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The difference between escorts can be astounding.

 

Some ladies 'get it ' , others just don't. This is particularly marked  in the communications phase pre-booking. Some are great, some are dismal. Why ?  Most service providers in small private concerns know that potential customer relations are important. They would welcome feedback or helpful comments from customers on this. However, any such comments offered by a punter in this industry risks being met with a phone cut off or 'fuck off, don't tell me how to run my business '.

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It amazes me too.

But it has to be said the good ones do the marketing and comms really well.

And dont get me started on crap parlour web sites. Ones with no rota or no prices.

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The difference between escorts can be astounding.

 

Some ladies 'get it ' , others just don't. This is particularly marked  in the communications phase pre-booking. Some are great, some are dismal. Why ?  Most service providers in small private concerns know that potential customer relations are important. They would welcome feedback or helpful comments from customers on this. However, any such comments offered by a punter in this industry risks being met with a phone cut off or 'fuck off, don't tell me how to run my business '.

 

Although I am not a punter I do get what you say.......  and see it myself while browsing profiles and sites..... 

 

When I first ventured as indie and got myself a website it was not very good.... I had to learn as I went along.  When I think back I had over the top flashy stuff and irrelevant trivia on that site.... but at the time I was all new fangled and liked to see it myself... not really thinking that the guys looking may be rolling their eyes at it.

 

All different now..... but to get back to your point..... yes I had a few comments from guys with diplomatic suggestions as to how I could improve my advertising and while I did not rush out and drastically alter things immediately I certainly did tone it down over time and think I got it right.

 

What I did not do because it would be the worst marketing move ever... is to tell anyone to fuck off!  

 

Even the most idiotic and time wasting approaches and queries from men do not warrant a fuck off from me.  At best I would just ignore or politely put them off.

 

anyway............. am about to get stuffed

 

into a tight little dress and a pair of sparkly high heels................

 

 

 

 

wish I was 20 again    :unsure:

 

 

 

no I don't

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Telling any prospective customer to fuck off is bad. Not only is that a customer gone but also he may tell others.plenty of forums and also email so the fuck will not be secret for long.

I do understand why ladies screen clients but I wonder if they are losing business. Last car I bought I went into the car lot dressed scruffy. I knew which car I wanted (someone else had checked it for me). They obviously thought I was a tyre kicker. When I got the tenners out and said 'ill have that one' they were gobsmacked. If I hadnt needed a car in a hurry I would have walked out!.

Still got the car 3 years and 100, 000 miles later.

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I recently emailed a girl twice on AW.  ok she is a distance so probably wouldn't go unless she was a good communicator but there is no way I would go now since she looked at my emails and no response.  In any form of life customer service is so important.  In my business I offer a personal service and will bend over backwards to help clients!  Not in a sexual way though!! :o  

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The difference between escorts can be astounding.

 

Some ladies 'get it ' , others just don't. This is particularly marked  in the communications phase pre-booking. Some are great, some are dismal. Why ?  Most service providers in small private concerns know that potential customer relations are important. They would welcome feedback or helpful comments from customers on this. However, any such comments offered by a punter in this industry risks being met with a phone cut off or 'fuck off, don't tell me how to run my business '.

 

Ha ha ha, I know.  She might put 'Top escort' on her AW profile, although she charges low fees and can hardly speak English but she is street wise and looks down at the decent guy between her legs and thinks: 'if I can fool this one, I can fool everyone'.  

 

When you start from 0 and reach a different level, some people think in this rhythm they will marry a billionaire to give them the life they are entitled to.  They don't realise that everything in life is hard work....

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It's difficult not to tell someone to fuck off when most 'helpful' suggestions are indeed not helpful or come from a purely selfish punter perspective!

 

I know my business inside out and I'm very clear on the kind of man I want to see with regards to my sanity and safety. I don't want 'more' business as such just the best business I can get. If I accepted every man who called I'd be very very busy, but it's their rudeness of lack of respect that stops me from seeing them, answering their email or text. Though I don't actually tell people to fuck off I will hang up on clients who push my barriers of offend me. I just don't need those sort in my life in any form. 

 

Of course customer service is important and communications with clients is very important and I know I'm good at it and I'm grateful to genuinely useful observations such as a mistake on my availability dates or a terrible typo on my website. Being told  things like You should offer 15 minute quickies or You should do outcalls to private addresses or You should offer domination services or you should give your full address when clients ring to book and so on are all about what THEY want and not what I want. 

