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Taking A Wg Out To Dinner

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This is something I have never done

what is the attraction

make it more like a 'date'

the frisson of being in public knowing you are gonna be shagging each other senseless soon?

the fact people near you dont know you are with a wg?

 

come one guys, convince me its a good idea.

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   It's a great idea , if you don't pay her to eat  .  JRC taught me that . 

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I'm not sure if the attraction as I'm a WG not a punter. But I know it's very popular with my older clients (45+) I think it's just they like the idea of dinner drinks then back to the hotel to have fun.

I have had lots of dinner dates and I really do enjoy them, because I can "get to know" or share some interests with the punter and it gives a different aspect to escorting.

I think the whole "we're going to be f*cking eachothers brains out later" play a big part in it though! X

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I'm not sure if the attraction as I'm a WG not a punter. But I know it's very popular with my older clients (45+) I think it's just they like the idea of dinner drinks then back to the hotel to have fun.

I have had lots of dinner dates and I really do enjoy them, because I can "get to know" or share some interests with the punter and it gives a different aspect to escorting.

I think the whole "we're going to be f*cking eachothers brains out later" play a big part in it though! X

Ever done anything else? cinema?  dogs?

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Ever done anything else? cinema? dogs?

Cinema yes, dogs? Nope!

I've also been to the theatre, a nightclub, and shopping lol! But mostly dinner dates. It is quite fun to be doing something different. These "dinner dates" are usually with regulars. X

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I don't "get" paying £150/hour for massage, let alone for watching someone masticate!

 

Different if you only paid her "short-time" and end up treating her to breakfast the next morning.

 

Of course, from the escorts perspective, money for (next to) nothing.

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 Cov ,    bestiality is  against the law  .

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This is something I have never done

what is the attraction

make it more like a 'date'

the frisson of being in public knowing you are gonna be shagging each other senseless soon?

the fact people near you dont know you are with a wg?

come one guys, convince me its a good idea.

I got a bit spoiled doing this as the wg I was with didn't charge me for the outside the room time, and even paid for the meal once!

For me it's mostly all of the things you say. I loved the anticipation building to the main event, who doesn't like a good dessert :)

I've also been to a rock gig - getting a bit hot and sweaty before getting hotter and sweatier, that was fun.

Not sure I'd do the dinner date thing with a wg who charged her full rate for the social aspect of the meet - many charge a lower rate. To be honest it's not something I'm likely to get involved doing again but it was great fun at the time.

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I got a bit spoiled doing this as the wg I was with didn't charge me for the outside the room time, and even paid for the meal once!

For me it's mostly all of the things you say. I loved the anticipation building to the main event, who doesn't like a good dessert :)

Not sure I'd do the dinner date thing with a wg who charged her full rate for the social aspect of the meet - many charge a lower rate. To be honest it's not something I'm likely to get involved doing again but it was great fun at the time.

I charge a lower rate for social meets I think any WG who offers them should, as it's not "intimate". Edited by TightYoungEbony
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I often offer to take women up the Oxo tower but none of them have ever taken me up on the offer.

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They are quite popular - I always seem to tend to go for a while without any and then get a lot in a short space of time. 

 

Some guys actually feel uncomfortable going straight to the bedroom with a stranger (yes, I know strange to some of you  :lol: ) and like the dinner and socialising to 

warm things up a little by getting to know you as a person. 

 

As for the usual 'I would not pay her to eat' why should we do it for free? It is our job and if anything we have to spend a couple of hours making the client feel happy and not all conversation flows that easily with some bookings. It is work time for us even though we get fed.  

 

I actually contemplated giving them up some months back as I had a difficult one with a client I had never seen before. We had absolutely nothing in common and the conversation was difficult, whereas had it been a normal booking you can just do the sex thing and it does not really matter whether you have anything in common as such. 

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..this is something I enjoy and have done many times....I don't expect a social rate to be honest - I know honestly what am I like - you'd think I'd be bartering away and horse trading a favourable rate etc!! :)

 

I have always just booked a 3-4 hour booking and because I get such a lot of pleasure from it I see it as all part of the arrangement.

 

The combination of meal, getting to know the lady, fun chat etc is all part of the magic and fun for me - I only go out for meals though with ladies I have seen quite a few times.

