Twistedspire7

Gaining Sexual Experience

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Hi gentleman and ladies

As a newbie, and a sexually inexperienced guy in his 40s (but not a virgin), I was wondering if punting is a good way of gaining sexual and intimate experience and getting over my sexual hang ups?

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Twis

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I would say it is. We girls are more so used to this so it won't be anything new to us.

You can choose whoever you want, and have whatever services you want (within what she offers) so I think it's a great way to gain sexual experience.

I gained lots of sexual experience from escorting I started at 18 shy, inexperience & only having slept with a couple people & two years later I have much more experience and confidence so I can only imagine it would be just as great for a punter!

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Punting is different from sexual encounters with civvies, there isn't the embarrassment or awkwardness you may feel with a civvie the first time you do the deed, you can look for the services you want and discuss how you want them delivered and even the mood of the meet. The downside is it's very difficult to find a WG who can make it feel natural the first time you see them, that can be achieved by returning - becoming a regular but that's not guaranteed.

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You definitely can gain valuable experience - and confidence. But as mentioned above it is a very different dynamic, you're pretty much onto a sure thing with a wg after all. Plus once a punter - well let's just say it's not the easiest thing in the world to give up! :)

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Punting is a very good way to explore fantasies that's for sure. as well as gain more experience.

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I would say so, yes, as you have much more control over what happens, and with whom.

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There is a painting by Magritte of a pipe and the title is "this is not a pipe". It's a clever reminder of the difference between illusion snd reality. Punting sex is amazing and great fun. Escorts are wonderful women. But punting sex and civilian sex are two different things entirely.

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There is a painting by Magritte of a pipe and the title is "this is not a pipe". It's a clever reminder of the difference between illusion snd reality. Punting sex is amazing and great fun. Escorts are wonderful women. But punting sex and civilian sex are two different things entirely.

Agreed they are different but punting can be a great way to develop different sexual experiences in a pressure free environment. If she doesnt like it or you make a dick of yourself, no one cares.

Nice analogy to magritte by the way!

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Hi gentleman and ladies

As a newbie, and a sexually inexperienced guy in his 40s (but not a virgin), I was wondering if punting is a good way of gaining sexual and intimate experience and getting over my sexual hang ups?

Thanks

Twis

 

Oh, you came to the wrong place, here we discuss about jams and compotes only.  Oh dear, what are you going to do?   :D

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited and just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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Don't think its so cut and dry. I think a lot of it has to do with the dynamic you have with the WG, her approach sense of fun sexuality. Basically if you can relax with a WG feel uninhibited andk just enjoy it all is the starting point. I'm not simply talking about the sensation going on between your legs but the touch feel lick kiss tempo intensity...exploring each others bodies etc. I'm not saying you can go and simply recreate all this in a mechanical way with the girl u fancy at the gym...but if you play it right are in the right mindset u can possibly leverage that experience with the WG. Doesn't have to be about tits n arse... Could be as simple as feeling more confident about yourself naked, kissing better..... Even chatting. But I seriously wouldn't depend on it or use it as a crux or main strategy with women....enjoy laugh talk

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