robert49

It's Been A Frustrating Week

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Tried to arrange something this week but it's all gone wrong.  One cancellation due to illness, one wanted to put back a hour and a quarter as her landlord was coming round, ( sounds more like she double booked or I was shunted in favour of someone else), but I had an appointment I couldn't miss and I hate the feeling that I'm being messed around.  Both of these within one hour of the appointment time. Add to this the unanswered phones, texts and emails answered late if at all and it's all getting a bit tiring.  The ones answered hours later are a puzzle, they either don't read any texts or emails during the day or they sit on them as a sort of banker.  I fully expect to be told "we are very busy and cannot answer every enquiry".  Not much use to the client though.

 

Obviously I'm trying to book popular girls but at the moment it's making no difference whether I try to book in advance or on the day.

Just made a few calls about tomorrow morning, my last chance this week, but nothing doing.  I glad for these busy girls, it seems to be a sellers market at the moment.

 

I expect it's just a phase I'm going through or maybe it's me!  It's enough to give a chap a complex.  I don't believe that though, I'm harmless enough.

 

 

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I went through that phase a while back.  How did it end? Tried a few new girls, a reverse booking and over time discovered a few regulars.  So today there are a fair few I can text the day before and say "what time" and have a booking sorted with no fuss.  Or even at short notice.

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Yes, it can be very frustrating ( especially being messed around within an hour of a booking ), but like a lot of other things in life, there'll be good weeks and there'll be bad weeks .... yesterday the weather was like July and today it was like December. You've just got to go with the flow. And similar to Griffon, a recent similar experience with a regular for me, has turned into meeting a couple of very promising new acquaintances, who I might not otherwise have had the chance to meet.

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Not ok being messed about with your two bookings at such short notice.

 

Trying to book at 9pm for tomorrow morning is perhaps being too optimistic wanting instant replies.. I often do not reply to emails until some time after they were sent. Texts which arrives in the evening may not be seen until later because I have my phone on silent in the evening as it is non escort time and then I will not reply until tomorrow. 

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Tried to arrange something this week but it's all gone wrong.  One cancellation due to illness, one wanted to put back a hour and a quarter as her landlord was coming round, ( sounds more like she double booked or I was shunted in favour of someone else), but I had an appointment I couldn't miss and I hate the feeling that I'm being messed around.  Both of these within one hour of the appointment time. Add to this the unanswered phones, texts and emails answered late if at all and it's all getting a bit tiring.  The ones answered hours later are a puzzle, they either don't read any texts or emails during the day or they sit on them as a sort of banker.  I fully expect to be told "we are very busy and cannot answer every enquiry".  Not much use to the client though.

 

Obviously I'm trying to book popular girls but at the moment it's making no difference whether I try to book in advance or on the day.

Just made a few calls about tomorrow morning, my last chance this week, but nothing doing.  I glad for these busy girls, it seems to be a sellers market at the moment.

 

I expect it's just a phase I'm going through or maybe it's me!  It's enough to give a chap a complex.  I don't believe that though, I'm harmless enough.

Could it be they are in a booking, or driving/travelling/not working doing personal things or other jobs that day?

 

Those are reasons I have for not answering for a few hours, or even a full day.

 

Very occasionally I have had complaints about the delay, bloke assumes I'm being rude or not interested.

 

Sorry you are not having much luck.

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By the way unless it's an absolute emergency landlords have to give 24 hours notice to come into the property, and I have heard it's used as a false excuse to cancel or bump clients. However they don't have to give notice to look at the outside of the property so it's not impossible, however it would have to be very unlucky to coincide with a booking, unless she's working non-stop.

 

Anyone with any sense would manage landlord visits around their work.

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Robert do not despair. Life has a way of taking us through peaks and troughs. You seem like an intelligent smart man who is fairly accomplished in the punting arena. Keep your chin up there is a light at the end of the long passage way.

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It looks like negative thinking can work sometimes!

 

I woke up to a reply from a girl I've wanted to see for some time.  All arranged for later this morning.  I'll let you know if she cancels on me.  Decided to carry on being negative for a bit.

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Could it be they are in a booking, or driving/travelling/not working doing personal things or other jobs that day?

 

Those are reasons I have for not answering for a few hours, or even a full day.

 

Very occasionally I have had complaints about the delay, bloke assumes I'm being rude or not interested.

