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I had one punt some years ago which wasn't a great experience, looking at giving it another go this weekend and am really nervous and apprehensive about my weight (I'm about 25 stone). Was wondering if anyone else has been in that situation, I'm sure the working girls coming across this regularly and they're not expecting George Clooney every time.

 

To help with my nerves I'm thinking about taking an outcall, just had a few questions I'd love to hear some thoughts on:

 

  • Should I tell the agency I'm obese when booking and risk losing the girl I'd like to book?
  • Would you go for a longer or shorter booking on the first time with a new girl?
  • I won't be physically able to do much of what might be the normal repertoire for the girl, should I spell that out and what is an appropriate way to bring it up?

 

Hope to get some constructive feedback, really hoping to get into punting again and just want to get over this initial anxiety.

 

Thanks!

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It's best you mention the to agency/girl your weight! Then they can choose if they will be seeing you.

As for some girls it can be difficult to accommodate for a bigger man. I had a bigger client before and he didn't let me know, he was probably more than 25 stone and I physically couldn't get my legs across him for cow girl as I'm short in height! So take things like that into consideration.

Most women will be happy to book you but I think as you're bigger you should mention it as a heads up for them. Be as specific as you like in your email to your chosen girl I'm sure they would've heard worse!

Hope it goes well :)

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Thanks so much for the feedback, I'm happy to just pleasure the girl to be honest if it is a problem - issue I have with this particular agency is they do not want to discuss any services, insist it is purely companionship I'm booking so is kinda difficult to bring up.

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Apart from the logistics from the girls point of view, i really wouldnt be too worried about your physique.

I probably have the opposite problem with my build and do get hang ups about my appearance when it comes to women - hence my choice for wg's. As TYE said, be upfront when making the booking and a good escort will make sure you have a good time!

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So go to another agency.

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weight is not an issue if you are clean and polite most girls dont care !

Id say book an hour for a first meet x good luck

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I had one punt some years ago which wasn't a great experience, looking at giving it another go this weekend and am really nervous and apprehensive about my weight (I'm about 25 stone). Was wondering if anyone else has been in that situation, I'm sure the working girls coming across this regularly and they're not expecting George Clooney every time.

 

To help with my nerves I'm thinking about taking an outcall, just had a few questions I'd love to hear some thoughts on:

 

  • Should I tell the agency I'm obese when booking and risk losing the girl I'd like to book?
  • Would you go for a longer or shorter booking on the first time with a new girl?
  • I won't be physically able to do much of what might be the normal repertoire for the girl, should I spell that out and what is an appropriate way to bring it up?

 

Hope to get some constructive feedback, really hoping to get into punting again and just want to get over this initial anxiety.

 

Thanks!

 

 

London is a big place, plenty of Indies to help you get past your anxiety,  take your time, read a few of their sites, get a feel for

them and then mail a few and those that come back positive will maybe help your anxiety subside in their response and then

look to book and have fun.  The only weight thats offputting is the one thats on your shoulders, go have some fun and take

the weight from them.

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I'd recommend contacting independent SWs who you can chat with on the phone or email beforehand and explain your situation to. That will ensure that you both know what to expect. You haven't mentioned your height, which obviously makes a difference to your build, but sometimes it can just be a practical issue, like perhaps a not very sturdy bed!

 

Book 30m-1h to begin with, and see how you get on.  :)

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I second what the other ladies have said. Definitely consider contacting an independent, as unfortunately some agencies are just interested in taking their cut and won't bother checking that the escort is okay with seeing you. A decent agency would make the effort to ensure both parties are happy. With an independent if you mention your weight over the phone then you will be able to gauge her reaction, and this will help you to feel more confident about going ahead and being able to look forward to it.

Definitely opt for a shorter meeting. When booking you can say that you may wish to extend. Good luck and enjoy!

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 I was told by a wg that they like fat guys because they feel self conscience and tip well after .  

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I'm a big built guy (6ft1 and plenty of extra meat on me) and had mentioned it in the lead upto my first few punts. It was never a issue with the wg's i've seen. As long as you're freshly showered before meeting then you'll be alright. Go have some fun fella

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  • Should I tell the agency I'm obese when booking and risk losing the girl I'd like to book?
  • Would you go for a longer or shorter booking on the first time with a new girl?
  • I won't be physically able to do much of what might be the normal repertoire for the girl, should I spell that out and what is an appropriate way to bring it up?

 

 

  • Yes do tell the agency or whomever you plan to book.
  • I would advise you to go for a shorter booking first.
  • The way you have put it sounds about right to me.

A quick google search will give you lots of ideas on various positions for overweight individuals.

 

There are always ways to work around obstacles :)

 

The following site has been mentioned on this board before...

 

Positions for larger lovers

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I was told by a wg that they like fat guys because they feel self conscience and tip well after .

Lets not pretend that one what one women says is representative of what "they" think anymore than what one punter wants being representative of all punters.