 

I enjoy meals out and overnights - I am a right Fluffy I am....such fun! :)

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I guess it all depends on budget and needs/expectations?

 

I can do everything I want in an hour or so. I could do a couple of meals or one overnight a month with a favourite, but that's what a girlfriend is for and I really don't want one of those and is why I punt!

 

 

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I guess it all depends on budget and needs/expectations?

 

I can do everything I want in an hour or so. I could do a couple of meals or one overnight a month with a favourite, but that's what a girlfriend is for and I really don't want one of those and is why I punt!

..yeah your right, were all different, it would be boring if we were all the same....I can do both to be honest - I enjoy an hour's booking and really enjoy an overnight or a meal out with a regular or a favourite lady - ha ha ha,, I do know the lady isn't really my girlfriend, I don't want a girlfriend either, but I do enjoy the fantasy and fun of it all....

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This is something I have never done

what is the attraction

make it more like a 'date'

the frisson of being in public knowing you are gonna be shagging each other senseless soon?

the fact people near you dont know you are with a wg?

 

come one guys, convince me its a good idea.

Do you include lunch in this? If so then I do this frequently - roughly once a month - with a particular lady, and have been for a year. I've known her for much longer than that and we have been out in the past, but the regular lunch is new.

 

We meet up late morning and shag for an hour and a half, go straight off to lunch (usually with a pre-booked table) with that post-coital 'afterglow,' come back and have a mutual shower then shag again! The beauty of this arrangement is that I've plenty of time to recover. (I need it at my age! :) )

 

How much more convincing do you need?..........

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I guess it all depends on budget and needs/expectations?

I can do everything I want in an hour or so. I could do a couple of meals or one overnight a month with a favourite, but that's what a girlfriend is for and I really don't want one of those and is why I punt!

Everyone is different.

Some like sex with WGs but also get on well with them and decide to have some social time with them.

Some simply want sex and nothing more with WGs, everyone has a preference for something and it doesn't matter what they like as long as they enjoy it and it's legal! :)

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I often offer to take women up the Oxo tower but none of them have ever taken me up on the offer.

I took my ex girlfriend up the Oxo Tower for a special birthday treat ;-)

I've taken WGs to restaurants on overnights, the first time it was a duo with a regular and her friend so it worked well as an icebreaker with the new girl - who I have since taken out for nice meal before a night of debauchery. Both times got a ridiculously exaggerated level of waiter service.

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This is something I have never done

what is the attraction

make it more like a 'date'

the frisson of being in public knowing you are gonna be shagging each other senseless soon?

the fact people near you dont know you are with a wg?

 

come one guys, convince me its a good idea.

 

Why do you need convincing? If it's something that has never appealed to you in all the years you have been punting, why try and get us to talk you into it now? You either want to, or you dont.

 

I charge a lower rate for social meets I think any WG who offers them should, as it's not "intimate".

 

You do, do you? I'd better go start charging for individual services then... NOT!

 

I've been working as an escort for 13 years now. I am paid for my TIME. Not for an individual service. As you claim to have done many dinner dates yourself, you will be quite aware that they are not as simple as 'watching someone eat' like some would have you believe. It is all part of foreplay. You have to be able to mentally hold the gentlemans attention. Gently tease him [without others noticing] to the point where his hunger for food is suddenly replaced with hunger for you. You dont just sit there looking pretty. And what about the expense of the attire to suit the occasion? My dresses dont come cheap you know!

 

   It's a great idea , if you don't pay her to eat  .  JRC taught me that . 

 

Those who only pay for sex will never understand why so many men pay for companionship.

 

There are men from all over the world who travel to London on business. They would rather dine, go to the ballet, or swing from the chandelier with an escort than do it alone.

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I don't "get" paying £150/hour for massage, let alone for watching someone masticate!

 

Different if you only paid her "short-time" and end up treating her to breakfast the next morning.

 

Of course, from the escorts perspective, money for (next to) nothing.

See Burtys response.

 

Also, even if you dont know the lady a lot of women charge a much much lower fee for the eating time compared to the bedroom time. Its not exactly 150 for a massage is it, its 150 for a full on bonkathon after the dinner. It just adds to the fun atmosphere 

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I took my ex girlfriend up the Oxo Tower for a special birthday treat ;-)

I've taken WGs to restaurants on overnights, the first time it was a duo with a regular and her friend so it worked well as an icebreaker with the new girl - who I have since taken out for nice meal before a night of debauchery. Both times got a ridiculously exaggerated level of waiter service.

