Beckh

Newbie Woman Wanting Bi Or Truely Gay / Queer / Lesbian Woman To Explore With

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Hi I am new to all this.

I am looking for uptodate advice and recommendations on women who genuinely and happily see other women, and newbies like me.

 

I didn't know this site existed until a couple of days ago, as I was searching in google! and an old post from here came up!  

 

Any help!?  I am near London, south east,  I live in East Sussex Brighton.  Is this the right place to ask for advice / recommendations?!

 

Thanks

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Welcome Beckh,

 

You are not the only female punter who posts on here and I am sure that someone will be along to give you the advice you are seeking. 

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As Brighton is probably the gay capital of the UK, you are already where you need to be. So what's not working for you?

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There are three reviews by a female punter in the "reviews" section of Punternet. She is called Punter Girl and if you put her name in as the author you should find them, they are all in London

 

There are two other female punters I am aware of who post on here occasionally nikki1971 and Leonette but they haven't posted any reviews. You may or may not find their posts to be of interest. Some of the service providers on here may be able to help you.  

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Thanks Moonraker.  I found Punter Girls reviews. Enjoyed reading them.  I will look up the other two female punters and see what they have posted.  This is just the beginning for me, so I haven't actually punted yet.  I have spent a while searching around here, but all the stories of WG's being gay for pay etc, does put me off.  

 

Oddbloke ..yes people say / think its the gay capital of the UK I am not so sure...it doesn't feel like that for me! certainly it seems easier for gay men I'd say.  Thing is I am not really into the scene, clubbing etc, so it's a bit harder to go about it all. And yes when I have searched locally for WG's I am abit suss on if they are genuinely queer / bi / gay.  

 

I hope more recommendations come.  In mean time I will have a look at the other female punters posts.  Cheers.

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I think Beckh while your posts are being moderated you probably will not have access to the Private Messaging system but once you do (usually after a about 20 posts) you could try messaging the three ladies I have mentioned. Of course you could take the plunge with one of Punter Girl's recommendations. 

Good luck!

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Moonraker I have received a PM from someone, and was able to reply..so think its working earlier than usual!  yes true i could try emailing one of the female punters.  I did look on all of their past posts and there wasn't actually much gleened unfortunately.  But Punter girl did do a good write up with her three reviews and it would be good to get uptodate information.  I did come across someone recommending my secret life...a website...of a working woman can't remember her name...and i remember looking at her site and I was impressed ..she seemed genuine and very up for being with and servicing or being serviced!! by women! do you know who I mean?

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I am afraid that my knowledge is limited to Punternet. I am a little surprised that you have not had a reply from any of the Service Providers on here, they are usually very helpful. Perhaps your question is outwith their knowledge.

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Moonraker I have received a PM from someone, and was able to reply..so think its working earlier than usual!  yes true i could try emailing one of the female punters.  I did look on all of their past posts and there wasn't actually much gleened unfortunately.  But Punter girl did do a good write up with her three reviews and it would be good to get uptodate information.  I did come across someone recommending my secret life...a website...of a working woman can't remember her name...and i remember looking at her site and I was impressed ..she seemed genuine and very up for being with and servicing or being serviced!! by women! do you know who I mean?

 

I think she has a profile on adultwork as well as having her own website.  As a general rule of thumb, indy WGs with their own websites often have a bit more about them.

 

Good luck with your research ;)

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  This is just the beginning for me, so I haven't actually punted yet.  I have spent a while searching around here, but all the stories of WG's being gay for pay etc, does put me off.  

 

I have had wonderful sex with some gorgeous women. They did not do it because they thought I was a sex god, or even attractive - I paid them. Hopefully they thought I was a decent thoughtful guy.

Some of them may have been gay, but I expect they all (or most) put on act of enjoying themselves more than they really did. So why does it have to be real for you ?

Paid sex is mostly about an illusion - when done by good WGs it is a very convincing illusion.

