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Ok so we have had the, Why do men punt thread and no doubt why do women get into this industry thread, so what about, What made/will make you give up this WOL (way of life) in case you didn't know. What would be the catalyst to stop your shenanigans.  

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For me it would be. First and foremost if my family found out. But I think I may just go further underground to be honest. Secondly it my life was threatened or I was harmed in any way, that would be a big, lets reconsider moment. If my husband started having doubts I would deffo stop and think. Or most importantly if I woke up one day and said, no more can I do this, then I would hang up my stockings. 

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A difficult question. Possibly if my daughter found out but probably not even then as the damage would have been done. I think the answer would be that I wouldn't other than if I ran out of money. I have often said on here that even when age takes its toll and I can no longer manage it I would still carry on for the cuddles , caresses, kisses and chat.

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When i get bored or lose the buzz. If i got caught no doubt my wife would divorce me and although giving me ample guilt free opportunity, it would probably leave me skint!!!

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I started this hobby after a messy break up and prolonged dry spell, to try and regain confidence.

 

I've done that and more, experienced things I could never have achieved in civilian life.

 

There are a few more things on my wish list, once they are complete I will probably start dating again with punting on the side until something gets serious.

 

Or, the worst thing that can happen is that I continue to live the dream.

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I can't ever see me giving up punting voluntarily. Its the best fun that money can buy :cool:

 

I've punted through a marriage and a relationship, and I can't see myself giving up if another long term relationship comes along. I can only foresee 2 factors which stop me from punting - not being able to afford it and debilitating ill-health. Neither of these are an issue for me right now, so I make the most of the moment and punt whenever I get the chance, which works out at an average of every 2 weeks :)

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I can't ever see me giving up punting voluntarily. Its the best fun that money can buy :cool:

 

I've punted through a marriage and a relationship, and I can't see myself giving up if another long term relationship comes along. I can only foresee 2 factors which stop me from punting - not being able to afford it and debilitating ill-health. Neither of these are an issue for me right now, so I make the most of the moment and punt whenever I get the chance, which works out at an average of every 2 weeks :)

Is old age in this category because it will arrive.

 

As you say, other that health issues or money issues, nothing else springs to mind.

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Health & wealth are two obvious ones. Another would be if the risk of getting caught became too great, which it very nearly did recently and made me change my punting habits somewhat.

The point Berbs made about losing the buzz is a good one, which has happened once or twice lately but the buzz seems to have returned for the next one I've got planned..

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For me it would be. First and foremost if my family found out. But I think I may just go further underground to be honest. Secondly it my life was threatened or I was harmed in any way, that would be a big, lets reconsider moment. If my husband started having doubts I would deffo stop and think. Or most importantly if I woke up one day and said, no more can I do this, then I would hang up my stockings. 

My family know.

 

I have however had that 'threatening' moment, it did make me stop and think but I decided why should one person spoil it. It did change how I worked.

 

I am currently slowing right down, making big changes, not quitting completely, but no more incalls and a slight location change after a certain date this month.

 

What's made me do that?

 

Opportunity, plans coming to fruition, me deciding to hand a few things over and time to see what else I can do.

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I'm not sure whether it is temporary or for good but I've already given up. Firstly my sex drive has been gradually on the wane because of prostate cancer treatment such that in my last few punts I was unable to do everything I usually do: I had become more passive.  Secondly my ego or pride now gets in the way of me paying for a woman to pretend that she loves/fancies/likes me. And, most importantly, I'm trying to recover my marital sex life.  

One upside of this of course is that the family finances are in a healthier state!

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My family know.

 

I have however had that 'threatening' moment, it did make me stop and think but I decided why should one person spoil it. It did change how I worked.

 

I am currently slowing right down, making big changes, not quitting completely, but no more incalls and a slight location change after a certain date this month.

 

What's made me do that?

 

Opportunity, plans coming to fruition, me deciding to hand a few things over and time to see what else I can do.

