SirP

Getting Cold Feet

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I've still got 3 weeks to go until my advance booking for a 3some but TBH i'm getting cold feet about it.

 

I know i'll probably never get another chance to experience such 2 girls together but just getting a gut feeling.

 

I'm maybe thinking of a plan B and maybe seeing Zizzi instead.

 

Any guys on here had the same dilemma?

 

Trying to think is it better to regret not seeing but always have that wonder or going thru with it and that being an even bigger regret and wallet a lot lighter for it.

 

 

Sorry if i'm just rambling

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if you're going to get cold feet do it now. Noone like a last minute cancellation or no show because he's bottled it! 

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Don't worry i'd cancel with plenty of notice if it comes to that

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I think if you're already getting cold feet probably best no to go ahead, but then again it could be down to nerves?

If you genuinely feel as though you don't want to do it then don't, you'll feel rubbish if you force yourself to.

I agree with Lydia aswell!

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go to bed with a hottie and a mug of cocoa

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How long is the booking & the amount ur paying compared to how much u normally pay?

If its 30 mins @£120 then most would just bit the bullet & cross if off the list. Plus how suited are the girls with each other ie do their get along well as if their r strangers then its a waste.

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Is it better if you have at least seen one of the ladies before?   Having limited experience of MFF but one I did have it was better that I new one of the ladies and I may have lost my nerve with two newbies!  Perhaps write down the pros and cons of both but in some respects if you don't go through with it will it still play on your mind what you may have missed?  Perhaps go and get it out of your system and even if you think it wasn't worth the money at least you can tick it off the list?  

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Is it better if you have at least seen one of the ladies before? Having limited experience of MFF but one I did have it was better that I new one of the ladies and I may have lost my nerve with two newbies! Perhaps write down the pros and cons of both but in some respects if you don't go through with it will it still play on your mind what you may have missed? Perhaps go and get it out of your system and even if you think it wasn't worth the money at least you can tick it off the list?

Best to go with a regular girl and let her choose her preferred playmate,I'm doing that at the end of the month,they might kill me but what a way to go. :D

ps. Checkout some moves on red tube if your not sure how to go about it

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Aside the money aspect what is the worse thing that could happen? It can't be that bad can it?!

If you don't do it you'll wonder if you missed an amazing experience, if you do do it and it's not what you hope for at least you won't be on your death bed one day wishing you had tried it! 

 

Though to be fair the women, your mood and other factors may vary on how good it actually is for you! 

 

Oh and as a tip it is probably worth discussing with one or both the women what it is you actually want- lots of watching them play together, both of the spoiling you or what? If you want to see girl on girl action make sure they are up for it and if you have a special request such as wanting to watch them with a strap on mention it before you get there. Some men get a bit overwhelmed with two women and end up stressing they aren't giving them both equal attention so it's not a bad idea to get into your head in advance that you don't have to worry about this- if the girls are professional and experienced they won't care! 

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I've still got 3 weeks to go until my advance booking for a 3some but TBH i'm getting cold feet about it.

 

I know i'll probably never get another chance to experience such 2 girls together but just getting a gut feeling.

 

I'm maybe thinking of a plan B and maybe seeing Zizzi instead.

 

Any guys on here had the same dilemma?

 

Trying to think is it better to regret not seeing but always have that wonder or going thru with it and that being an even bigger regret and wallet a lot lighter for it.

 

 

Sorry if i'm just rambling

If you're nervous, have a wank to yourfavoritepornsite.com and see how you feel afterwards. Also saves a lot of money! :) If you still wanna go ahead with the booking straight afterwards, then you'll know it's the right choice.

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The saddest words on a tombstone are "if only", as the Victorians used to say. If it it a train wreck of a session you know threesomes are not for you, you tick it off your bucket list and move on. If you have a great time then steam in there.

I get cold feet all the time at my punts, due to over thinking.

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SirP, I think you should do it. They're not going to eat you (except in the nicest possible way).

I've had two threesomes (one practically accidental), and have concluded that on the whole they're not for me. But I wouldn't have missed the experience for the world. I think absolutely every man daydreams about it, and it's something you simply have to try for yourself.

After which, if your findings are like mine, just proceed with your life. 

