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Why Do Guys Do It?

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No shows! just dont turn up and then turn phone off! whats the bloody point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

if i guy is late its not normally and issue for me as i only see 2 clients a day but to just no show i dont get it! :angry:

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I don't understand it either.  On the odd occasion that I have been unable to make a pre-booked apt, I have always phoned and cancelled.  The ladies/agencies always seemed to be appreciate the call as against giving me  aggro for cancelling.

 

 I suppose that there are those out there who get a kick out of not showing, but probably get the arse when you refuse to accept another booking from them!!

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exactly its not hard to txt and say they cant make it! :unsure:

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It's frustrating on both wg and punter's sides!

I've never cancelled and only once been delayed due to traffic but was able to let the wg know and she was fine with it. I have had a no show / no contact, well not until several hours after the arranged time. At least she did get in touch to apologise I suppose but it was a tad frustrating having driven a round trip of nearly 200 miles for nothing! :blink:

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Many guys will ask the same questions of the girls but I suspect that the answers are all in a similar range.

 

Nerves get the better of them.

Found a better deal elsewhere.

The hole in the wall didn't want to play/pay.

Something unexpected came up.

Arrived and didn't like the look of the area/house.

Just changed their minds.

 

All excuses but nothing excuses bad manners and not letting the other party know.

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Urrgh you poor thing. Strangely some guys seem to get off on doing this. Circulate his details so he can't see/waste another lady's time. It's turds like him that make us super wary of everyone, and I know from being over cautious I have turned away many genuine gents. People like that make things more complicated for all of us.

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I agree with Jasmine, I have a veiled threat on my profile that I will let it be known to other girls if any body is a time waster. This was after I had a number of them during a couple of days in a hotel. I was livid. I had turned others down as I was booked up. Cancellations can't be helped and I understand this. But others could have that appointment if we are informed.

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Urrgh you poor thing. Strangely some guys seem to get off on doing this. Circulate his details so he can't see/waste another lady's time. It's turds like him that make us super wary of everyone, and I know from being over cautious I have turned away many genuine gents. People like that make things more complicated for all of us.

 

Of course there is the possibility that they are another girls, boyfriend/husband/pimp or a punter in tight with another girl and he is making bookings so as to hurt the competition.

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Of course there is the possibility that they are another girls, boyfriend/husband/pimp or a punter in tight with another girl and he is making bookings so as to hurt the competition.

Oh yes, they really are the biggest c**** out there. Behaviour like that always comes back to bite them on the bum eventually.

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Oh yes, they really are the biggest c**** out there. Behaviour like that always comes back to bite them on the bum eventually.

All too true as we found out on here not that long ago!!!

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It can be mentally straining.  The cash point issue.  The other day my local cash point had run out of notes, then the petrol station had no diesel and I was starting to think can I be bothered!  There are barriers in our way.  Some times a partner unexpectedly calls you to go home or one of your kids is not well but what I would do is email or phone the next day!  The problem is there are a few escorts that would take the hump and would block you and wouldn't let you give a worthy reason.  I am saying few as these are in the minority.  But I know mentally its a strain to just get to an escort and if things don't run smoothly you can feel defeated but I am hoping that you escorts take on board my comments.  Some don't I'm afraid!

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By the way I'm no time waster. I think I cancelled once due to a cold.  A few girls have been no show because they fell ill or had some thing go wrong but I saw them later and I am cool with it.  These things happen both ways.

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There's a difference between being a no show and cancelling. Cancellations are fine, and the call/text to say they can't make it is very much appreciated, and shows respect. He certainly wouldn't go on the block list. There is no excuse for just not showing (well, except if you were mugged for your phone). It's so rude. It needn't be one of the perils of this job either, as it is completely avoidable. Even if the cancellation was short notice, at least it'd enable the lady to start taking calls, change back into her onesie, get on with her day etc.