 

Sorry you are not having much luck.

Yes I realise all this Strawberry, but an explanation wouldn't come amiss even if that in itself could be a fib.  My overwhelming feeling is that in the main a potential booking is not that important to a girl if she doesn't communicate well.

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Robert do not despair. Life has a way of taking us through peaks and troughs. You seem like an intelligent smart man who is fairly accomplished in the punting arena. Keep your chin up there is a light at the end of the long passage way.

Not really, but I'll accept the compliment, thanks.  :)

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Ive on occasion been forced to do late cancellations on people, usually because of some child created disaster that meant me rushing off immediately to rectify. The other night my son lost his key, had to cancel and go home to let him in, can't let child sit in the street for 2 hours whilst I suck someones cock for an hour...sorry, no can do. Unfortunate but thats life.

 

Once or twice I have started to feel ill, Im never ill for long but boy oh boy I have a shite 24hrs when I am, can't risk throwing up on someone or worse having to run out of a booking with the squits....cant imagine anyone would retain a boner whilst listening to that sort of drama in the bathroom next door, again, unfortunate but thats life. 

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God made parlous for those days when there is no indie available...

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Not the best of weeks for me... :(

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Its always the same old: Guys who only looking for incalls complaining, that they cant get suitable appointment from the girls even in the plenty of notice.

 

In the same time: some Wgs who only povide oucalls, always complaining of the lack of clients.

 

Solution is obvious.. even not exactly straightforward. (Understandable for the guys with a limited time, or funds, or the ones who just could not be arsed to book hotel).

 

Also: maybe some should not book "popular" girls, or girls who posting here. There so many hidden gems out there waiting to be discovered.

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Its always the same old: Guys who only looking for incalls complaining, that they cant get suitable appointment from the girls even in the plenty of notice.

 

In the same time: some Wgs who only povide oucalls, always complaining of the lack of clients.

 

Solution is obvious.. even not exactly straightforward. (Understandable for the guys with a limited time, or funds, or the ones who just could not be arsed to book hotel).

 

Also: maybe some should not book "popular" girls, or girls who posting here. There so many hidden gems out there waiting to be discovered.

Yes Xenia and I found one today.

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God made parlous for those days when there is no indie available...

But the girls are so young, well for me anyway.

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I booked my last appointment a week in advance but the night before, the lady contacted me asking to move the appointment forward by four hours. The following morning she contacted me to see if she could change the time again. I didn't ask why. I assumed that it was because she doesn't live near to where she has her incalls and didn't want to hang around for hours between appointments. Whatever the reason, it wasn't a problem for me. Had a fantastic time and didn't feel too bad when the appointment overran by 15 minutes.

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Robert49

There is a parlour in halesowen that offers only milfs...

Girlsjustforyou.co.uk

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Robert49

There is a parlour in halesowen that offers only milfs...

Girlsjustforyou.co.uk

I know, and I've seen Bonny a couple of times, I'd highly recommend her if you like an older lady.  Although age is subjective, I don't think of forties as old given my age.

 

The last time I saw her it was at short notice but when I was cancelled on Thursday I just felt, "bollocks, I can't be bothered".  I was thinking of phoning her Friday morning (she works from Erdington on Fridays I think) then something else turned up.

 

I'm not exclusively into Milfs though, it's just that my most enjoyable bookings have been in this area and that's what it's all about isn't it.

 

Thanks for thinking of me though Cov, I will always appreciate any pointers.

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I have had to cancel on a couple of guys this week as I was ill with a tummy bug, a bad one. I knew I had to text to cancel but I am always dubious about that in case its not ok to text them, what if its not a punting phone? I make the text as innocuous as I can. I always ask for conformation before ten on the morning of the appointment and so like to cancel before this time but worry they may not have the phone switched on or with them if it is a punting phone or if someone (the wife) wonders who is texting them so early. It does worry me. I have never yet had to cancel at short notice due to an emergency but I am sure that will happen at some point. I check my messages first thing in the morning,7ish and answers those worthy of an answer, if a message comes in after that I may not see it till later that afternoon or evening so if they had wanted a booking that day they will have been disappointed. If I am with a client/family/other job/not working I will not be answering phone or texts. If I see a missed call not long after the call I send a 'sorry I missed your call' text so they know I am available to chat if they still want to. I try to be as courteous and professional as I can but I am sure the guys I cancelled on this week wont be best pleased with me.

