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What Matters Most Looks, Attitude,sexual Skills,sex Appeal, Novelty?

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Hi, I hope I do not get slaughtered again for "academic research", but I  wonder what would matter most to men, when they pay for sex?  Is it looks--that the girl is closest to your physical ideal, is it her positive attitude, her skillful performance, , chemistry ...what is it that you actually value most? 

 

Personal, crazy fetishes, like one guy I "know" is crazy about big vaginal lips (I always thought those are super ugly, go figure). what is what gets you the most? 

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l really like the Oriental girls,just something about them,when they flash their smile at you,l go weak at the knees .And most of them have lovely pretty pussies,not fannies like a wizard sleeve

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..I am seriously looking at pictures of wizards' sleeves trying to see a vagina in there...

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..I am seriously looking at pictures of wizards' sleeves trying to see a vagina in there...

LOL!

It's a term used for a loose vagina with dangling labias basically! I'm sure there are orientals with loose ones and other races of girls with pretty ones too!

A regular told me he looks for specific services and looks/chemistry is mostly important to him. X

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hm,  I have big dangling lips, but a very "tight" vagina ...I do not think the two are really related --the shape of the vulva and the tightness of the vagina...

 

chemistry is also the most important for me when having sex. without it any technique is mechanical, with it everything is very fluid and hot! 

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With a wg I've not seen before (not in any particular order) it's enjoys, body type, how the profile is written (ie does her personality come across in her profile). You can never tell until you actually meet if there will be any chemistry but for me that and attitude is key to a good punt and is what will get me returning for more visits.

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To me it's about if she is friendly and has listened to what was asked I'm the build up to the booking. And of course looks and a bit of enthusiasm

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Hi, I hope I do not get slaughtered again for "academic research", but I  wonder what would matter most to men, when they pay for sex?  Is it looks--that the girl is closest to your physical ideal, is it her positive attitude, her skillful performance, , chemistry ...what is it that you actually value most? 

 

Personal, crazy fetishes, like one guy I "know" is crazy about big vaginal lips (I always thought those are super ugly, go figure). what is what gets you the most? 

Don't have one.Looks however yes,although it can be anything.Could be their hair,eyes,legs,anything that captures my eye.Guess that parts pretty useless to you.

As for what makes me return.Personality.Has to be someone i'm comfortable with and can chat to(What can i say,i'm a talker)Someone who's fun

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How the profile is written and location (parking and safety) are primary considerations for me when looking at adverts.

Next the lady - generally body size, someone that I find attractive and offers the services I am seeking. 

Lastly feedback and price, feature in initial selection.

 

The experience of the event, chemistry/performance is how I am retained as a repeat client with that lady, if this does not materialise then its back to the search criteria

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The first thing for me is looks, and the first thing about looks is a girl's face, and specifically her eyes and her smile, and then yes of course her body as well. But another thing about looks is how she dresses, how cool she is and how comfortable she is with what she is doing. And then there's rapport, whether we hit if off just chatting, and whether she seems to be enjoying herself as well as me, which usually means having a bit of a laugh. And if all of that's going well, then the attitude often follows .... and of course it helps if she really enjoys sex, is open minded and is prepared to use her imagination a bit in the pursuit of our mutual enjoyment. Something like that anyway .....

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For me, the initial attraction is purely physical (j'aime les filles avec un grand derriere :wub:  ) then when I meet them it's about the dynamic that forms after the first meet(is this someone I can truly relax and feel comfortable with?)  and as stated above, it's important for me that I believe the person is comfortable doing this job

 

For me, I don't tend to go for one-off type things, I'd rather go to the same person again... but if I'm not comfortable with someone (for whatever reason) then I won't see them again.

 

Now, it's also become about me wanting to live out my fantasies so also services offered is becoming a more important factor.

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An ability to make me experience new things, like ice cream, and I still can't believe it took me this long to try it.

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Some of my favourite/regular wgs were not particularly pretty. But they had personalities, bodies and sexual skills that really turned me on. 

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She must have a very 'beautiful' face and a very 'sexy', slim and toned body.  Impressive 'bedroom' skills are essential!  She must enjoy indulging in my favourite service also.  She needs to be younger than me too, so late twenties max.  I prefer to see English and North American girls. 

 

I couldn't 'single' out any of the above as most important to me, because they all are!

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I go for friendliness, cleanliness, really attractive 'girl next door' looks (but not necessarily a model), a (working) brain, a sparky personality, good teeth, nice speech, own premises with central heating and good parking, a decent non-squeaky bed, hot and cold working taps, a clingon-free toilet, (Back to the lady) breasts at least capable of being recognised as such, a bottom of an appropriate size for her general 'presence' and one that neatly 'defines' same - arse connoisseurs will know what I mean - A neat pussy with a clit capable of being located in the dark, and, more importantly to me at least, labia granting sufficient finger-holds to pull apart so as to gain access to those moist parts we crave.

