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Can One Punt Too Often?

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Hello there,

 

Occasional lurker, but first time poster. I have seen similar threads, but this one has a slightly different twist to it.

 

A very good piece of advice that has been stated here many a time is that punting is, or should be, all about discretionary income i.e. if your punting is getting in the way of you meeting your financial commitments, then something is amiss. Couldn't agree more and I use this as a rule.

 

Assuming cost was no object (say you struck the lottery and won 4 or 6 mil, or you just happen to be well off or earn a lot) and you could afford to punt whenever you felt like it, where would you draw the line with regard to your enjoyable limit?

 

I ask because I have been on a bit of a tear recently punting 10 times in the last 10 weeks or so (£130 one hour punts). I know from some of the messages on here that this may be considered child's play to some serious punters, but it has felt excessive and I am cutting back to monthly punts at £150 one hour sessions or (£200 if I consider it to be worth it). This is a level that I can afford and that I feel doesn't take away from the punting experience.  If I can muster the restraint, I might even punt every other month.

 

 

Excuse the "too much information" aspect of this but I will draw a comparison with "hand action". I'm sure a lot of us resort to wanking to take the edge off or to keep the need for punting at bay at times. There have been times when I was at it four or five days in a row and it felt excessive. I have even occasionally stopped mid-wank because I wasn't really into it and it felt rubbish because it was being overdone. However, I am happy using the hand once or twice a week, it just feels much better, no to mention the quality and quantity of the load blown :D   It's like having your favourite dish once a week and really enjoying, it as opposed to eating it two or three times a week and it losing it's appeal.

 

That said, where would you draw the line regarding punting too often and "ruining" the experience?

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I think you can punt too often, and I think I overdid it over 3 months or so last year - over 20 odd punts, all but 2 with the same wg and had a fine old time.

I've slowed right down to about one per month on average since she left, but haven't had the same buzz from punting since. Whether that's because I overdid it or because I enjoyed punting with her more than other wg's I've seen I'm not sure. I've not punted for about 6 weeks now and to be honest I've not really had the urge to bother, although I've got something lined up in 10 days time.

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I've been through periods when I've overdone it to the point of getting a little jaded. When this has happened and I've woken up to the fact that my punts have begun to seem somewhat routine, I've cut down my activity. I know, however, that this is more easily said than done, punting being a quite addictive activity.

 

For many of us, it is the whole experience of doing the research, making the booking, traveling to the punt, ringing the doorbell and taking that pre-punt shower at her place that offers the buzz; this as much as the sex itself. The realisation that it is these aspects of punting that are addictive can help you cut down as you begin to realise that in fact the sex itself is (or may be) largely secondary and that you are really at some level paying your hard earned cash for the thrills offered by these supposedly peripheral aspects of punting rather than the sex itself. Reflecting on this realisation may cause you to stop and think for a moment, and help you to reduce your level of activity. I don't know if this is so for you, but I do believe that this is the case, at least in part if not entirely, for many of us.

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Since I started just after the new year I've averaged about one a week but I do now feel a slow down coming on.  I used to start thinking and planning my next the day after but since the last, Friday, I haven't felt the need.  This I feel is a good thing.

 

What I'm saying is you will know when you're punting too much.

 

I think I will next week though,  time to bring up my hot list.  :D

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Thx for the replies. You are right Diddley, the build up is part of the fun, as is travelling to the location and looking for the address (thank God for mobile phone gps apps). I also used to like getting to know areas of London I hadn't known before. However, now I am going just to regulars, so I don't go to many new places.

 

As for the pre-punt shower, I skip that since I do hourlies, I wouldn't want to give the wg any ideas about subtracting that from the time. Besides I normally shower twice a day anyway and I work in a sedentary job in an office so sweat isn't an issue. I normally freshen up orally with a quick brush before setting off from work to the location.

 

As mentioned previously, I find spacing the punts out to decent intervals makes it more enjoyable when it does occur, with less off a guilt factor about egregious spending.

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Thx for the replies. You are right Diddley, the build up is part of the fun, as is travelling to the location and looking for the address (thank God for mobile phone gps apps). I also used to like getting to know areas of London I hadn't known before. However, now I am going just to regulars, so I don't go to many new places.

 

As for the pre-punt shower, I skip that since I do hourlies, I wouldn't want to give the wg any ideas about subtracting that from the time. Besides I normally shower twice a day anyway and I work in a sedentary job in an office so sweat isn't an issue. I normally freshen up orally with a quick brush before setting off from work to the location.

 

As mentioned previously, I find spacing the punts out to decent intervals makes it more enjoyable when it does occur, with less off a guilt factor about egregious spending.

Be careful with the quick brush as it creates microscopic tears in your gum which nasties can invade. It is recommended not to brush 1-2 hours before a punt. When in doubt use mouth wash and/or drop some mints.