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Don't get me wrong, I'm not that hard to please and I'm not a natural moaner.  It's just that last week it was all going wrong.

 

For various reasons I don't like booking more than a day in advance.  I can be sure of my work situation that far ahead but not necessarily any farther.  I could make a booking for a week ahead I suppose and cancel it myself if I had to. I'm sure if I cancel in reasonable time it would be OK. Might try that.

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When I started punting I made myself a set of ground rules, one of which was zero tolerance on being let down in that I wouldn't see the girl who'd let me down again.

But rules are made to be broken, and of course it had to be my all time favourite who was the first let down I had - very last minute, causing me to lose money on a hotel room booking. I was really quite annoyed at the time, but as several of the ladies posts mention above - sometimes things are unavoidable. After she messaged me to explain, I fully understood why she cancelled and the reasons she gave seemed honest enough. The first thing she did after apologising was to say she'd of course reimburse the money I lost on the hotel booking.

It made me realise the zero tolerance idea was a bit harsh - but I would still stick to it if I thought a wg was giving me some bullshit excuse (eg the landlord one seems very implausible and I've seen it posted several times on various forums). I've had another last minute cancellation since, but at least the wg was honest enough to say she'd screwed up and double booked.

It can be very frustrating, especially for non parlour users! - but worse things happen in life, no point getting too stressed about it.

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Don't get me wrong, I'm not that hard to please and I'm not a natural moaner.  It's just that last week it was all going wrong.

 

For various reasons I don't like booking more than a day in advance.  I can be sure of my work situation that far ahead but not necessarily any farther.  I could make a booking for a week ahead I suppose and cancel it myself if I had to. I'm sure if I cancel in reasonable time it would be OK. Might try that.

Robert I feel that you are being way to hard on yourself. There are things which are outside of your control which you can never predict. I was looking foreward to shagging Porsha Sinn last week but she failed to turn up at Max's Angels. I did not despair I kept my cool, smiled hit the city and had a few whiskies at my favourite hotel bar in Green Park.

 

If your ever feeling under the weather. Have a change of scenery please do not dwell do something completely difference. Life is full of contradictions not a Hollywood movie.

 

Peace

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When I started punting I made myself a set of ground rules, one of which was zero tolerance on being let down in that I wouldn't see the girl who'd let me down again.

But rules are made to be broken, and of course it had to be my all time favourite who was the first let down I had - very last minute, causing me to lose money on a hotel room booking. I was really quite annoyed at the time, but as several of the ladies posts mention above - sometimes things are unavoidable. After she messaged me to explain, I fully understood why she cancelled and the reasons she gave seemed honest enough. The first thing she did after apologising was to say she'd of course reimburse the money I lost on the hotel booking.

It made me realise the zero tolerance idea was a bit harsh - but I would still stick to it if I thought a wg was giving me some bullshit excuse (eg the landlord one seems very implausible and I've seen it posted several times on various forums). I've had another last minute cancellation since, but at least the wg was honest enough to say she'd screwed up and double booked.

It can be very frustrating, especially for non parlour users! - but worse things happen in life, no point getting too stressed about it.

Burty I sense that you are a straight foreward man and easy to get along with. You define your personal boundaries well so as to not dissapoint yourself and of course those around you. 

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Before you send a text and expect a reply, have you checked the lady's profile or web site as to whether she has asked not to be texted?  My site states no enquiries by texts - your genuine enquiry will look no different to the other drunken knob-head tyre kickers out there.  I have a text blocker app that stops texts coming through.  If I can't respond to a call and I can't respond to an email, there is certainly no way on God's earth that I'll be responding to a "How much?" "Are you available?" text with the originator looking forward to some detailed one handed text ping pong to brighten his day at the office.

 

Even if it were a regular client sending me a text, if he knows me well, he ought to be smart enough to realise I could be driving, in a meeting, in a punt, talking to someone and not wanting to appear rude to text while in conversation .... hundreds of reasons why texts have to wait.  

 Add to this the unanswered phones, texts and emails answered late if at all and it's all getting a bit tiring.  The ones answered hours later are a puzzle, they either don't read any texts or emails during the day or they sit on them as a sort of banker.  I fully expect to be told "we are very busy and cannot answer every enquiry".  Not much use to the client though.

 

 

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