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I recently saw a lady who was a waist of time and money, her services listed on several sites was approching a full service. On arrival to the "charming"flat it was clear after the gift was accepted, ZERO services were on offer, bar very average OW and necrophilia sex.... I qusetioned the lack of advertised services and was told with a pretty sneer " At ladies discretion..."

 

Might as well have been a Amsterdam 15 minute window service, not exactly what you expect from a £150 - £200 per charge.

 

Discuss or Not... I just wanted to get it off my chest and the dishonesty is bugging me

 

 

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I always work on the basis that "At discretion" means not at all. That way I'm not disappointed when the discretion is not exercised and pleased as punch if it is.

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Must admit after a very good run I experienced very similar yesterday on a day when nothing went right.

I had a booking that was supposed to be followed by a business meeting. All dressed up and on the way to town the business meeting got cancelled. I didn't want to let the lady down so carried on

20 mins before the meet I got a text from the agency to say she had called off "sick" and would I like to book someone else. Took the punt ( forgive the pun) as I'd got to the location by then and really didn't want to write the whole day off and saw someone else. Cute but she didn't kiss in any way- I've had sneezes last longer than her OWO, and the sex was designed I get me off as soon as possible. With 2 hours to fill we had a nice chat but that really wasn't supposed to be what I was there for. Round 2 was the same and I left early.

I'm putting it down to one of those days and will never book an EE last minute again. It is always worth having a back-up option but perhaps I'll stick with the Asians for that going forward, at least there is a minimum level of service you are "almost" guaranteed to get with any amount of notice for the booking

Feeling deflated today too so nice to get it off my chest. Hopefully the next one will be better!

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Niceman, please write a review so we know who to avoid, Your story is, alas, so recognizable.

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I always work on the basis that "At discretion" means not at all. That way I'm not disappointed when the discretion is not exercised and pleased as punch if it is.

I'm sure that's a useful attitude but some services are almost always "at discretion" for good reason, e.g. OWO and FK.  If they are not provided without a good reason I'm always going to be disappointed.

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I recently saw a lady who was a waist of time and money, her services listed on several sites was approching a full service. On arrival to the "charming"flat it was clear after the gift was accepted, ZERO services were on offer, bar very average OW and necrophilia sex.... I qusetioned the lack of advertised services and was told with a pretty sneer " At ladies discretion..."

 

Might as well have been a Amsterdam 15 minute window service, not exactly what you expect from a £150 - £200 per charge.

 

Discuss or Not... I just wanted to get it off my chest and the dishonesty is bugging me

I would remove all references to 'at descretion' and put a rider that ALL services are at descretion, since they are just that.

In this case, I think it shows the importance of research and communication, before a booking is even thought about or made.

There was a post recently about attitude. Surely attitude an honesty are number one from both parties in such an intimate 'contract'?

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I recently saw a lady who was a waist of time ... I qusetioned the lack of advertised services and was told with a pretty sneer " At ladies discretion..."

Might as well have been a Amsterdam 15 minute window service, not exactly what you expect from a £150 - £200 per charge.

Discuss or Not... I just wanted to get it off my chest and the dishonesty is bugging me

A form of B&S in my opinion.

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I recently saw a lady who was a waist of time and money, her services listed on several sites was approching a full service. On arrival to the "charming"flat it was clear after the gift was accepted, ZERO services were on offer, bar very average OW and necrophilia sex.... I qusetioned the lack of advertised services and was told with a pretty sneer " At ladies discretion..."

 

Might as well have been a Amsterdam 15 minute window service, not exactly what you expect from a £150 - £200 per charge.

 

Discuss or Not... I just wanted to get it off my chest and the dishonesty is bugging me

 

 

   Name and shame  please 

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I hate that sort of thing as well. You've saved up some funds and saved yourself for the WG (celibacy) and bosch arrive there and no DFK, not a very good OWO, no rimming as advertised and no A-level.

It's very demoralising, very annoying to waste your time and money.

