37lincsmale

Feeling Ripped Off And Conned

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Hello folks. Thought I would join here and tell everyone about a experience I had recently. I had met this escort once before and it went great. She's also on another adult site and had asked on her status for a lift a few times. When I first met her I said if you need a lift again gimme a text and I'm sure we could work something out to benefit us both. Couple of days after we met she text me and said if your not busy could you give me a lift from Boston to Lincoln (70 mile round trip for me) I'll give you a blow job as payment if you do it. Picked her up and she said I'll give you the blow job or a two girl blow job when we get to lincoln to the other escorts house she was working with and kept saying thanks for doing this. Got there and she said let me just check its ok for you to come in. She went inside then wouldn't reply to texts or whatsapp messages. Was I stupid for helping her out and not asking for the blow job first?

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Seems an altogether strange srrangement in the first place. Not really sure the offer of a lift constitutes any sort of contractual arrangement in the first place.

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Well no obviously it's not a contractually agreement. It was a verbal agreement between me and the escort. Wouldn't you feel ripped off if it was you?

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Personally no as it does not sound the sort of arrangement I would ever consider making.

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If I may coin a phrase; I think she saw you coming!!

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Oh well you live and learn. Just hope she doesn't do it to others

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Oh well you live and learn. Just hope she doesn't do it to others

Sadly, since no money changed hands, you are unable to post a review. Does anyone know any way in which the OP can post any info which may prevent any other sucker falling for this trick?

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Sorry Paul but as this is a very dubious arrangement and also coming from a brand new poster I would hide any mention of the ladies name so the answer is no.

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Would I feel ripped off? Yes - but it's not something I'd have got involved with in the first place.

Edited by Burty

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The things men do for the promise of a blow job! ho ho ho! 

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I'm not looking to name or Shame anyone. I was just interested in other people's perception of the whole thing

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A bit of a let down as you say but we all live and learn...some of us even make the same mistakes repeadly...

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Yes its stupid.

Why can't people just make an agreement on normal terms?

"If I give you a lift I would like a blow job" you are expecting to get mugged off with such a ridiculous response.

I have had similar responses when looking for incall places, or looking for a driver. And to be honest i don't take things like this seriously.

If you wanted a blow job that bad you'd pay for it.

No sympathy on my side, sorry.

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Sadly, since no money changed hands, you are unable to post a review. Does anyone know any way in which the OP can post any info which may prevent any other sucker falling for this trick?

Trick?

He actually initiated it. "We can come to some sort of arrangement" that already screams sex for a favour.

If you want sexual encounters just pay for an escort don't go about "bribing" or making arrangements the amount of times it goes wrong.

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No no no I didn't iniate it. She text me and said if you give me a lift I will give you a blow job. I wasn't desperately seeking a blow job. If I was I would have booked with a escort. It was a perk of giving her a lift

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Trick?

He actually initiated it. "We can come to some sort of arrangement" that already screams sex for a favour.

If you want sexual encounters just pay for an escort don't go about "bribing" or making arrangements the amount of times it goes wrong.

Did he initiate it though? According to the OP she was asking for lifts on a website and text him to ask for one..

I agree it's a dodgy arrangement at best but if it happened as described I wouldn't exactly say he initiated it.

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No no no I didn't iniate it. She text me and said if you give me a lift I will give you a blow job. I wasn't desperately seeking a blow job. If I was I would have booked with a escort. It was a perk of giving her a lift

So what was your idea of some sort of arrangement..... as you stated in your first post?

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Did he initiate it though? According to the OP she was asking for lifts on a website and text him to ask for one..

I agree it's a dodgy arrangement at best but if it happened as described I wouldn't exactly say he initiated it.

According to his post he said if you need a lift we can come to some sort of arrangement.

To me that already initiates sex over the two years I have escorted I have had so many emails that sound just like that.

Not wanting to initiate sex but hinting it.

Why not just say "if you want a lift we can come to a reasonable amount of payment" but he was thinking something else.

It is a very dodgy arrangement and is asking for you to get mugged off, he's not ripped off neither conned as it is a verbal agreement which is not compulsory.

But to me the "we can come to some sort of agreement" would make me think sex automatically so in my opinion it was hinted by him firstly. But hey I could be wrong!

Edited by TightYoungEbony

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So what was your idea of some sort of arrangement..... as you stated in your first post?

Exactly my point. As a female I know exactly what that means I am sure most of us girls on here have had emails or texts similar to such so this woman probably knew exactly what he was getting at and how to get a lift for nothing.

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So what was your idea of some sort of arrangement..... as you stated in your first post?

I don't know really maybe next booking I had with her do it at a slightly cheaper rate

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Oh dear OP..fell for the blowjob for a lift classic, usually a crackhead favourite with the taxi drivers Ive heard. Beware of girls offering blowjobs...

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Exactly my point. As a female I know exactly what that means I am sure most of us girls on here have had emails or texts similar to such so this woman probably knew exactly what he was getting at and how to get a lift for nothing.

So does that make it right and acceptable to do that? Say to someone if you do this favour for me I will give you something in return then not do it?

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I don't know really maybe next booking I had with her do it at a slightly cheaper rate

Well why not say that?

"We can work something out" sounds to me like you want free sex and clearly she thought the same thing to offer a blowjob that you didn't get

Edited by TightYoungEbony

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Because saying we can work something out gives her options to suggest something. Christ I only came on here to chat and put that on here. Friendly bunch here eh...

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I think the point being repeatly made here 37 is that it was a foolish arrangement and more than likely not going to end well. If you make bad decisions you may well end up disappointed. You just have to learn to make better decisions. If we had all said "oh dear never mind poor you" would you have learnt anything? I think not.

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