Kumar

Punting In Local City Vs Punting When On Business Trip In Other Cities?

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Generally i have been punting when i am on business trip...away from my local city. Now a days my travel has reduced. So was thinking of punting locally.

 

I live in proper city centre and when looking at wg's in my city I can see there are a lot of them very close to where I live. Many of them just within couple of miles from where I live.

 

But generally I am bit worried about few things:

1. They might be someone I know socially.

2. They might be friend or known to my partner.

3. They might be my colleague or ex-colleague.

4. they might be someone I can bump into regularly because of close proximity to where I live.

 

 

anyone come across such situations? do wg's keep the encounter discreet and secret even if they are known to me or my partner or if they turn out to be my colleague, do they keep it totally secret?

 

Cheers

Kumar

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Think you may need to find a new hobby.

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If they are on some way known to you they will wish to be as discrete as you. it's not an issue.

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Why are you even considering punting locally?

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Don't shit where you eat, to coin a phrase.

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I'd say it depends upon where you live. I live in a city with about half a million other people so what are the odds of coming into contact with someone I know or who knows me?

Just over a year ago there was a wg I saw regularly who lived within 3 miles of me. We even went to the same supermarket to do pur shopping! More than that she had a day job working at a place I visited in conjunction with my job... When we found all this out, we just agreed on what we'd do if we ever bumped into one another. We agreed we'd acknowledge each other - why shouldn't we? No one could possibly know how we really knew one another - and neither of us were about to give the game away!

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Hi

 

Generally i have been punting when i am on business trip...away from my local city. Now a days my travel has reduced. So was thinking of punting locally.

 

I live in proper city centre and when looking at wg's in my city I can see there are a lot of them very close to where I live. Many of them just within couple of miles from where I live.

 

But generally I am bit worried about few things:

1. They might be someone I know socially.

2. They might be friend or known to my partner.

3. They might be my colleague or ex-colleague.

4. they might be someone I can bump into regularly because of close proximity to where I live.

 

 

anyone come across such situations? do wg's keep the encounter discreet and secret even if they are known to me or my partner or if they turn out to be my colleague, do they keep it totally secret?

 

Cheers

Kumar

 

No amount of screening will give you the security you need, but from a wg perspective if I saw someone out who had booked me previous I wouldn't acknowledge them unless they spoke first.    Discretion is a two way trip and should always be afforded by both parties.

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It is a small world.  If you punt you have a risk. I take a few risks far from home.  I punt with well reviewed girls close by.  The risk may be slightly greater, but the reward is better so is well worth it.  Just my view.

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I live in a city that fits that kind of description but it doesn't stop me visiting wg's around where I live, far from it. I'm really not paranoid about who they might be or who they might know, because I think as long as you are careful and you use your instinctive common sense, then mutual discretion is fairly assured. The bit that bothers me more, is worrying about bumping into people that I might know immediately before or after a punt, for example having to explain why I am entering or leaving an apartment block in the city centre where it is pretty obvious to friends and acquaintances that I don't know anyone socially. And maybe that becomes more of an issue in the broad daylight and longer days of the summer months. But even then, it doesn't bother me that much : but then I am single, so I can do pretty much what I like !

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Hi

 

Generally i have been punting when i am on business trip...away from my local city. Now a days my travel has reduced. So was thinking of punting locally.

 

I live in proper city centre and when looking at wg's in my city I can see there are a lot of them very close to where I live. Many of them just within couple of miles from where I live.

 

But generally I am bit worried about few things:

1. They might be someone I know socially.

2. They might be friend or known to my partner.

3. They might be my colleague or ex-colleague.

4. they might be someone I can bump into regularly because of close proximity to where I live.

 

 

anyone come across such situations? do wg's keep the encounter discreet and secret even if they are known to me or my partner or if they turn out to be my colleague, do they keep it totally secret?

 

Cheers

Kumar

Seems to me that only No 2 is of any danger! If I had a partner, that might worry me.

No 1 would be quite funny - I would think SHE would be more concerned about you outing her than vice-versa.

Similar, but slightly less so with No 4

 

As for No 3, the imagined danger is entirely mutual and both sides have potentially the same amount to lose...or nothing depending on your POV.

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Seems to me that only No 2 is of any danger! If I had a partner, that might worry me.

No 1 would be quite funny - I would think SHE would be more concerned about you outing her than vice-versa.

Similar, but slightly less so with No 4

 

As for No 3, the imagined danger is entirely mutual and both sides have potentially the same amount to lose...or nothing depending on your POV.

 

Depending also on your colleagues. Mine - male and female - are both loyal and broadminded, and would never shop me.

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biggest danger with punting is getting into some sort of tangle while out.  Like having a bump in the car or getting a speeding or parking ticket.

or being a witness to something.

explaining why you were somewhere different from where you said you were could be difficult.

 

I once saw an assult on a petrol station.  i was miles away from my cover story.  I paid and fucked off before plod came.  But my reg was on the cctcv so I presume plod could have found me if they wanted.

so now I only fill up when i am not in punting mode.

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biggest danger with punting is getting into some sort of tangle while out.  Like having a bump in the car or getting a speeding or parking ticket.

or being a witness to something.

explaining why you were somewhere different from where you said you were could be difficult.

 

I once saw an assult on a petrol station.  i was miles away from my cover story.  I paid and fucked off before plod came.  But my reg was on the cctcv so I presume plod could have found me if they wanted.

so now I only fill up when i am not in punting mode.