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Czechmate ..yes I hear what your saying and will mull that over.  This is all a very new thing for me and of course money is involved. It did cross my mind the other night, like why would it be important ..as yes I'd be paying ..well I'd want to click with the woman...and for her to click with me...connect...so on some level a genuine attraction..or the potential of an attraction helps doesn't it!?  If I can connect / click and get jiggy makes the whole experience much more enjoyable...with a woman who genuinely enjoys being with other women...well its win win isn't it!?

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Also while I think of it has anyone experienced / met / got down with these ladies ..who seem to hold lots of potential!!?  Violetx Rose or something like that..website stockings and seams ?  Thoughts?  And anyone experienced Rebecca Lowrie?? Sexual alchemist who seems to be highly skilled don't think she is on AW. Just wondered if anyone can recommend them?  I thought they looked promising when I came across them whilst searching one evening...

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I have had wonderful sex with some gorgeous women. They did not do it because they thought I was a sex god, or even attractive - I paid them. Hopefully they thought I was a decent thoughtful guy.

Some of them may have been gay, but I expect they all (or most) put on act of enjoying themselves more than they really did. So why does it have to be real for you ?

Paid sex is mostly about an illusion - when done by good WGs it is a very convincing illusion.

You raise a good point and I asked myself - would I see a hot hooker who I knew was only into women but happy to see men for the pay

 

YES!

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Czechmate ..yes I hear what your saying and will mull that over.  This is all a very new thing for me and of course money is involved. It did cross my mind the other night, like why would it be important ..as yes I'd be paying ..well I'd want to click with the woman...and for her to click with me...connect...so on some level a genuine attraction..or the potential of an attraction helps doesn't it!?  If I can connect / click and get jiggy makes the whole experience much more enjoyable...with a woman who genuinely enjoys being with other women...well its win win isn't it!?

I suspect that it would be harder for a service provider to give an enjoyable experience to another woman than it would be for her to provide a similar experience for a man, since the woman/man situation is the one she would normally be experienced in and can provide a convincing experience. I suspect that this is why there have been no responses by service providers to this thread.

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Unless I need to post somewhere else on this forum?  Like regional London and Southeast? to get input from service providers? 

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Unless I need to post somewhere else on this forum?  Like regional London and Southeast? to get input from service providers? 

 

That might be a good idea: it might also throw up more recommendations

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Unless I need to post somewhere else on this forum?  Like regional London and Southeast? to get input from service providers? 

 

It would also be worth specifying any further preferences that you may have beyond simply being a gay/lesbian escort.  Things like, age, height, build, hair colour, services available etc.  Whatever is important to you.  That way it is easier for others to make recommendations suited to your preferences.

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I suppose there is a lack of responses from service providers because either it looks touty to sing own merits (though that doesn't usually doesn't stop people!) or they just don't have any good recommendations in the area the OP is in. 

 

However, I'll rosk a response! ... it will be hard to find reviews, there are far less female punters out there. In almost 6 years I have only ever seen 2 single female clients and maybe 6-8 male/female couples so the market is considerably smaller. 

 

A lot of escorts do advertise as being bi sexual, but (as has already been pointed out) they may just say that because men are titillated by that (sigh) and because they do duos. 

 

In my experience there is a huge difference between *working* with another women, whether genuinely bi or not and having a lesbian client and I think some women are intimidated by that so I think Beckh needs to look further than just any old escort who claims to be bi. 

 

I'm afraid I have no actual recommendations, (it's been years since I have booked a female escort and my escort friends I could suggest aren't remotely near Brighton!) other than to perhaps continue googling for independent escorts in the area or look through reviews on here and then spend time looking at their websites to get a feel for them and possibly what they say on their blogs.

 

Also, I suggest any escorts you like the look of to call them up sooner rather than later- emails from people claiming to be women are generally looked on as annoying timewastey men on a wank until proved otherwise by a phone call so be aware any emails may get ignored or treated as suspicious and not terribly detailed in response! 

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I suppose there is a lack of responses from service providers because either it looks touty to sing own merits (though that doesn't usually doesn't stop people!) or they just don't have any good recommendations in the area the OP is in. 

 

However, I'll rosk a response! ... it will be hard to find reviews, there are far less female punters out there. In almost 6 years I have only ever seen 2 single female clients and maybe 6-8 male/female couples so the market is considerably smaller. 

