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Unfaithful To An Escort?

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Having just read another thread, and not wishing to derail it, I thought it best to start a separate thread.

 

Is there such a thing as being 'unfaithful' to an escort? :confused:

 

Gentlemen, do you hide the fact you see other escorts from your regular?

 

Ladies, do you get jealous when your regular visits other escorts?

Do you feel uncomfortable if they talk about the ones they have met?

 

 

I was recently asked not to leave feedback on AW by a gent for fear of his regular throwing a fit. WTF?  :eek:

Bunny Boilers Escorts being possessive? Whatever next? :rolleyes:

 

 

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I've had some discussion of other escorts but its been non-specific (e.g. I've mentioned to a couple of escorts the issues I've had with cancellations as an explanation as to why I seemed somewhat paranoid about getting confirmation but not who it was who had cancelled on me) with one exception and the exception was the prelude to arranging a duo meet (would be a bit hard to not talk about other escorts in that circumstance ;)

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As someone who is in business - I may get offended if a regular goes elsewhere

 

but that's not really the same as a lover getting jealous because he/she is being two timed.

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As someone who is in business - I may get offended if a regular goes elsewhere

 

but that's not really the same as a lover getting jealous because he/she is being two timed.

 

Would that apply to an escort/punter arrangement though?

 

Punters are free to visit whomever they wish. They are not in an exclusive relationship with us. It is not an escorts place ban him from seeing others!

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I owe an escort no loyalty on that front whatsoever, and she owes me none either. I would be extremely foolish to think that any physical relationship is exclusive. It is after all a business transaction. Granted both parties may have a rapport and there have been ladies who I have seen in the past on a regular basis and there is a mutual trust which is built up. I have no right to demand that a professional escort stays exclusive to me, unless I suddenly win a phenomenal amount of money on Euro Millions! It could be argued that she would then cease to be an escort and would in fact be a mistress.

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That's getting into scary territory! I saw just one wg while she was around out of my choice not because of anything the lady I was seeing thought. Nor would she have cared - In fact she gave me the AW details of another girl she thought I might like who worked at the same agency she did.

I suppose if I'd seen her less than I did I might have got less "benefits" like extra time and the off the clock meal / drinks meets we had - it is business after all. But she certainly didn't place any embargo on me seeing other wg's - nor would I have tolerated it if she had...

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I don't expect exclusivity from any of my clients, in the same way they don't get it from me and I don't believe there is such thing in being unfaithful to an escort- it's like being unfaithful to your hairdresser- ridiculous!

 

However, I think human emotions (I mean jealousy and envy, rather than lovey dovey ones) do surface in some people and it's not uncommon for a woman to feel a but miffed if one of her clients sees someone else, even if it's in a 'I wanted his money kind of way!'  You can't help how you feel sometimes even though you know it's silly and irrational. 

 

I expect there are plenty of men who would rather not know the details of what their favourite has been doing with other men and i think it works both ways. 

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sorry. how can an escort demand exclusivity when she obviously has many clients

TBH I have never encountered any jealousy. interest - yes.  But then I reckon some escort get off onthe fact they are involved in a taboo aspect of society.

 

I live in a small town. One cafe opened about 10 years ago.  it did quite well.  Now there are 4 cafes in the same high street, and they are all quite busy.  but the original owner is quite happy to make snappy comments about why some old regs go elsewhere sometimes (or always).  I actually go elsewhere now to avoid the bitchy comments.

So jealous behaviour can be counter productive IMHO.

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Is there such a thing as being 'unfaithful' to an escort? :confused:

 

 

 

Trading it for a Vauxhall Chevette ???  :eek:

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I'll have a word with my little head and see what he says.

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I certainly don't expect "fidelity" or "exclusivity" from a client, even long standing regulars. Makes no sense on any level.

But, I also fail to see what's to be gained by clients gossiping about other escorts, and immediately know they tittle tattle about me to other WGs, which makes me much more circumspect in my dealing with them.