-W

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There was a time when I was really overdoing the punting. Like an addict searching for a girl that was exciting as when Imfirst started punting. It seems like none of the girls where as good as they used to be. The girls were the same of course, I'd just got so used to punting that the anticipation and selection of the girl was the best part and the sex was rather normal. I'd punted so much that stunners were the norm.

I've cut back now until I'm really horny and then just stick to regulars.

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I agree with a lot of the above.  I have been overdoing it once a week and sometimes the sex isn't relevant its the build up.  Perhaps only one lady where the sex isn't the be all  since she does a great massage which I enjoy.  On Monday it will be two weeks since I have seen anyone so will try three weeks and buy a drink if I am successful!  Get back to once a month I will be over the moon!   I will no doubt celebrate after a month by seeing three girls in one week!!! :o  

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Be careful with the quick brush as it creates microscopic tears in your gum which nasties can invade. It is recommended not to brush 1-2 hours before a punt. When in doubt use mouth wash and/or drop some mints.

-W

 

Thanks, Witty. I've read something similar on here a while ago (I don't know if it was you or someone else.) This poster did say that a GUM advised him to avoid brushing right before, and also to avoid shaving pubic area for similar reasons.

 

When I brush before it is always a very light brush and lasts less than a minute. It is definately not your full-on morning brush where you really go at it with the toothbrush. I do it to make sure there are no bits of anything eaten and to ensure breath is super fresh.

 

But your post reminds me to be aware of this. Maybe I'll look into mouthwash and sugar-free gum approach.

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I've cut back now until I'm really horny and then just stick to regulars.

 

I also stick to regulars too but due to a different reason.

 

That being, at the risk of sounding immodest, I am very well-endowed and sometimes that can get in the way of a punt. You know it's an issue when almost every wg tells you that your member is the largest they've ever seen, or undoubtedly one of the largest.

 

So for me that means doing the variety thing and trying new wgs may not work too well if the she cannot accommodate me, which turn out to be a bit of a let down and waste of money.

 

Hence, sticking to those who can handle it works best for me, ergo I tend to keep to a few regulars.

 

F.

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** Clarification **  Sorry, I meant to say the GUM advised against shaving genitals close to a punt for the same reason; vulnerability of small cuts or tears.

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If I punt too frequently, I've found that I don't appreciate the meet as much and the build up of excitement isn't as strong.  I never do more than 3 meets a month.  This works nicely for me.  I always book longer meets also, so I can relax and take my time to enjoy!

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About ten years ago I went through a period of about six months of almost weekly visits, and then reduced as it indeed was too much. 

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I've been thinking about my punting frequency and have come to some conclusions.  At the risk of sounding richer than I am it's not the money, and it's not lack of available time.  Twenty years ago I would have thought once a week for nooky was almost abstinence but now the reality is that once a week is proving a bit more than I really need.  In my mind I'm still a young man but my body doesn't agree.

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I've been finding every 2 weeks is too much, i'm not really geared up or excited by the time the next one comes round, in the sense that it feels a bit mundane and less of a treat.

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Planning and anticipation after the booking is confirmed, gets the "juices flowing."  (no more than 4 days in advance)

 

As already said, discovering different areas in towns or cities I haven't been to before, makes it justifiable.

 

Once every month is about right nowadays to keep things fresh and in-line as a hobby, anything more would make it too addictive.

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Some years ago I was an opportunistic punter and would pop into a parlour on passing at least once a week.  I had some favourite places and girls, but most often the girl was new to me and any potential for boredom avoided.  I have also mixed things up with the occassional visit to a dom, a couple or to a party.  Now my better punts have to be fuelled by Cialis I have to plan a bit more (and the parlours in Leeds have closed down), the planning is exciting and sometimes the wait gets the better of me and I have a session with a local girl before the planned punt.  So no I don't think you can punt too often!

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I punt at least once in a week. sometimes 2 or 3 but depending if my punt is good then one punt in a week is fine for me. But if the punting session goes worse then I eagerly look for another punt to recover last punt. <_<

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I think,like anything else in life its easy to get carried away when you first start.And like anything else,as long its at a level you can afford and it isn't impacting other aspects of your life your good to go.

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I think,like anything else in life its easy to get carried away when you first start.And like anything else,as long its at a level you can afford and it isn't impacting other aspects of your life your good to go.

I agree with you to an extent

 

I think there is another problem that can stem from punting too often... with a working girl it is a particular kind of sex you're having. Whether it's the type of woman you go for, or a particular sex act, you are, at the end of the day paying a professional for this service; and one can only assume they're very good at it. I mean, you could get so used to the perfect performance of a GFE, PSE or whatever takes your fancy, that it becomes impossible for a "normal" girl to satisfy you.

