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So I'm almost 28 and still I virgin. I now don't consider it a big deal to lose my virginity to an escort, so let's not discuss about that.

I would like my first time to be with a woman between 35-45 years old, not only because she has more experience, but because mature women really turn me on rather than young girls, and I would like to avoid having problems getting an erection.

So I already booked an Escort from a prestidge agency (prices are +400). I choose from an agency rather than an independent Escort, because there are more Escorts to choose from, and I guess there are less chances to get someone different from the pictures.

So I guess it is better to let the Escort know that I'm a virgin, but is it a good idea to tell the agency to communicate this to her, or shoud I wait and tell this Escort when we finally meet?

Thank you in advance.

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Entirely up to you of course, but I'd say you'd be better off booking a well reviewed indie. When I say well reviewed I mean on the likes of here and other punting sites, rather than just Adultwork. IMO you'd be more likely to actually be seeing the person in the pics, and you'll be able to communicate directly with the lady herself rather than hoping someone at an agency will communicate for you.

No doubt others will have a different opinion, and I confess I'm not really a fan of agencies anyway.

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Agencies are fine once you're a seasoned punter with BS sensor. I echo the sentiments that for your first time you should go with an indie, more chances to really communicate beforehand. There are plenty to choose from, do some reading.

 

Also, keep in mind that prestigious (and elite, high class, whatever) is just marketing speak and will not guarantee a great experience, not does it make it less likely for you to avoid bait & switch. Just a bunch of adjectives.

 

Feel free to go to a location specific sub-forum and ask for recommendations there.

 

Good luck,

 

-W

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You really would be better off seeing an independent escort. You can have a chat with her and you can both get a feel for each other (excuse the pun) over the phone before meeting. For first timers I have heard great things about Dollymopp http://www.thedollymoppfiles.co.uk/You can't always rely on messages or requests being passed on, so it's best to deal with the lady directly. As WittyWoo has suggested above go on the location forums and ask for a recommendation there.

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An agency is more likely to get you in and out quickly, a decent independent will be happy to spend a bit more time and indulge you in the way you want.

Where in the UK are you?

**and £400 for an escort!!!!**

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I think you really should have asked on here first before making a booking, I don't use agencies often but many on here do and they could have steered you in the right direction. For £400 the question you really want to ask is - do I get a second pop - as it's likely having never done it before your going to spunk in about ten seconds, a seasoned pro like me can last five times that long. I think you should have considered an Indie with a good reputation maybe someone like Dee, you wouldn't have to tell her your a virgin just place yourself in her hands and let her do what she does.

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I think you really should have asked on here first before making a booking, I don't use agencies often but many on here do and they could have steered you in the right direction. For £400 the question you really want to ask is - do I get a second pop - as it's likely having never done it before your going to spunk in about ten seconds, a seasoned pro like me can last five times that long. I think you should have considered an Indie with a good reputation maybe someone like Dee, you wouldn't have to tell her your a virgin just place yourself in her hands and let her do what she does.

 

So... 50 seconds? :P

 

Also a consideration is a lot of first-timers don't finish in their first time. I was part of the second camp.

 

-W

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I think you really should have asked on here first before making a booking, I don't use agencies often but many on here do and they could have steered you in the right direction. For £400 the question you really want to ask is - do I get a second pop - as it's likely having never done it before your going to spunk in about ten seconds, a seasoned pro like me can last five times that long. I think you should have considered an Indie with a good reputation maybe someone like Dee, you wouldn't have to tell her your a virgin just place yourself in her hands and let her do what she does.

LOL.  Very funny.  One day I hope to manage this.  :)

 

+1 on the independent route.

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So I'm almost 28 and still I virgin. I now don't consider it a big deal to lose my virginity to an escort, so let's not discuss about that.

I would like my first time to be with a woman between 35-45 years old, not only because she has more experience, but because mature women really turn me on rather than young girls, and I would like to avoid having problems getting an erection.

So I already booked an Escort from a prestidge agency (prices are +400). I choose from an agency rather than an independent Escort, because there are more Escorts to choose from, and I guess there are less chances to get someone different from the pictures.

So I guess it is better to let the Escort know that I'm a virgin, but is it a good idea to tell the agency to communicate this to her, or shoud I wait and tell this Escort when we finally meet?

Thank you in advance.

 

No idea how you came to this conclusion: check AW as most of the girls there take the pictures themselves, plus there are thousands of independents who would welcome to meet guys like you, have a chat and relax properly.

 

Don't start this with the left foot, do your research.

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So... 50 seconds? :P

 

Also a consideration is a lot of first-timers don't finish in their first time. I was part of the second camp.

 

-W

 

Respect.

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LOL.  Very funny.  One day I hope to manage this.  :)

 

+1 on the independent route.

 

LOL, I feel much better now.

