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Etiquette While Paying Wg Fee? Just Leave It On Desk?

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Generally on outcalls to hotels i leave the fee in an envelope on the TV table or on the bedside table.

What is a good etiquette while on an incall? do you leave it on somewhere specific or give it in hand ?

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Always hand it to her, just personal but it doesnt seem too polite to just leave it somewhere for her to pick up.

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Thanks. I read in the past that it is always good to leave it on the table rather than handling it to her.

If i recollect i think the article was US based escorts. Not sure if its different in different countries.

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Incall or outcall I hand over the money in person, as Berbs mentions it seems a little impolite to just leave it lying around.

There are plenty of comments about envelopes - I used to use them especially on longer bookings when there was a larger amout of cash, but now I just hand the cash over, having obsessively checked it about a gazillion times... :rolleyes:

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Envelopes for me. I'm paranoid one stray bill from a wad of cash might go missing somewhere and I get accused of shortchanging a WG!

 

-W

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Thanks. I read in the past that it is always good to leave it on the table rather than handling it to her.

If i recollect i think the article was US based escorts. Not sure if its different in different countries.

That's because it's illegal in the US. They have various little loopholes in an attempt to escape the law, such as not handing the money over in person. Over here it's polite to hand it to the lady. You don't want her picking up an envelope with your passport or something else in. Whatever you do don't throw the money down or count it out to her like a simpleton. It's always wise for her to check it in front of you so that way if there are any discrepancies there's no confusion. Edited by Jasmine of London
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It would seem too impersonal just to leave the money on a side table or whatever, also it seems to me more 'honest' to hand it directly to the woman and, as Jasmine suggests, let her check the amount is right.

 

The only time I've ever departed from this was on an overnight some years ago when both of us forgot about the money at the start of the evening and there just didn't seem to be an opportune moment for it as the night progressed. Then in the morning she was fast asleep and I don't have the heart to wake her before I had to leave for a meeting so I simply spread the money around her sleeping form on the bed (there was quite a lot of it, all in £10m notes for some reason I can't recall), creating a scene that reminded me of pictures I've seen of George Best.

 

She calle de alter to say that she'd found it and, laughingly, that I'd counted it out right.

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It would seem too impersonal just to leave the money on a side table or whatever, also it seems to me more 'honest' to hand it directly to the woman and, as Jasmine suggests, let her check the amount is right.

 

The only time I've ever departed from this was on an overnight some years ago when both of us forgot about the money at the start of the evening and there just didn't seem to be an opportune moment for it as the night progressed. Then in the morning she was fast asleep and I don't have the heart to wake her before I had to leave for a meeting so I simply spread the money around her sleeping form on the bed (there was quite a lot of it, all in £10m notes for some reason I can't recall), creating a scene that reminded me of pictures I've seen of George Best.

 

She calle de alter to say that she'd found it and, laughingly, that I'd counted it out right.

 

Wow, I've now got an amazing image in my head. Thanks for giving me an idea for the future. I shall be using fivers instead muhaha! If I'm feeling truly evil I leave her a sack full of pennies!

 

-W

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I love it when a guy counts it out in front of me and then hands it to me. That way we both know the amount is correct. What's wrong with that?

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I love it when a guy counts it out in front of me and then hands it to me. That way we both know the amount is correct. What's wrong with that?

I'd find that patronising, as though he didn't feel I was capable of counting it myself. When buying things in a shop I'd expect them to count it out themselves, and not trust me to have not played a Derren Brown style trick on them if counting it out to them myself.

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Great. Thanks everyone. Appreciate all inputs.

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I love it when a guy counts it out in front of me and then hands it to me. That way we both know the amount is correct. What's wrong with that?

  

I'd find that patronising, as though he didn't feel I was capable of counting it myself. When buying things in a shop I'd expect them to count it out themselves, and not trust me to have not played a Derren Brown style trick on them if counting it out to them myself.

It's clear from the above and past threads that different wg's have their own way of of doing things. Some like envelopes, some hate them. Unless it's specifically stated beforehand on her profile or in pre booking comms, she gets it my way! :) - if it's a wg I've not seen before, up front before we start.

The regulars I see won't even take the money up front anymore, it's always left until after the event - which presents it's own difficulties because one or the other of us sometimes forgets!

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I always hand the money to the woman on the first occasion but after that I just put it on the table and with regulars it's never counted in front of me, I do like to get it out of the way though before we get started.

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Ettiquette is to pay, and pay the correct amount.

 

Thanks.

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Ettiquette is to pay, and pay the correct amount.

 

Thanks.

 

How many try it on, you know short by a tenner or a score ?.

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I love it when a guy counts it out in front of me and then hands it to me. That way we both know the amount is correct. What's wrong with that?

We count it together at the start of the meet.  All sorted very quickly.

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How many try it on, you know short by a tenner or a score ?.

I've had 2 clients underpay me and 1 attempt to underpay me.Now its strictly fee at the start and I take it into another room to count it.Its not common for clients to try and underpay but it does happen sadly and it has been known for the odd person to try and hand over envelopes hoping that the lady won't count it until afterwards and then discover its newspaper in it.

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pay at the start. even if she isnt botherd.  I like to stick it in her pants or bra!

but I do say 'thats £120, thats right isnt it?' in case i have misunderstood the fee.

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I have no preference in how it's payed, so if the guy is comfortable giving it in hand or an envelope or a card or on the window ledge suits me. As long as it is payed. I also don't demand it up front but I will demand it before he leaves. Had I young guy this week thought I had forgot as I hadn't asked before hand and was walking down the hall when I stopped him and held out my hand. He payed with a grin.

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Like with anything else,hand the money to the person i'm paying.That way they have a chance to check/count.Its also always struck me as a little rude to not hand payments over and leave them to collect it from a table/counter etc.

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I tend to lead my chosen provider to the kitchen and leave the money in an unsealed envelope on a table for her whilst I enquire if she would like a drink.  If the ladies do prefer to have the cash actually handed over do please tell us here!

 

However I have always fantasied about stuffing the notes into her lingerie as she parades in front of me, and as I prefer longer bookings thats no small sum of money.  Not sure how you ladies would react to that! 

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i would like to chuck the money all over the bed then shag on it. never dared ask

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i would like to chuck the money all over the bed then shag on it. never dared ask

Hopefully you don't mean coins as that'd hurt quite a lot

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pay at the start. even if she isnt botherd.  I like to stick it in her pants or bra!

but I do say 'thats £120, thats right isnt it?' in case i have misunderstood the fee.

 

You've been watching my technique, then??

 

Although in my case it's more likely £60 and usually settle for the bra out of fear of a right hander.

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Hand over money in envelope, go for shower while she counts it (I assume)

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