to take the plunge.

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There are plenty of reasons for the OP to back out of it, if it's booked far ahead of time.

 

I love the spontaneity of punting, when i've got the money and horny as a hellhound, man, why not?! To set and make it date, feels less exciting to me, mainly because in the reality there's no chance the girl is gonna be my girlfriend afterwards hahaha. ;)

 

but hey, different folks! ;)

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It's a booking, not a date! 

We see nervous clients all the time and putting them at ease is part of the job. If I were you I'd pick up the phone, make the booking and go and get it over with asap, otherwise you'll spend the next few weeks fretting. 

 

You really don't need to give up smoking and get fit etc first. You aren't looking for her to fall in love with you, you want her to give you a nice time which she will if you don't mess her about and turn up on time showered and fragrant with the correct fee in your hand. 

As for agreeing to see you, why on earth wouldn't she? We don't turn down blokes who are polite and decent sounding. 

It's not really for her but for me. And I've already got six pack, I'm one of those lucky few guys who's got the make up for it lol Not that it's done me any favours :/. And I'm quiting smoking anyway, I'm always starting and stopping.

 

TBH though, the reason I wondered if she'd see me was I read somewhere that if they feel they have enough regulars they don't take on any more clients. I dunno, your the expert.

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If she is working with an agency it's highly unlikely she'll only be seeing regulars. There's only one way to find out - give the agency a call and ask! :)

Good luck, let us know how it goes.

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It's not really for her but for me. And I've already got six pack, I'm one of those lucky few guys who's got the make up for it lol Not that it's done me any favours :/. And I'm quiting smoking anyway, I'm always starting and stopping.

 

TBH though, the reason I wondered if she'd see me was I read somewhere that if they feel they have enough regulars they don't take on any more clients. I dunno, your the expert.

Fair enough on the six pack and smoking points. If she's got another job and doing this part time then she might be happy with her regs, but it's unusual.

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