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Can a place be too busy?

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Living in Cheshire I have Sandys on my doorstep but, despite the obvious number of great girls I haven't and wont visit. It just seems to busy? Am I on my own?:rolleyes:

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Sandys seems to have its fair share of fans, and most of them pre book the ladies they wish to see, so often folk who are not members are sat waiting, which is a sad state considering the number of good parlours in the area, and of course there are ladies who only see a few clients per day, so no rush policy is given.

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sandys is now the punting equivalent of the ford escort, its just a constant production line.

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Pre-booking a lady sounds like an interesting concept - scheduling an appointment on a new escort's first day perhaps, before her hours are even arranged, her photographs taken, and she's decided what services to offer, before she's even taken the decision to become an escort perhaps.

To be serious, I'm a Sandys fan. It's busy because it's a great place. The staff handle the business brilliantly, the waiting area has punters coming and going but there's always a seat, and when you're in the room the shower's imaculate and it's always one-on-one.

I've been in a parlour once, ( Blair St in Ed ) when by luck it was deathly quiet, just me and 6 girls to choose from potentially ( although I had a booking :rolleyes: ). Didn't see another male going in, showering or coming out. Felt special. And maybe the vibe from that made the girl feel special in front of her colleagues, and we had a great time. Realistically, it's not going to happen often though. I wonder if the OP might be uncomfortable seeing other men in a busy parlour, but we all know what we're there for, and if we bump into someone we know, no-one can realistically squeal, no matter if it is a little embarassing.

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Yes, a place can be too busy. I have only been to Sandys once, it was a Saturday afternoon, there was a wait in excess of an hour for the next available appointment, the 2 ladies who would have been my first choices, were both booked up for the next 3 hours! I was aware of the excellent reputation that Sandys has, so was slightly disapointed with the reallity.

I intend to only see indies in future.

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Well this Is the price you pay for a popular place, every other fooker goes there too.

I once did a 45 min appointment at Sandys, but I was left waiting In the room for 10 minutes, so only got 30-35 mins with the lady, I did mention this to her, but she was like sorry luv. :rolleyes: The popular girls are constantly busy, and they try to squeeze a few minutes between appointments, but If I pay for a set time, I want It.

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The answer to that is a resounding YES they can be too busy - if that bothers you. I can't comment on Sandys in particular because I don't live in that area. But I have certainly experienced parlours which I consider to be consistently too busy and most of the difficulty lies with the scheduling of appointments IMHO. Too busy as far as I'm concerned refers to too many girls sharing the same premises and too many appointments crammed in to the working day without satisfactory interval between them.

This 'Pizza Hut' approach can leave a punter's passions and anticipation utterly deflated as he is forced to wait 10 mins for the present guy to finish before he can have his turn whilst also feeling that the next guy is waiting on him for his turn.

So who's at fault? Is it the owners whose reputation is on the line and who demand too much from the girls in order to maximise turnover. Or is it the girls who (dare I say it) are overly mercenary in not allowing a little extra time for cleaning up and letting the last punter leave the building before the next one enters? It's probably a bit of both but for me, the ultimate responsibility lies with the owners since they surely must lay down the house rules and it is their rep that is on the line.

The third factor of too many girls sharing a premises is not so easy to resolve unless the rooms have sound proof walls, since you will always get the outside noises such as giggling girls voices, high heels clicking on laminate floors, doors opening and closing, male voices outside the room etc.

For the less discerning punter none of the above will present much of a problem and despite the above concerns, the type of establishments in question remain busy. But this has to be set against the availability of a worthy substitute.

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The answer to that is a resounding YES they can be too busy - if that bothers you. I can't comment on Sandys in particular because I don't live in that area. But I have certainly experienced parlours which I consider to be consistently too busy and most of the difficulty lies with the scheduling of appointments IMHO. Too busy as far as I'm concerned refers to too many girls sharing the same premises and too many appointments crammed in to the working day without satisfactory interval between them.

This 'Pizza Hut' approach can leave a punter's passions and anticipation utterly deflated as he is forced to wait 10 mins for the present guy to finish before he can have his turn whilst also feeling that the next guy is waiting on him for his turn.

So who's at fault? Is it the owners whose reputation is on the line and who demand too much from the girls in order to maximise turnover. Or is it the girls who (dare I say it) are overly mercenary in not allowing a little extra time for cleaning up and letting the last punter leave the building before the next one enters? It's probably a bit of both but for me, the ultimate responsibility lies with the owners since they surely must lay down the house rules and it is their rep that is on the line.

The third factor of too many girls sharing a premises is not so easy to resolve unless the rooms have sound proof walls, since you will always get the outside noises such as giggling girls voices, high heels clicking on laminate floors, doors opening and closing, male voices outside the room etc.

For the less discerning punter none of the above will present much of a problem and despite the above concerns, the type of establishments in question remain busy. But this has to be set against the availability of a worthy substitute.

Good post and as you say if that bothers you. It doesnt bother me in the slightest as long as i believe the place is safe.

I know from reading other threads that some punters dont like seeing other punters while in the premises, again i couldnt care less, i dont initiate a conversation as i dont want to put them off, but if they talk to me i am more than happy to chat.

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Well this Is the price you pay for a popular place, every other fooker goes there too.

I once did a 45 min appointment at Sandys, but I was left waiting In the room for 10 minutes, so only got 30-35 mins with the lady, I did mention this to her, but she was like sorry luv. :rolleyes: The popular girls are constantly busy, and they try to squeeze a few minutes between appointments, but If I pay for a set time, I want It.