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Just a thought: I've never used an agency, always Indies and in 25 years, following careful research, have had only one or two bad punts.

Forget the agencies? Let's boycott them and survive on recommendations. I will start with a London lady... Oh fuck, I'd better not.

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A WG I used to see through an agency who said she'd never ever do anal was listing "A Levels At Discretion" on her AW profile.

Pretty poor to have to use false advertising to draw the customers in.

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"At discretion" can a lot of the time be an excuse for not doing the service.

I have all my services listed and "at discretion" listed as well BUT this is down to hygiene, say OWO, the only time I would refuse was if they were unclean or seen to have an STI or something. But many many escorts put "at discretion" to attract the punter then refuse the service.

It's annoying when girls want to con a guy like that because then us girls who right honestly on our profile get the wrath of guys constantly asking confirming and making sure we do the exact services we say we do!

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Niceman and Topcat please write reviews on Pnet don't just vent your feelings. It would be extremely helpful for other punters.

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"At discretion" can a lot of the time be an excuse for not doing the service.

I have all my services listed and "at discretion" listed as well BUT this is down to hygiene, say OWO, the only time I would refuse was if they were unclean or seen to have an STI or something. But many many escorts put "at discretion" to attract the punter then refuse the service.

It's annoying when girls want to con a guy like that because then us girls who right honestly on our profile get the wrath of guys constantly asking confirming and making sure we do the exact services we say we do!

Spot on. I've no problem with a wg putting 'at discretion' on any of her services, but IMO providing the punter is clean - and I don't just mean he's had a shower, and he isn't acting like a twat... then the service should be available.

To Niceman and Top Cat - it's all very well mentioning your experiences on here, but the only way you are going to really help fellow punters (and honest wg's as they might benefit from the business otherwise given to poor providers!) is either by naming those involved on here or writing a report. You can leave a review on here and use a different name from your forum name if you prefer, but naming bad service providers is the only way we have of preventing it happening to others.

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Spot on. I've no problem with a wg putting 'at discretion' on any of her services, but IMO providing the punter is clean - and I don't just mean he's had a shower, and he isn't acting like a twat... then the service should be available.

To Niceman and Top Cat - it's all very well mentioning your experiences on here, but the only way you are going to really help fellow punters (and honest wg's as they might benefit from the business otherwise given to poor providers!) is either by naming those involved on here or writing a report. You can leave a review on here and use a different name from your forum name if you prefer, but naming bad service providers is the only way we have of preventing it happening to others.

You're right, it should be available.

I agree with writing a review to name and shame as well, there are punters who read these forums and will go book a girl and this happen to them. Pointless keeping it to yourself and not helping others, by posting it on here or another punting forum you are helping other punters so they don't make mistake, and if the girl reads these forums she may book up her ideas and decide to provide decent service if she sees she is getting reported negatively. X

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I agree and will write a report shortly. Out of interest how does it work re Reports when the girls in question use a different name and location in almost every agency site. I've seen one particular girl advertised as Bayswater, Notting Hill and Paddington using 5 names in total for instance?

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List as many of the names and agencies you know for the same girl, it helps everyone out.

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I recently saw a lady who was a waist of time and money, her services listed on several sites was approching a full service. On arrival to the "charming"flat it was clear after the gift was accepted, ZERO services were on offer, bar very average OW and necrophilia sex.... I qusetioned the lack of advertised services and was told with a pretty sneer " At ladies discretion..."

 

Might as well have been a Amsterdam 15 minute window service, not exactly what you expect from a £150 - £200 per charge.

 

Discuss or Not... I just wanted to get it off my chest and the dishonesty is bugging me

 

That is terrible.  Did you discuss the services in advance?  Sometimes 'discretion' is due to a guy's size, hygiene etc.

 

If none of the above applies to you, I agree with what the other guys have to say.  I know lots of guys would have asked their money back.

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Might be missing something but why doesn't he just say who it was on this thread - whats with the secret squirrel!

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