sadhukar

Wg's: Can You Tell If A Punter Is Disappointed With Your Looks Or Not?

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I've learnt to mostly expect less when it comes to real life vs photos, although I'll add that this can't really be helped; lightning, make-up and the fact that I work until quite late are all factors. But for a split second I couldn't hide my emotions in a recent punt in Manchester where the WG who turned up was atleast 10 years older than what the profile stated....

 

The woman ended up being somewhat apologetic about it, going so far as asking me, "are you happy for me to stay?". I felt rather bad and went with it. 

But it got me thinking, was she able to tell my split second look of disappointment?

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I've wondered this as well recently. I always compliment a girl on her appearance but nothing hides that initial disappointment if shes's not up to expectations.

One thing ive come to realise is to take profile ages and pictures with a rock of salt!

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Can she tell if you are disappointed?

Only if you have a return visit and bring a paper sack.

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I would say yes they can... First impressions are taken in about the first 2 to 5 seconds, so body language and facial expression are give aways.. Even if you show these for a split second it will be picked up upon!

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I guess we can't always tell.Over a year ago I had a bloke from another forum book me for 45 mins.He arrived at the booking and gave nothing negative away verbally or facially that he didn't like me.My pictures are untampered amateur photos which show my face and body as they are and my age is accurate.He was friendly,bantery had no probs getting it up or popping his cork and in fact overstayed by 10 mins.He complimented me on the fact I was honest and didn't charge extras etc etc.A year on and it was brought to my attention he had gone onto yet another forum and openly posted that he would never go see me again because I was unattractive etc so go figure not sure why he booked or why he stayed if thats how he felt.

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Interesting topic... from a WG's POV, I'd imagine it's something they would take very personally, and in most cases a disappointment for them. However, what would be the disappointing thing? IMHO, from a personal viewpoint, I'm sure they want to be validated for their looks (afterall every girl loves a compliment lol); but from a professional perspective, it means a potential "regular visitor" is very unlikely (e.g. a regular punter means a guaranteed £200 a week.)

 

Personally, I think it's unlikely I'd be disappointed by looks (unless she was a complete monster)... I'd be more disappointed if a particular service she offered wasn't offered to me (e.g. anal)

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I've made this point before on another thread that a person's looks and their ability to please sexually are not always related.  I remember my first booking with a girl whose photos I'd been admiring although they didn't show her face.  When I saw her face she was nothing like I had imagined; quite plain or even ugly and yet she had a lovely smile and the sex was out of this world - for me anyway.  I became a regular for some years and we willingly shared information about each other's lives.  I also had bookings with her outside the parlour both in her home and in a hotel.

I remember writing a report about her in which I wrote that she was "not pretty in the accepted sense".  She saw the report and said that perhaps I should find someone else who was pretty.  I edited the report! 

Although looks can bring about that initial attraction, for me it's personality that counts. 

BTW Bibi, I couldn't resist having a look at your own photos.  You have a lovely face!

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Aw thankyou Softee x

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If a girl displays her 'real' photos and age on her profile, she doesn't need to be concerned about anyone being disappointed.  Someone will always be disappointed though, even if the photos are accurate.

 

I'd have no problem asking a girl to leave if she didn't easily match her photos.

 

There's a market for many different types of looks, body sizes, age groups etc.  So why do some girls risk 'playing' with photos, only to 'possibly' disappoint?  

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I guess we can't always tell.Over a year ago I had a bloke from another forum book me for 45 mins.He arrived at the booking and gave nothing negative away verbally or facially that he didn't like me.My pictures are untampered amateur photos which show my face and body as they are and my age is accurate.He was friendly,bantery had no probs getting it up or popping his cork and in fact overstayed by 10 mins.He complimented me on the fact I was honest and didn't charge extras etc etc.A year on and it was brought to my attention he had gone onto yet another forum and openly posted that he would never go see me again because I was unattractive etc so go figure not sure why he booked or why he stayed if thats how he felt.

I'm grateful to 'all' the girls I've seen, and I'd highly recommend them.  I'd 'never' ever 'turn' on them when on a forum or when doing a review.  These girls indulged in my desires, and I can't thank them enough.

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I rather feel in this guys case it was posturing and puffing his chest out to show off on this other forum Bit silly really but I didn't respond in any way.People with half a brain cell would see I don't market myself as something I am not so it was his issue not mine.

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I cant say I have ever noticed if any one has been disappointed in my looks. But to be honest it would not bother me in the least, after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as long as my husband finds me attractive that is all the matters to me. I am happy in my own skin and don't really give a flying .... what a client thought. As long as my service was up to scratch that is all that matters to me. He can turn tail and leave or endure the experience and not return. Up to him. 

