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Punting With Active Sex Life

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Since I joined this forum, I have learnt that men punt because their partners have gone sex.  I would like to ask do you punt or have you punted in the past when you had an active sex life with your partner and if you are single would you punt if you had an active sex life with your partner.  My apologies if this question has been asked before. 

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For me, my punting is inversely affected by an active sex life with a partner. I started punting when I was married, and that was during a period when there was hardly any sex at home. But I found that when sex was back on the agenda, even just once a week, then I didn't have much mind for punting. Even tho I got a thrill doing the research and checking out the WG profiles, I found that weekly sex at home just dimmed my desire for going out and meeting new WGs :cool:

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Some of my clients do have sex at home but still punt for a variety of reasons. One inperticular comes to mind, he has a bucket list of sexual adventures he wishes to try. His wife maybe reluctant to try or he hasn't broached her about it I don't know. But I have to say we have had some fun ticking his list. I of course can't help him with his whole list. There are some things I am unable to do or will not do. I am not the only SP helping him through the list. He has a most delightful attitude and is so much fun.

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There is a lovely De motivational poster of a prostitute with the logo " hookers, doing what your girlfriend won't for $100 a time! "

Sums it up really

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Since I joined this forum, I have learnt that men punt because their partners have gone sex.  I would like to ask do you punt or have you punted in the past when you had an active sex life with your partner and if you are single would you punt if you had an active sex life with your partner.  My apologies if this question has been asked before. 

 

Indeed I know some guys who punt despite being involved in relationships with women who do anything for them.  I call these guys 'bloody idiots'.

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I know some women who are in relationships with men who will do anything for them and the women will not provide a sex life. These too are "bloody idiots"

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Since I joined this forum, I have learnt that men punt because their partners have gone sex.  I would like to ask do you punt or have you punted in the past when you had an active sex life with your partner and if you are single would you punt if you had an active sex life with your partner.  My apologies if this question has been asked before.

I've not punted while in a relationship where I had an active sex life, nor would I ever do so - even though I've now discovered the delights of punting.

In fact were the relationship I am in to end for whatever reason, I think I'd be more likely to punt rather than get involved in a relationship again.

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Yes punted with a well not sure once a month/once every six week sex life.   Would that be regarded as an active sex life!  I would say no once a week would be active!  Would I punt if I had a partner that provided an active once/twice a week sex life.  Probably not but then it depends what your partner does for you and you do for her!  Eg, don't have oral sex and sex in one position with the partner! 

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Indeed I know some guys who punt despite being involved in relationships with women who do anything for them.  I call these guys 'bloody idiots'.

 

There would be no reason for me to see a wg if I was in tune with a lady that I liked and I am not asking for things like watersports, rimming

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I know some women who are in relationships with men who will do anything for them and the women will not provide a sex life. These too are "bloody idiots"

 

Ha ha, indeed.  The world is full of people who do not appreciate those who give (up) everything for them.  Then they want to come back, or stalk you for years............  the story of my life.  'No way Jose' I always think when an ex does not want to take no for an answer.  

 

I know lots of other women in the same situation..........

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I only punted twice before I got married. The more I get at home, the less energy I have for punting :-)

The infrequent punts (4 per year) cover things we don't do at home.

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I have a very varied and active sex life.... just don't mention it to the wife....

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Fun and naughty. The main issue is if you get caught, wifey will assume you were barebacking; and there will be no convincing otherwise.

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I only punted twice before I got married. The more I get at home, the less energy I have for punting :-)

The infrequent punts (4 per year) cover things we don't do at home.

 

Ha ha, I wonder if your partner gets suspicious if one day you decide to 'cover' things you did not do at home but got them somewhere else.

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Fun and naughty. The main issue is if you get caught, wifey will assume you were barebacking; and there will be no convincing otherwise.

 

Why would she consider her husband  would be  barebacking?   Any guy with half a brain is not going to do bare back with new partners, partners that work in the sex industry, one night stands unless certified and I would trust that anyway.   