Some guys try something along the lines of: I see so-and-so, and she doesn't mind if I stay 20 minutes longer than I pay for, because I'm such a good regular. I sometimes see blah blah, and she doesn't mind doing such-and-such, your friend xyz charges £50 less, and so on. So, some guys try to make me feel threatened, and are hoping for some sort of leverage by mentioning they see other escorts.

I often recommend friends to clients, so I sure don't feel any kind of rivalry. Horses for courses, I say. If a guy likes me, he'll be back, if he prefers somebody else, he's much happier and better served there.

If I was a client I would keep my gob shut, unless it is to say "I really liked your friend, thanks for the recommendation."

But, not all colleagues feel like that, and I've in the past recommended friends, only for them to tell fibs to the clients in order to try to stop them returning to me, along the lines of "oh, she didn't pick up the phone? Yeah, she ignores you if you've done something to offend her" when all that happened was that I was busy, abroad, or just taking a day off. I lost a guy for two whole years because of that particular "friend".

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I think it's ridiculous to be honest!

I would never get jealous or demand exclusivity, I'm here to provide a service to men not hog clients and expect them only to see me!

I think the lines will get crossed if you start to demand exlcusivity or "hide things from your regular". Simply put its paid sex and that's it. So there shouldn't be any of this jealousy, bitterness stuff!

I've had some clients say "you're better than this escort" "I like you more than this escort" "this escort charges less for the same things you do" etc etc.

In the nicest way possible I don't care what other escorts are doing with the client, I do my thing provide my service and get paid.

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I've had some clients say "you're better than this escort" "I like you more than this escort" "this escort charges less for the same things you do" etc etc.

In the nicest way possible I don't care what other escorts are doing with the client, I do my thing provide my service and get paid.

 

 

I would object to my visitors putting other escorts down to try and get special favours from me. Not gonna happen.  I don't appreciate mind games of any sort and far too long in the tooth to fall for such tricks!

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If I date a woman for a few weeks or months, and then leave her for a woman she hates I can understand my first girlfriend being angry with me and jealous. If I meet an escort ONCE, pay for her time, and decide to see someone I have openly chatted to on a forum, it shouldn't be an issue. Especially, if the WG I saw once is starting to play with my mind.

It would not be appropriate for WG number 1 to accuse her client of betrayal, or of sleeping with the enemy. Nor would it be normal to receive a message from angry SP which states, she will sever her ties with her former client with a knife.

I am trying to be restrained, I do not wish to receive any warnings. But I am really not happy with this WG.

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If I date a woman for a few weeks or months, and then leave her for a woman she hates I can understand my first girlfriend being angry with me and jealous. If I meet an escort ONCE, pay for her time, and decide to see someone I have openly chatted to on a forum, it shouldn't be an issue. Especially, if the WG I saw once is starting to play with my mind.

It would not be appropriate for WG number 1 to accuse her client of betrayal, or of sleeping with the enemy. Nor would it be normal to receive a message from angry SP which states, she will sever her ties with her former client with a knife.

I am trying to be restrained, I do not wish to receive any warnings. But I am really not happy with this WG.

 

I'd see that as a blessing in disguise, judging by the rest of your post! :eek: :eek: :eek:

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Nope, in fact I work on recommendations from the escorts I've met.

I'm mindful that repeat business works both ways so wouldn't cancel a booking with one escort to make one with another (unless she was joining us)

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If I date a woman for a few weeks or months, and then leave her for a woman she hates I can understand my first girlfriend being angry with me and jealous. If I meet an escort ONCE, pay for her time, and decide to see someone I have openly chatted to on a forum, it shouldn't be an issue. Especially, if the WG I saw once is starting to play with my mind.

It would not be appropriate for WG number 1 to accuse her client of betrayal, or of sleeping with the enemy. Nor would it be normal to receive a message from angry SP which states, she will sever her ties with her former client with a knife.

I am trying to be restrained, I do not wish to receive any warnings. But I am really not happy with this WG.

