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How Aware Are Wg's Of Fordyce Spots And What Do They Think Of Them?

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First of all hello everyone, this is my first post and I am new to punting. I have recently seen the same lady twice in the last two weeks and have enjoyed my time with her very much.

 

I have something on my penis called fordyce spots, they are not contagious, not to do with hygiene and apparently effect a large portion of males. It has been a thing that has held me back in many ways in my life, I wouldnt say I am a bad looking guy I'm in my mid 30's and very healthy etc, but in the back of my mind it has played a massive part in how I think members of the opposite sex will see me and when it comes to women I have let it get to my self esteem because of the inner shame I feel of these spots.

 

Recently when I went to see a working girl, I seen how she inspected my penis by looking before she placed the condom on, I wouldnt say I have it like the google images when searched, but I do have it where it is visible to see clearly and this makes me ultra self concious. The working Girl must have seen them surely? When I go back I think I will mention them to her and put my mind at ease and hers in case she hasnt noticed them, sees them and panics thinking its an STI.

 

How aware are working girls of fordyce spots? What do they think of them? The reason Im asking realy is to see if I have been worrying about nothing all these years, if so I am about to go buck wild and catch up with so many things I have held back on in life.

 

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According to Wiki, they are present in most individuals and are simply a natural occurrence on the body, are completely benign and require no treatment.

 

On that basis, I would imagine the average working girl sees them day in, day out and that you therefore have been worrying yourself over nothing.

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Ive seen them on a lot of guys and usually they are very mild and no condom is required. However if you have pearly penile papules then yes, a condom would go on as they dont feel very pleasant in your mouth

 

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According to Wiki, they are present in most individuals and are simply a natural occurrence on the body, are completely benign and require no treatment.

 

On that basis, I would imagine the average working girl sees them day in, day out and that you therefore have been worrying yourself over nothing.

Thanks for the input, starting to feel much more confident at the moment, but eel like a fool at the same time waisting so many years turning down women because of what they may think...

 

Ive seen them on a lot of guys and usually they are very mild and no condom is required. However if you have pearly penile papules then yes, a condom would go on as they dont feel very pleasant in your mouth

 

http://www.pearlypenilepapuleshq.com

Thank you for the responce it has taken some weight of my shoulders, I definitely have not got the pearly penile papules, just the fordyce spots on my shaft like in the picture on the right in the link, I hope some more ladys can give me some input on how they view them? This is literally releasing me from a prison I've kept myself in for a long time and is life changing if as Bob the Builder says is right that Ive been worrying myself over nothing.

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Yep seen them on loads of willies.Perfectly normal.

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Yep seen them on loads of willies.Perfectly normal.

I feel a wierd sence of ease, this has bothered me so much since I first noticed them a very long time ago. I can not explain how much I have let it effect me in regards to what women would think of it and me. Wow this is kind of crazy I've waisted decades. (I have had only one LTR and that was limited sex as we settled for each other and we never should have, we never had sex with the lights on, luckily she didnt like to perform oral, but then again if she did I might have found this out sooner)

 

I need to catch up on lost time starting from tonight after work :ph34r: .... dam, the realization that I need a career change as my building job will in no way give me the funds for the amount of punting I intend to do, its been hard having lots of respect and love of women, feeling horny 24/7, being very healthy, frustrated and making the bad choice that these fordyce spots are not going to be accepted so I should refrain from women even when they have thrown themselves at me.

 

This is a new chapter in my life ..... I hope the replys on this post also help someone else out there, this was the one area in my life I lacked confidence... I'm starting to feel complete, it needs to sink in a bit more I think.

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Fordyce spots are pretty much unnoticeable. I used to think they were just more prominent hair follicles before I knew what they actually were.

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If I was in any doubt what so ever, I would only offer covered oral rather than OWO because I am not a doctor and spots or bumps would make me need to ensure there wasn't a risk for anyone, but as long as you are happy for the girl you see to perhapse offer all services covered, if she was in any doubt, then I think you'll get to embrace a part of life you have been missing, so good for you

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Fordyce spots are pretty much unnoticeable. I used to think they were just more prominent hair follicles before I knew what they actually were.

So it wouldnt bother you at all or you would think nothing of it if a client had them?

 

If I was in any doubt what so ever, I would only offer covered oral rather than OWO because I am not a doctor and spots or bumps would make me need to ensure there wasn't a risk for anyone, but as long as you are happy for the girl you see to perhapse offer all services covered, if she was in any doubt, then I think you'll get to embrace a part of life you have been missing, so good for you

Do you think it would be a good idea to mention it to the working girl I have been going to? Maybe it will reduce my anxiety over it as to be honest when I was with her I couldnt help think if she had noticed, what she would think etc so I couldnt let go of my self completely, and even though I enjoyed the time if that wasn't in my mind it would have been much better.

 

Thank you ladys for your insight on the matter it means a lot.