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Although I am not a punter I do get what you say.......  and see it myself while browsing profiles and sites..... 

 

When I first ventured as indie and got myself a website it was not very good.... I had to learn as I went along.  When I think back I had over the top flashy stuff and irrelevant trivia on that site.... but at the time I was all new fangled and liked to see it myself... not really thinking that the guys looking may be rolling their eyes at it.

 

All different now..... but to get back to your point..... yes I had a few comments from guys with diplomatic suggestions as to how I could improve my advertising and while I did not rush out and drastically alter things immediately I certainly did tone it down over time and think I got it right.

 

What I did not do because it would be the worst marketing move ever... is to tell anyone to fuck off!  

 

Even the most idiotic and time wasting approaches and queries from men do not warrant a fuck off from me.  At best I would just ignore or politely put them off.

 

anyway............. am about to get stuffed

 

into a tight little dress and a pair of sparkly high heels................

 

 

 

 

wish I was 20 again    :unsure:

 

 

 

no I don't

 

 

Why oh why do you women think that they have to dress down , more conservatively when they get older. Sure, there are certain things that wont work but sex is in the brain as well. There is nothing more attractive than seeing a mature  lady walking whose attitude, deportment and dress states " I'm sexy and I know it " !

 

I think many women dress down for fear of other women  sneering and saying  " just look at her, WHO does she think she is ". Show us a bit of skin and attitude mature ladies !

 

 

Most guys would love their mature ageing partners do don a tight revealing dress and sparkly heels, even if only in the privacy of their own home.

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Telling any prospective customer to fuck off is bad. Not only is that a customer gone but also he may tell others.plenty of forums and also email so the fuck will not be secret for long.

I do understand why ladies screen clients but I wonder if they are losing business. Last car I bought I went into the car lot dressed scruffy. I knew which car I wanted (someone else had checked it for me). They obviously thought I was a tyre kicker. When I got the tenners out and said 'ill have that one' they were gobsmacked. If I hadnt needed a car in a hurry I would have walked out!.

Still got the car 3 years and 100, 000 miles later.

Yes but when we screen clients the ones we lose are the ones that dont pass the screening test anyway, the ones who do wont be lost as they give us no reason to be rude to them. Mine is very basic, age requirement and manners, you would be amazed how many do not pass the second one and who can they blame but themselves for being rude or talking to me as if Im some sort of desperado. Yes they can take their cash elsewhere as I'm sure someone will point out but then what does that girl have to put up with in the bedroom to get that cash...

 

Im not even that choosy, you literally just have to be polite and speak to me as an equal yet so many fall at that simple hurdle, its mind boggling some of the texts I get or the way some people think its acceptable to speak to us on the phone. 

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"you can't say no your just a whore" from a guy wanting bareback

 

"what do you mean no??? you're a dirty WG anyway" from a guy who wanted to piss in my mouth

 

"of course you drink piss your a fucking whore" from another guy who wanted to piss in my mouth

 

Bizarre thought it may seem to a guy I actually DID tell this lot to fuck right off before hanging up 

 

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Why oh why do you women think that they have to dress down , more conservatively when they get older. Sure, there are certain things that wont work but sex is in the brain as well. There is nothing more attractive than seeing a mature  lady walking whose attitude, deportment and dress states " I'm sexy and I know it " !

 

I think many women dress down for fear of other women  sneering and saying  " just look at her, WHO does she think she is ". Show us a bit of skin and attitude mature ladies !

 

 

Most guys would love their mature ageing partners do don a tight revealing dress and sparkly heels, even if only in the privacy of their own home.

 

I was teasing!  

 

The above mentioned outfit of tight little dress and high sparkly shoes is the very look I choose almost every time for clients.... if they have not requested an alternative look.

 

The difference is that I only wear this kind of thing when working....... outside of this job I do cover up and would not be seen outdoors in a short tight clingy low cut dress or top.and spiky painful shoes... no way.  