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I'm a big built guy (6ft1 and plenty of extra meat on me) and had mentioned it in the lead upto my first few punts. It was never a issue with the wg's i've seen. As long as you're freshly showered before meeting then you'll be alright. Go have some fun fella

Exactly, occasionally I have had a guy tell me he is larger than average, its not an issue. What I tend to get the most is guys letting me know they are over 55 or 60 and asking if that is okay , I get the feeling they get a lot of knickknacks for some reason.

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Can you pm me, please?

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 I was told by a wg that they like fat guys because they feel self conscience and tip well after .  

 

I met a guy like this and he was so, so sweet.  He was rather good looking and very generous too.  It drove me mad when we used to go to a restaurant for example and some Italian waiter would say: 'we have to find a table for a guy like you' or 'how come a girl like her goes with him'.  

 

I would always prefer such a guy, and very intelligent, besides having lots of other things in common, rather than a guy with a low IQ who does not know how to talk or does not care about other people's feelings and assumes he can say all the rubbish in the world about things he does not understand.

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Then there ws the ppst about am escorts attitude and its importance tp the punter. I answered very.

Same with punters to my mind!

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Go and see an Asian girl.

 

I've found that they don't mind a Buddha like figure, just get used to them rubbing you tummy and joking about babies!  Reply that you think it is twins. :D

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Exactly, occasionally I have had a guy tell me he is larger than average, its not an issue. What I tend to get the most is guys letting me know they are over 55 or 60 and asking if that is okay , I get the feeling they get a lot of knickknacks for some reason.

Well I never know about mentioning my age. It seems only fair to do so, but if I do I worry that the girl will think I'm meaning wrinkly and decrepit, which I'm not.

 

Give me time.

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Exactly, occasionally I have had a guy tell me he is larger than average, its not an issue. What I tend to get the most is guys letting me know they are over 55 or 60 and asking if that is okay , I get the feeling they get a lot of knickknacks for some reason.

BBQ or spicey? :)

On the op.It might be best to let them know purely as some of the littler ladies might have problems in a physical sense.Theres no point getting someone to the door who may not be quite capable as it ruins both your days.As for the rest.Possibly a shorter booking forst time in case the two of you just arent compatible.It happens.Might also be best to mention what you can do,maybe more in a as in what you enjoy sense.

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I honestly don't have a problem with the body size of a guy as long as he's polite and more importantly well groomed.

I saw a guy last week who was a standard size, about 16 stone, lovely rugby players thighs, Yum.

He didn't want take off his T shirt, fair enough.

When we got chatting he said it was because he had scars on his torso, hey not a problem.

He said he will return and maybe take off his T shirt. He said I made him feel better about himself in the hour we were together

I also see disabled guys, they tell me what they can manage and we work around that.

Don't worry if you're overweight, we're none of us perfect although I'm not sure what perfect is supposed to be these days!

I agree with what's been said, visit an Independant. Tell her what you like and what you can do, if she's worth her sort she'll make you feel goooooooood. 

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Well I never know about mentioning my age. It seems only fair to do so, but if I do I worry that the girl will think I'm meaning wrinkly and decrepit, which I'm not.

 

Give me time.

Age is in the mind My Darling.

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Well I never know about mentioning my age. It seems only fair to do so, but if I do I worry that the girl will think I'm meaning wrinkly and decrepit, which I'm not.

Give me time.

I do mention my age, as at 52 and three quarters I think it's only fair if the wg is significantly younger that she has the opportunity to decline if she's not comfortable with the idea. If she accepts but thinks I might be old looking and decrepit, all the better as she'll hopefully be pleasantly surprised when I turn up. I'm no Robert Redford but like to think I'm not in too shabby a condition!

Age is in the mind My Darling.

Yep been told that - my mind still thinks I'm in my thirties - my body keeps telling it otherwise :D

The most common reply is age isn't an issue / is only a number, and I can honestly say there's only one wg I've seen who told fibs that she was ok with it. The others have been somewhere between good and sensational.

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Age is in the mind My Darling.

Certainly is in my mind.

 

It only concerns me if there is a significant age difference.  I think to some girls this is an issue as upper age limits are more common than mentions of size concerns.

It is probably a mind thing and the though is probably " he's as old as my grandad".

 

Mind you, I've also seen some profiles of 40 plus ladies with an upper age limit, so I think it's always worth checking.

 

To London Geek.  You'll be OK.  Just take on board the advice you've been given and don't grow old. :)

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Thanks for all the helpful advice everyone - I contacted a few independents on AW and explained the situation and got some positive responses. Unfortunately down with the flu right now but have somebody lined up for an outcall soon. I'm still a bit apprehensive but telling them beforehand definitely is the way to go.

 

I'm 5 foot 9 for the person who asked, if anyone has girls to recommend happy to see an overweight novice punter feel free to private message me. I'll update this thread when I've had my hour or two of fun.

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