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Horrific First Experience! Any Help Would Be Much Appreciated!

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Hi guys!

Just thought I'd post on here! My play partner and I have a kink for threesomes and I in particular have a thing about selecting the lady to join us. Anyway, cutting to the chase, one night whilst staying in a hotel in central London we searched the Internet for someone we could call to come over and found the photo of a woman we were both instantly attracted to, called and gave the address of the hotel. Anyway the lady called and I went outside the hotel to meet her and I was totally shocked, she looked nothing like her photos at all and honestly because it was my first punt I was really worried about what to do. It's not like she looked slightly different to her photos she was a completely different woman. Does this often happen?

I then called my partner down and he asked me what I wanted to do and I really couldn't do anything with this lady, I did not find her physically attractive in the slightest and honestly I found her to be quite scary she said if we wanted to cancel there was a fee involved. I really didn't care I was willing to pay for her to go, they said the ladies on the website were discreet and classy and she was neither. My partner then called the number we first called and explained to the guy that he would not pay as it was not the woman in the photos, the guy then said that they have to photo shop photos and that it was a photo shopped image. It wasn't, it was totally different. I don't mean to sound rude or disrespectful it's just the lady wasn't the one we expected in anyway shape or form. I just wanted to ask is this a usual occurrence? The guy on the end of the phone said that it was fair for my partner not to pay and then apologised. All the while I was standing with this woman whilst my partner was further away, scared out of my wits because a man in a BMW kept circling and then hooting is horn and shouting at me (the man who had dropped the lady off). Was I just unlucky or is this a usual occurrence?

Also I was wondering if anyone could recommend a lady or an agency/website would partake in a threesome with my partner and I, who is in fact bisexual?

Sorry if this post was badly written or went on for far too long!

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In terms of what happened, simple answer is put it down to experience, move on and research better next time (it's an occupational hazard of this hobby of ours)

Think there are lots of good options, perhaps let us know a bit more about what you are looking for so we can recommend (price range, age, looks, services, etc...)

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I think saying this is an "occupational hazard" to someone new to this world could lead them to believe this happens on every other booking made when clearly this is not the case. I am not saying it never happens (we all know it does) but speaking from personel experience it has never happened to me in all my considerable time punting.

However I do think you neec to remember the old poverb "all that glistens is not gold" - so if someone looks on a photo like a glamerous centrespread thats probably wbat they are rather than the woman who will turn up at your door.

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Truthfully speaking I heard this so many times in the past.  Is down to doing the research and as everyone says to 'take everything with a pinch of salt'.  We are all different.

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There are a few agencies out there that will use fake photos of models/pornstars on their sites in order to entice customers (not all do it, There's a girl on here who has her own agency, who uses genuine photos, and has a good reputation.  I can't remember her name though). 

When I first started out in this industry, I worked for an agency who did just this (I'm indie now), and they were always trying to pass me off as one of the girls on the site, and much younger too.  I was lucky that I only had one client who when I turned up said you're not 25 (indeed I wasn't, I was 38, and the girl he'd spoken to had told him I was 25).  Luckily he seemed to like what he saw, and we had our fun.

As Bigjohn says.  If the photos look to good to be true, then they probably aren't.  Don't get disheartened though.  It doesn't happen often and there are plenty of us girls out there that are genine. 

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I wish that lots of research on punter review sites was the answer to ensuring that the lady was as advertised. Different punters have very different standards when it comes to judging looks and service. That said, lots of bad comments are a good indicator of who not to see.

