Burty

Can't Be Bothered!

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Most of my punts are pre planned and on the day I'm usually full of anticipation for what lies ahead. For the first time I've woken up this morning feeling like I really can't be bothered, yet all week I've been looking at this girl's profile / new pics and really looking forward to seeing her for the first time in about 6 months.

I just hope the enthusiasm builds over the next couple of hours as I'm due to text her this morning to confirm and the way I feel right now I might cancel / rearrange, which is something I've never done.

Anyone ever feel that way when they've got a punt booked and if so did you cancel or go ahead?

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Well if you are going to cancel give her plenty of notice not an hour before you are due as thats unfair. However, do you think your enthusiasm will still be waning when she drops her bra onto the floor and your willy finds its way into her mouth?  ;)

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Well if you are going to cancel give her plenty of notice not an hour before you are due as thats unfair. However, do you think your enthusiasm will still be waning when she drops her bra onto the floor and your willy finds its way into her mouth?  ;)

I'll be texting her by 10am and the meet is booked for 6pm so there's at least some notice - I wouldn't leave it until the last minute...

As for the second part of your post, I'm going to have a soak in the bath and concentrate on that, and also recall some of our past adventures. Hopefully that'll do the trick... :confused:

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If you don't mind me asking Burty, have you been punting for long?

 

I've only been at it since the new year and up to now have always at least had in mind my next. Just at the moment though I can't get any enthusiasm for it.

 

In only 3 months!

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If you don't mind me asking Burty, have you been punting for long?

 

I've only been at it since the new year and up to now have always at least had in mind my next. Just at the moment though I can't get any enthusiasm for it.

 

In only 3 months!

I've only been punting about 2 1/2 years..

When was your last punt? Sometimes after a punt I find I have no interest for up to a week, maybe two - then I start planning again. Although on other occasions I've had two or three lined up in advance! It just depends.

First time I've ever felt like this on a punt day but I'm working on it.., ;)

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 Burty   , go ahead   . Don't let us down .  You will soon get back the enthusiasm when she opens the door  

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I've only been punting about 2 1/2 years..

When was your last punt? Sometimes after a punt I find I have no interest for up to a week, maybe two - then I start planning again. Although on other occasions I've had two or three lined up in advance! It just depends.

First time I've ever felt like this on a punt day but I'm working on it.., ;)

Last Friday.

 

I've been going at it a bit I'm afraid, making up for lost time.  I need to slow down and take stock anyway or I'll burn out.

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Yes I have booked and cancelled on the day - same feeling

 

it's a sign that it's not really what you want or need

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However, do you think your enthusiasm will still be waning when she drops her bra onto the floor and your willy finds its way into her mouth?  ;)

 

I suspect that Chloe is right.

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How'd it go Burty? What was your decision?

 

I've felt like this loads of times - all fired up when I've booked, but then feel slightly deflated or a cba attitude, minutes later. Over thinking it a tad. Luckily, 90% of the times i've gone ahead and had a great time.

 

To me, from my own experience, this is punting burn out, which isn't serious. Shit happens.

 

Sometimes I think half the excitement with punting is the variety, the paying for it and thrill of finding a gem. Problem is sometimes, when you find that gem, sometimes it can just become a transaction, as you've already caught her. That thrill is gone, well apart from the actual sexual one, but you have to be there with her to get that excitement back. This is the rub (oi oi!) with punting, it becomes a triple thrill. The search, the paying for it is one, and finding a good one is triple tops. Of course it's different to the amazing thrill we get when courting a new girlfriend; she keeps you on your toes, testing you and you always have to be on your top game. We're hunters, we like the chase.

 

But true to Chloe's word, the pecker usually works (and thinks) for you once that bra and panties come off :D

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I suspect that Chloe is right.

I know - and I have in the past always been glad when I walked in through the door and seen the lady.

 

But then you would be glad if you sat down to a first rate curry meal in a good curry house - but how often do you feel like getting out of the house and eating out?

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But then you would be glad if you sat down to a first rate curry meal in a good curry house - but how often do you feel like getting out of the house and eating out?

 

That is a poor analogy unless you love food as much as sex.

