Dr Steve

Why Do Girls Not Want Us To See Them?

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After a punt last week with a very pretty lady with an awesome body, I feel I really need to see if anyone else has this problem. Girls who are happy to let you visit - do all sort of fun things - but not acutally let you see them (or at least not properly).

After opening the door to me, the lady in question guided me from the dimly lit hall into a bedroom, which seemed almost pitch black. For a few seconds the light came on, during which time I was able to verify that my companion looked as delightful as she did in her pictures on the agency web site and that her body looked just as wonderful. Then the light was switched off again.

 

Apart from this brief moment of illumination, at her insistence, we spend our time together at lighting levels so low I was working mostly by touch. I could make out she had two eyes a nose and a mouth, but no detail. By the end of the hour, my eyes had adjusted so I could make out a little more, but I was still in no position to properly appreciate what I knew to be a very pretty face and a jaw-dropping figure

I punt a lot with oriental escorts who seem the worst offenders in terms of insisting on 'subtle' illumination, but why do so many girls want to work in ridiculously low lighting levels? If I pay to spend time with a naked lady, is it so unreasonable to hope I'll actually be able to admire her pretty face and her beautiful body? It's not that the girls have imperfections to conceal - I'm not consciously picky about facial beauty, but I find most girls I meet are very pretty, and usually their bodies are near flawless too. It's not the room either, the girls I see almost invariably have nice rooms, or are in nice hotels, and the place is usually both clean and tidy.

One is left by the dismal conclusion that the lighting is low, so they don't have to face the awful sight of me :(

Or is there some other explanation less damaging to my fragile ego? And who out there likes to entertain in something like daylight?
 

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Can't say I've had that problem before. All my punts have been in decently lit rooms or in the day so there was natural light

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Not a problem that I've come across. I've only punted a handful of asian girls but the lighting was always perfectly adequate. As regards european nationalities it's never been a problem and sometimes when the lighting has been subdued it's added to the enjoyment. Morning or afternoon natural daylight and no problem even with the curtains closed which sometimes is necessary to stop being blinded. By the sun not her nipples !!!

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Not had this problem - though I like to ogle a girl's body and some have been reluctant to stand and turn slowly so that I can get a good eyeful

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I can't imagine any decent reason.

 

I would have left.  With my money, of course.

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I like a lamp on in the room but the main light is on first while we aquaint. If it's day time day light comes through the blinds anyway. As regards to letting him have an appreciative eye full I see no problem with that either. Infact this week I had one guy who wanted a slow strip and me turn in front of him and another who had me parading slowly up and down the long hall way while he watched. I actually really liked doing both of those things.

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Some women (and men) are not comfortable having sex in full light.

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Strawberry, we aren't talking about "not full light" here.  We are talking about almost full darkness.

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I've noticed this with Thai girls in the past as well - not so much recently though. Maybe it's because, in their society, sex is still stuck back in the west's 50's, when couples had sex in bed in the dark and under the bed sheets. I don't know. Me and my regular always have full lighting and a bright, large window, with light curtains to allow as much light as possible - much better to record the session with!! 

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I've noticed this with some Thai escorts too, although never quite as extreme as the situation that Dr Steve describes. A little mood lighting is fine, but I don't want the room to be so dim that I can't appreciate my companion's beauty.

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With my regular lady it would not be possible to have the curtains open as she has a basement flat adjoining the street. Not only would we see the legs of the people walking by but they would see our activities. She has no hesitation on lying on the bed absolutely nude for my delight while I undress but after the event she stands posing for me as I dress as she knows I enjoy that. 

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All a man needs do is ask to turn up the lighting or pull back the curtains if not overlooked.

 

If the lady refuses then turn around and walk back out................. WITH YOUR MONEY SAFELY IN YOUR POCKET!

 

Subtle and soft lighting is fine but darker sounds dodgy to me.

 

Perhaps she hadn't got around to dusting that day.

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Some folk like to live in a full eclipse.............................

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I've not punted with asian wg's but can't say I've ever experienced anything like the OP describes. I actually like subdued lighting but still bright enough to be able to admire the view :)

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I was asked a few times by the getlmen to turn light down a bit  as they felt more comfortable like that.

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May be she had a heavy night and didn't want you to see the dark bags under her eyes. 

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I was recently asked if I could turn out a light but that was a specific one that happened to be shining directly in my companion's eyes thus a perfectly reasonable request - there were plenty of other lights in the room so the overall lighting level wasn't affected to any major degree.

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Could it be they have to draw the curtains close to prevent nosey neighbours peering in - hence darkness but they are reluctant to light up the place in case they feel the neighbours may get suspicious seeing a light on during the day - Whether the curtains are drawn and the light is on or off may make no difference to the neighbours but may to this particular cautious WG - who knows? did you ask her why?

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I like a lamp on in the room but the main light is on first while we aquaint. If it's day time day light comes through the blinds anyway. As regards to letting him have an appreciative eye full I see no problem with that either. Infact this week I had one guy who wanted a slow strip and me turn in front of him and another who had me parading slowly up and down the long hall way while he watched. I actually really liked doing both of those things.

 

From what I have seen of your posts, I can believe that you really enjoy that.

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Maybe its actually a question of the girls not wanting to see the punter.

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Maybe its actually a question of the girls not wanting to see the punter.

Oh no I want to see him, warts and all. It will determine if I have him back or not. Assuming he would want to come back of course.

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 Doctor ,   start to complain when you punt with one who had a towel over her face while I was shagging  her  , see how you feel then .  Admittedly this happened in Bangkok where things are different  .   :(

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Doctor ,   start to complain when you punt with one who had a towel over her face while I was shagging  her  , see how you feel then .  Admittedly this happened in Bangkok where things are different  .   :(

Hells bells!!?

I did offer to put a paper bag over my head if the guy didn't like the look of me after I refused to send a face pic, tongue in check of course. He kindly declined the offer and thought I looked good enough to continue with the booking

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If the room is in almost darkness perhaps she's a vampire? :ph34r:

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Strawberry, we aren't talking about "not full light" here.  We are talking about almost full darkness.

 

Indeed, I wonder if the girls will be shocked if the punter will start using a torch to inspect their private area.  Better safe than sorry, I say.  Very little light and at all times would be very suspicious for me.  Maybe I saw too many movies and read too many stories about prying eyes watching and listening everything behind fake walls, curtains etc.  

 

I go for professional back massages at such places and I always ask for a bit of light.......

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