It's great being single and self-employed - never any need for a cover story!  (Sorry CP....just couldn't resist it!) :)

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biggest danger with punting is getting into some sort of tangle while out.  Like having a bump in the car or getting a speeding or parking ticket.

or being a witness to something.

explaining why you were somewhere different from where you said you were could be difficult.

 

I once saw an assult on a petrol station.  i was miles away from my cover story.  I paid and fucked off before plod came.  But my reg was on the cctcv so I presume plod could have found me if they wanted.

so now I only fill up when i am not in punting mode.

 

All this can't be emphasized too often.

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biggest danger with punting is getting into some sort of tangle while out.  Like having a bump in the car or getting a speeding or parking ticket.

or being a witness to something.

explaining why you were somewhere different from where you said you were could be difficult.

 

I once saw an assult on a petrol station.  i was miles away from my cover story.  I paid and fucked off before plod came.  But my reg was on the cctcv so I presume plod could have found me if they wanted.

so now I only fill up when i am not in punting mode.

Got the speeding ticket, and the parking ticket

Then there's the other "tangles" - like booking a hotel where a load of (albeit fading) pop stars are staying, and being greeted by a load of autograph hunters and press photographers while trying to make a discreet entrance to a local hotel when you should be working 100 miles away...

Or leaving semi naked selfies someone has sent of their latest tattoo on your phone...

Or leaving hotel receipts in your pocket for weeks on end

Or not checking out of an hotel and then finding they kindly posted the receipt to your home address...

The list is endless...I think I could write a book on how not to be a punter! :rolleyes:

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In a city chances of bumping into escort pretty remote (even in a town for that matter) - in 20 years of punting only once spotted the girl at the bar - we both minded our own business at moment gone on an instance. As others have said, the real risk (although to emphasise I have never in 20 years succumbed) is people you know finding out you are lying in the more general sense.

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Got the speeding ticket, and the parking ticket

Then there's the other "tangles" - like booking a hotel where a load of (albeit fading) pop stars are staying, and being greeted by a load of autograph hunters and press photographers while trying to make a discreet entrance to a local hotel when you should be working 100 miles away...

Or leaving semi naked selfies someone has sent of their latest tattoo on your phone...

Or leaving hotel receipts in your pocket for weeks on end

Or not checking out of an hotel and then finding they kindly posted the receipt to your home address...

The list is endless...I think I could write a book on how not to be a punter! :rolleyes:

Gosh, are you famous then, did you end up in the papers.  :D

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Gosh, are you famous then, did you end up in the papers.  :D

I was too scared to look!

When the coaches arrived the wg I with couldn't resist a little celebrity spotting - standing stark naked at the full length window... Don't know what the view from the street was like but it was pretty spectacular from my viewing position on the bed :)

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Got the speeding ticket, and the parking ticket

Then there's the other "tangles" - like booking a hotel where a load of (albeit fading) pop stars are staying, and being greeted by a load of autograph hunters and press photographers while trying to make a discreet entrance to a local hotel when you should be working 100 miles away...

Or leaving semi naked selfies someone has sent of their latest tattoo on your phone...

Or leaving hotel receipts in your pocket for weeks on end

Or not checking out of an hotel and then finding they kindly posted the receipt to your home address...

The list is endless...I think I could write a book on how not to be a punter! :rolleyes:

 

Again, flag this up, everyone. Even in the internet age, a paper trail is still a danger, and men always forget to check their pockets (and their wives always remember to check them).

The hotel receipt boob is how one of my colleagues found out her husband was screwing around.

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Again, flag this up, everyone. Even in the internet age, a paper trail is still a danger, and men always forget to check their pockets (and their wives always remember to check them).

The hotel receipt boob is how one of my colleagues found out her husband was screwing around.

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empty your pockets and wallet of shite on the way home

receipts, parking tickets, bus/train tickets....

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yes

empty your pockets and wallet of shite on the way home

receipts, parking tickets, bus/train tickets....

Remove Pay and Display parking tickets from your windscreen...

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Got the speeding ticket, and the parking ticket

Or not checking out of an hotel and then finding they kindly posted the receipt to your home address...

I got a text from a hotel thanking me for my stay. Good job it was sent when mrs UTM was no around to see it. Like other have said receipts, tickets anything like that get rid. Women will go through your pockets and back in the day I know many a man caught cheating becuse of a girls number written on paper left in his trouser pockets.

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and sanitise you phone after.  get rid of texts and the call log.  I have an android so i have an app that cleans the favourites.  I have google set to not save anything so there are no saved locations urls etc in google.  put a password on your phone so noone else can look at stuff.  just say its in case it gets nicked.  I would even do this to a punting phone.  if she finds it and it has no call log or texts etc then it will be easier to explain than if its full of incriminating evidence.

I dont have a punting phone cos explaining a phone would be difficult.  so I use my main phone and am careful.  Whether you have a punting sim/phone will depend on how you live and stuff.  Mrs CP is more likely to find physical stuff than stuff on my phone or computer. (She has enough trouble finding files she has just saved!)

I have also bought her her own lappy so she does not need to use mine.  but I dont store naughty stuff on my internal hard drive anyway.  and firefox is set up to forget everything when I exit firefox just in case.

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It is a small world.  If you punt you have a risk. I take a few risks far from home.  I punt with well reviewed girls close by.  The risk may be slightly greater, but the reward is better so is well worth it.  Just my view.

 

The risk is only if you meet a 'noisy' girl who does not adhere to the idea this should be a discreet business.  It works both ways.

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agree to most of the comments. I think i am worried too much. Need to calm down my nerves :-)

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