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Yes but when we screen clients the ones we lose are the ones that dont pass the screening test anyway, the ones who do wont be lost as they give us no reason to be rude to them. Mine is very basic, age requirement and manners, you would be amazed how many do not pass the second one and who can they blame but themselves for being rude or talking to me as if Im some sort of desperado. Yes they can take their cash elsewhere as I'm sure someone will point out but then what does that girl have to put up with in the bedroom to get that cash...

 

Im not even that choosy, you literally just have to be polite and speak to me as an equal yet so many fall at that simple hurdle, its mind boggling some of the texts I get or the way some people think its acceptable to speak to us on the phone. 

 

I often wonder why people behave like twats with electronic coms but are nice as pie in real life.

so you may lose a good client with bad email style but who is nice as pie....

but of course i want you to stay safe

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I often wonder why people behave like twats with electronic coms but are nice as pie in real life.

so you may lose a good client with bad email style but who is nice as pie....

but of course i want you to stay safe

I dont lose clients just because they have a bad email style. I can cope with a badly written or put over email

 

 

I discount clients who are rude or downright horrible in their attitude towards me. That is not the same thing. 

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It's difficult not to tell someone to fuck off when most 'helpful' suggestions are indeed not helpful or come from a purely selfish punter perspective!

 

I know my business inside out and I'm very clear on the kind of man I want to see with regards to my sanity and safety. I don't want 'more' business as such just the best business I can get. If I accepted every man who called I'd be very very busy, but it's their rudeness of lack of respect that stops me from seeing them, answering their email or text. Though I don't actually tell people to fuck off I will hang up on clients who push my barriers of offend me. I just don't need those sort in my life in any form. 

 

Of course customer service is important and communications with clients is very important and I know I'm good at it and I'm grateful to genuinely useful observations such as a mistake on my availability dates or a terrible typo on my website. Being told  things like You should offer 15 minute quickies or You should do outcalls to private addresses or You should offer domination services or you should give your full address when clients ring to book and so on are all about what THEY want and not what I want

 

 

I hear you but what customers want in any business is pretty important.

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I've always been careful not to be too forward or explicit during phone contact as this can ear mark you as a clever bugger which can mean you don't get an appointment.

As for a ladies website, as long as it has the basic need to know info (hours of work, prices, services) and perhaps a couple of nice photos then that is all that's really needed.

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"you can't say no your just a whore" from a guy wanting bareback

 

"what do you mean no??? you're a dirty WG anyway" from a guy who wanted to piss in my mouth

 

"of course you drink piss your a fucking whore" from another guy who wanted to piss in my mouth

 

Bizarre thought it may seem to a guy I actually DID tell this lot to fuck right off before hanging up 

 

 

 

Man, that is awful. Surely, there cant be many men like that ?  Must be only a handful, please. They should be shot on the spot. I feel like giving you a big hug . My apologies on behalf of those male lowlifes.

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I was teasing!  

 

The above mentioned outfit of tight little dress and high sparkly shoes is the very look I choose almost every time for clients.... if they have not requested an alternative look.

 

The difference is that I only wear this kind of thing when working....... outside of this job I do cover up and would not be seen outdoors in a short tight clingy low cut dress or top.and spiky painful shoes... no way.  

 

 

Atta girl ! :D

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I often wonder why people behave like twats with electronic coms but are nice as pie in real life.

so you may lose a good client with bad email style but who is nice as pie....

but of course i want you to stay safe

 

Because people feel the pressure to conform in every day life. They keep parts of themselves bottled up.  Try having a power failure in a US city, then you see people change very quickly and all hell breaks loose ! 

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I've always been careful not to be too forward or explicit during phone contact as this can ear mark you as a clever bugger which can mean you don't get an appointment.

As for a ladies website, as long as it has the basic need to know info (hours of work, prices, services) and perhaps a couple of nice photos then that is all that's really needed.

 

I've been at this for a while and, touch wood, have had no very bad experiences. I like to get a sense of the lady from email communication before  I make the decision to commit. Many ladies either refuse to offer this facility or want you to have made up your mind before contacting them in the first place. Pre- teleohone communications is an art and I haven't yet mastered it. 

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Man, that is awful. Surely, there cant be many men like that ?  Must be only a handful, please. They should be shot on the spot. I feel like giving you a big hug . My apologies on behalf of those male lowlifes.

No most do not say things like that but you also have to add the ones who you answer the phone too with a "hello how can I help you" only to get one word "prices" "details" "age" take your pick of one word questions, it bugs me, whats wrong with "hello, prices please" ??