 

Just my luck I have come down with a sore throat, chest infection etc (My luck ran out working outside in all weathers) so until I am feeling better I wont even think of passing this flu on no matter how horny and ready to go I feel.

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I work in the medical profession and have made time to inform myself on what is and isn't safe penis spots and speckles wise. I am confident that I am clued up enough now to assess what is safe to put my chops around. If I saw anything I thought was unsafe then it wouldn't be a case of putting a condom on, I'd be waving him off. Fordyce spots don't bother me at all, and a client with them wouldn't get any less a great experience with me than a non-fordyce spotted client!

If I were you yes I would inform ladies if it's something that concerns you. Even though fordyce spots are common, if it is something that you are anxious about, and if ladies have ever broached the subject of them with you before in such a way that suggested they were concerned then at least you are giving them the informed choice about whether or not to meet you. Plus that'd remove any 'will she won't she' type anxiety on your part.

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I work in the medical profession and have made time to inform myself on what is and isn't safe penis spots and speckles wise. I am confident that I am clued up enough now to assess what is safe to put my chops around. If I saw anything I thought was unsafe then it wouldn't be a case of putting a condom on, I'd be waving him off. Fordyce spots don't bother me at all, and a client with them wouldn't get any less a great experience with me than a non-fordyce spotted client!

If I were you yes I would inform ladies if it's something that concerns you. Even though fordyce spots are common, if it is something that you are anxious about, and if ladies have ever broached the subject of them with you before in such a way that suggested they were concerned then at least you are giving them the informed choice about whether or not to meet you. Plus that'd remove any 'will she won't she' type anxiety on your part.

Lucky for me I didnt have a chest infection, I was just worn down from working every day outdoors in this horrible weather and got the warning signs wrong, 24hrs in bed got me back to normal so I took your advice Jasmine and I mentioned and showed it to the girl I see..... She was close up inspecting, smiled, gave me one hell of a look in my eyes without blinking and said "I have nothing to be concerned about baby"  and got to work, that was the best sexual moment in my life, all anxiety, fear, and worry gone in an instant, I felt so free, I have never had any sexual contact with anyone in bright light before because of feeling so aware of the fordice spots, this was just an amazing life changing moment. If you had never told me to tell her I probably would not have had the courage to, I am forever grateful, the psychological effects on people with fordice spots can be very damaging, they should teach this in school. I can not explain how my life has just changed and stepped up a few gears because of this.

 

I must be off I have a 8.30 appointment, reminds me of the game go for broke, but dam its worth every penny and now knowing my man hood is completely normal and healthy my self esteem has multplyed ten fold and is growing, it has triggered off some deep ambition to suceed in life in wealth and health like never before and I have took the bull by the horns already and set things in place to achieve more.

 

Thank you everyone who gave some input, I realy wish it was possible to spread some of my happiness to you all.

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Ahh that's so nice, I'm glad you found the input useful! Always good to hear of a happy ending ;)

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Ahh that's so nice, I'm glad you found the input useful! Always good to hear of a happy ending ;)

That's all we guys come here for!! :P

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Thanks for the input, starting to feel much more confident at the moment, but eel like a fool at the same time waisting so many years turning down women because of what they may think...

 

Thank you for the responce it has taken some weight of my shoulders, I definitely have not got the pearly penile papules, just the fordyce spots on my shaft like in the picture on the right in the link, I hope some more ladys can give me some input on how they view them? This is literally releasing me from a prison I've kept myself in for a long time and is life changing if as Bob the Builder says is right that Ive been worrying myself over nothing.

To be honest I wouldnt even bother mentioning them to a lady, never had a guy mention them to me yet . They are virtually un noticable and you might talk yourself out of a booking for nothing.

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To be honest I wouldnt even bother mentioning them to a lady, never had a guy mention them to me yet . They are virtually un noticable and you might talk yourself out of a booking for nothing.

The first WG I showed it to has now moved on, so I have found another lady who is walking distance local to me, I never said anything to her after my new found confidence and she never said a thing about it. I will follow your advice on not saying anything.

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Ahh that's so nice, I'm glad you found the input useful! Always good to hear of a happy ending ;)

I did Jasmine, and I am starting to enjoy life a lot more, really glad I started this post, the replies have liberated my mind.

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I did Jasmine, and I am starting to enjoy life a lot more, really glad I started this post, the replies have liberated my mind.

It's great to see this forum doing what it can in terms of public service to both escorts and punters.

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It's great to see this forum doing what it can in terms of public service to both escorts and punters.

It's 100% helped my life in a very far reaching positive way, I am forever grateful to this place.

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The first WG I showed it to has now moved on, so I have found another lady who is walking distance local to me, I never said anything to her after my new found confidence and she never said a thing about it. I will follow your advice on not saying anything.

Ahh Im glad to hear that, head up, keep on shagging  ;)

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