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I guess we can't always tell.Over a year ago I had a bloke from another forum book me for 45 mins.He arrived at the booking and gave nothing negative away verbally or facially that he didn't like me.My pictures are untampered amateur photos which show my face and body as they are and my age is accurate.He was friendly,bantery had no probs getting it up or popping his cork and in fact overstayed by 10 mins.He complimented me on the fact I was honest and didn't charge extras etc etc.A year on and it was brought to my attention he had gone onto yet another forum and openly posted that he would never go see me again because I was unattractive etc so go figure not sure why he booked or why he stayed if thats how he felt.

Same here, the two negative reviews I have, one here and one elsewhere, both guys were all over me like I was the last woman on earth then they went off and slagged me off in reviews. You just cant tell sometimes. One guy I remember thinking had taken an instant dislike to me and my looks gave me a fabulous review literally the next day, I couldn't believe it, he had been poker faced through the whole booking and at one point even had a look of disdain which I guess in reality was his "wall", another guy who was giving me odd looks throughout mentioned how great I was in another girls bad review (gotta say I really don't like that though)

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In answer,that would probably depend on you.Some people are better at hiding their thoughts than other.Some poeple display everything openly on their faces,others.....Late night poker should show you that if nothing else :)

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I din't care much either, I show real photos, state my real age and size and do the services I say I do so there shouldn't be any real problem, though sometimes it does feel as if you just don't click with someone and whether that's chemistry or their nerves or because they aren't that into me it's hard to say. I've never actually thought someone was horrified by me when I opened the door. 

 

As long as I've known I've done my best to make the client feel good and enjoy his booking then I can't start worrying of he actually liked the look of me or not! One would assume if I were terrible looking I'd not have made this a successful full time job or have so many regulars! 

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I think most people would in general know if another person was disappointed in those first few seconds, but sometimes initial disappointment can soon fade away when you get to know a person and vice versa.

 

I've been with both extremely good looking model type escorts and average to below average looking escorts in my time. I can tell you that in my experience, only a very small fraction of the extremely good looking model types were a nice punt (sorry to say, especially of Romanian descent, except for 2 girls: Oana & Renata who were wonderful!).

 

Sometimes, when a woman is too perfect looking, she knows it and is spoiled and the attitude can stink. It's a rare find that gem who is both beautiful both on the inside and out.

 

Give me an average looking, warm, welcoming and sexy escort over a stuck up model type any day.

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I have arrived a few times and have thought " oh no, a real disappointment "  but a deal is a deal and I tend to go ahead and make the best of it. Silly perhaps but true .

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I'd have no problem asking a girl to leave if she didn't easily match her photos.

 

There's a market for many different types of looks, body sizes, age groups etc.  So why do some girls risk 'playing' with photos, only to 'possibly' disappoint?  

 

They do it hoping the punter will think with his dick under pressure and go ahead with it.  Pretty much the same way a punter tries the "I could only get x amount" from the cash point, won't that do?" hoping the lady would rather take part of the fee than risk turning him away and losing the whole hour.

 

Like you, Btd, on principal, I'll ask them to leave rather than let them think they can get away with a fast one.

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They do it hoping the punter will think with his dick under pressure and go ahead with it.  Pretty much the same way a punter tries the "I could only get x amount" from the cash point, won't that do?" hoping the lady would rather take part of the fee than risk turning him away and losing the whole hour.

 

Like you, Btd, on principal, I'll ask them to leave rather than let them think they can get away with a fast one.

Why don't they think that even if the ploy works they're likely to end up having a crap time.  The girl wouldn't want them back again anyway.

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Re: editing photos, you wouldnt buy a BigMac if the advertising picture looked like the real thing.

Like i said, always take a profile with a pinch of salt!

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I guess we can't always tell.Over a year ago I had a bloke from another forum book me for 45 mins.He arrived at the booking and gave nothing negative away verbally or facially that he didn't like me.My pictures are untampered amateur photos which show my face and body as they are and my age is accurate.He was friendly,bantery had no probs getting it up or popping his cork and in fact overstayed by 10 mins.He complimented me on the fact I was honest and didn't charge extras etc etc.A year on and it was brought to my attention he had gone onto yet another forum and openly posted that he would never go see me again because I was unattractive etc so go figure not sure why he booked or why he stayed if thats how he felt.

 

Everyone has different tastes, so you can't please them all.

 

But I have to disagree with your unadultered = realistic photo. I see friends do this all the time on facebook. People upload the most flattering photo they have, still cammera have a habit of capturing random miliseconds and in that milisecond a big nose can look smaller or face can look slimmer.

 

Look at everyones linkedin profile photos and then you meet them in real life and they look far less polished in real life.

 

So no, photoshopping isn;t the only way to give an "inaccurate" impression.

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