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If you don't mind me asking Burty, have you been punting for long?

 

I've only been at it since the new year and up to now have always at least had in mind my next. Just at the moment though I can't get any enthusiasm for it.

 

In only 3 months!

Just remember this is a very addictive hobby, and if you don't feel like it, don't force yourself. After all it's supposed to be a fun hobby not an addiction.

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How'd it go Burty? What was your decision?

 

I've felt like this loads of times - all fired up when I've booked, but then feel slightly deflated or a cba attitude, minutes later. Over thinking it a tad. Luckily, 90% of the times i've gone ahead and had a great time.

 

To me, from my own experience, this is punting burn out, which isn't serious. Shit happens.

 

Sometimes I think half the excitement with punting is the variety, the paying for it and thrill of finding a gem. Problem is sometimes, when you find that gem, sometimes it can just become a transaction, as you've already caught her. That thrill is gone, well apart from the actual sexual one, but you have to be there with her to get that excitement back. This is the rub (oi oi!) with punting, it becomes a triple thrill. The search, the paying for it is one, and finding a good one is triple tops. Of course it's different to the amazing thrill we get when courting a new girlfriend; she keeps you on your toes, testing you and you always have to be on your top game. We're hunters, we like the chase.

 

But true to Chloe's word, the pecker usually works (and thinks) for you once that bra and panties come off :D

After due consideration I've decided to go for it, what's the worst that can happen?

As you and Chloe mention, once I see her and clothes start coming off (if she's wearing any - who knows?!?), I'm sure everything will kick into gear. I've text her and although we'd originally arranged for later this afternoon we're just discussing the best time to meet as I have an unexpected day off. So it's game on after all ;). She asked if I have any requests regarding dress and I've just asked her to dress to suit her mood - let's just hope she doesn't feel like an axe murderer today.. :blink:

I agree about the thrill of arranging a punt and meeting a girl for the first time but I can't remember an occasion where repeat visits haven't topped the first. Once a booking is made with someone you've seen before you have the advantage of knowing the last meet went well, you know what she's like and that you can expect a good or even better time.

As I've not seen this lady for a good 6 months in some ways it'll be a bit like starting again, but at least I know she remembers me ;)

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Personally Burty i think if you are not committed to it i think you should give it a miss. Anyone who continues to do this when they just feel they are going through the motions and had no sense of excitment prior to the event has serious addiction problems.

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It must be the weather!!!!! I am sat on the train going up to London and am feeling a tad unenthused. Yesterday I was walking into walls with anticipation. Luckily I know the escort and know within three minutes of getting into the apartment I will be laughing with delight.

I blame the coming election campaign, which escort can compete with that for excitement? ?????

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Personally Burty i think if you are not committed to it i think you should give it a miss. Anyone who continues to do this when they just feel they are going through the motions and had no sense of excitment prior to the event has serious addiction problems.

I'd agree, although had the punt been yesterday, or any day since I made the booking last week - this thread wouldn't exist because until this morning I've been right up for seeing her again.

Booking in advance is bound to leave us feeling like this sometimes I suppose. I just wondered if it had happened to others, whether they went ahead, and how did it go if they did. I'll find out myself soon - all arranged for 13:00, so fingers crossed everything works!

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I suspect everyone is different Burty - but from a personal point of view if i am not committed to the occasion i find it without exception it is going to disappoint.

Its the same as plan B's - i find these are always a disappointment too.

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Have a telephone conversation with her to see if her voice still excites you or gives you new 'sensations'....

 

Sometimes I push myself to go to the gym and although one session will never bulk me up, I know I will be tired and sleep like a baby later on  :D

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Flippin heck punting is not compulsory!  If you aren't feeling the tingles then don't bloody bother.

 

One thing to consider though..... and this is not just to DirtyBurty........ ( I bet he lives at number 30 ) is.......

 

if you cancel and then come over all hornylike again..... you can't exactly get that appointment back on track...

 

the lady will think you are messing around and is likely to block you from further visits.... at least that is how I would see it.

 

This is the problem with pre-planned meetings..... a man can go off the boil quite easily and that is just being human.