 

A lot of escorts do advertise as being bi sexual, but (as has already been pointed out) they may just say that because men are titillated by that (sigh) and because they do duos. 

 

In my experience there is a huge difference between *working* with another women, whether genuinely bi or not and having a lesbian client and I think some women are intimidated by that so I think Beckh needs to look further than just any old escort who claims to be bi. 

 

I'm afraid I have no actual recommendations, (it's been years since I have booked a female escort and my escort friends I could suggest aren't remotely near Brighton!) other than to perhaps continue googling for independent escorts in the area or look through reviews on here and then spend time looking at their websites to get a feel for them and possibly what they say on their blogs.

 

Also, I suggest any escorts you like the look of to call them up sooner rather than later- emails from people claiming to be women are generally looked on as annoying timewastey men on a wank until proved otherwise by a phone call so be aware any emails may get ignored or treated as suspicious and not terribly detailed in response! 

that is sad and pathetic

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that is sad and pathetic

that its looked upon that way or that men actually do that sort of thing?

 

Unfortunatley there are female punters who are time wasters also. There is one who phones around about a booking then starts on about can she bring a friend then starts going on about how he is black and has a huge cock etc etc, you go along with it the first time because it doesnt occur to you for even a second that a woman would even bother being a phone wanker but then she just randomly hangs up on you. A few months later you get the call and its only when she gives you the same story that the penny drops then she hangs up when you mention she has called before. I had this, three times although the third time I had saved her number from the previous call. Mentioned it to a couple of other escorts in the area and they had the same calls from her with the same story and the same sudden hang up from her. 

 

Its just how people can be. 

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Hi I am new to all this.

I am looking for uptodate advice and recommendations on women who genuinely and happily see other women, and newbies like me.

 

I didn't know this site existed until a couple of days ago, as I was searching in google! and an old post from here came up!  

 

Any help!?  I am near London, south east,  I live in East Sussex Brighton.  Is this the right place to ask for advice / recommendations?!

 

Thanks

 

 

Since nobody has asked yet, Are you willing to travel?

 

Quite a few punters travel outside of their area to find the girls they like.

 

You may find more responses that way.

 

:D

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that its looked upon that way or that men actually do that sort of thing?

 

Unfortunatley there are female punters who are time wasters also. There is one who phones around about a booking then starts on about can she bring a friend then starts going on about how he is black and has a huge cock etc etc, you go along with it the first time because it doesnt occur to you for even a second that a woman would even bother being a phone wanker but then she just randomly hangs up on you. A few months later you get the call and its only when she gives you the same story that the penny drops then she hangs up when you mention she has called before. I had this, three times although the third time I had saved her number from the previous call. Mentioned it to a couple of other escorts in the area and they had the same calls from her with the same story and the same sudden hang up from her. 

 

Its just how people can be. 

that men do that type of thing (i mean wank off to emails from hookers but never ever pay for a booking)

 

but she sounds ok (at least she phones and is not passive) - pass my number on if she wants a dirty chat

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If it's any help I have met Violet Rose briefly in a social context and she's very lovely as well as bright and witty. 

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If it's any help I have met Violet Rose briefly in a social context and she's very lovely as well as bright and witty. 

Hi MinxyLydia, aah thanks for that, yeah I stumbled across Violet Rose and like the look of her, and her vibe/ what she writes up about herself etc.  Have you heard of Rebecca Lowrie? ever crossed paths I like where she is coming from as well / what she says about her work ...sexual alchemy!?  

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Since nobody has asked yet, Are you willing to travel?

 

Quite a few punters travel outside of their area to find the girls they like.

 

You may find more responses that way.

 

:D

Hi Autumn Temptation, Yes I am willing to travel.  I would travel to London definately, as that doesn't take too long.  Possibly a bit further but it really depends.  I do have certain time-restraints as I am a single mother with two kids..so you can imagine my time is rather limited as well as hectic...unless I get a clear day free.

 

Yes willing to travel, doesn't just have to be brighton / sussex area. Cheers

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