This sounds an interesting and seminal time in your life, Strawberry.  You are as lovely in person as you are on here and I wish you all the best.

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This sounds an interesting and seminal time in your life, Strawberry.  You are as lovely in person as you are on here and I wish you all the best.

Thank you, I wasn't aware that we'd met ;)

 

Yes I'm not saying never and I'm not disappearing completely, but I am going to be giving something else a good go.

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I'm not sure whether it is temporary or for good but I've already given up. Firstly my sex drive has been gradually on the wane because of prostate cancer treatment such that in my last few punts I was unable to do everything I usually do: I had become more passive.  Secondly my ego or pride now gets in the way of me paying for a woman to pretend that she loves/fancies/likes me. And, most importantly, I'm trying to recover my marital sex life.  

One upside of this of course is that the family finances are in a healthier state!

sorry to hear that - not surprised you are not active

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Is old age in this category because it will arrive.

 

As you say, other that health issues or money issues, nothing else springs to mind.

 

Yes these are all possible reasons for calling it a day although when it comes to age I think there are punters in their seventies still contributing to forums so that could mean another twenty years for me and there does seem to be a niche in the market for GILFs as far as the women are concerned although I would assume that most WGs would have hoped to have made their fortune long before retirement age.

 

The most likely reason for me to quit would be a civvie relationship, even if I felt the urge to carry on punting I don't think I would as I don't want to live that kind of double life.

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I guess when escorting won't make me happy anymore, I'll stop without a doubt. But this day ain't coming any time soon :)

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I guess when escorting won't make me happy anymore, I'll stop without a doubt. But this day ain't coming any time soon :)

 

Yes and of course as a punter if I stopped enjoying it obviously there wouldn't be much point in doing it although I can't imagine the time will come when I don't enjoy sex. Also if the bits stop working properly or don't work at all again not much point in carrying on.

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When I start to walk down the boulevard of broken dreams!

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Think that time is fast approaching. The industry has some very unsavoury characters trading in it these days at all levels. These past 12 months we have had two armed robberies, three attacks at our home address and several attempts to have us moved from our premises. All the offences can be linked to people within the industry. 

 

The most recent attack on our home address resulted in us moving as a result of a Osmans warning issued by the police. 

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Think that time is fast approaching. The industry has some very unsavoury characters trading in it these days at all levels. These past 12 months we have had two armed robberies, three attacks at our home address and several attempts to have us moved from our premises. All the offences can be linked to people within the industry. 

 

The most recent attack on our home address resulted in us moving as a result of a Osmans warning issued by the police. 

 

Forgive my ignorance but whats an Osmans warning?

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Forgive my ignorance but whats an Osmans warning?

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Osman_v_United_Kingdom

 

Basically it is a formal written warning from the police informing you that your life and or property is under threat from persons with criminal intent. It covers their arse in case you get murdered. 

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When I go home too many times muttering, "well, that was £150 flushed away"

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Ok so we have had the, Why do men punt thread and no doubt why do women get into this industry thread, so what about, What made/will make you give up this WOL (way of life) in case you didn't know. What would be the catalyst to stop your shenanigans.  

It was the effects on my mental health, and the repercussions, that made me stop.  I've serious life-long problems that were exacerbated by my emotional reaction to enjoying carnal relations with beautiful, intelligent women. It created some disastrous episodes, which spilled over to worry more than one good lady.  I miss the sex, but it's been better all round that I stop.  Punter non grata. 

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When I go home too many times muttering, "well, that was £150 flushed away"

But not I guess after a visit to the "special one " in paddington

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I thought the "special one" managed Chelsea????? (laughing)

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if i was in a long term relationship i would stop, but i have cut back from every 2/3 weeks to every 1/2 months due to the cost and now am happy with my annual spending on escorts which is under 1k.   I have only been doing this for 1yr or so, if i had been for 10yrs i would probably look back at the 10-15k spent + compounded interest and thought why didn't i buy that Z4!

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