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Ladies, How Do You Cope When You Retire?

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Do you miss the easy sex? The quick lick, suck and fuck without any commitments?

The money?

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Why would we miss easy sex? Have you any idea how easy it is to get laid, particularly when you're not charging? And how nice it will be to apply different criteria, i.e. chose a guy because we fancy him, not because he is paying? Happy days, yay!

I'm working now to be comfortable later, so no, not going to miss the income.

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If you have made a decision to retire then it means you no longer wish to do the job and you have something different to do in place,so why would you need to 'cope' with retiring?Most of us do not work for 'easy sex' we work to earn a living and yes we can enjoy meeting clients and yes the sex can be fun but on the whole it is rarely an easy thing and we are there to ultimately provide pleasure to the client not for our own needs.Besides that a fair few of us have partners or certainly gents we could pull of our own choice if we get an urge so no I doubt it is sex we would miss.I guess the money could be missed but I think few of us are that rolling in it and if you are in a place where you can retire then it hopefully means whatever else you do gives you an amount of money that you can live well on.

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I won't be retiring till I am about 82, so no need to cope until then :D

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No coping about it, I'll retire when I can afford to live as I wish on other sources of income, in the meantime I'm seeing less clients and can be more choosy who I see.  As for sex, if I get an urge for a casual fuck then I shall go and get one! 

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I won't be retiring till I am about 82, so no need to cope until then :D

haha we can do a zimmer tour together then one day ;)

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I'm sure when I retire the "casual sex" aspect won't be an issue, simply because if guys can pay me to sleep with them that means I should be able to get it easily for free.

But apart from escorting I don't actually the whole sleeping around thing, it wouldn't bother me as sex with a client is totally different to the kind of sex you have with someone you really fancy and like!

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haha we can do a zimmer tour together then one day ;)

Hmm, makes me think of doggy style with the lady leaning forward over the frame and frock pulled up over her back! :)

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Why would we miss easy sex? Have you any idea how easy it is to get laid, particularly when you're not charging? And how nice it will be to apply different criteria, i.e. chose a guy because we fancy him, not because he is paying? Happy days, yay!

I'm working now to be comfortable later, so no, not going to miss the income.

If there is reincarnation I definitely want to come back as a woman.  ;)

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Why would we miss easy sex? Have you any idea how easy it is to get laid, particularly when you're not charging? And how nice it will be to apply different criteria, i.e. chose a guy because we fancy him, not because he is paying? Happy days, yay!

I'm working now to be comfortable later, so no, not going to miss the income.

Life is just not fair !! :D

 

I have no idea what it is like to be out seeking sex. Would I find it easy or not ?    Would I find it easy  but with women I would not be interested in ?  Being chatted up by someone you have no interest in whatsoever must be a pain. Good looking girls must face this all of the time.

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If there is reincarnation I definitely want to come back as a woman.  ;)

 

A hot one , yes but an unattractive one must be a nightmare.

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Romanian one?

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I think the OP shows amazing naivety!

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Life is just not fair !! :D

I have no idea what it is like to be out seeking sex. Would I find it easy or not ? Would I find it easy but with women I would not be interested in ? Being chatted up by someone you have no interest in whatsoever must be a pain. Good looking girls must face this all of the time.

You don't even have to be out seeking it!

On a night out it happens all the times guys trying it (I've got a hotel 10 mins away wanna come later) it does get kind of annoying and I really feel like saying "I'm £120 an hour" sometimes! Hahaha.

But of course it is flattering, and can boost your confidence that little bit ;)

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haha we can do a zimmer tour together then one day ;)

For some reason that brought this scene to mind (about 3 min 20 onwards) :)

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A hot one , yes but an unattractive one must be a nightmare.

Actually I have to add another proviso.  It would have to be a society as we have in this country now.  Some eras and some countries, I don't think so.

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I think the OP shows amazing naivety!

Exactly this.

I think most escorts would cope extremely well without having to shag ugly, feckless blokes like me!

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I would love to meet and chat with some of the women I had sex with in the 60s, all so long ago now. It would feel so strange and nostalgic to look at them, knowing I'd done it with them  when they were young and beautiful and sexy, a lifetime ago almost. For me it would feel like a kind of emotional bond between us. A few were so incredibly nice to me for the little time we had together, at a time when I was so shy and nervous and lonely for a girl's company and the feminine magic of a woman.... God, I really really love women, well, sexy women anyway, or who at least give me a lovely warm smile! I've never changed.

They were such a godsend to me at the time, like angels almost, endlessly frustrated and lonely as I was. They'd think nothing of doing the most intimate things for me, basically simple things, but which no ordinary girl would do for me in the real, everyday world. I was useless and a total failure at getting any girlfriends at all. That was my big problem. A problem that ruined my life then. They were all I had. I always felt so grateful to them at the time and even long afterwards, even though I'd had to pay them for their favours. Even just the mere fact that they'd touch my body and let me touch them, and not reject me, was of huge significance to me.

I sincerely hope they're all happy now in their old age, those that are still alive. I hope they all are.

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Retired for some time now (a few years) after 10 or so glorious and wonderful years escorting

 

And life after escorting?..............i've never had so much crap sex in all my life...... I'm thinking of retiring from dating too  :wacko:

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Hmm.

 

You weren't dahn sarf at some point during those 10 years?

 

Perhaps I'm just having a nostalgia attack this evening. :unsure:

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me too Pabulum, I'm having to live on my memories........oh boy, what fond memories they are too...... and so much fun.

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Retired for some time now (a few years) after 10 or so glorious and wonderful years escorting

 

And life after escorting?..............i've never had so much crap sex in all my life...... I'm thinking of retiring from dating too  :wacko:

So what would be good sex, Dianna? If it followed the pattern of a straightforward porn film would that be good sex? Kissing and fondling each other, then the man kissing and licking woman's breasts, then oral for the man, then oral for the woman bringing her to orgasm or close, then fairly energetic intercourse in about 5 or 6 positions for quite some time, then the man finally cumming either inside or pulling out at the last minutes onto her breasts or on her face, then the woman spreading it over her breasts and sucking and licking him for a few more minutes, then a final kissing session after they're both satisfied. And all of the above done with lots of passion and consideration for each other.

Is this good sex? Is this an ideal sort of routine to follow?

 

 I'm not trying to be funny. I honestly don't know what good sex might be any more. I used to think I knew, but not now. Mine is always very poor because my partner just lies there and does absolutely nothing and doesn't want fondled or breasts kissed or anything at all herself nor does she want to touch me down there. So I just enter her and cum to satisfy myself and she doesn't mind or care in the least. Clearly, not good sex - but that's all I've known for many a long year.

 

So really, is the typical porn film the model to copy, ideally? Just wondered.

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 Is this an ideal sort of routine to follow?

 

 

 

I am not a woman but I would suspect there is a word in the quote above that ladies would say needs to be deleted from any discussion of good sex.

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But apart from escorting I don't actually the whole sleeping around thing, it wouldn't bother me as sex with a client is totally different to the kind of sex you have with someone you really fancy and like!

 

You are surely joking with us, TYE. We punters are God's gift to horny women and well you know it.

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You are surely joking with us, TYE. We punters are God's gift to horny women and well you know it.

You're right.... You are, every single one of you... :P

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