But d'you know? the greatest of these is PERSONALITY for me at least. The rest are assumed givens when I've researched and booked.

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thanks everyone for their answers. I am asking because I do not have particularly spectacular body, although I am working to improve it and was curious about the other aspects of what people like/enjoy. 

 

i never understood the expression girl next door looks. what exactly does that mean? I never took it as anything positive as to me that translates as generic, and I have quite distinct look, but I guess men like the next door girl type a lot.

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Sexiness is everything, but of course initially it is assessed via window shopping so, for me at least, it has to be mainly based on preferred looks. Frequency of revisits becomes more and more about personality but then inevitably the desire for novelty leads to new liaisons.

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thanks everyone for their answers. I am asking because I do not have particularly spectacular body, although I am working to improve it and was curious about the other aspects of what people like/enjoy. 

 

i never understood the expression girl next door looks. what exactly does that mean? I never took it as anything positive as to me that translates as generic, and I have quite distinct look, but I guess men like the next door girl type a lot.

If I describe someone as having girl next door looks I think of them as attractive in an understated kind of way. Nothing false or fake about them, wearing minimal make up, having a nice, natural complexion, maybe with some freckles. I certainly don't mean it as an insult ;)

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noobgirl quite legitimately pulls me up. "What defines 'girl next door looks' " she asks.

I'll start where I began all of 13 years ago when I first punted.

My first WG encounter was with a size 10, 5'6" 34B ish, black haired, fair skinned, late 20s, single mum from Ireland.

She happened to be- and it was pure happenstance - my perfect idea of a life partner. It came to nothing and she's now retired. Were I single I'd have courted her like crazy.

Lots of punters have similar recollections. Not just of the first girls they shagged. They retain the fondest memories of the women they have had the greatest experiences with. Some memories are so close to memories of women they have admired or just plain lusted over in the past that they imagine these women were in fact neighbours.

Some blokes (like me) have merely wished that they had found a woman 'next door' that they could have bonded with without all the businessof marriage and so forth.

So the answer to your question is: "Girl next door" is impossible to define. The definition rests on an abstract: ie: What is it that attracts one.

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Girl next door is a lady that is attractive but not a supermodel.Someone who could literally live next door to you and you may have secretly quite fancied her.Escorts come in many shapes and sizes and we all attract different clients.You don't need a perfect body to do well just be honest about yourself in your adverts and use equally honest photos and let your attitude and service speak for themselves.

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Girl next door is a lady that is attractive but not a supermodel.Someone who could literally live next door to you and you may have secretly quite fancied her.Escorts come in many shapes and sizes and we all attract different clients.You don't need a perfect body to do well just be honest about yourself in your adverts and use equally honest photos and let your attitude and service speak for themselves.

 

I agree with this...  I've always described girl next door as someone who is "pleasantly attractive", I don't mean that at all in a patronising way... someone who you could approach in a pub/ club type environment and you wouldn't feel intimidated. I would say like your typical Neighbours/ Hollyoaks babe epitomises the girl / boy next door. They're good looking etc, but don't stand out too much

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Wizards sleeve mmm thats an interesting term. I do wonder if men with large cocks or even normal average cocks have ever even encountered this "wizards sleeve".  ;)

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Wizards sleeve mmm thats an interesting term. I do wonder if men with large cocks or even normal average cocks have ever even encountered this "wizards sleeve".  ;)

The best terms I've heard were "otters pocket" (they actually got mentioned on BBC breakfast news lol) and my personal favourite is "baby escape hatch"

 

I guess even if someone did encounter a "wizards sleeve" It would be rude to mention this... in the same way it would be rude for a girl to call a less equipped guy an acorn or maggot

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The best terms I've heard were "otters pocket" (they actually got mentioned on BBC breakfast news lol) and my personal favourite is "baby escape hatch"

I guess even if someone did encounter a "wizards sleeve" It would be rude to mention this... in the same way it would be rude for a girl to call a less equipped guy an acorn or maggot

I'll never forget once at a place I worked - I overheard a couple of blokes talking about a girl with lets say a rather loose reputation. They were takling about her genetalia - "bet it looks like a mouses ear - a fuckin' hippopotamouse"....

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The best terms I've heard were "otters pocket" (they actually got mentioned on BBC breakfast news lol) and my personal favourite is "baby escape hatch"

 

I guess even if someone did encounter a "wizards sleeve" It would be rude to mention this... in the same way it would be rude for a girl to call a less equipped guy an acorn or maggot

Like a hippos yawn is also quite an amusing one

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