 

Also the ones who sound disgusted with you even though they called you, the ones who make comments such as 

 

"how do i know you are clean"

 

"do you have diseases"

 

"you do wash between clients dont you?"

 

again not the norm but still plenty out there. 

 

To be fair the guys who email tend not to come out with that sort of thing, its usually over the phone or in a text

 

 

 

Thanks for the hug x

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I hear you but what customers want in any business is pretty important.

Yes, but if they want something I don't want to do, then it's not happening! 

 

But to go along with your point, there are things escorts (should) do even if not in the mood, such as wearing a nice outfit, having a clean flat, being on time and so on. 

 

I think many men on here- who are generally genuine respectful punter type don't realise how many idiot calls we get- I think they'd be horrified at the number of men who call and start a conversation with  'What's your postcode?' or 'How much?' Totally as Chloe has already pointed out. 

 

Then there's the ones who ring 89 times in a row at 3am or start off sounding genuine, go off on great long requirements and requests and then don't confirm or tell you they are booking your for a threesome with their wife but suddenly she isn't available if you want to speak to her! 

 

You get used to it a degree, you have to, but it probably does tend to make us a little wary and cynical sometimes! 

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Yes, but if they want something I don't want to do, then it's not happening! 

 

But to go along with your point, there are things escorts (should) do even if not in the mood, such as wearing a nice outfit, having a clean flat, being on time and so on. 

 

I think many men on here- who are generally genuine respectful punter type don't realise how many idiot calls we get- I think they'd be horrified at the number of men who call and start a conversation with  'What's your postcode?' or 'How much?' Totally as Chloe has already pointed out. 

 

Then there's the ones who ring 89 times in a row at 3am or start off sounding genuine, go off on great long requirements and requests and then don't confirm or tell you they are booking your for a threesome with their wife but suddenly she isn't available if you want to speak to her! 

 

You get used to it a degree, you have to, but it probably does tend to make us a little wary and cynical sometimes! 

 

 

Yes, this is a curse. These messers also make life difficult for us as we also suffer from their actions, only indirectly of course.

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Man, that is awful. Surely, there cant be many men like that ? Must be only a handful, please. They should be shot on the spot. I feel like giving you a big hug . My apologies on behalf of those male lowlifes.

There is plenty just like this I have had practically the same responses countless times.

I can afford to be VERY choosy as I do get a lot of business, and I do choose my clients incredibly carefully.

I've been in this business two years and have had my fair share of danger so I have every right to be.

My requirements are age, race and manners simple as that.

And so many fail, the emails, the calls, the texts.

It's very hard to stay calm and reply politely! But I do. :D

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Yes, but if they want something I don't want to do, then it's not happening!

But to go along with your point, there are things escorts (should) do even if not in the mood, such as wearing a nice outfit, having a clean flat, being on time and so on.

I think many men on here- who are generally genuine respectful punter type don't realise how many idiot calls we get- I think they'd be horrified at the number of men who call and start a conversation with 'What's your postcode?' or 'How much?' Totally as Chloe has already pointed out.

Then there's the ones who ring 89 times in a row at 3am or start off sounding genuine, go off on great long requirements and requests and then don't confirm or tell you they are booking your for a threesome with their wife but suddenly she isn't available if you want to speak to her!

You get used to it a degree, you have to, but it probably does tend to make us a little wary and cynical sometimes!

Ugh the late callers! They wind me up.

What baffles me is I clearly have a tab on my profile stating my working hours for the week, yet I'll still get chancers calling/texting at ridiculous o clock "will you come to Birmingham now for a half hour bookin" that's one I had yesterday at 3am, do they really expect me to be working and wanting to travel 20 minutes at that time? LOL.

The pleasant ones are a blessing easy emails easy phone call booking done, if only it could be like that all the time!

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I do understand why ladies screen clients but I wonder if they are losing business.

 

Yes we do lose business but it's business we don't necessarily want. One from the other day was a text that said, "You need to live up to your profile". All because it took me 2 hours to respond to his text. I did start to reply and ask how he would like it if I started to text or to take a phone call while in the middle of a session with him but then thought what's the point, I don't want to see him anyway, he had a temper tantrum because I didn't text him back immediately. 

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