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There are lots of agencies and indies who use photoshop and in some cases the photoshopping is extensive to the degree that the reality becomes so far removed from the pics that it can be difficult to believe it is the same woman.  But then there are agencies who do bait and switch, use stolen photos of glamour models or porn stars or whatever which they pass off as women on their books when they are no such thing.  Pretty much anyone who starts demanding a "cancellation fee" is simply a con artist so I have little doubt in this case it was a bait and switch and not excessive photoshopping, even without seeing the photos in question.  Use common sense (if it looks too good to be true, etc...).  Use an image search like Google Reverse Image Search to check pics.  Check reviews both for any lady you like the look of and for other women with the same agency but remember that all reviews should be taken with a pinch of salt: agency and AW reviews should be treated as particularly dubious, most (all?) reviews on Punterking are simply fake, and even Punternet reviews are not to be treated as gospel.  Perhaps look for ladies who use more natural-looking photos but remember that selfies can be lifted off the internet as easily as glamour shots so don't assume if someone is marketing themselves with selfies alone that means they will be genuine, use an image search even in those cases, and you are probably best off with someone who has a mix of professional shots and selfies that you can compare and contrast.

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Please feel free to submit a review, sounds like an agency people should be warned about.

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In my experience of agencies when I used to book agency escorts for 3somes (before I went full time and before I discovered Punternet) they tend to never be quite what you expect. Some nice women but rarely looking like their pictures and rarely as described in terms of how elegant and sophisticated they claimed to be- not that this mattered to us, but it was still the lack of meeting our expectations that was annoying. That and the fact 90% were either drunk or coked up! 

 

To be honest, and at the risk of offending agencies and agency girls (I know there are some good ones out there) I wouldn't book an escort through one again. 

 

To be OP- go Indie, do a bit of research in advance- hard I know when you're in the mood and want a woman that night and also speak to the escort in advance, it'll give you a better feel of her attitude and you're dealing with her and her business not some pimp who doesn't have the escorts best interest at heart. 

 

I'm sure the men on here could recommend a good escort for 3somes if you give us a bit more info with regards to location and the type of women you're into. 

 

Good luck! 

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I don't know how common it is but I've often seen that girls like to speak to both parties if meeting a couple - I don't know if that was the case here but if not that could perhaps be considered a potential warning sign

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Hi guys, thank you all for your comments and advice! To be honest it's really put my partner off but I'm not put of at all because as with anything there are always some people doing dodgy things.

In response to Galahad's comment where can I post The details of the agency because I would definitely warn people against them.

DanLeno really good idea about the Google image search I didn't think of that. I suppose hindsight is a good thing that's why as MinxyLydia said I'm doing my research and I'm on here. Honestly you guys have really boosted my confidence in finding a lady for my play partner and I, I really appreciate it.

Not to sound totally stupid but by indie do you mean independent?

Classy or sophisticated is not necessarily essential it's just because of both of our jobs we want it to be extremely discreet and if the lady does come with us to the hotel to pretend she is my friend or something. Anyway so I've now decided that I'm going to do all the research find a lady and surprise him.

If you guys have any suggestions that would be amazing. Location central London really we usually go to hotel rooms so flexible with regards to whereabouts in London and flexible with budget too. But by flexible I can't really say that I would pay anything over £400. Preferably £200-£300 mark as a maximum. Does anyone know what the usual price is

Do I need to give info about myself to the lady to see if she'd like to even join us? I'm female in my late 20s Middle Eastern and curvy , he's in his early 30s and English, tall, slim and extremely well spoken. Looking for someone anywhere between size 8-12, good figure, good breasts but not too fake or too big. Someone more naturally attractive with a pretty face, no preference in hair colour but without sounding racist preference is for a white lady.

As for services someone who would be willing to give my partner oral pleasure with me and to me with him and to receive from either me or him or both. Someone who genuinely enjoys a woman as much as a man and who won't fake orgasms or be porn starish. Basically someone who would take the form as if they are my friend or something like GSE or something like that as I saw on AW. Then also someone who would get involved and let me watch whilst she has sex with him and then would watch me with him and someone who likes light kink, as in blindfolding me or my play partner. My play partner is a little dominant so he would probably like to tell us what to do. Was that too descriptive? If so tell me how it is!

Also I feel about dubious about AW after spending a good few hours on there last night, do you guys have any experience of it?

Thank you all so much for bearing with me!

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Yes, l mean independent.

In my 30 years of punting, I have never used an agency, always used Indies. Research carefully , discuss with the escorts.

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