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Go for it - something every man should experience.  My first FFM was with a regular girl, was going to be just the two of us when she suggested we bring in one of the girls who worked in an adjacent flat, and I had a truly wonderful hour.  They were used to working together and that made things good, plus it helped that only one girl was a stranger.  Most of my ones since then have been with two new girls, usually planned in advance.  After your first experience you'll find 3somes don't seem unusual.

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If you are suffering from cold feet (and in January that is quite normal :D ) let the escort(s) know in plenty of time.

 

I would follow the advice already given; go for it and if it falls flat on its face then you know that such a booking should remain in your dreams.

 

I very much hope that you have the courage of your convictions; do the deed and have a fabulous time. Good luck.

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If you can afford I would prefer to have a coffee with the two girls first to settle nerves and build up a rapport.  I have done a couple.  The first wasn't great as the second girl was her first experience of being an escort!  The second time was better and yes I perhaps would do it again as it didn't seem much of an issue.  The girls were not into each other so I guess I have missed out on that!  

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If the girls are any good at what they do, they will have you relaxed in no time and you will have the time of your life.

 

Are you overwhelmed about having to deliver the goods to both of them? It doesn't have to be that way. Just enjoy the touching, kissing, oral etc and see where it ends. Go with the flow... lie back and enjoy.

 

As for your gut instinct, only you can decide how trustworthy your instincts are. I always go with mine. Always.

 

A fantasy is sometimes best kept a fantasy. It's just as much fun thinking about it as actually doing it.

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I've done the decent thing and cancelled. I know I will regret this but at the moment it feels right.

 

Nerves etc were not the reason for me changing my mind.

 

1st the money. £450 at the moment would be more beneficial for me in other aspects of my life, which tie into the following.

 

2nd i've started being part of a new social circle and i'd like this to blossom and need to put my energy into this and not risk slipping up , etc. There is also a cute girl (who i have no chance, but you never know) but would like to explore this so again i'd feel like lying/deceiving by going ahead.

 

3rd Never been much risk (near zero) of me being caught but being part of this new social group means far more risk of being seen/caught and the risk of being outed and loosing this social group far outweighs any pleasure i'd gain from a 2 hour punt. 

 

Thanks for your thoughts/opinions and I wish I could explain myself more clearly but that would mean giving away too much personal details.

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I've done the decent thing and cancelled. I know I will regret this but at the moment it feels right.

 

Nerves etc were not the reason for me changing my mind.

 

1st the money. £450 at the moment would be more beneficial for me in other aspects of my life, which tie into the following.

 

2nd i've started being part of a new social circle and i'd like this to blossom and need to put my energy into this and not risk slipping up , etc. There is also a cute girl (who i have no chance, but you never know) but would like to explore this so again i'd feel like lying/deceiving by going ahead.

 

3rd Never been much risk (near zero) of me being caught but being part of this new social group means far more risk of being seen/caught and the risk of being outed and loosing this social group far outweighs any pleasure i'd gain from a 2 hour punt. 

 

Thanks for your thoughts/opinions and I wish I could explain myself more clearly but that would mean giving away too much personal details.

Thanks for sharing that, Sir P. I wish you much luck in your new encounters. Please pop in from time to time just to see us all!

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Having just read your latest post SirP I won't say what I was going to as it's now irrelevant...

it sounds like you've done the right thing and good luck with your new circumstances

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I've done the decent thing and cancelled. I know I will regret this but at the moment it feels right.

 

Nerves etc were not the reason for me changing my mind.

 

1st the money. £450 at the moment would be more beneficial for me in other aspects of my life, which tie into the following.

 

2nd i've started being part of a new social circle and i'd like this to blossom and need to put my energy into this and not risk slipping up , etc. There is also a cute girl (who i have no chance, but you never know) but would like to explore this so again i'd feel like lying/deceiving by going ahead.

 

3rd Never been much risk (near zero) of me being caught but being part of this new social group means far more risk of being seen/caught and the risk of being outed and loosing this social group far outweighs any pleasure i'd gain from a 2 hour punt. 

 

Thanks for your thoughts/opinions and I wish I could explain myself more clearly but that would mean giving away too much personal details.

 

I must say I admire you for your first two sentences there - ones I don't think I could ever write myself.

Knowing you've done the decent thing is enough for you to feel good, and the regret is secondary. For me I don't think it would ever play out quite like that.

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