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There's a difference between being a no show and cancelling. Cancellations are fine, and the call/text to say they can't make it is very much appreciated, and shows respect. He certainly wouldn't go on the block list. There is no excuse for just not showing (well, except if you were mugged for your phone). It's so rude. It needn't be one of the perils of this job either, as it is completely avoidable. Even if the cancellation was short notice, at least it'd enable the lady to start taking calls, change back into her onesie, get on with her day etc.

its not just hookers

our quacks gets agitated about missed appointments

I think it is every walk of life...

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Its just plain nobberish! :angry: :angry: :angry:

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I have ony rarely not been able to make a appointment and when it did happen I made sure that I contacted the lady. I am paranoid about letting people down.

However I have turned up for appointments and made the call for the exact location, flat no etc to find that suddenly her phone is switched off, at least equally annoying.

Sadly some people both customers and escorts do let us down, bloody annoying.

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Some guys just put zero worth on our time because they have zero respect for us. Its simple. He wouldn't get a second chance with me.

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its not just hookers

our quacks gets agitated about missed appointments

I think it is every walk of life...

Yes but the doctor still gets paid.

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All appointment based systems have no shows and cancellations. I very much doubt however that other forms of business have the same level of chat via email, text or phone calls asking what you are wearing 'do you really offer this?' type calls. I'd also guess that adding in the extra excitement of sex and large quantities of cash, mix in a bit of guilt, chance of being robbed and misbelief that it's illegal, and you are primed for a lot of people not turning up.

 

Fortunately most clients I accept bookings from are able to either turn up, or at least let me know in good time when they know they cannot make it.

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No shows! just dont turn up and then turn phone off! whats the bloody point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

if i guy is late its not normally and issue for me as i only see 2 clients a day but to just no show i dont get it! :angry:

 

It is inexcusable and very poor form. Inadequate people on many dimensions.

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While I'd always try to give reasonable notice of cancellation once I've started my journey a problem on the way could lead to difficulties in contacting the wg - the majority of my punts have started with a motorway journey and while I have my mobile with me I wouldn't like to try to make a call or send a text while driving if for example an accident occurs etc.

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Many guys will ask the same questions of the girls but I suspect that the answers are all in a similar range.

 

Nerves get the better of them.

Found a better deal elsewhere.

The hole in the wall didn't want to play/pay.

Something unexpected came up.

Arrived and didn't like the look of the area/house.

Just changed their minds.

 

All excuses but nothing excuses bad manners and not letting the other party know.

Pretty much this.As for the lack of manners.Thats just people in general nowdays.

 

its not just hookers

our quacks gets agitated about missed appointments

I think it is every walk of life...

Exactly this.Although,as Chloe states further up,quite a few people don't see a wg's time as valuable,indeed some getting kicks from thinking they've cost them money.Insonsiderate no shows occur in every trade,wether its those who booked a table for dinner,booked a session with a personal trainer through to my trade and people who have booked in for do's.The difference i suppose is in my case,resteraunts etc we have more comeback in that we can bar the person(most people don't use fake details for such bookings)whereas they figure withj a wg theres unlikely to be any comeback as how can you block someone who you don't know,have never seen etc.You can bar that phone number,but whats a sim cost nowdays.It could be that sense of a lack of comeback that makes people more inclined to not bother with the niceties/manners of informing others of a change of circumstances

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While I'd always try to give reasonable notice of cancellation once I've started my journey a problem on the way could lead to difficulties in contacting the wg - the majority of my punts have started with a motorway journey and while I have my mobile with me I wouldn't like to try to make a call or send a text while driving if for example an accident occurs etc.

Fair do's.It however doesn't take long to pull over and thats before you include the invention of the hands free.

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I wish my last client hadn't turned up! I'm currently breathing out the negative vibes! That isn't a bad breath issue before you ask ;)

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Fair do's.It however doesn't take long to pull over and thats before you include the invention of the hands free.

 

Yup but pulling over generally means into the hard shoulder which if there has been an accident is likely to have vehicles with blue lights going wanting to use it. As for hands free while I can manage handsfree to answer a call I wouldn't know how to use it to dig out a number to dial.

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