Disgusting behaviour if you ask me. No one has the right to question any of their clients on any of the other ladies they have seen or will see in the future. I think you have had what is commonly referred to as "a swerve" and at least now she wont be able to play head games with you any further. 

 

If you are considering naming the lady then perhaps talk to Galahad about it. I dont think you can get warnings though for naming and shaming a bad experience, still, better to check if you feel its in the interests of other punters to be aware of possible issues regarding a booking with that lady. 

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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Nope, in fact I work on recommendations from the escorts I've met.

I'm mindful that repeat business works both ways so wouldn't cancel a booking with one escort to make one with another (unless she was joining us)

You need to be careful with taking those recommendations only. You should read Esquires post, imagine meeting that lady and her colouring your views on other ladies just because she has a personal issue with them. If I were you I would drop that way and start taking recommendations from the punters instead, they are after all the ones who have actually met the other ladies unlike other escorts. There is nothing wrong with taking up an escorts recommendation of meeting a lady  she knows but if she persuades you NOT to see someone it should ring big loud alarm bells. 

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Having just read another thread, and not wishing to derail it, I thought it best to start a separate thread.

 

Is there such a thing as being 'unfaithful' to an escort? :confused:

 

Gentlemen, do you hide the fact you see other escorts from your regular?

 

Ladies, do you get jealous when your regular visits other escorts?

Do you feel uncomfortable if they talk about the ones they have met?

 

 

I was recently asked not to leave feedback on AW by a gent for fear of his regular throwing a fit. WTF?  :eek:

Bunny Boilers Escorts being possessive? Whatever next? :rolleyes:

I wont lie, it would be fabulous if my guys met me and found me so wonderful that they only ever wanted to book me again but I live in reality and know that this is not something that occurs often with even one or two guys. We simply cannot expect a client to only visit us. I would say Bunny Boiler was the correct term. I dont feel jealous or possessive no. If its a client who visited me a lot then eventually very rarely but I know that he is still bonking as much then yes I would feel a little sad that he had "gone off me" a bit but I think that is natural when you see someone fairly regularly.

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ive tried to message Galahad and BJ with the full account, but you can not receive messages.  Maybe your in boxes are full. 

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Disgusting behaviour if you ask me. No one has the right to question any of their clients on any of the other ladies they have seen or will see in the future. I think you have had what is commonly referred to as "a swerve" and at least now she wont be able to play head games with you any further. 

 

If you are considering naming the lady then perhaps talk to Galahad about it. I dont think you can get warnings though for naming and shaming a bad experience, still, better to check if you feel its in the interests of other punters to be aware of possible issues regarding a booking with that lady. 

 

It was the "knife" comment that made me really angry, Actually I'm furious and am going out for a walk

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ive tried to message Galahad and BJ with the full account, but you can not receive messages.  Maybe your in boxes are full. 

come into the chat room, BJ is in there at the moment, its at the top menu bar x

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sorry. how can an escort demand exclusivity when she obviously has many clients

 

What I found strange was the fact that this gent was willing to pander to her ridiculous behaviour. He has a wife. Shouldn't she be the one he hides this hobby from and not an 'escort'?

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You need to be careful with taking those recommendations only. You should read Esquires post, imagine meeting that lady and her colouring your views on other ladies just because she has a personal issue with them. If I were you I would drop that way and start taking recommendations from the punters instead, they are after all the ones who have actually met the other ladies unlike other escorts. There is nothing wrong with taking up an escorts recommendation of meeting a lady she knows but if she persuades you NOT to see someone it should ring big loud alarm bells.

I almost exclusively make bookings with bi escorts so it makes sense to ask who they like to duo with. So far the recommendations have been spot on. I've never been warned off by an escort yet.

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I almost exclusively make bookings with bi escorts so it makes sense to ask who they like to duo with. So far the recommendations have been spot on. I've never been warned off by an escort yet.

Ahh thats fair enough. I have recommended ladies in the past many a time, I would never dissuade someone from seeing someone though deliberatley x

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