 

I prefer short notice appointments anyway... always have..... it gets me motivated and charged with enthusiasm and I know the guy

is chomping at the bit too.  This makes a very good session.  ;)

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Yes I can definitely relate to this and have certainly pulled out of scheduled meetings if I'm not feeling the urge ( with plenty of notice, obviously). I think the approach to a punt can go through different phases, so for example, even a few hours beforehand, I can get an emotional drop, where I ask myself why I'm doing this, what's it for and so on .... and if those emotions become dominant then I cancel. It's just a question of being a bit in tune with oneself and listening to one's own inner voice. But also it's happened twice with a girl I see regularly recently, where I've felt a bit unenthused beforehand, but because I know what she's like (a raging nymphomaniac !) I haven't cancelled and have gone ahead and had an absolute ball.

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I sincerely hope this doesn't happen to me in 7 weeks time with Platinum Cindy, given the amount of time I had to book her in advance. If you're tired of punting you're tired of life, right?

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I often loose the inclination, but nearly always proceed, as I am paranoid about letting people down. But when the door opens and I see the smile it is all worthwile

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Flippin heck punting is not compulsory!  If you aren't feeling the tingles then don't bloody bother.

This is true but...see further down

 

One thing to consider though..... and this is not just to DirtyBurty........ ( I bet he lives at number 30 ) is.......

Haha, nah my number doesn't rhyme, I like DirtyBurty though :)

 

if you cancel and then come over all hornylike again..... you can't exactly get that appointment back on track...

the lady will think you are messing around and is likely to block you from further visits.... at least that is how I would see it.

I had two reasons why I didn't want to cancel...and you actually raised a third..

Firstly I'd been looking forward to this for a week, even yesterday just thinking about seeing this girl had me going. Gawd knows what happened this morning...

Second I've never once cancelled a punt, and didn't want to break my record - plus there was an element of not wanting tl let the wg down as she's been very accommodating in the past. Although she'd have had plenty of notice so maybe she wouldn't have minded. I should have asked when I was there but forgot.

Now the third reason you raised...you can guarantee if I'd cancelled the urge I've felt all week would have returned with a vengeance, and it would be too late.

 

This is the problem with pre-planned meetings..... a man can go off the boil quite easily and that is just being human.

Agreed but what can you do when you rarely have the opportunity to punt on impulse. Plus, there isn't a lot of girls I'm interested in seeing who would be available at short notice. I thought I'd found one, booked a short notice punt last week and she cancelled on me at the last minute. She hasn't been good with time keeping on the occasions I did get to see her, so she's off the list. As mentioned above I suppose it was bound to happen sometime, but this is a first for me.

As will be seen from my next post - I'll bloody well listen to my body next time! :(

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So on to the punt - fooking disaster! Well maybe not but it didn't go as I hoped it would. Let's just say DirtyBurty wasn't feeling very dirty today, and I left feeling mightily frustrated with myself...

For whatever reason, little B just wasn't coming out to play today and the more it didn't happen, coupled with the way I was feeling just got me thinking about it more and it was clearly never going to work.

Bless the wg though - honestly she never gave up for a second, and somehow did manage to get me off with a combo of oral and hand so it wasn't a complete disaster - but for the first time there was no shagging. Well not strictly true, there was a tiny bit before little B went on strike and had to be resurrected - and I've had punts before where we didn't get round to shagging but that wasn't because I wasn't capable like today, it was just that for whatever reason we didn't get round to it!

The poor girl really earned her money today - it took her nearly the full hour, and even then she didn't just hurry me out the door - she climbed back on the bed for a kiss and cuddle and a chat. Even when I made a move to get dressed she pulled me back and said there was no rush. I actually felt embarrassed that here I was with this lovely willing naked girl lying next to me and I couldn't perform. Fucking idiot.

So we over ran on time, and when I eventually made it back to my car there was a fucking parking ticket stuck to the windscreen. Brilliant.

Everyone who said they'd have cancelled was bang on the money - Next time if I feel the way I did this morning I'll definitely cancel - providing I can give enough notice. That's if there is a next time because I'm feeling beyond pissed off with myself at the moment.

Right I'm off to the pub!

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