 

This reminds me of a restaurant in Rome with great views over the park and not far from the US embassy. I was with my ex and the hotel recommended the restaurant not knowing it was the place 'to be'.  We did not care about that but simply looking for diversity.  There was a very pompous waiter, always putting the food on our table with the other hand in the air as if he was fencing.  I have never seen anything like that before or ever since.  We waited for the almost 50 euros change when we were about to leave and after some 20min we gave up when suddenly the waiter appears thanking us for the generous tip.  'Fuck off pompous idiot' both me and my ex were thinking.

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This reminds me of a restaurant in Rome with great views over the park and not far from the US embassy. I was with my ex and the hotel recommended the restaurant not knowing it was the place 'to be'.  We did not care about that but simply looking for diversity.  There was a very pompous waiter, always putting the food on our table with the other hand in the air as if he was fencing.  I have never seen anything like that before or ever since.  We waited for the almost 50 euros change when we were about to leave and after some 20min we gave up when suddenly the waiter appears thanking us for the generous tip.  'Fuck off pompous idiot' both me and my ex were thinking.

 

 

   So your ex left a 50 euro tip  .    Why is he your ex   ?    You should  'a held on to him .

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This is something I have never done

what is the attraction

make it more like a 'date'

the frisson of being in public knowing you are gonna be shagging each other senseless soon?

the fact people near you dont know you are with a wg?

 

come one guys, convince me its a good idea.

 

If your single like me it's purely about female company, after my divorce when I took up this hobby it occured to me I didn't have that many female friends to do this kind of thing with, the trouble is asking someone you know to join you for a night out can be a little awkward as it's almost always seen as asking for a date which it isn't. Paying a WG to escort you deals with that problem.

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Why do you need convincing? If it's something that has never appealed to you in all the years you have been punting, why try and get us to talk you into it now? You either want to, or you dont.

You do, do you? I'd better go start charging for individual services then... NOT!

I've been working as an escort for 13 years now. I am paid for my TIME. Not for an individual service. As you claim to have done many dinner dates yourself, you will be quite aware that they are not as simple as 'watching someone eat' like some would have you believe. It is all part of foreplay. You have to be able to mentally hold the gentlemans attention. Gently tease him [without others noticing] to the point where his hunger for food is suddenly replaced with hunger for you. You dont just sit there looking pretty. And what about the expense of the attire to suit the occasion? My dresses dont come cheap you know!

Those who only pay for sex will never understand why so many men pay for companionship.

There are men from all over the world who travel to London on business. They would rather dine, go to the ballet, or swing from the chandelier with an escort than do it alone.

Each to their own.

Since do enjoy social meets I charge a lower rate, I don't find them hard or challenging at all. Infact very interesting and refreshing and I've never had a bad social booking.

Me personally, I wouldn't charge my hourly rate of £120 just to have dinner with someone, no matter how expensive my dresses are! :D

This is because my dinner dates usually lead to bedroom time as well which then I will charge the advertised rate for.

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The only thing that would deter me from taking a WG out for a meal is basically the cost for the time and meal

I have had a social coffee in the past with a WG that I got to know then said goodbye and that left me feeling more than randy and wanting

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Each to their own.

Since do enjoy social meets I charge a lower rate, I don't find them hard or challenging at all. Infact very interesting and refreshing and I've never had a bad social booking.

Me personally, I wouldn't charge my hourly rate of £120 just to have dinner with someone, no matter how expensive my dresses are! :D

This is because my dinner dates usually lead to bedroom time as well which then I will charge the advertised rate for.

Interesting comment...

When I was getting free social time although it was never actually discussed, I took it as being on the understanding I'd make bookings with the wg concerned. I don't mean an exclusive arrangement where I couldn't punt elsewhere as well, but as long as I was making at least some bookings with her. In fact if I wasn't booking her for paid punts I wouldn't have seen her socially as to me that would be going somewhere I wouldn't want to be. As it happened it was was my choice to only punt with her for the fairly short time she was here, and the arrangement seemed to work well enough. Most of but not all the social time involved a punt directly before or after anyway.

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