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Disabled Clients And Personal Hygiene

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The other day I saw an escort and she asked me to keep my socks onthroughout. At first I found this quite amusing as it made me realise that most male feet aren't exactly objects of beauty and I can understand why some WGs might have a problem with them. But it also made me wonder if there was another issue at stake.

I have a problem with mobility and use a walking frame but this hasn't stopped me from punting. Most of the ladies I have seen don't seem to have a problem with it but I respect the right of any WG not to see me if they don't feel comfortable. What I have also noticed though is that some of the WGs seem to automatically assume that I have a problem with personal hygiene and so will only offer oral with a condom on even though it says on their profile that they offer OWO. They seem to think that as I have a mobility problem I must be some sort of lonely wierdo who doesn't wash regularly. Well, I was married for 15 years so I'm not a complete social outcast and as for washing I shower every day just like 'normal' people. When I see an escort I have another shower just before leaving the house.

So come on ladies let's remember this is the 21st century and if you ever see a client with some sort of disability don't assume that they don't know how to keep themselves clean!

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The other day I saw an escort and she asked me to keep my socks onthroughout. At first I found this quite amusing as it made me realise that most male feet aren't exactly objects of beauty and I can understand why some WGs might have a problem with them. But it also made me wonder if there was another issue at stake.

I have a problem with mobility and use a walking frame but this hasn't stopped me from punting. Most of the ladies I have seen don't seem to have a problem with it but I respect the right of any WG not to see me if they don't feel comfortable. What I have also noticed though is that some of the WGs seem to automatically assume that I have a problem with personal hygiene and so will only offer oral with a condom on even though it says on their profile that they offer OWO. They seem to think that as I have a mobility problem I must be some sort of lonely wierdo who doesn't wash regularly. Well, I was married for 15 years so I'm not a complete social outcast and as for washing I shower every day just like 'normal' people. When I see an escort I have another shower just before leaving the house.

So come on ladies let's remember this is the 21st century and if you ever see a client with some sort of disability don't assume that they don't know how to keep themselves clean!

Obviously girls want their clients to be super clean from head to toe before the 'physical' action begins.  What I do now is when the girl arrives I take another shower so she's happy I'm clean.

 

Regarding your specific situation, the girls should be able to see and smell that your clean so they shouldn't have treated you with less respect.  It 'might' (this is entirely up to you) be worth mentioning to any girls you see in the future that you washed properly and that your mobility problem 'doesn't' prevent you from doing this.

 

I also think some girls will still be 'picky' and insist on a condom for oral.

 

I don't understand why she specifically asked you to keep your socks on throughout your meet?  Bizarre!  

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 So toe sucking was off the menu then  ? 

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I dont think its that they think you are some sort of social weirdo, more like, if you have mobility problem,s they may think that as you are not so physically bendy you will not be able to reach certain parts of your body as well as a fully mobile person should be able too..ie...feet or willy...thats just a guess going by what you have written x

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Obviously girls want their clients to be super clean from head to toe before the 'physical' action begins.  What I do now is when the girl arrives I take another shower so she's happy I'm clean.

 

Regarding your specific situation, the girls should be able to see and smell that your clean so they shouldn't have treated you with less respect.  It 'might' (this is entirely up to you) be worth mentioning to any girls you see in the future that you washed properly and that your mobility problem 'doesn't' prevent you from doing this.

 

I also think some girls will still be 'picky' and insist on a condom for oral.

 

I don't understand why she specifically asked you to keep your socks on throughout your meet?  Bizarre!  

 

Maybe she liked the design of the socks?   :D

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Doubt it - they were just M&S bog standard range.  Personally I think it's gross to sit there with only your socks on - a bit like wearing a knotted hanky on your head

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I was sorry to read the OP's experience - most WG's I see have a fantastic approach to seeing disabled clients - I figure you are to much of a gentleman to 'name and shame' although I don't see it as shaming I see it more as a way of alerting fellow punters that there are good SP's and SP's who may need to refine their approach - as indeed every professional does - a strange one though leaving socks on - maybe the lady herself had a bit of a sock fetish herself! :)

 

If you don't mind me saying so I think you handled it well and your post isn't resentful or angry just asking for a more enlightened approach!

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Thanks. Most WGs I see have a great attitude too and I try not to mind if someone doesn't want to see me  as this is often a result of a gut reaction, which can't be helped. The person who asked me to keep my socks on was from Eastern Europe so it may have been a cultural thing.

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The other day I saw an escort and she asked me to keep my socks onthroughout. At first I found this quite amusing as it made me realise that most male feet aren't exactly objects of beauty and I can understand why some WGs might have a problem with them. But it also made me wonder if there was another issue at stake.

The only way to know for sure would have been to ask?  Perhaps it was for something altogether unrelated to your disability?

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Maybe she asks everyone as she has a pet hate for sock fluff on the floor

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I'm sorry to hear of your experiences.  I never assume anything, the clients I have seen who have mobility problems certainly do not have any hygiene issues.

 

Most people can get into a bath or shower and how does she know that you don't have a wife/partner or even a carer to help you out?

 

Smelly feet = smelly socks whether they are left on or taken off.

 

In the same vein most sexual service providers can workout whether someone is hygienic or not before putting a condom on, and if you were that smelly why isn't she showing you the shower?

 

None of this makes sense and certainly isn't the way to make anyone feel good about themselves.

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