Scottmcd1

First Timer Tips?

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Hi everyone! I am new to the forum and I am new to the punter scene.

 

I am looking to have any tips on my first time. Only time I have had sex was when I was 15, and we both didn't know what we was doing. I am now 23 so you could say I am very inexperianced when it comes to sexual activity. Is this a problem when it comes to booking or when 'getting it on' with an escort?(sorry if that offends, not sure what word will be best!). And in terms of looks, does it matter at all or as long as you are clean and looking smart? Also penis size, i would say mine is pretty small(not measured) but it is small.. is that another factor escorts take into consideration?

 

Along with those questions, just anything else I should do to make sure I don't make a fool of myself.

 

Thank you everyone!

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Hello :)

 

For most escorts, looks or size doesn't matter. Just tell the lady you're a newcomer, and ask her all the relevant questions, and I'm sure she'll look after you to make this experience the best possible. Being clean and respectful is more important to us than anything. According to the huge among of bookings I have from unexperienced men, you can trust me :)

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I think it would be better to let a lady know that you are a little nervous rather than you are knew to this. There is a certain element amongst escorts who would try to take advantage of your inexperience or try to manipulate you possibly. Most wont but they do exist so just plan carefully, read their reviews, trust your gut instinct and dont spend any cash that you can't afford to lose

 

Just have fun and dont worry about penis size or looks or anything like that. That you are clean and polite plus you communicate with us is the most important thing. Also, have the correct fee and do double check any particular things you wish to try at the time of booking 

 

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Agree with Chloe - no need to say that you are new to punting, but no harm in saying you are nervous.   But if your instinct is to tell her, then it is probably fine either way.  In terms of (not) making a fool out of yourself, consider going for it.  Do the opposite - make a fool out of yourself.  It is only you and her - have a laugh, enjoy.  She will probably ask you what you want to do - don't be surprised or feel pressured by the question - she is being nice.  You can just say 'not sure lets see how it goes, I am happy to follow your lead'.  Or say what you are thinking - even if it it sounds obvious ('a few minutes play, then sex, then maybe we try for a repeat').  I have heard there are guys who want way different than this.

 

Also as a reminder, it is legal.  (OK when she is over 18 and not trafficked and all the other stuff it says elsewhere).  But still - just want to make sure you are not worried about that side.

 

Do pick a well reviewed girl that you fancy.  You can "take one for the team" later.  While I mostly use independent girls these days, starting off with a good agency for the first time is a reasonable choice.

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Hi everyone! I am new to the forum and I am new to the punter scene.

 

I am looking to have any tips on my first time. Only time I have had sex was when I was 15, and we both didn't know what we was doing. I am now 23 so you could say I am very inexperianced when it comes to sexual activity. Is this a problem when it comes to booking or when 'getting it on' with an escort?(sorry if that offends, not sure what word will be best!). And in terms of looks, does it matter at all or as long as you are clean and looking smart? Also penis size, i would say mine is pretty small(not measured) but it is small.. is that another factor escorts take into consideration?

 

Along with those questions, just anything else I should do to make sure I don't make a fool of myself.

 

Thank you everyone!

 

All you need to do is tell the sex worker what you want service wise.. Looks, cock size are not important to them. They provide a service that you have agreed too.  Also in truth... all the sex worker is bothered about is politeness, cleanliness and off course the right money!  

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Three simple rules: be respectful, don't try to impress her, and enjoy yourself  :)

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It's easy to say for me but don't worry about getting everything right and just enjoy it.

 

Also, your 23, why not find a girlfriend to have fun with, there's someone for everyone.  Sorry if I've made an incorrect assumption.

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Three simple rules: be respectful, don't try to impress her, and enjoy yourself  :)

 

And the crucial fourth one - scrub your cock and arse!

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Don't be afraid to tell her you're nervous. It's only natural if you haven't done this before! I was visibly shaking my first time :-) Bless her, she gave me a hug and led me into it gently. Thankyou MissT :-)

Be clean, be respectful, and treat her like a lady, and you'll be fine.

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Can't really add to what's already been said. So be clean respectable and treat the lady well. Enjoy and remember we've all been newcomers to this l remember my lst punt,had to go to the boozer for a quick JD + coke to settle me down,but when she opened the door,WOW I couldn't believe my luck

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Advice?  Read the advice given to people here in the past who were also looking for advice.  So many threads on this.

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Hi everyone! I am new to the forum and I am new to the punter scene.

 

I am looking to have any tips on my first time. Only time I have had sex was when I was 15, and we both didn't know what we was doing. I am now 23 so you could say I am very inexperianced when it comes to sexual activity. Is this a problem when it comes to booking or when 'getting it on' with an escort?(sorry if that offends, not sure what word will be best!). And in terms of looks, does it matter at all or as long as you are clean and looking smart? Also penis size, i would say mine is pretty small(not measured) but it is small.. is that another factor escorts take into consideration?

 

Along with those questions, just anything else I should do to make sure I don't make a fool of myself.

 

Thank you everyone!

 

Just find a local parlour and go for it!

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And the crucial fourth one - scrub your cock and arse!

 

just go a bit easy tho'  if you are using brillo pads or a wire brush.

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just go a bit easy tho'  if you are using brillo pads or a wire brush.

 

Sounds like a trip to A&E !

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