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No idea how you came to this conclusion: check AW as most of the girls there take the pictures themselves, plus there are thousands of independents who would welcome to meet guys like you, have a chat and relax properly.

 

Don't start this with the left foot, do your research.

 

This is good advice John, as you made the decision to join up you may as well take full advantage of the experience here, paying more is no guarantee of either looks or service, you can find women who charge the kind of money your talking about with an agency also have an AW profile and charge much less. As I said on another thread recently there is no such thing as a certainty but there are plenty around who consistently deliver a great service.

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So I'm almost 28 and still I virgin. I now don't consider it a big deal to lose my virginity to an escort, so let's not discuss about that.

I would like my first time to be with a woman between 35-45 years old, not only because she has more experience, but because mature women really turn me on rather than young girls, and I would like to avoid having problems getting an erection.

So I already booked an Escort from a prestidge agency (prices are +400). I choose from an agency rather than an independent Escort, because there are more Escorts to choose from, and I guess there are less chances to get someone different from the pictures.

So I guess it is better to let the Escort know that I'm a virgin, but is it a good idea to tell the agency to communicate this to her, or shoud I wait and tell this Escort when we finally meet?

Thank you in advance.

 

 

John how strange you are. you say you are virgin, so why have booked an expensive escort in first time. and it is from agency. I shall say if you are seriously virgin try to find a independent girl and avoid agency for the first time. and main thing is that agency girls will not care if you are virgin or not. and you cannot expect that an agency girl will treat you as virgin.

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no need to pay £400 on a naff first punt - which it almost certainly will be if you are a 28 y/o shyboy virgin

 

find an indie - £100 for 1 hour - it's more time than you will need

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If I were a 28 year old virgin looking for a 35-45 year old lady, I would be posting a reverse booking  request on AW saying that I was a virgin, and expect to receive some amazing offers.

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If I were a 28 year old virgin looking for a 35-45 year old lady, I would be posting a reverse booking  request on AW saying that I was a virgin, and expect to receive some amazing offers.

I agree he might get some decent offers, accompanied by a load of crap. Problem for an inexperienced punter is sifting through the dross to find a gem. IMO reverse bookings are best tried when you have a little experience of how it all works.

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I agree he might get some decent offers, accompanied by a load of crap. Problem for an inexperienced punter is sifting through the dross to find a gem. IMO reverse bookings are best tried when you have a little experience of how it all works.

I was thinking this was a bad idea. He could get taken for a ride advantage of as an inexperienced bloke.

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So I'm almost 28 and still I virgin. I now don't consider it a big deal to lose my virginity to an escort, so let's not discuss about that.

I would like my first time to be with a woman between 35-45 years old, not only because she has more experience, but because mature women really turn me on rather than young girls, and I would like to avoid having problems getting an erection.

So I already booked an Escort from a prestidge agency (prices are +400). I choose from an agency rather than an independent Escort, because there are more Escorts to choose from, and I guess there are less chances to get someone different from the pictures.

So I guess it is better to let the Escort know that I'm a virgin, but is it a good idea to tell the agency to communicate this to her, or shoud I wait and tell this Escort when we finally meet?

Thank you in advance.

 

I'd happily see you but I'm in Belfast, so a bit of a treck.  Not sure I'm getting your theory on the bait and switch though.  Are Agencies known to be more reliable in that way?  See there is only one of me, so who do I swap with?

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£400 is too much money whether you are virgin or non virgin.  Go for a nice independent lady.  Perhaps you can have half hour chat over a pot of tea first to relax you.  Cancel the agency if you can!

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I suggest Jasmine of London or English Rebecca both these women are emotionally intelligent and will assist in putting you at ease.

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no need to pay £400 on a naff first punt - which it almost certainly will be if you are a 28 y/o shyboy virgin

 

find an indie - £100 for 1 hour - it's more time than you will need

 

Yes, 59 minutes and 50 seconds more than he will need.

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Yes, 59 minutes and 50 seconds more than he will need.

 

Ha ha ha, good one!!!! 

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£400!? Part of the benefit of punting is that its quicker and cheaper to pay a working girl to get in her nickers than date, whoo and entertain a regular girl.

Also think of the diminishing returns at £400, she's no more female than the plethora that charge £80 for the hour. Attractiveness is subjective - but one of my best punts was with an Indy for £70, shagged my brains out she did.

I'd see an independent, spend the remaining £300 on something else.

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£400!? Part of the benefit of punting is that its quicker and cheaper to pay a working girl to get in her nickers than date, whoo and entertain a regular girl.

Also think of the diminishing returns at £400, she's no more female than the plethora that charge £80 for the hour. Attractiveness is subjective - but one of my best punts was with an Indy for £70, shagged my brains out she did.

I'd see an independent, spend the remaining £300 on something else.

 

I shall prefer to go for 4 ladies 100x4=£400 in a day in lieu of one single lady who charges £400 per hour. ;)

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