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Why would she consider her husband  would be  barebacking?   Any guy with half a brain is not going to do bare back with new partners, partners that work in the sex industry, one night stands unless certified and I would trust that anyway.   

That doesn't convince me or wifey.

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Ha ha, I wonder if your partner gets suspicious if one day you decide to 'cover' things you did not do at home but got them somewhere else.

That won't happen, it isn't me deciding :-(

My desire for those things she will not countenance is satisfied by the punts. Therefore, she won't be required, or feel pressured into doing them.

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Ha ha, I wonder if your partner gets suspicious if one day you decide to 'cover' things you did not do at home but got them somewhere else.

 

hahaha - that's a good point. I was married for 20yrs and only started punting towards the latter years of that term. I found that during marital sex I was initiating activities like A, DT, and shower sex. When my ex then questioned how I knew about such activities I just put it down to an over active imagination. :huh:  She had no trouble believing that <_<:cool:

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hahaha - that's a good point. I was married for 20yrs and only started punting towards the latter years of that term. I found that during marital sex I was initiating activities like A, DT, and shower sex. When my ex then questioned how I knew about such activities I just put it down to an over active imagination. :huh:  She had no trouble believing that <_<:cool:

 

Ha ha, that is what I had in mind.  When you 'fall' into a 'naive lifestyle' you start to believe whatever your partner feeds you.  When I was questioning my ex's about different things they were doing to me they would say the same 'active imagination' or movies etc

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I know some women who are in relationships with men who will do anything for them and the women will not provide a sex life. These too are "bloody idiots"

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I was just over 50 when my wife decided that she didn't want sex any more. I came home from work one night to find that the matrimonial double bed had gone and had been  replaced by two single beds on opposite sides of the bedroom. This was done unilaterally by my wife and I wasn't at all pleased. We hadn't had a row or anything like that beforehand but, as you can well imagine, I did have a few words to say when I found out what she had done.!

There was no way that I was going to give up my sex life at that age and decided to pay for sex instead. During that time I came across some really lovely Ladies who have fulfilled all my sexual needs. Of course there have been one or two who haven't but they represent only a small minority of the ladies I have seen. Quite a few of these ladies are good friends as well as sexual partners (or I think they are).I think that the general public have no idea whatsoever as to  what the average escort is like. Thank you ladies I think you are all great.

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I was just over 50 when my wife decided that she didn't want sex any more. I came home from work one night to find that the matrimonial double bed had gone and had been  replaced by two single beds on opposite sides of the bedroom. This was done unilaterally by my wife and I wasn't at all pleased. We hadn't had a row or anything like that beforehand but, as you can well imagine, I did have a few words to say when I found out what she had done.!

There was no way that I was going to give up my sex life at that age and decided to pay for sex instead. During that time I came across some really lovely Ladies who have fulfilled all my sexual needs. Of course there have been one or two who haven't but they represent only a small minority of the ladies I have seen. Quite a few of these ladies are good friends as well as sexual partners (or I think they are).I think that the general public have no idea whatsoever as to  what the average escort is like. Thank you ladies I think you are all great.

 

Yes - it is quite beyond belief how many wives,  on deciding that their sex life is over,  decide their husband's is too.  

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Yes - it is quite beyond belief how many wives,  on deciding that their sex life is over,  decide their husband's is too.  

 

I wonder what makes them take this decision: you cannot refuse a prick in the morning.  I cannot get enough of it ..............  :D

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Since I joined this forum, I have learnt that men punt because their partners have gone sex. I would like to ask do you punt or have you punted in the past when you had an active sex life with your partner and if you are single would you punt if you had an active sex life with your partner. My apologies if this question has been asked before.

You have to be emotionally strong and stable...I say this because the "offer" of sex can happen anywhere and/or anytime...

...And this is not me being fluffy but i do believe that everyone possesses qualities that others find attractive enough to wish to take things further...

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