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Has A Wg Ever Fallen For A Client?

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Hi all,

 

I'm assuming it's not going to be anywhere near as common as clients falling for w/g but I just wondered if WG's ever fall for one of their clients?

 

It's quite common when in the general f**k buddy case, so I would guess the same thing could happen if say a regular was particularly good looking, charming etc. it may be hard to control feelings.

 

If so, is it something you would ever tell a client?, would you treat the client (e.g. offer freebies or a longer session) or would you just keep quiet and ride it out (no pun intended) in the same way you might a schoolgirl crush. Would you refuse bookings to not push / stir feelings?

 

I'd be interested in peoples thoughts and ./ or experiences of this. Thanks in advance. :)

 

P.S. I have NOT been watching Pretty Woman lately :P

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I've had 3 fall for me... so I'm sure it happens all the time.

 

First they refuse to take your money, then they start dropping hints about wanting a boyfriend, etc.

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Also, one of the 3 refused to take money BUT also refused to have sex.

 

She would only accept to meet me if we went on "proper dates" to prove I wasn't after her sexually.

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I've never fallen for a client! Although I once went on a date last year with a 28 year old girl only 8 years difference, who was my type, just for the fun of it as he was cute, I already knew what he was like in bed so I thought why not.

Bad idea that was, he still tries to message me now and says "I still think about you" LOL. I will never blur the lines again.

There are clients who seem very nice and can be really good company but most of the men who see me are 35+ so not really men I would want to date, still majority seem like really nice guys who are simply missing sex in their life!

I've had a few clients fall for me, it's not nice or flattering it's just hassle!

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yes im in a relationship with an ex client have been for a long time

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yes im in a relationship with an ex client have been for a long time

Didn't fall and neither did I ;)

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yes im in a relationship with an ex client have been for a long time

 

Nice one!

 

Shows it does happen and you're still able to continue in your chosen field.

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My partner is an ex - WG whom I met as her client.

After 2 or 3 regular appointments when I phoned she would ask if she could "book me" for an hour after the regular appointment had finished. That progressed to could I stay the night after my appointment had finished.

Then we started going out on proper dates, meals together etc. My girl is now retired from the business and I am retired from punting (though I still like to read of others adventures on here).

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My partner is an ex - WG whom I met as her client.

After 2 or 3 regular appointments when I phoned she would ask if she could "book me" for an hour after the regular appointment had finished. That progressed to could I stay the night after my appointment had finished.

Then we started going out on proper dates, meals together etc. My girl is now retired from the business and I am retired from punting (though I still like to read of others adventures on here).

I reckon that is a lovely story. There are one or two Ladies I have met with whom I would like to have a relationship - unfortunately I don't think "er in doors" would approve of it!!!

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I can think of four ladies - al prolific posters on this board in their time. One left her husband (who knew what she did) in favour of a client. Two were married to clients and still worked (but have since retired.) A fourth married a client when I knew her (with another WG as her 'matron of honour') and then retired. So it's not at all uncommon in my experience.

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One of mine turned into a FWB - we never discussed it, it just gradually happened.

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Never happened to me unfortunately but that might have something to do with the fact that I'm a sad ugly bloke who pays for sex and most wgs are pretty shallow types who fail to see the beautiful human being inside and don't date guys over 35 because that's ancient.

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Never happened to me unfortunately but that might have something to do with the fact that I'm a sad ugly bloke who pays for sex and most wgs are pretty shallow types who fail to see the beautiful human being inside and don't date guys over 35 because that's ancient.

 

Oh and I've got a slight pissy willy problem as well.

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In case anyone out there is having trouble controlling their emotions please understand I've no intention of breaking up my marriage.    :)

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Never happened to me unfortunately but that might have something to do with the fact that I'm a sad ugly bloke who pays for sex and most wgs are pretty shallow types who fail to see the beautiful human being inside and don't date guys over 35 because that's ancient.

Utter rubbish.

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Utter rubbish.