 

Personally, once a month is my limit, that way it remains a treat rather than the norm. If I can get regular sex in the meantime, then great; if not, there's always my substantial porn collection :D  :P  :wacko:

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I agree with you to an extent

 

I think there is another problem that can stem from punting too often... with a working girl it is a particular kind of sex you're having. Whether it's the type of woman you go for, or a particular sex act, you are, at the end of the day paying a professional for this service; and one can only assume they're very good at it. I mean, you could get so used to the perfect performance of a GFE, PSE or whatever takes your fancy, that it becomes impossible for a "normal" girl to satisfy you.

 

Personally, once a month is my limit, that way it remains a treat rather than the norm. If I can get regular sex in the meantime, then great; if not, there's always my substantial porn collection :D  :P  :wacko:

Isn't that the same problem they say about porn?

To be fair,punting too often is never going to be a problem for me,i'm never going to have that much free time or money.hell,i've only managed one this year so far.

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Isn't that the same problem they say about porn?

To be fair,punting too often is never going to be a problem for me,i'm never going to have that much free time or money.hell,i've only managed one this year so far.

 

I get what you're saying, but I think porn is slightly different,.. I'll try and explain:-

 

Both porn and actual sex can satisfy a sex drive, but they do it in different ways. The advantages about porn over real sex include:-

 

1) porn can never reject you in the way a real woman can

2) porn is all about the fantasy and there to satisfy you... you don't have to put any effort in satisfying your partner (and porn doesn't sulk and call you selfish when you roll over, away from the wet patch)

3) There is no risk of disease or pregnancy with porn (well for the viewer anyway lol)

 

Moreover, if (shock-horror) you develop an addiction to porn, there's little risk to health or your finances. If you get addicted to punting, I can see that getting bloody expensive.

 

If I can use a food analogy (because both lust and hunger are natural human drives) comparing porn and actual sex is a bit like comparing a chocolate bar to the full roast dinner with all the trimmings. They can both satisfy your  urges, but they do it in different ways. Having said that, if someone is regularly turning down sex in favour of a "5  knuckle shuffle", then it points to a problem

 

 

P.S. For the record, the porn bit in my previous post was supposed to be a flippant comment (hence the smilies lol)

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I get what you're saying, but I think porn is slightly different,.. I'll try and explain:-

 

Both porn and actual sex can satisfy a sex drive, but they do it in different ways. The advantages about porn over real sex include:-

 

1) porn can never reject you in the way a real woman can

2) porn is all about the fantasy and there to satisfy you... you don't have to put any effort in satisfying your partner (and porn doesn't sulk and call you selfish when you roll over, away from the wet patch)

3) There is no risk of disease or pregnancy with porn (well for the viewer anyway lol)

 

Moreover, if (shock-horror) you develop an addiction to porn, there's little risk to health or your finances. If you get addicted to punting, I can see that getting bloody expensive.

 

If I can use a food analogy (because both lust and hunger are natural human drives) comparing porn and actual sex is a bit like comparing a chocolate bar to the full roast dinner with all the trimmings. They can both satisfy your  urges, but they do it in different ways. Having said that, if someone is regularly turning down sex in favour of a "5  knuckle shuffle", then it points to a problem

 

 

P.S. For the record, the porn bit in my previous post was supposed to be a flippant comment (hence the smilies lol)

Porn is just like a movie. everything is pre-written. ;)

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I get what you're saying, but I think porn is slightly different,.. I'll try and explain:-

 

Both porn and actual sex can satisfy a sex drive, but they do it in different ways. The advantages about porn over real sex include:-

 

1) porn can never reject you in the way a real woman can

2) porn is all about the fantasy and there to satisfy you... you don't have to put any effort in satisfying your partner (and porn doesn't sulk and call you selfish when you roll over, away from the wet patch)

3) There is no risk of disease or pregnancy with porn (well for the viewer anyway lol)

 

Moreover, if (shock-horror) you develop an addiction to porn, there's little risk to health or your finances. If you get addicted to punting, I can see that getting bloody expensive.

 

If I can use a food analogy (because both lust and hunger are natural human drives) comparing porn and actual sex is a bit like comparing a chocolate bar to the full roast dinner with all the trimmings. They can both satisfy your  urges, but they do it in different ways. Having said that, if someone is regularly turning down sex in favour of a "5  knuckle shuffle", then it points to a problem

 

 

P.S. For the record, the porn bit in my previous post was supposed to be a flippant comment (hence the smilies lol)

The real problem with porn though is that it reduces arousal from real sex, unlike real sex which does not

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Can you punt too often? the simple answer is yes, though how much is too often varies from person to person.

 

For me about 10 years ago, I was going at least 3 times a week, and it took me a good couple of years to realise I had a problem. I went cold turkey for a few years, and am now only an occasional punter.

 

This is an addictive hobby and we as punters always need to bear that in mind.

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