A realist as ever jerboa. As you know at UK Parties in London anyway there can be 70 ish people at some venues, i find this bustling atmosphere can add to the punt, but this does depend on the set-up. Compared with some places abroad this is a small amount of people.:rolleyes:

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Good post and as you say if that bothers you. It doesnt bother me in the slightest as long as i believe the place is safe.

I know from reading other threads that some punters dont like seeing other punters while in the premises, again i couldnt care less, i dont initiate a conversation as i dont want to put them off, but if they talk to me i am more than happy to chat.

Yes Smiths, meeting other punters is a tricky one. I tend to have an ambivalent view of this but I am, on most occasions, more than happy to give a friendly nod to a brother whose path I cross. However, I will always try to gauge his mind-set first. The interactions are interesting and mixed with some hanging their heads as if almost in shame or unease and others offering nothing more than a blank fleeting stare peppered with curiosity. Some though will tender a mirthful salute as if to say 'have a good one mate.':rolleyes: I'd buy those bros a beer.

PS I'm not gay.:rolleyes:

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Living in Cheshire I have Sandys on my doorstep but, despite the obvious number of great girls I haven't and wont visit. It just seems to busy? Am I on my own?:rolleyes:

I once called at a well-known place in Manchester, on a Saturday afternoon.... There were about 6 guys waiting. Maybe 4 ladies on. As I had made a point of stopping there on the way I did wait about 40 minutes. The punt was fine but strictly no over-run, the smell of sex was there, etc etc. So unless I know a place I prefer an indie, if they are available on a Sat/Sun.

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I'd buy those bros a beer.

I'd take you up on that, actually, I'd enjoy a beer with any one of the regular posters on Pnet.

In my experiences, in particular in Germany and New Zealand, I've been in clubs where you have a drink in a bar, where all the ladies, as well as numerous other punters like yourself are all there in front of each other. You just have to "get over yourself", as you're all there for the same reasons anyway.

Going back to my very first punt, more than 10 years ago, in another country, I was too shy to pick the lady I really fancied, and my mate who was with me, picked her instead. I always regretted that I didn't just pick her, but shyness took over. Recently at an escort club in New Zealand, a bunch of punters were flocking around this gorgeous creature, but none of them seemed to take her upstairs to a room. I really wanted to see her, but I felt like there might have "been a queue", or something. I felt it would have been rude just to walk up to her while she was talking to at least 3 other punters, and ask her if she was available for some business. I didn't do it I'm afraid, and I chose someone else who was sitting alone. I had a great time all the same, but still regret not asking the one I fancied. I'm still shy after all these years, but not so much these days.

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I once called at a well-known place in Manchester, on a Saturday afternoon.... There were about 6 guys waiting. Maybe 4 ladies on. As I had made a point of stopping there on the way I did wait about 40 minutes. The punt was fine but strictly no over-run, the smell of sex was there, etc etc. So unless I know a place I prefer an indie, if they are available on a Sat/Sun.

So this is Manchester's finest ?

Sounds like you would get a better deal in a Soho walk-up !

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So this is Manchester's finest ?

Sounds like you would get a better deal in a Soho walk-up !

No you wouldn't, the Manc parlour scene Is very good, and the popular places have some stunnas, some who give a great time, at a fair price, but like I said before, places like Sandys can become very busy, I don't mind waiting around, but I don't appeciate my time getting clipped.

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Hey, you walk in a place and expect a lady to be ready and waiting for you!, okay if you made a booking that is expected, but for the walk in of the street guy, the wait can be a good thing, as it gives yiou time to talk to some of the other ladies, and you get to judge their attitude to the job.

Many's the time I have sat and chatted to the ladies and other punters, and made a choice depending on who was saying what, and I have now come to welcome the wait, as it can be more revealing than many a web-site can offer in terms of info.

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paris in soho is crazy busy these days,

i musta walked round the block ten times within 2 hours and the same chinese guy was still waiting out side her door???:confused:

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I'd take you up on that, actually, I'd enjoy a beer with any one of the regular posters on Pnet.

In my experiences, in particular in Germany and New Zealand, I've been in clubs where you have a drink in a bar, where all the ladies, as well as numerous other punters like yourself are all there in front of each other. You just have to "get over yourself", as you're all there for the same reasons anyway.

Going back to my very first punt, more than 10 years ago, in another country, I was too shy to pick the lady I really fancied, and my mate who was with me, picked her instead. I always regretted that I didn't just pick her, but shyness took over. Recently at an escort club in New Zealand, a bunch of punters were flocking around this gorgeous creature, but none of them seemed to take her upstairs to a room. I really wanted to see her, but I felt like there might have "been a queue", or something. I felt it would have been rude just to walk up to her while she was talking to at least 3 other punters, and ask her if she was available for some business. I didn't do it I'm afraid, and I chose someone else who was sitting alone. I had a great time all the same, but still regret not asking the one I fancied. I'm still shy after all these years, but not so much these days.

Thats one of the problems with group sex or gangbangs, if the guy isnt assertive he can lose out completely especially if the host couldnt care less which is most of them in my experience. Then you get the hogger who will attempt to stay with the lady for as long as possible and doesnt care about letting other guys in, these individuals are the pain in the arse of this type of punting, luckily they are few in number. Even having a polite word has no effect, they cant comprehend the notion of letting someone else in or are totally selfish. Most punters dont need to be told, they just know you dont hog, its not the done thing.

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