 

Not entirely, I'm told Australian wgs refer to clients as "losers", typical Aussie plain speaking, other nationalities probably think it but are too polite to say it. I punt because I'm divorced and I need to have sex and would find it impossible to get that often enough in the real world because of my age and looks etc and I think I'm a pretty typical punter. A friend who I've known since we were 10 years old is also divorced but has no need to pay for sex, he's not IMO incredibly good looking and he doesn't have a 10" cock as we play for the same football team I've shared a shower with him many times, but what he does have is that undefineable thing that makes him attractive to others, call it what you like charm, sex appeal whatever. The point is I don't have that so I need to pay for sex.

 

Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners, out of necessity we learn to tell lies and are able to do it convincingly, I'm also of the opinion that due to our hobby/job we would in the future find it difficult to be faithful to a partner because we've already crossed some of the normal mental barriers that would prevent us from being promiscuous.

 

The question was do wgs ever fall for clients, well of course anythings possible but it's highly unlikely, most wgs would not have sex with their average client in the civilian world as they would view us as inadequate and both groups have character flaws which make forming relationships difficult. Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

 

Sometimes people take a dislike to me and the things I write on forums but I'm only being honest and not looking to upset anyone, I don't need to kid myself about why I do this and don't really understand why others do.

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Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

 

I have no reason to lie, Maze.

 

There's nothing magical about it: If you put men and women in closed spaces together, a certain number of them will start getting feelings.  It happens less with WG and punters because, as you say, on average the "attractiveness gap" is bigger than in traditional dating scenarios... but it still happens.

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Not entirely, I'm told Australian wgs refer to clients as "losers", typical Aussie plain speaking, other nationalities probably think it but are too polite to say it. I punt because I'm divorced and I need to have sex and would find it impossible to get that often enough in the real world because of my age and looks etc and I think I'm a pretty typical punter. A friend who I've known since we were 10 years old is also divorced but has no need to pay for sex, he's not IMO incredibly good looking and he doesn't have a 10" cock as we play for the same football team I've shared a shower with him many times, but what he does have is that undefineable thing that makes him attractive to others, call it what you like charm, sex appeal whatever. The point is I don't have that so I need to pay for sex.

 

Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners, out of necessity we learn to tell lies and are able to do it convincingly, I'm also of the opinion that due to our hobby/job we would in the future find it difficult to be faithful to a partner because we've already crossed some of the normal mental barriers that would prevent us from being promiscuous.

 

The question was do wgs ever fall for clients, well of course anythings possible but it's highly unlikely, most wgs would not have sex with their average client in the civilian world as they would view us as inadequate and both groups have character flaws which make forming relationships difficult. Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

 

Sometimes people take a dislike to me and the things I write on forums but I'm only being honest and not looking to upset anyone, I don't need to kid myself about why I do this and don't really understand why others do.

It happened to me as you'll see in the PM I have just sent you. It also didn't involve a 10 inch cock (which to me would be not attractive), just a normal person, being themselves, with no front and no smoothy charm which I cannot stand.

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I have also never referred to any of my clients as losers and do not consider them so. I do consider those who play games and muck around with appointments as annoying and inconsiderate, but they aren't clients.

 

There are prats in all walks of life, and most of us are individuals to consider that the members of any group or occupation are homogenous clones, is not very fair and not bourne out in my experience.

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Not entirely, I'm told Australian wgs refer to clients as "losers", typical Aussie plain speaking, other nationalities probably think it but are too polite to say it. I punt because I'm divorced and I need to have sex and would find it impossible to get that often enough in the real world because of my age and looks etc and I think I'm a pretty typical punter. A friend who I've known since we were 10 years old is also divorced but has no need to pay for sex, he's not IMO incredibly good looking and he doesn't have a 10" cock as we play for the same football team I've shared a shower with him many times, but what he does have is that undefineable thing that makes him attractive to others, call it what you like charm, sex appeal whatever. The point is I don't have that so I need to pay for sex.

 

Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners, out of necessity we learn to tell lies and are able to do it convincingly, I'm also of the opinion that due to our hobby/job we would in the future find it difficult to be faithful to a partner because we've already crossed some of the normal mental barriers that would prevent us from being promiscuous.

 

The question was do wgs ever fall for clients, well of course anythings possible but it's highly unlikely, most wgs would not have sex with their average client in the civilian world as they would view us as inadequate and both groups have character flaws which make forming relationships difficult. Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

 

Sometimes people take a dislike to me and the things I write on forums but I'm only being honest and not looking to upset anyone, I don't need to kid myself about why I do this and don't really understand why others do.

 

Yes but you don't know what you're talking about!  I assume you've never actually been a female escort? You're making assumptions and using gross generalisations!

 

Some points:

 

There is no such thing as a typical punter.

 

You say "Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners" That's people, not just escorts and punters. I don't lie to my partners and nor have my partner's lied to me. Sometimes meeting someone via sex work means things are on the table already and talking about relationships and sex is much easier than when meeting someone in a conventional manner. 

 

Not all escorts consider all their clients losers. SOME escorts don't might that, but I'd guess most of us don't think clients are losers because they choose to pay for sex,. In fact escorts are less likely to think that because they have heard the reasons why men punt and are probably way more understanding of male needs and sexuality than the average woman and by those who have no experience of the sex industry.  Of course some clients might be considered 'losers' by some escorts, but not because of their need to pay for sex, probably because of some other trait they have displayed.  The reasons I like some clients less than others has nothing to do with the fact they pay for it.

 

Also, yes I have shagged lots of men both as an escort and in my personal life, but that doesn't mean I would be incapable of being faithful and having a monogamous relationship. Being an escort does not make you dishonest. You might tell white lies to clients (of course I came and ooh aren't you sexy?) but it's no different from conventional work when you might have to pretend to really like a customer or colleague. IT'S A JOB! 

 

It is highly likely escorts fall for clients- as documented above several women here have met their partners via this work, and I know of many other escorts who have- me included. I have dated 3 ex clients over the years and remained friends with them.

 

Sex workers are not a different species to other women, We are all different, have different personalities, fears, desires and anxieties. Lumping us all together as a monolith is really offensive and unhelpful. 

 

It's a myth most women are looking for a  6ft Adonis with a huge cock. 

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Never happened to me unfortunately but that might have something to do with the fact that I'm a sad ugly bloke who pays for sex and most wgs are pretty shallow types who fail to see the beautiful human being inside and don't date guys over 35 because that's ancient.

Yeah George Clooney and Johnny Depp really struggle on that count.

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Oh and I've got a slight pissy willy problem as well.

Thanks for sharing.

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Not entirely, I'm told Australian wgs refer to clients as "losers", typical Aussie plain speaking, other nationalities probably think it but are too polite to say it. I punt because I'm divorced and I need to have sex and would find it impossible to get that often enough in the real world because of my age and looks etc and I think I'm a pretty typical punter. A friend who I've known since we were 10 years old is also divorced but has no need to pay for sex, he's not IMO incredibly good looking and he doesn't have a 10" cock as we play for the same football team I've shared a shower with him many times, but what he does have is that undefineable thing that makes him attractive to others, call it what you like charm, sex appeal whatever. The point is I don't have that so I need to pay for sex.

 

Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners, out of necessity we learn to tell lies and are able to do it convincingly, I'm also of the opinion that due to our hobby/job we would in the future find it difficult to be faithful to a partner because we've already crossed some of the normal mental barriers that would prevent us from being promiscuous.

 

The question was do wgs ever fall for clients, well of course anythings possible but it's highly unlikely, most wgs would not have sex with their average client in the civilian world as they would view us as inadequate and both groups have character flaws which make forming relationships difficult. Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

 

Sometimes people take a dislike to me and the things I write on forums but I'm only being honest and not looking to upset anyone, I don't need to kid myself about why I do this and don't really understand why others do.

From what you're saying, you sound like you have 'mega' insecurity issues with 'yourself'! 

 

I love this business, because it allows me the 'freedom' from a traditional relationship and to have 'fun' with wonderful girls that are truly open minded!

 

Girls do and will continue to fall for clients that they have that unique and special 'click' with.  A girl falling for a client is no different from a girl falling for a guy at a bar, club, in town at an airport etc.  

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Yes but you don't know what you're talking about!  I assume you've never actually been a female escort? You're making assumptions and using gross generalisations!

 

Some points:

 

There is no such thing as a typical punter.

 

You say "Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners" That's people, not just escorts and punters. I don't lie to my partners and nor have my partner's lied to me. Sometimes meeting someone via sex work means things are on the table already and talking about relationships and sex is much easier than when meeting someone in a conventional manner. 

 

Not all escorts consider all their clients losers. SOME escorts don't might that, but I'd guess most of us don't think clients are losers because they choose to pay for sex,. In fact escorts are less likely to think that because they have heard the reasons why men punt and are probably way more understanding of male needs and sexuality than the average woman and by those who have no experience of the sex industry.  Of course some clients might be considered 'losers' by some escorts, but not because of their need to pay for sex, probably because of some other trait they have displayed.  The reasons I like some clients less than others has nothing to do with the fact they pay for it.

 

Also, yes I have shagged lots of men both as an escort and in my personal life, but that doesn't mean I would be incapable of being faithful and having a monogamous relationship. Being an escort does not make you dishonest. You might tell white lies to clients (of course I came and ooh aren't you sexy?) but it's no different from conventional work when you might have to pretend to really like a customer or colleague. IT'S A JOB! 

 

It is highly likely escorts fall for clients- as documented above several women here have met their partners via this work, and I know of many other escorts who have- me included. I have dated 3 ex clients over the years and remained friends with them.

 

Sex workers are not a different species to other women, We are all different, have different personalities, fears, desires and anxieties. Lumping us all together as a monolith is really offensive and unhelpful. 

 

It's a myth most women are looking for a  6ft Adonis with a huge cock. 

 

None of us here are typical wgs or punters as we've made the decision to join a forum and at least listen to the other point of view. The reaction I get to the things I say is the reason I only write in short bursts on forums I genuinely hate the fact that what I say seems to upset people and they take a dislike to me but unfortunately I've discovered that where this business is concerned and for that matter life in general honesty and truth are shunned.

 

If you look at sites that favour the opinions of one group or the other you will see the real attitudes of typical punters and wgs, punters are often married men who have no problems deceiving their partners sometimes spending money that should really being put towards other things they often view all wgs as potential scammers and liars and don't give a shit about the issues that concern them. Sites such as SAAFE have threads that take the piss out of punters with many contributors clearly showing contempt for us.

 

Of course a wg can fall for a client but in this scenario neither party is likely to be typical of the group as a whole.

 

So Lydia you've got two options for a dinner companion tomorrow, Brad Pitt for his looks and charm or Steven Hawking for the stimulating conversation, we both know who you'd choose.

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Not entirely, I'm told Australian wgs refer to clients as "losers", typical Aussie plain speaking, other nationalities probably think it but are too polite to say it. I punt because I'm divorced and I need to have sex and would find it impossible to get that often enough in the real world because of my age and looks etc and I think I'm a pretty typical punter. A friend who I've known since we were 10 years old is also divorced but has no need to pay for sex, he's not IMO incredibly good looking and he doesn't have a 10" cock as we play for the same football team I've shared a shower with him many times, but what he does have is that undefineable thing that makes him attractive to others, call it what you like charm, sex appeal whatever. The point is I don't have that so I need to pay for sex.

Both groups punters and wgs also have character traits that are not desirable in partners, out of necessity we learn to tell lies and are able to do it convincingly, I'm also of the opinion that due to our hobby/job we would in the future find it difficult to be faithful to a partner because we've already crossed some of the normal mental barriers that would prevent us from being promiscuous.

The question was do wgs ever fall for clients, well of course anythings possible but it's highly unlikely, most wgs would not have sex with their average client in the civilian world as they would view us as inadequate and both groups have character flaws which make forming relationships difficult. Do I believe the bloke who says it's happened to him three times, well do you ?.

Sometimes people take a dislike to me and the things I write on forums but I'm only being honest and not looking to upset anyone, I don't need to kid myself about why I do this and don't really understand why others do.

You're not being honest...

You're just spouting rubbish and constant negativity which isn't backed up.

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